FabSwingers.com forum: Big women.....

By *ricktop17 OP Man
over a year ago

Pontefract

So come on lets see all these sexy bigger women! Messaged a women yesterday after seeing her rather sad status update.....long story short was some arsehole had taken the time to message her telling her she was discusting, didnt belong on here, didnt deserve to get any meets all because shes not some stick thin model

How fucking awful is that

So come on ladies be proud of every lump bump and curve you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife’s a big lady never had anyone we met complain about her size and virtually all of them wanted a second meet. But your right there are some nasty people out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How anyone thinks sexiness is about size I'll never know. I personally don't go for skinny or pale and uninteresting.

My girls have curves and my gay lover is a beautiful chunk of a guy.

But each to their own. No need for insults, ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fatty here...i do ok...but you are right there are a few twats who feel the need to run someone down because of size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fatty here...i do ok...but you are right there are a few twats who feel the need to run someone down because of size"
you look stunning in your photo’s duck so ignore the idiots x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can be the ripest peach in the world but there will always be someone who doesn't like peaches

That applies regardless of size, shape , hair or eye colour,where we live , what we do , what we drive and genuinely all the things that make a person who they are.

I am a bigger lady but I am so much more than my dress size and I absolutely refuse to be defined by it.

I also think there is far too much berating and insulting language used towards slimmer women too.

Beauty and sex appeal ,attraction and style are all individual. I hate that we as a species constantly want to put people in to little boxes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big girl, you are beautiful

Walks in to the room

Feels like a big balloon

Big girl you are beautiful

Diet Coke and a pizza please

Diet Coke, I'm on my knees

Screaming, "Big girl, you are beautiful"

You take your skinny girl

I feel like I'm gonna die

'Cause a real woman

Needs a real man, here's why

You take your girl

And multiply her by four

Now a whole lot of woman

Needs a whole lot more

Get yourself to the butterfly lounge

Find yourself a big lady

Big boy, come on around

And there we're gonna do baby

No need to fantasize

Since the words are my praises

A watering hole with the girls around

And curves in all the right places

Big girls, you are beautiful

Walks in to the room

Feels like a big balloon

I said, "Hey girls, you are beautiful"

Diet Coke and a pizza please

Diet Coke, I'm on my knees

Screaming, "Big girl, you are beautiful"

You take your girl

And multiply her by four

Now a whole lot of woman

Needs a whole lot more

Get yourself to the butterfly lounge

Find yourself a big lady

Big boy, come on around

And there we're gonna do baby

No need to fantasize

Since the words are my praises

A watering hole with the girls around

And curves in all the right places

Big girls, you are beautiful

Get yourself to the butterfly lounge

Find yourself a big lady

Big boy, come on around

And there we're gonna do baby

No need to fantasize

Since the words are my praises

A watering hole with the girls around

And curves in all the right places

Big girls, you are beautiful

Oh, you are beautiful

Get yourself to the butterfly lounge

Find yourself a big lady

Big boy, come on around

And there we're gonna do baby

No need to fantasize

Since the words are my praises

A watering hole with the girls around

And curves in all the right places

Big girls, you are beautiful

Oh, you are beautiful

Get yourself to the butterfly lounge

Find yourself a big lady

Big boy, come on around

And there we're gonna do baby

No need to fantasize

Since the words are my praises

A watering hole with the girls around

And curves in all the right places

Big girl, you are beautiful

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By *tatMan
over a year ago

Horrabridge

Holy textwall batman!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you Benny Hill's character in The Italian Job? Biiig women

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Folk on here will make bitchy comments about anything given half a chance if they think it will upset you and empower them. Why? Cos they’re sad fucks with no emotional depth or feeling.

Take no notice, carry on as you are and more importantly, have fun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How anyone thinks sexiness is about size I'll never know. I personally don't go for skinny or pale and uninteresting.

My girls have curves and my gay lover is a beautiful chunk of a guy.

But each to their own. No need for insults, ever."

Funny how some people thunk sexiness us about size and write off skinny pale women eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

women are women each and every single one of us are beautiful and unique

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By *oupleforxtrafunCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By *oupleforxtrafunCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How anyone thinks sexiness is about size I'll never know. I personally don't go for skinny or pale and uninteresting.

My girls have curves and my gay lover is a beautiful chunk of a guy.

But each to their own. No need for insults, ever.

Funny how some people thunk sexiness us about size and write off skinny pale women eh?"

Think you've spotted hypocrisy eh?

Nothing said about women specifically, so wind yer neck in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can be the ripest peach in the world but there will always be someone who doesn't like peaches

That applies regardless of size, shape , hair or eye colour,where we live , what we do , what we drive and genuinely all the things that make a person who they are.

I am a bigger lady but I am so much more than my dress size and I absolutely refuse to be defined by it.

I also think there is far too much berating and insulting language used towards slimmer women too.

Beauty and sex appeal ,attraction and style are all individual. I hate that we as a species constantly want to put people in to little boxes "

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Isn't it about preference?

Or is that just a whole other can of worms?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big girl here

I actually got trolled yesterday, called a ugly fat lump, by a woman, can you believe. It's really not a nice feeling when you are just quietly minding your own business on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't it about preference?

Or is that just a whole other can of worms?

Preferences are great and everyone has them. The issue comes when you try to impose those preferences on others or when you slate those who aren't your preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big girl here

I actually got trolled yesterday, called a ugly fat lump, by a woman, can you believe. It's really not a nice feeling when you are just quietly minding your own business on here "

that sounds like a jealous woman

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By *everlyandersonTV/TS
over a year ago

newcastle

im not a woman but im

a tv cd and im fat but others still like the bbw types

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big girl here

I actually got trolled yesterday, called a ugly fat lump, by a woman, can you believe. It's really not a nice feeling when you are just quietly minding your own business on here

that sounds like a jealous woman"

or a man pretending to be a woman

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Isn't it about preference?

Or is that just a whole other can of worms?

Preferences are great and everyone has them. The issue comes when you try to impose those preferences on others or when you slate those who aren't your preference"

I wholeheartedly agree

Some people like large, some slim, some dark, some pale

To criticise anyone for any part of their anatomy / looks it's hateful and says more about the criticised, rather than the person being criticised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Have had abusive messages I don't let it bother me.

I am what I am, do I want to be slimmer? Of course I do, but do I rock my curves hell yeah!

The very hot man I'm seeing tells me he loves my curves and is the first guy to get me naked in day light! I look at him and see woman fawn all over him and think why does he want me. But then I see the lust in his eyes, feel how much he needs me and can't keep his hands off me and think thank fuck I'm what he wants.

So because of him I'm learning to love my curves

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

It’s not just big women who can get horrible messages. I was chatting a larger gent and he had a very nasty message from a lady about his pics.

Just no need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely some trolls on here I experienced it when I was on cam once, minding my own business and he just went for it I messaged him asking if I had upset him in some way, he just blocked me. It really knocked my confidence but I did bounce back and I do think he was a minority, there are some gorgeous girls and guys on here, all shapes and sizes, we all need to embrace our bodies any shape or size...

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

My friend on here is a size 8 she gets awful comments directed at her usually at the moment she declines an offer.

It really doesn’t matter what size you are on Fab as some rejected/jealous butthurt arse hat is going to send shit your way at some point.

People just need to be nice.

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By *ockdownnofunCouple
over a year ago

Hiding all away

We’ve never had negative comments on here about size and would totally ignore it if it happened. Larger women aren’t everybody’s preference, but a lot of people do like them - nobody is going to be everybody’s cup of tea, regardless of body shape. There’s no need to be a dick about it though, and sad to hear that some people get grief from idiots about their size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friend on here is a size 8 she gets awful comments directed at her usually at the moment she declines an offer.

It really doesn’t matter what size you are on Fab as some rejected/jealous butthurt arse hat is going to send shit your way at some point.

People just need to be nice.

i get some very nasty message im a size 6/8 but i no longer give a toss im me thats it ...its normally after i say no thanks anyway but i really do believe that every woman is beautiful and i wont hear anyone slag a woman off because of size or looks on here or in normal life or a guy for that matter

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By *ittlesub4uWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I actually find it so funny when I politely decline someone’s offer and they start insulting me for my size...

I was fat when you wanted some!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"You can be the ripest peach in the world but there will always be someone who doesn't like peaches

That applies regardless of size, shape , hair or eye colour,where we live , what we do , what we drive and genuinely all the things that make a person who they are.

I am a bigger lady but I am so much more than my dress size and I absolutely refuse to be defined by it.

I also think there is far too much berating and insulting language used towards slimmer women too.

Beauty and sex appeal ,attraction and style are all individual. I hate that we as a species constantly want to put people in to little boxes "

Well put!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually find it so funny when I politely decline someone’s offer and they start insulting me for my size...

I was fat when you wanted some!

nice bum

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By *ricktop17 OP Man
over a year ago

Pontefract

"Isn't it about preference?

Or is that just a whole other can of worms?

Yeah preference but if somebody isnt your preference then theres no need to abuse them and make them feel like shit is there

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Isn't it about preference?

Or is that just a whole other can of worms?

Yeah preference but if somebody isnt your preference then theres no need to abuse them and make them feel like shit is there"

I never said it was ok to abuse them

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By *ricktop17 OP Man
over a year ago

Pontefract

"Big girl here

I actually got trolled yesterday, called a ugly fat lump, by a woman, can you believe. It's really not a nice feeling when you are just quietly minding your own business on here "

You are from any of those things...probably bitter and jealous your sex appeal due to your amazing curves

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love bigger women the bigger the better for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"women are women each and every single one of us are beautiful and unique "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a couple of nasty messages about my pics. Told i am fuckin fat and ugly and wont get anywhere on here so just do everyone a favour and just delete my account x

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"I have had a couple of nasty messages about my pics. Told i am fuckin fat and ugly and wont get anywhere on here so just do everyone a favour and just delete my account x"

All you can do with these people is report, block, move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugly is ugly. Ugly people just can't keep it inside them. Ugly people have to let the ugly out. Ugly needs a target. Like a monkey flinging it's own poo, ugly flings it's shit everywhere hoping to make the rest of their world as ugly as them. Poor ugly. I'm sorry your so ugly.

Big girls are beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been lucky and not really had much negative comments, but that’s others problem with me not the people that matter. I’m me, fat or thin, there’s so much more to me than my physical shell x

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

If you'd have told me 12 months ago that I'd be perfectly happy walking around in next to nothing in a club, stripping off by the pool at Eureka or feeling no self consciousness at all with a meet, I would've laughed in your face.

I'll never be everyones cup of tea here (or anywhere), in the same way many men aren't mine, but Fab and people I've met so far in this lifestyle has given me so much more confidence in my curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be a size 20 on here and actually found that I got more attention and I probably had more confidence! I’ve found that men on here who insult you are actually the ones who want to fuck you but you’ve let them down gently x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to be a size 20 on here and actually found that I got more attention and I probably had more confidence! I’ve found that men on here who insult you are actually the ones who want to fuck you but you’ve let them down gently x"

The mask of anonymity turns people to real ass holes unfortunately

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

"You can be the ripest peach in the world but there will always be someone who doesn't like peaches

That applies regardless of size, shape , hair or eye colour,where we live , what we do , what we drive and genuinely all the things that make a person who they are.

I am a bigger lady but I am so much more than my dress size and I absolutely refuse to be defined by it.

I also think there is far too much berating and insulting language used towards slimmer women too.

Beauty and sex appeal ,attraction and style are all individual. I hate that we as a species constantly want to put people in to little boxes "

Love this

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh. This pale stick thin skinny model feels really sad now. Because not just one person put her down because of her size, a whole bunch of you did.

Fucking hypocrites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice to see the curves being celebrated - always been a major attraction for me

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

"Oh. This pale stick thin skinny model feels really sad now. Because not just one person put her down because of her size, a whole bunch of you did.

Fucking hypocrites. "

Comments I've seen seem to promote the beauty of women of all shapes and sizes, rather than putting down anyone?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Oh. This pale stick thin skinny model feels really sad now. Because not just one person put her down because of her size, a whole bunch of you did.

Fucking hypocrites. "

Where?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people of all sizes should be celebrated tbh, everyone will have body confidence issues at some point. We should be building each other up not tearing down.

Was at a club recently and there was a lady wearing red lingerie, stunning she was.

My fwb said 'you should go for that look' I said no way, look far too much like a potato.

He said men don't necessarily look at the size of a lady, he said confidence is noticed first, he said if women is confident and owns how she looks then that is super sexy regardless of size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big girl here

I actually got trolled yesterday, called a ugly fat lump, by a woman, can you believe. It's really not a nice feeling when you are just quietly minding your own business on here

You are from any of those things...probably bitter and jealous your sex appeal due to your amazing curves"

Thank you

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By * n C NWCouple
over a year ago

Macclesfield

Female half is big n beautiful, wouldn’t have it any other way ??

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By * n C NWCouple
over a year ago

Macclesfield

"Big girl here

I actually got trolled yesterday, called a ugly fat lump, by a woman, can you believe. It's really not a nice feeling when you are just quietly minding your own business on here "

No no no xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm right here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The mask of anonymity turns people to real ass holes unfortunately"

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"So come on lets see all these sexy bigger women! Messaged a women yesterday after seeing her rather sad status update.....long story short was some arsehole had taken the time to message her telling her she was discusting, didnt belong on here, didnt deserve to get any meets all because shes not some stick thin model

How fucking awful is that

So come on ladies be proud of every lump bump and curve you have

Whilst I agree larger ladies can be just as beautiful as there slimmer counterparts - I think referring to ‘stick thin’ models is just as derogatory to slim ladies!

Everyone has their preferences and that’s totally fine - but please let’s not compliment one body type by insulting another!

Big hugs

Peachy

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

How fucking awful is that

So come on ladies be proud of every lump bump and curve you have

Whilst I agree larger ladies can be just as beautiful as there slimmer counterparts - I think referring to ‘stick thin’ models is just as derogatory to slim ladies!

Everyone has their preferences and that’s totally fine - but please let’s not compliment one body type by insulting another!

Big hugs

Peachy

*their slimmer counterparts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have had a couple of nasty messages about my pics. Told i am fuckin fat and ugly and wont get anywhere on here so just do everyone a favour and just delete my account x"

I've looked at your pics before and they make me smile.

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"Folk on here will make bitchy comments about anything given half a chance if they think it will upset you and empower them. Why? Cos they’re sad fucks with no emotional depth or feeling.

Take no notice, carry on as you are and more importantly, have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always used to be stick thin so i know what its like to be thin but i had kids and im on medication so im now a curvy mama!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing that matters if you're happy, sod other people it's your life so enjoy it because you only get one

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

I'm a big lass . . . . We've had so many supportive messages & meets from people who either love the bigger ladies or just have an appreciation for friendly folk!

Too many people are just for sex (I know) . . . We're here for a swinging lifestyle which is just so much more than sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m big and fat.

I’ve not had so much shit on this profile but I did have on my old one over a couple of my pics.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I’m chubby, round, fat, curvy, big, bbw, round whatever term fits really.

I think most people on her unfortunately have received abuse...I don’t get why some people feel the need to be like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had shitty messages but it's genuinely just water off a fat duck's back. If someone has the time or inclination to message just to point out they're not attracted to me, they're clearly not having as good a time as I am. Poor souls.

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By *eddyBearBazMan
over a year ago

St Helens

"I've had shitty messages but it's genuinely just water off a fat duck's back. If someone has the time or inclination to message just to point out they're not attracted to me, they're clearly not having as good a time as I am. Poor souls."

Whats not to like about you? From what i see a truly stunning figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How anyone thinks sexiness is about size I'll never know. I personally don't go for skinny or pale and uninteresting.

My girls have curves and my gay lover is a beautiful chunk of a guy.

But each to their own. No need for insults, ever.

Funny how some people thunk sexiness us about size and write off skinny pale women eh?

Think you've spotted hypocrisy eh?

Nothing said about women specifically, so wind yer neck in."

Well take gender out of it so...

You express bewliderment at how anyone can equate sexiness to someones size and then say you dont go for skinny people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello

the issue I find being on here and being bigger is that a few men think because they are the typical underwear model looking man that I should be grateful they are even messaging me!

I also hate when I'm treated like an experiment because someone has never been with a bigger woman before..

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By *ugh JamptonMan
over a year ago

Witham

"Hello

the issue I find being on here and being bigger is that a few men think because they are the typical underwear model looking man that I should be grateful they are even messaging me!

I also hate when I'm treated like an experiment because someone has never been with a bigger woman before.. "

Mmmm Bunny Kisses everywhere cutie, you have amazing curves and a lovely tongue too! Sadly I am 10 years out of your age range.... Come and say hi sometime, you'll have to message me first though. Kisses everywhere Bunny

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Whilst I agree larger ladies can be just as beautiful as there slimmer counterparts - I think referring to ‘stick thin’ models is just as derogatory to slim ladies!

People insult you regardless of your size - my friends who go from a size 6 to a 28 have all received crap about their body size and shape. I think the best thing you can do (as much as possible) is to ignore the negative and focus on loving yourself. I'm fat and have never been short of attention on or off of fab. Confidence and being happy with who you are is the attractive thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whilst I agree larger ladies can be just as beautiful as there slimmer counterparts - I think referring to ‘stick thin’ models is just as derogatory to slim ladies!

Yup. This.

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