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"Wish him well and be there if it goes wrong " Exactly this. | |||
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"Tells you he's leaving his missus for a 25 year old.... Who you know ain't quite right in the swede.... What do you do? " Tell him exactly that. Yes go for it mate. She’s just the right amount of crazy to make the sex good lol You care for your friend, this is one you just need to step back from. | |||
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"Comfort his Mrs? " Now that is naughty and probably likely to get messy...but be an entertaining read on here | |||
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"Don't be so meek. Tell him "I think its wrong, I think this girl is crazy". Are you his mate or his councilor sitting around waiting to help him when he falls down? Are people so afraid of being alone that they will watch someone make a really bad mistake and say nothing, just hope they can have a friend still at the end of it? Fuck all that shit, Id rather die alone then spend my life patting someone on the back as they make mistake after mistake and never telling them a true opinion. What a waste of my time being alive that would be." I agree. I told my pal he was being played by his younger girlfriend, similar situation. All his other 'mates' just took the piss behind his back. She dumped him yet again. Now just a month after she dumped him she's with another bloke ('old friend') who left his long term girlfriend for her. But my pal's pissed off at me for telling him the truth. | |||
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"Don't be so meek. Tell him "I think its wrong, I think this girl is crazy". Are you his mate or his councilor sitting around waiting to help him when he falls down? Are people so afraid of being alone that they will watch someone make a really bad mistake and say nothing, just hope they can have a friend still at the end of it? Fuck all that shit, Id rather die alone then spend my life patting someone on the back as they make mistake after mistake and never telling them a true opinion. What a waste of my time being alive that would be. I agree. I told my pal he was being played by his younger girlfriend, similar situation. All his other 'mates' just took the piss behind his back. She dumped him yet again. Now just a month after she dumped him she's with another bloke ('old friend') who left his long term girlfriend for her. But my pal's pissed off at me for telling him the truth. " I’ve never understood why friends don’t tell each other the truth. What’s the point in being friends? | |||
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"Don't be so meek. Tell him "I think its wrong, I think this girl is crazy". Are you his mate or his councilor sitting around waiting to help him when he falls down? Are people so afraid of being alone that they will watch someone make a really bad mistake and say nothing, just hope they can have a friend still at the end of it? Fuck all that shit, Id rather die alone then spend my life patting someone on the back as they make mistake after mistake and never telling them a true opinion. What a waste of my time being alive that would be. I agree. I told my pal he was being played by his younger girlfriend, similar situation. All his other 'mates' just took the piss behind his back. She dumped him yet again. Now just a month after she dumped him she's with another bloke ('old friend') who left his long term girlfriend for her. But my pal's pissed off at me for telling him the truth. I’ve never understood why friends don’t tell each other the truth. What’s the point in being friends?" Exactly. | |||
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"Don't be so meek. Tell him "I think its wrong, I think this girl is crazy". Are you his mate or his councilor sitting around waiting to help him when he falls down? Are people so afraid of being alone that they will watch someone make a really bad mistake and say nothing, just hope they can have a friend still at the end of it? Fuck all that shit, Id rather die alone then spend my life patting someone on the back as they make mistake after mistake and never telling them a true opinion. What a waste of my time being alive that would be." Sums it up perfectly.. be honest be there when it goes wrong That’s friendship | |||
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"Tells you he's leaving his missus for a 25 year old.... Who you know ain't quite right in the swede.... What do you do? " If he’s you mate you gotta tell him as it is | |||
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"Difficult one, it’s a mid life crisis But once he realised what he’s loosing he will want to go back" Yep definitely midlife crisis the silly sod . Hopefully his Misses does the same. | |||
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"If he is a friend.. you support his choices. You don't need to agree with them. He will deal with its consequences. Good or bad.. right?" That's about the long and the short of it. All this talk of mid life crisis is a bit patronising when several people's lives could be hugely affected by this. Contemplating leaving a long relationship isn't something most people do unless there's more going on than one of the couple having a wobble | |||
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"Tells you he's leaving his missus for a 25 year old.... Who you know ain't quite right in the swede.... What do you do? " give him a good slap in the face | |||
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"Don't be so meek. Tell him "I think its wrong, I think this girl is crazy". Are you his mate or his councilor sitting around waiting to help him when he falls down? Are people so afraid of being alone that they will watch someone make a really bad mistake and say nothing, just hope they can have a friend still at the end of it? Fuck all that shit, Id rather die alone then spend my life patting someone on the back as they make mistake after mistake and never telling them a true opinion. What a waste of my time being alive that would be. I agree. I told my pal he was being played by his younger girlfriend, similar situation. All his other 'mates' just took the piss behind his back. She dumped him yet again. Now just a month after she dumped him she's with another bloke ('old friend') who left his long term girlfriend for her. But my pal's pissed off at me for telling him the truth. I’ve never understood why friends don’t tell each other the truth. What’s the point in being friends?" There's none so blind as those who don't want to see | |||
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"Don't ever give your opinion unless it's asked for. It's not your call. Your opinion doesn't matter. If it all goes tits up ....... Don't say ' I knew it' either ...... " But, but, but people need to be told what I think even if they think they don't | |||
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"Don't ever give your opinion unless it's asked for. It's not your call. Your opinion doesn't matter. If it all goes tits up ....... Don't say ' I knew it' either ...... But, but, but people need to be told what I think even if they think they don't " Well yes,,,,,, I'd tell him too. I give sound advice but seldom take it | |||
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"If he is a friend.. you support his choices. You don't need to agree with them. He will deal with its consequences. Good or bad.. right? That's about the long and the short of it. All this talk of mid life crisis is a bit patronising when several people's lives could be hugely affected by this. Contemplating leaving a long relationship isn't something most people do unless there's more going on than one of the couple having a wobble" I agree. Doubt it's something most people decide overnight. Is it shocking because of the age difference? | |||
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"If he is a friend.. you support his choices. You don't need to agree with them. He will deal with its consequences. Good or bad.. right? That's about the long and the short of it. All this talk of mid life crisis is a bit patronising when several people's lives could be hugely affected by this. Contemplating leaving a long relationship isn't something most people do unless there's more going on than one of the couple having a wobble I agree. Doubt it's something most people decide overnight. Is it shocking because of the age difference?" I think it's probably considered shocking for that reason, because at his age he "should know better" and apparently she has a problem with root vegetables. | |||
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"Give him a short sharp slap and tell him to get a grip. The 25 year old will dump him soon enough and he’ll end up a lonely old git. " Surely he'll be lonely anyway.... cos he's not going to stay with a woman he doesn't want to be with ...... is he ? And if he does.... he'll be lonely anyway ...... Might as well as have some FUN and LAUGHTER before he dies.... even if it is short lived. | |||
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"Give him a short sharp slap and tell him to get a grip. The 25 year old will dump him soon enough and he’ll end up a lonely old git. Surely he'll be lonely anyway.... cos he's not going to stay with a woman he doesn't want to be with ...... is he ? And if he does.... he'll be lonely anyway ...... Might as well as have some FUN and LAUGHTER before he dies.... even if it is short lived." That's all very well but what about the 25 year olds swede? Surely she'd be better off with a greengrocer. | |||
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"Tells you he's leaving his missus for a 25 year old.... Who you know ain't quite right in the swede.... What do you do? " Best thing to do is to mind your own business and let him get on with it. I have never heard of a 50yr old man saying "oh i fell in love and was mad about this 25yr old girl but my mate told me to wise up and i listened to him so i didnt get involved with her but i lived happily ever after" If he did listen and stays with the wife he will hold it against you everytime they have a squabble or she burns the toast etc. He will be saying i wish i had moved out and took up with that wee 25yr old instead of listening to you. | |||
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"Tell him to really think about what he's doing and to think of the future there is a 22 year age gap between me and my husband, at the time wrap up in the lust was amazing but now its dull as hell! I feel like I'm stuck In a rut with a child involved I feel guilty to leave him as he gave up so much for me!!! This is only my opinion and don't want to be judged by it!!!" I remember my sister's friend who had married a much older man saying one day she woke up next to an old man and wondered what the heck she was doing. She did leave him in the end. | |||
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"Tells you he's leaving his missus for a 25 year old.... Who you know ain't quite right in the swede.... What do you do? " Give him a thumbs up and be there when he needs you | |||
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"Don't ever give your opinion unless it's asked for. It's not your call. Your opinion doesn't matter. If it all goes tits up ....... Don't say ' I knew it' either ...... " love granny’s advice she knows | |||
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"Tells you he's leaving his missus for a 25 year old.... Who you know ain't quite right in the swede.... What do you do? " Wish him well. | |||
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"A good friend will give it to you straight if asked for an opinion surely.Even if he/she didn't like your answer they would still know that you had their best interests at heart.A good friend tells you when you are being a dick but will still be there to pick up the pieces when things go wrong..." What if they just tell you what they're doing but don't ask for your opinion? I'm all for friendly concern and questioning what seems to be an unwise decision but in this case the use of language implies to me at least that a judgement has been made without finding out the real circumstances. | |||
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