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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding" Meow. Fair play to them if they are as you put it "punching above their weight" Take it fabs not working for you? | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding Meow. Fair play to them if they are as you put it "punching above their weight" Take it fabs not working for you? " Just an generic observation, | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding" How do you know they are? If it’s working for them what’s it matter to you? | |||
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"One persons burger is another persons steak. Live and let live." I agree, it’s just an interesting how the dynamics of fab work | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding How do you know they are? If it’s working for them what’s it matter to you? " This is a forum, for discussion, it’s like me saying what is matter to you what I think, | |||
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"It's a topic that comes up a lot. If two or more people are happy to get it on, then no one's punching. " Exactly this. | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding Meow. Fair play to them if they are as you put it "punching above their weight" Take it fabs not working for you? Just an generic observation, " Something that is often casually observed but your value judgements of others are not empirical. Different people find different things attractive about other people, there is no unified law of beauty. Just look to what you're doing and leave everyone else to it. | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding How do you know they are? If it’s working for them what’s it matter to you? This is a forum, for discussion, it’s like me saying what is matter to you what I think, " Not really, you posted the topic for discussion so people react, no one made you think it... | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding" How do you find people to be demanding? | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding" Awwwwwwww you're cute | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding" People meet who they want to meet, it is no one’s business but theirs, if you know attraction goes beyond looks then your “punching above their weight” statement sort of negates itself, for all you know they may have been in contact for months, building a friendship and connection before meeting. | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding" what makes you say they are punching above their weight? Cant people have minds of their own without being insulted for it  | |||
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"It's a topic that comes up a lot. If two or more people are happy to get it on, then no one's punching. " I agree, I’m just trying to dissect the the profiles you get the .....you must be gym fit, you must be bigger that x”, no Irish, no whatever, Lots of demands, do always get the same perfection back? | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding Meow. Fair play to them if they are as you put it "punching above their weight" Take it fabs not working for you? Just an generic observation, Something that is often casually observed but your value judgements of others are not empirical. Different people find different things attractive about other people, there is no unified law of beauty. Just look to what you're doing and leave everyone else to it. " Does anyone on a forum think they are preaching, it a realistic question for discussion | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding How do you know they are? If it’s working for them what’s it matter to you? This is a forum, for discussion, it’s like me saying what is matter to you what I think, Not really, you posted the topic for discussion so people react, no one made you think it... " Now you know what I think ....your good  | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding" Do you mean all the ugly bints that didn't want you ? | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding" Oh right - I wondered what the above statement meant - thanks for clarifying! 
So - there are at least 10 times as many single males on fab as there are single females. Let’s imagine for a moment that those figures were reversed, shall we? Imagine you’re a fairly average guy who doesn’t hit the gym too often, and one day half a dozen gorgeous women ask if they can take you for a drink and sleep with you afterwards.
Now - are you really going to find a mirror, take a look in it, decide that they’re all out of your league and graciously decline?
Or will you do what I did - get your diary out, make arrangements, and metaphorically high five yourself after an amazing meet with a lovely, gorgeous person?
That aside - I always assumed there was a ‘real world ‘ where men can find sex too - and that none of you are ‘forced’ to shag poor quality ladies like myself?  | |||
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"People often say this op, usually men for some reason. Women generally start threads saying they turn people down for being too good looking, they feel that they themselves aren't good enough. We then have threads in which (nearly) everyone claims that personality and "connection" count far more than looks. I think the world must be divided into three types of people The ones for who looks matter The ones for who looks don't matter The ones who think unattractive people are only allowed to fuck other unattractive people. " Well put, | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding People meet who they want to meet, it is no one’s business but theirs, if you know attraction goes beyond looks then your “punching above their weight” statement sort of negates itself, for all you know they may have been in contact for months, building a friendship and connection before meeting. " Your right | |||
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"I thought I was aiming too high. Apparently, surprisingly, my darts arm is quite accurate. " Double top always good | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding Oh right - I wondered what the above statement meant - thanks for clarifying!
So - there are at least 10 times as many single males on fab as there are single females. Let’s imagine for a moment that those figures were reversed, shall we? Imagine you’re a fairly average guy who doesn’t hit the gym too often, and one day half a dozen gorgeous women ask if they can take you for a drink and sleep with you afterwards.
Now - are you really going to find a mirror, take a look in it, decide that they’re all out of your league and graciously decline?
Or will you do what I did - get your diary out, make arrangements, and metaphorically high five yourself after an amazing meet with a lovely, gorgeous person?
That aside - I always assumed there was a ‘real world ‘ where men can find sex too - and that none of you are ‘forced’ to shag poor quality ladies like myself? "Can I point out, yes when women say I am not bad looking, good looking etc, I do actually go look in a mirror and think "Me? Really?" I had a strange conversation in Tesco yesterday where a woman walked up and started talking to me about what I was buying, and said I sort of looked like tintin and she liked it. I didn't take it further because I actually don't think I am that good looking and I would be "fighting above my weight" with her. | |||
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"I hate the term "punching", it's very derogatory of the person deemed to be punching. Some people are more physically attractive to certain people but are less attractive to others. I say aim for the top in whatever you do, and dont let a thing like looks stop you as you wont know if the other person finds you attractive or not until you put yourself out there " | |||
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"This is a negative comment OP - I'm not sure how you want us to 'discuss it' We've all seen these kind of comments a million times before. It's usually from men that are ignored by women on here they deem unattractive and how dare they reject them! It's boring. " They must have been ugly though. I mean ugly ugly...... like really ugly ...... God those ugly people.... | |||
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"This is a negative comment OP - I'm not sure how you want us to 'discuss it' We've all seen these kind of comments a million times before. It's usually from men that are ignored by women on here they deem unattractive and how dare they reject them! It's boring. " zzzzzz zzzz ah ffs why you woke me up from reading  | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding Do you mean all the ugly bints that didn't want you ?" Keep it polite guys, leave the nastiness at the door | |||
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"Actually had someone say this to me in the chatrooms ... but hey .. I was the one in bed with Red " | |||
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"This is a negative comment OP - I'm not sure how you want us to 'discuss it' We've all seen these kind of comments a million times before. It's usually from men that are ignored by women on here they deem unattractive and how dare they reject them! It's boring. " . Pointless, ridiculous phrase. Same as out of someone’s league. No such thing. | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding" Hmmmmmm how can I get attention that I wouldn't normally get.....................  | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding Meow. Fair play to them if they are as you put it "punching above their weight" Take it fabs not working for you? Just an generic observation, Something that is often casually observed but your value judgements of others are not empirical. Different people find different things attractive about other people, there is no unified law of beauty. Just look to what you're doing and leave everyone else to it. Does anyone on a forum think they are preaching, it a realistic question for discussion " Not preaching, just pointing out the flaw in your argument. People aren't punching but then I guess it's a case of perspectives. I've realised over time that comparison is the thief of joy, I don't look to what others are doing, just do what I do. You call it preaching, I call it sharing experience for a happier life. | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding Do you mean all the ugly bints that didn't want you ? Keep it polite guys, leave the nastiness at the door " So funny. You started the thread suggesting that unattractive people are having sex with attractive people. Now it's in plain language you want to disown it. Don't try and deflect what you don't like onto me. | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding" put your foot down dont tolerate it  | |||
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"This is a negative comment OP - I'm not sure how you want us to 'discuss it' We've all seen these kind of comments a million times before. It's usually from men that are ignored by women on here they deem unattractive and how dare they reject them! It's boring. . Pointless, ridiculous phrase. Same as out of someone’s league. No such thing. "im on another planet | |||
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"This is a negative comment OP - I'm not sure how you want us to 'discuss it' We've all seen these kind of comments a million times before. It's usually from men that are ignored by women on here they deem unattractive and how dare they reject them! It's boring. They must have been ugly though. I mean ugly ugly...... like really ugly ...... God those ugly people.... " Someone has to fuck them though. It's a public service, like jury duty. | |||
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"This is a negative comment OP - I'm not sure how you want us to 'discuss it' We've all seen these kind of comments a million times before. It's usually from men that are ignored by women on here they deem unattractive and how dare they reject them! It's boring. . Pointless, ridiculous phrase. Same as out of someone’s league. No such thing. im on another planet "We all know that!! And yeah yeah I know, the aliens can’t have your penis  | |||
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"This is a negative comment OP - I'm not sure how you want us to 'discuss it' We've all seen these kind of comments a million times before. It's usually from men that are ignored by women on here they deem unattractive and how dare they reject them! It's boring. . Pointless, ridiculous phrase. Same as out of someone’s league. No such thing. im on another planet
We all know that!! And yeah yeah I know, the aliens can’t have your penis " | |||
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"It's a topic that comes up a lot. If two or more people are happy to get it on, then no one's punching. Exactly this." I concur, a cheeky hello to someone out of their league is sometimes worth a try, if not then no harm done, accept and move on | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding How do you know they are? If it’s working for them what’s it matter to you? This is a forum, for discussion, it’s like me saying what is matter to you what I think, Not really, you posted the topic for discussion so people react, no one made you think it... Now you know what I think ....your good "Unfortunately so... | |||
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"This is a negative comment OP - I'm not sure how you want us to 'discuss it' We've all seen these kind of comments a million times before. It's usually from men that are ignored by women on here they deem unattractive and how dare they reject them! It's boring. They must have been ugly though. I mean ugly ugly...... like really ugly ...... God those ugly people.... Someone has to fuck them though. It's a public service, like jury duty. "  | |||
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"This is a negative comment OP - I'm not sure how you want us to 'discuss it' We've all seen these kind of comments a million times before. It's usually from men that are ignored by women on here they deem unattractive and how dare they reject them! It's boring. They must have been ugly though. I mean ugly ugly...... like really ugly ...... God those ugly people.... Someone has to fuck them though. It's a public service, like jury duty. " Well I offer .... but they say .. Granny don't you be punching below your weight now...... they are so lovely on the inside. | |||
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"This is a negative comment OP - I'm not sure how you want us to 'discuss it' We've all seen these kind of comments a million times before. It's usually from men that are ignored by women on here they deem unattractive and how dare they reject them! It's boring. They must have been ugly though. I mean ugly ugly...... like really ugly ...... God those ugly people.... Someone has to fuck them though. It's a public service, like jury duty. " Must admit I do throw in a sympathy shag every now and then for the really really ugly. | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding Oh right - I wondered what the above statement meant - thanks for clarifying!
So - there are at least 10 times as many single males on fab as there are single females. Let’s imagine for a moment that those figures were reversed, shall we? Imagine you’re a fairly average guy who doesn’t hit the gym too often, and one day half a dozen gorgeous women ask if they can take you for a drink and sleep with you afterwards.
Now - are you really going to find a mirror, take a look in it, decide that they’re all out of your league and graciously decline?
Or will you do what I did - get your diary out, make arrangements, and metaphorically high five yourself after an amazing meet with a lovely, gorgeous person?
That aside - I always assumed there was a ‘real world ‘ where men can find sex too - and that none of you are ‘forced’ to shag poor quality ladies like myself? "That’s has aided my question, more men on here than women, and women can more selective ...100% have no issue with this, it the balance of reality I’m discussing | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding" If they are getting meets then they cannot be punching above their weight can they, it stands to reason. | |||
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"Must admit I do throw in a sympathy shag every now and then for the really really ugly. " Throw it our way will you | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding Oh right - I wondered what the above statement meant - thanks for clarifying!
So - there are at least 10 times as many single males on fab as there are single females. Let’s imagine for a moment that those figures were reversed, shall we? Imagine you’re a fairly average guy who doesn’t hit the gym too often, and one day half a dozen gorgeous women ask if they can take you for a drink and sleep with you afterwards.
Now - are you really going to find a mirror, take a look in it, decide that they’re all out of your league and graciously decline?
Or will you do what I did - get your diary out, make arrangements, and metaphorically high five yourself after an amazing meet with a lovely, gorgeous person?
That aside - I always assumed there was a ‘real world ‘ where men can find sex too - and that none of you are ‘forced’ to shag poor quality ladies like myself?
Can I point out, yes when women say I am not bad looking, good looking etc, I do actually go look in a mirror and think "Me? Really?"
I had a strange conversation in Tesco yesterday where a woman walked up and started talking to me about what I was buying, and said I sort of looked like tintin and she liked it. I didn't take it further because I actually don't think I am that good looking and I would be "fighting above my weight" with her.
" if she said tintin during sex that would be an issue ( lol ) joke bro | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding Hmmmmmm how can I get attention that I wouldn't normally get..................... "Oh please | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding" Boo hoo, collect all your toys and put them back in the pram and don't be jealous of others success as jealousy eats away at your soul. Either way, you need to Find a way to either get your own fillet steak or be happy with a budget burger #happynothate | |||
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"This is a negative comment OP - I'm not sure how you want us to 'discuss it' We've all seen these kind of comments a million times before. It's usually from men that are ignored by women on here they deem unattractive and how dare they reject them! It's boring. They must have been ugly though. I mean ugly ugly...... like really ugly ...... God those ugly people.... " Wow ...please take this chat in the direction you want | |||
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"This is a negative comment OP - I'm not sure how you want us to 'discuss it' We've all seen these kind of comments a million times before. It's usually from men that are ignored by women on here they deem unattractive and how dare they reject them! It's boring. They must have been ugly though. I mean ugly ugly...... like really ugly ...... God those ugly people.... Wow ...please take this chat in the direction you want" The way you wrote your opening statement already brought it in that direction. | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding Boo hoo, collect all your toys and put them back in the pram and don't be jealous of others success as jealousy eats away at your soul. Either way, you need to Find a way to either get your own fillet steak or be happy with a budget burger #happynothate " Lol, do I get fries with that | |||
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"No idea what punching refers to.. surely if two people like each other that’s all there is to it?!? " It's a boxing reference where fighters of a similar weight are paired together but in this case instead of weights it's perceived that your looks put you in a "weight class" so if you go out with a girl that's in the perceived "looks class" above you you're deemed to be punching above your weight. | |||
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"This is a negative comment OP - I'm not sure how you want us to 'discuss it' We've all seen these kind of comments a million times before. It's usually from men that are ignored by women on here they deem unattractive and how dare they reject them! It's boring. They must have been ugly though. I mean ugly ugly...... like really ugly ...... God those ugly people.... Wow ...please take this chat in the direction you want The way you wrote your opening statement already brought it in that direction." I've told him that. He's ear blind.
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"This is a negative comment OP - I'm not sure how you want us to 'discuss it' We've all seen these kind of comments a million times before. It's usually from men that are ignored by women on here they deem unattractive and how dare they reject them! It's boring. They must have been ugly though. I mean ugly ugly...... like really ugly ...... God those ugly people.... Wow ...please take this chat in the direction you want The way you wrote your opening statement already brought it in that direction." Disagree but your allowed an opinion without getting mauled lol | |||
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"This is a negative comment OP - I'm not sure how you want us to 'discuss it' We've all seen these kind of comments a million times before. It's usually from men that are ignored by women on here they deem unattractive and how dare they reject them! It's boring. They must have been ugly though. I mean ugly ugly...... like really ugly ...... God those ugly people.... Wow ...please take this chat in the direction you want The way you wrote your opening statement already brought it in that direction. I've told him that. He's ear blind.
He thinks i'm the meany."I'll probably give up then | |||
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"This is a negative comment OP - I'm not sure how you want us to 'discuss it' We've all seen these kind of comments a million times before. It's usually from men that are ignored by women on here they deem unattractive and how dare they reject them! It's boring. They must have been ugly though. I mean ugly ugly...... like really ugly ...... God those ugly people.... Wow ...please take this chat in the direction you want The way you wrote your opening statement already brought it in that direction. Disagree but your allowed an opinion without getting mauled lol " You're | |||
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"No idea what punching refers to.. surely if two people like each other that’s all there is to it?!? It's a boxing reference where fighters of a similar weight are paired together but in this case instead of weights it's perceived that your looks put you in a "weight class" so if you go out with a girl that's in the perceived "looks class" above you you're deemed to be punching above your weight." Did Joshua lose recently? Was Ruiz the underdog, lol | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding Boo hoo, collect all your toys and put them back in the pram and don't be jealous of others success as jealousy eats away at your soul. Either way, you need to Find a way to either get your own fillet steak or be happy with a budget burger #happynothate Lol, do I get fries with that " 6 pale looking soggy ones with the budget burger Or Heston Blumenthal triple cooked chips with the steak | |||
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"This is a negative comment OP - I'm not sure how you want us to 'discuss it' We've all seen these kind of comments a million times before. It's usually from men that are ignored by women on here they deem unattractive and how dare they reject them! It's boring. They must have been ugly though. I mean ugly ugly...... like really ugly ...... God those ugly people.... Wow ...please take this chat in the direction you want The way you wrote your opening statement already brought it in that direction. I've told him that. He's ear blind.
He thinks i'm the meany.
I'll probably give up then "Don’t give up that what is disgruntled ugly blokes do who always get rejected lol Sorry, I love you both I don’t think your a meany !! | |||
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"This is a negative comment OP - I'm not sure how you want us to 'discuss it' We've all seen these kind of comments a million times before. It's usually from men that are ignored by women on here they deem unattractive and how dare they reject them! It's boring. They must have been ugly though. I mean ugly ugly...... like really ugly ...... God those ugly people.... Wow ...please take this chat in the direction you want The way you wrote your opening statement already brought it in that direction. Disagree but your allowed an opinion without getting mauled lol You're " soz(sorry) lol | |||
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"I'm punching above my weight but you have a nice bum.  "My bum has said he will take no part in what’s my Brain is saying | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding Oh right - I wondered what the above statement meant - thanks for clarifying!
So - there are at least 10 times as many single males on fab as there are single females. Let’s imagine for a moment that those figures were reversed, shall we? Imagine you’re a fairly average guy who doesn’t hit the gym too often, and one day half a dozen gorgeous women ask if they can take you for a drink and sleep with you afterwards.
Now - are you really going to find a mirror, take a look in it, decide that they’re all out of your league and graciously decline?
Or will you do what I did - get your diary out, make arrangements, and metaphorically high five yourself after an amazing meet with a lovely, gorgeous person?
That aside - I always assumed there was a ‘real world ‘ where men can find sex too - and that none of you are ‘forced’ to shag poor quality ladies like myself?
Can I point out, yes when women say I am not bad looking, good looking etc, I do actually go look in a mirror and think "Me? Really?"
I had a strange conversation in Tesco yesterday where a woman walked up and started talking to me about what I was buying, and said I sort of looked like tintin and she liked it. I didn't take it further because I actually don't think I am that good looking and I would be "fighting above my weight" with her.
"For goodness sake man - if you see her again - ask her out for a coffee! He who dares wins!
I must admit I tend to be more confident if I’m ‘hiding behind ‘ make up and sexy clothes. In jeans and T-shirt (my usual attire) with no makeup I’d never expect anyone I consider attractive to fancy me!
However - if I meet someone for a social that may potentially be a regular friend, I make a point of turning up in jeans and little or no makeup - because if they don’t like me as I am then there’s no point pursuing it!
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"No idea what punching refers to.. surely if two people like each other that’s all there is to it?!? It's a boxing reference where fighters of a similar weight are paired together but in this case instead of weights it's perceived that your looks put you in a "weight class" so if you go out with a girl that's in the perceived "looks class" above you you're deemed to be punching above your weight. Did Joshua lose recently? Was Ruiz the underdog, lol" Aren't they both in the same heavyweight division though so neither are punching above their weight ? He might have been an underdog but he's still fighting in his correct division. | |||
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"I'm punching above my weight but you have a nice bum.
My bum has said he will take no part in what’s my Brain is saying sounds like you're talking out of your arse "Hahahahaha | |||
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"No idea what punching refers to.. surely if two people like each other that’s all there is to it?!? It's a boxing reference where fighters of a similar weight are paired together but in this case instead of weights it's perceived that your looks put you in a "weight class" so if you go out with a girl that's in the perceived "looks class" above you you're deemed to be punching above your weight. Did Joshua lose recently? Was Ruiz the underdog, lol Aren't they both in the same heavyweight division though so neither are punching above their weight ? He might have been an underdog but he's still fighting in his correct division." Ahh ok ....That’s right stay in your lane division | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding Oh right - I wondered what the above statement meant - thanks for clarifying!
So - there are at least 10 times as many single males on fab as there are single females. Let’s imagine for a moment that those figures were reversed, shall we? Imagine you’re a fairly average guy who doesn’t hit the gym too often, and one day half a dozen gorgeous women ask if they can take you for a drink and sleep with you afterwards.
Now - are you really going to find a mirror, take a look in it, decide that they’re all out of your league and graciously decline?
Or will you do what I did - get your diary out, make arrangements, and metaphorically high five yourself after an amazing meet with a lovely, gorgeous person?
That aside - I always assumed there was a ‘real world ‘ where men can find sex too - and that none of you are ‘forced’ to shag poor quality ladies like myself?
Can I point out, yes when women say I am not bad looking, good looking etc, I do actually go look in a mirror and think "Me? Really?"
I had a strange conversation in Tesco yesterday where a woman walked up and started talking to me about what I was buying, and said I sort of looked like tintin and she liked it. I didn't take it further because I actually don't think I am that good looking and I would be "fighting above my weight" with her.
For goodness sake man - if you see her again - ask her out for a coffee! He who dares wins!
I must admit I tend to be more confident if I’m ‘hiding behind ‘ make up and sexy clothes. In jeans and T-shirt (my usual attire) with no makeup I’d never expect anyone I consider attractive to fancy me!
However - if I meet someone for a social that may potentially be a regular friend, I make a point of turning up in jeans and little or no makeup - because if they don’t like me as I am then there’s no point pursuing it!
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"No idea what punching refers to.. surely if two people like each other that’s all there is to it?!? It's a boxing reference where fighters of a similar weight are paired together but in this case instead of weights it's perceived that your looks put you in a "weight class" so if you go out with a girl that's in the perceived "looks class" above you you're deemed to be punching above your weight. Did Joshua lose recently? Was Ruiz the underdog, lol Aren't they both in the same heavyweight division though so neither are punching above their weight ? He might have been an underdog but he's still fighting in his correct division. Ahh ok ....That’s right stay in your lane division "I'm a who dares wins type of guy so your comment can't really be aimed at me. Sure I'm knocked back regularly but life's to short to have regrets about not asking a beautiful girl out and omg when you get a yes it makes all those knock backs worth it
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding Oh right - I wondered what the above statement meant - thanks for clarifying!
So - there are at least 10 times as many single males on fab as there are single females. Let’s imagine for a moment that those figures were reversed, shall we? Imagine you’re a fairly average guy who doesn’t hit the gym too often, and one day half a dozen gorgeous women ask if they can take you for a drink and sleep with you afterwards.
Now - are you really going to find a mirror, take a look in it, decide that they’re all out of your league and graciously decline?
Or will you do what I did - get your diary out, make arrangements, and metaphorically high five yourself after an amazing meet with a lovely, gorgeous person?
That aside - I always assumed there was a ‘real world ‘ where men can find sex too - and that none of you are ‘forced’ to shag poor quality ladies like myself?
That’s has aided my question, more men on here than women, and women can more selective ...100% have no issue with this, it the balance of reality I’m discussing "The balance of reality that is just another way of saying the fuglies are still getting all the good looking guys poor boys how can we save them from us fuglies | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding Meow. Fair play to them if they are as you put it "punching above their weight" Take it fabs not working for you? Just an generic observation, Something that is often casually observed but your value judgements of others are not empirical. Different people find different things attractive about other people, there is no unified law of beauty. Just look to what you're doing and leave everyone else to it. " Your words always make me  .... Ever the voice of reason... | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding Oh right - I wondered what the above statement meant - thanks for clarifying!
So - there are at least 10 times as many single males on fab as there are single females. Let’s imagine for a moment that those figures were reversed, shall we? Imagine you’re a fairly average guy who doesn’t hit the gym too often, and one day half a dozen gorgeous women ask if they can take you for a drink and sleep with you afterwards.
Now - are you really going to find a mirror, take a look in it, decide that they’re all out of your league and graciously decline?
Or will you do what I did - get your diary out, make arrangements, and metaphorically high five yourself after an amazing meet with a lovely, gorgeous person?
That aside - I always assumed there was a ‘real world ‘ where men can find sex too - and that none of you are ‘forced’ to shag poor quality ladies like myself?
Can I point out, yes when women say I am not bad looking, good looking etc, I do actually go look in a mirror and think "Me? Really?"
I had a strange conversation in Tesco yesterday where a woman walked up and started talking to me about what I was buying, and said I sort of looked like tintin and she liked it. I didn't take it further because I actually don't think I am that good looking and I would be "fighting above my weight" with her.
For goodness sake man - if you see her again - ask her out for a coffee! He who dares wins!
I must admit I tend to be more confident if I’m ‘hiding behind ‘ make up and sexy clothes. In jeans and T-shirt (my usual attire) with no makeup I’d never expect anyone I consider attractive to fancy me!
However - if I meet someone for a social that may potentially be a regular friend, I make a point of turning up in jeans and little or no makeup - because if they don’t like me as I am then there’s no point pursuing it!
"Alas at the time circumstances in my life dictated otherwise. And probably won't see her again, haha | |||
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"No idea what punching refers to.. surely if two people like each other that’s all there is to it?!? It's a boxing reference where fighters of a similar weight are paired together but in this case instead of weights it's perceived that your looks put you in a "weight class" so if you go out with a girl that's in the perceived "looks class" above you you're deemed to be punching above your weight. Did Joshua lose recently? Was Ruiz the underdog, lol Aren't they both in the same heavyweight division though so neither are punching above their weight ? He might have been an underdog but he's still fighting in his correct division. Ahh ok ....That’s right stay in your lane division
I'm a who dares wins type of guy so your comment can't really be aimed at me.
Sure I'm knocked back regularly but life's to short to have regrets about not asking a beautiful girl out and omg when you get a yes it makes all those knock backs worth it
I'll leave you to your opinions as you're entitled to them the same as I am. " | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding" I totally agree with this.  | |||
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"Looks are not everything, but I do get a sense that there is a lot of people punching above their weight and being quite demanding Boo hoo, collect all your toys and put them back in the pram and don't be jealous of others success as jealousy eats away at your soul. Either way, you need to Find a way to either get your own fillet steak or be happy with a budget burger #happynothate " Having guys want to fuck you because you have accessible holes isn't success my man  | |||
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"One persons burger is another persons steak. Live and let live." i now want both of these | |||
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" Having guys want to fuck you because you have accessible holes isn't success my man "Oh fuck really? And there I was thinking that all these hot men want to fuck me because I was special
Us fat ugly slags should just shut the fuck up and meet anyone that asks!
How dare we have any preferences or turn anyone down.
We should be grateful.
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