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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do a lot of women on here take things so serious and personal?

Why do they sound so pissed off and negative in there description box or when replying with an answer to a question?

I’m not saying every woman on here is like that but what’s with the arrogance when ones only been polite?

I think some people need to get out more and not treat this place like it’s the be all and end all haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do men complain about women, it’s not the end of the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they’re fed of up *some* men’s shit, in all honesty

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

They don’t and neither do I how dare you suggest such a thing. Women are a delight on her and alway willing to help us out Many a time I’ve asked a woman to blow me and she has.

I’m appalled with your comments

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

They're probably sick of getting torrents of abuse for turning down "FAF" messages from guys who just send cock pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This might not go so well for you dude.

In short, because they can and they will have another few messaging them. They will get the same treatment until the time is right

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Or maybe that's just how you're reading it. Yes, *some* women do get pissed off and you can read it in their messages/posts/profiles. I think it's because they get tired of the same old crap and being treated like a fleshlight. Rightly or wrongly that affects their future interactions.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

A lady got annoyed with me the other day about my message .

I only asked her if I could fuck her up against a door .

Some Women hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or maybe that's just how you're reading it. Yes, *some* women do get pissed off and you can read it in their messages/posts/profiles. I think it's because they get tired of the same old crap and being treated like a fleshlight. Rightly or wrongly that affects their future interactions."

What she said

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Or maybe that's just how you're reading it. Yes, *some* women do get pissed off and you can read it in their messages/posts/profiles. I think it's because they get tired of the same old crap and being treated like a fleshlight. Rightly or wrongly that affects their future interactions."

Nailed it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They're probably sick of getting torrents of abuse for turning down "FAF" messages from guys who just send cock pictures."

I understand that but does that mean you should take that out on another person? Manners and politeness cost nothing.

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By *harliebbwWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

remember behind every bitch there is a string of men who made her that way

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"A lady got annoyed with me the other day about my message .

I only asked her if I could fuck her up against a door .

Some Women hey "

I think that is horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lady got annoyed with me the other day about my message .

I only asked her if I could fuck her up against a door .

Some Women hey "
tsk! Cant see the problem with that myself..women eh!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"remember behind every bitch there is a string of men who made her that way "

Is that tongue in cheek or a real view?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"remember behind every bitch there is a string of men who made her that way "

Nah some people are just down right nasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And these daily threads from men moaning dont help.

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln


"They're probably sick of getting torrents of abuse for turning down "FAF" messages from guys who just send cock pictures.

I understand that but does that mean you should take that out on another person? Manners and politeness cost nothing. "

Not true. On Fab, manners and politeness often get misconstrued by people (guys especially) as taking an interest. Even if the polite response says "no thanks", this can be taken as playing hard-to-get, or worse, opens someone up to abuse.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"And these daily threads from men moaning dont help."

What about the daily threads moaning about men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do a lot of women on here take things so serious and personal?

Why do they sound so pissed off and negative in there description box or when replying with an answer to a question?

I’m not saying every woman on here is like that but what’s with the arrogance when ones only been polite?

I think some people need to get out more and not treat this place like it’s the be all and end all haha. "

Have you ever had a shit day at work, come on your period, found out you've got yet another wanker lying to you to get in your knickers, burnt your tea, stood on a fucking upturned plug and whilst trying not to hit the deck from that stubbed your pinkie toe.... all of a sudden the phone rings and it's someone trying to convince you very politely you've been in a car accident and they want to help you? Would you politely decline or would you tell them to get fucked?

And now you understand.

You're welcome.

P

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"remember behind every bitch there is a string of men who made her that way

Nah some people are just down right nasty"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"remember behind every bitch there is a string of men who made her that way "

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"A lady got annoyed with me the other day about my message .

I only asked her if I could fuck her up against a door .

Some Women hey

I think that is horny"
I wouldnt fucking dare send a message like that. Get my cock sliced off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP we all have to put up with certain behaviours on here that aren’t ideal try and ignore what makes you question the site and concentrate on any positives!!

Lots good times to be had if you can see past things that make you mad !!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Some need to remember one little thing.... if you approach me on the street and say things like you do in an opening message here, I’d probably turn around and slap you.

Just because you are hiding behind a computer screen does not mean your basic manners have to disappear !

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Why do a lot of women on here take things so serious and personal?

Why do they sound so pissed off and negative in there description box or when replying with an answer to a question?

I’m not saying every woman on here is like that but what’s with the arrogance when ones only been polite?

I think some people need to get out more and not treat this place like it’s the be all and end all haha.

Have you ever had a shit day at work, come on your period, found out you've got yet another wanker lying to you to get in your knickers, burnt your tea, stood on a fucking upturned plug and whilst trying not to hit the deck from that stubbed your pinkie toe.... all of a sudden the phone rings and it's someone trying to convince you very politely you've been in a car accident and they want to help you? Would you politely decline or would you tell them to get fucked?

And now you understand.

You're welcome.

P"
. End of thread .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Balance achieved

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do a lot of women on here take things so serious and personal?

Why do they sound so pissed off and negative in there description box or when replying with an answer to a question?

I’m not saying every woman on here is like that but what’s with the arrogance when ones only been polite?

I think some people need to get out more and not treat this place like it’s the be all and end all haha.

Have you ever had a shit day at work, come on your period, found out you've got yet another wanker lying to you to get in your knickers, burnt your tea, stood on a fucking upturned plug and whilst trying not to hit the deck from that stubbed your pinkie toe.... all of a sudden the phone rings and it's someone trying to convince you very politely you've been in a car accident and they want to help you? Would you politely decline or would you tell them to get fucked?

And now you understand.

You're welcome.

P"

And have you ever had a day like that seriously? Haha That doesn’t matter how your days been, is it right to take your anger out on someone else? No it’s not, I agree some men will be the same rude and inappropriate but I wouldn’t give someone Shit I would just simply ignore them if I wasn’t in the mood to talk.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Because some women are arseholes, just like some men are

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London


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And have you ever had a day like that seriously? Haha That doesn’t matter how your days been, is it right to take your anger out on someone else? No it’s not, I agree some men will be the same rude and inappropriate but I wouldn’t give someone Shit I would just simply ignore them if I wasn’t in the mood to talk. "

Maybe you need to take your own advice here and simply ignore the ones who don't match with your mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do a lot of women on here take things so serious and personal?

Why do they sound so pissed off and negative in there description box or when replying with an answer to a question?

I’m not saying every woman on here is like that but what’s with the arrogance when ones only been polite?

I think some people need to get out more and not treat this place like it’s the be all and end all haha. "

Popcorn anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do men assume it’s moody rather than reactive to the behaviour of the majority on here? . I’m a pretty chirpy person and the people on here can get me in a rant with their moaning and assumptions. If you find someone too negative, ask yourself why. - Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they are harassed and verbally abused by some of the guys ok a lot of guys on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And these daily threads from men moaning dont help.

What about the daily threads moaning about men?"

True they dont help either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do men assume it’s moody rather than reactive to the behaviour of the majority on here? . I’m a pretty chirpy person and the people on here can get me in a rant with their moaning and assumptions. If you find someone too negative, ask yourself why. - Mrs "

I’m not saying every women is the same I’m just saying the few that are like that for no particular reason when one does nothing wrong.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Swap inbox’s for the day, read and reply to everything and see if you’re still wondering...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because they are harassed and verbally abused by some of the guys ok a lot of guys on here "

Yeah by “some” not all, so what about the polite ones who don’t verbally abuse or harass the women is that fair for them to catch the blunt of it all?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Because they are harassed and verbally abused by some of the guys ok a lot of guys on here "

It's really not a lot.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Swap inbox’s for the day, read and reply to everything and see if you’re still wondering... "

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I'm dealing with the MentalPause thing right now.

I seem to be permanently moody.

It doesn't tahe alot to trip my bitch switch right now.

So yeah, someone sends me shit they're going to get it straight back

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Some men are arseholes. Some women are arseholes. Different people develop different ways of dealing with the weird world of Fab. It's usually not personal, and it's rarely helpful to take it that way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Swap inbox’s for the day, read and reply to everything and see if you’re still wondering... "

I’d love to I’d have a right laugh with it all and all the vile disgusting ones would get told straight but your missing the point what if a polite message falls in your inbox yet you reply to it like it’s a abusive one is that still fair?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Swap inbox’s for the day, read and reply to everything and see if you’re still wondering...

"

And this. Hoo boy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm dealing with the MentalPause thing right now.

I seem to be permanently moody.

It doesn't tahe alot to trip my bitch switch right now.

So yeah, someone sends me shit they're going to get it straight back "

No I don’t mean sending them shit but receiving it for only being polite.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Swap inbox’s for the day, read and reply to everything and see if you’re still wondering...

I’d love to I’d have a right laugh with it all and all the vile disgusting ones would get told straight but your missing the point what if a polite message falls in your inbox yet you reply to it like it’s a abusive one is that still fair?"

No I don’t agree that’s fair at all.. But I’ve not got the spare time to reply in any way to chancers who haven’t made the effort to read my profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe I should of headlined this negative people instead

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Swap inbox’s for the day, read and reply to everything and see if you’re still wondering...

I’d love to I’d have a right laugh with it all and all the vile disgusting ones would get told straight but your missing the point what if a polite message falls in your inbox yet you reply to it like it’s a abusive one is that still fair?

So why reply so negatively to a polite message then?

No I don’t agree that’s fair at all.. But I’ve not got the spare time to reply in any way to chancers who haven’t made the effort to read my profile. "

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Swap inbox’s for the day, read and reply to everything and see if you’re still wondering...

I’d love to I’d have a right laugh with it all and all the vile disgusting ones would get told straight but your missing the point what if a polite message falls in your inbox yet you reply to it like it’s a abusive one is that still fair?

So why reply so negatively to a polite message then?

No I don’t agree that’s fair at all.. But I’ve not got the spare time to reply in any way to chancers who haven’t made the effort to read my profile. "

I don’t.. but people are odd so there’s no explanation for some..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try and send a polite message back to a polite and well thought out message

Happens to us ladies also though I’ve had many a bike message back if I’ve said no thank you ?!?!? Block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or maybe that's just how you're reading it. Yes, *some* women do get pissed off and you can read it in their messages/posts/profiles. I think it's because they get tired of the same old crap and being treated like a fleshlight. Rightly or wrongly that affects their future interactions."

this.

I’m sick of SOME guys (yes, guys) who don’t get that I’m swinger. Yep, lovely, you want a 1:1 meet but I want an orgy bullshit messages and judgement are day to day on here because SOME guys don’t get what they want! They need a hooker not fab!

Sometimes it gets my back up... it’s one of those days today

Hope it answers your question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a right moody bitch I don't know how he puts up with me

Especially as woman are shit at sucking cock too. So we are racking them up this morning...were moody, whingy and can't suck cock....

May as well do away with females as we are good at nothing

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Why do a lot of women on here take things so serious and personal?

Why do they sound so pissed off and negative in there description box or when replying with an answer to a question?

I’m not saying every woman on here is like that but what’s with the arrogance when ones only been polite?

I think some people need to get out more and not treat this place like it’s the be all and end all haha. "

Take your advice and apply it to your post.

You couldn't get to people via private message so you thought you'd give them a good telling on how to behave via the forum and you're so puff proud you can't see yourself.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I'm a right moody bitch I don't know how he puts up with me

Especially as woman are shit at sucking cock too. So we are racking them up this morning...were moody, whingy and can't suck cock....

May as well do away with females as we are good at nothing "

Whinging..... you forgot the whinging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do a lot of women on here take things so serious and personal?

Why do they sound so pissed off and negative in there description box or when replying with an answer to a question?

I’m not saying every woman on here is like that but what’s with the arrogance when ones only been polite?

I think some people need to get out more and not treat this place like it’s the be all and end all haha.

Take your advice and apply it to your post.

You couldn't get to people via private message so you thought you'd give them a good telling on how to behave via the forum and you're so puff proud you can't see yourself. "

How am I telling people how to behave, Where have I stated that anywhere in my post this is how you should behave?

It’s not directed at anyone personally just a few that are ill mannered abit like yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men assume it’s moody rather than reactive to the behaviour of the majority on here? . I’m a pretty chirpy person and the people on here can get me in a rant with their moaning and assumptions. If you find someone too negative, ask yourself why. - Mrs

I’m not saying every women is the same I’m just saying the few that are like that for no particular reason when one does nothing wrong. "
believing it’s because no one has wronged them is where you’re going wrong. Women get a lot of harassment on this site and that’s why the profiles read that way, hoping men read it and learn. You’re off to a better start than many if you’re actually reading them and messaging politely while referencing what you’ve read.

It is reactive even if you can’t see what’s gone wrong. The nonsense is rampant here from single men. Just try to be one of the good ones and recognise there is a reason, not just a “mood”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a right moody bitch I don't know how he puts up with me

Especially as woman are shit at sucking cock too. So we are racking them up this morning...were moody, whingy and can't suck cock....

May as well do away with females as we are good at nothing "

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I’m a ray of sunshine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate, if you’d see the amount of crap/abuse/downright alarming stuff I get in my inbox daily, you’d be the same I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And these daily threads from men moaning dont help.

What about the daily threads moaning about men?"

These outnumber the moaning men threads I'd say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do men assume it’s moody rather than reactive to the behaviour of the majority on here? . I’m a pretty chirpy person and the people on here can get me in a rant with their moaning and assumptions. If you find someone too negative, ask yourself why. - Mrs

I’m not saying every women is the same I’m just saying the few that are like that for no particular reason when one does nothing wrong. believing it’s because no one has wronged them is where you’re going wrong. Women get a lot of harassment on this site and that’s why the profiles read that way, hoping men read it and learn. You’re off to a better start than many if you’re actually reading them and messaging politely while referencing what you’ve read.

It is reactive even if you can’t see what’s gone wrong. The nonsense is rampant here from single men. Just try to be one of the good ones and recognise there is a reason, not just a “mood” "

Clearly there’s a reason but is that right to be that way with someone else for the way somebody different as made you feel?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

The simple answer is everyone replies to who they want to reply to

You get tired of responding, sorry but no to polite messages when normally the response back from them is abusive for saying no

So easiest thing is don’t reply at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mate, if you’d see the amount of crap/abuse/downright alarming stuff I get in my inbox daily, you’d be the same I think.

"

But what if you speak to someone politely would you expect to be treated the same and not abusively because somebody else as pissed that person off?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Why do a lot of women on here take things so serious and personal?

Why do they sound so pissed off and negative in there description box or when replying with an answer to a question?

I’m not saying every woman on here is like that but what’s with the arrogance when ones only been polite?

I think some people need to get out more and not treat this place like it’s the be all and end all haha.

Take your advice and apply it to your post.

You couldn't get to people via private message so you thought you'd give them a good telling on how to behave via the forum and you're so puff proud you can't see yourself.

How am I telling people how to behave, Where have I stated that anywhere in my post this is how you should behave?

It’s not directed at anyone personally just a few that are ill mannered abit like yourself. "

Quote: so serious wasn't a compliment.

Quote: Take things so personally wasn't an accolade.

Quote: Sound pissed off and negative - isn't a positive.

Quote: arrogant - wasn't said as a good quality.

Quote: They need to get out more.

Quote: They shouldn't treat the place as the be all and end all.

Given your response to me - i'd say all those women did was not give you what you think you are entitled to and you're bothered so much you start a post about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men are disgusting animals so I understand why the ladies get upset. A little respect goes a long way. And men who whine on their statuses is fucking hilarious.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do a lot of women on here take things so serious and personal?

Why do they sound so pissed off and negative in there description box or when replying with an answer to a question?

I’m not saying every woman on here is like that but what’s with the arrogance when ones only been polite?

I think some people need to get out more and not treat this place like it’s the be all and end all haha.

Take your advice and apply it to your post.

You couldn't get to people via private message so you thought you'd give them a good telling on how to behave via the forum and you're so puff proud you can't see yourself.

How am I telling people how to behave, Where have I stated that anywhere in my post this is how you should behave?

It’s not directed at anyone personally just a few that are ill mannered abit like yourself.

Quote: so serious wasn't a compliment.

Quote: Take things so personally wasn't an accolade.

Quote: Sound pissed off and negative - isn't a positive.

Quote: arrogant - wasn't said as a good quality.

Quote: They need to get out more.

Quote: They shouldn't treat the place as the be all and end all.

Given your response to me - i'd say all those women did was not give you what you think you are entitled to and you're bothered so much you start a post about it. "

Brilliant reply. Just because it's a swingers site no one is entitled to anything. Respect,respect, respect.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"And these daily threads from men moaning dont help.

What about the daily threads moaning about men?

These outnumber the moaning men threads I'd say."

At about 1000 to one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lady got annoyed with me the other day about my message .

I only asked her if I could fuck her up against a door .

Some Women hey "

How rude of her

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Some men are disgusting animals so I understand why the ladies get upset. A little respect goes a long way. And men who whine on their statuses is fucking hilarious."

And some women are horrible bitches. If a woman is being a cow, it's not always the man's fault!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 27/09/19 11:40:59]"

I called you I’ll mannered because you was making conclusions on me, I’d not said anything bad about you personally or anybody else in that matter,

So yes you was being ill mannered towards me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because some women are arseholes, just like some men are "

This ^^^ is exactly my thinking

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

I think some men think they're being polite but actually aren't. Not tarring you with that brush, but it's something I deal with all the time here.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Some men are disgusting animals so I understand why the ladies get upset. A little respect goes a long way. And men who whine on their statuses is fucking hilarious.

And some women are horrible bitches. If a woman is being a cow, it's not always the man's fault! "

I'd agree with that 100%. I wish people would STOP the gender wars and r learn to recognise when they are speaking to a gobshite individual.

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

I swore I wrote people... sorry I meant people not just men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men are disgusting animals so I understand why the ladies get upset. A little respect goes a long way. And men who whine on their statuses is fucking hilarious.

And some women are horrible bitches. If a woman is being a cow, it's not always the man's fault! "

I'm not saying all women are perfect but when you ladies get tons of Messages like fancy a fuck,meet me now etc... I can understand why it could be disheartening.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"[Removed by poster at 27/09/19 11:40:59]

I called you I’ll mannered because you was making conclusions on me, I’d not said anything bad about you personally or anybody else in that matter,

So yes you was being ill mannered towards me. "

Manners are pretty much from the perspective of the individual.

And given this response I realise I should back down in the interests of kindness xx

Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do a lot of women on here take things so serious and personal?

Why do they sound so pissed off and negative in there description box or when replying with an answer to a question?

I’m not saying every woman on here is like that but what’s with the arrogance when ones only been polite?

I think some people need to get out more and not treat this place like it’s the be all and end all haha.

Take your advice and apply it to your post.

You couldn't get to people via private message so you thought you'd give them a good telling on how to behave via the forum and you're so puff proud you can't see yourself.

How am I telling people how to behave, Where have I stated that anywhere in my post this is how you should behave?

It’s not directed at anyone personally just a few that are ill mannered abit like yourself.

Quote: so serious wasn't a compliment.

Quote: Take things so personally wasn't an accolade.

Quote: Sound pissed off and negative - isn't a positive.

Quote: arrogant - wasn't said as a good quality.

Quote: They need to get out more.

Quote: They shouldn't treat the place as the be all and end all.

Given your response to me - i'd say all those women did was not give you what you think you are entitled to and you're bothered so much you start a post about it.

Brilliant reply. Just because it's a swingers site no one is entitled to anything. Respect,respect, respect."

I’ve never messaged or approached anyone on this site inappropriately or with vile abuse I treat one how I expect to be treated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do a lot of women on here take things so serious and personal?

Why do they sound so pissed off and negative in there description box or when replying with an answer to a question?

I’m not saying every woman on here is like that but what’s with the arrogance when ones only been polite?

I think some people need to get out more and not treat this place like it’s the be all and end all haha.

Take your advice and apply it to your post.

You couldn't get to people via private message so you thought you'd give them a good telling on how to behave via the forum and you're so puff proud you can't see yourself.

How am I telling people how to behave, Where have I stated that anywhere in my post this is how you should behave?

It’s not directed at anyone personally just a few that are ill mannered abit like yourself.

Quote: so serious wasn't a compliment.

Quote: Take things so personally wasn't an accolade.

Quote: Sound pissed off and negative - isn't a positive.

Quote: arrogant - wasn't said as a good quality.

Quote: They need to get out more.

Quote: They shouldn't treat the place as the be all and end all.

Given your response to me - i'd say all those women did was not give you what you think you are entitled to and you're bothered so much you start a post about it.

Brilliant reply. Just because it's a swingers site no one is entitled to anything. Respect,respect, respect.

I’ve never messaged or approached anyone on this site inappropriately or with vile abuse I treat one how I expect to be treated. "

this

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Its not gender specific op

Seen loads of negative status updates from couples and men too.

Miss

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Some men are disgusting animals so I understand why the ladies get upset. A little respect goes a long way. And men who whine on their statuses is fucking hilarious.

And some women are horrible bitches. If a woman is being a cow, it's not always the man's fault!

I'm not saying all women are perfect but when you ladies get tons of Messages like fancy a fuck,meet me now etc... I can understand why it could be disheartening."

And that doesn't give us the right to be disrespectful to men who are perfectly polite in their messages. I'm sure it's disheartening for some men being rejected repeatedly, and that doesn't excuse any abuse they might send. So it should work the other way too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends. If they are being rude or abusive than that's not acceptable.

However some men here take a no thank you or an unread/deleated message as being rude or arrogant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men are disgusting animals so I understand why the ladies get upset. A little respect goes a long way. And men who whine on their statuses is fucking hilarious.

And some women are horrible bitches. If a woman is being a cow, it's not always the man's fault!

I'm not saying all women are perfect but when you ladies get tons of Messages like fancy a fuck,meet me now etc... I can understand why it could be disheartening.

And that doesn't give us the right to be disrespectful to men who are perfectly polite in their messages. I'm sure it's disheartening for some men being rejected repeatedly, and that doesn't excuse any abuse they might send. So it should work the other way too. "

I've never had a negative response as I am always polite so can't comment on that, not messaged that many people to be honest but I get where you are coming from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're young it's the period talking if they're older, it's pms

Just kidding! You're all lovely ladies, well most of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men are disgusting animals so I understand why the ladies get upset. A little respect goes a long way. And men who whine on their statuses is fucking hilarious.

And some women are horrible bitches. If a woman is being a cow, it's not always the man's fault!

I'm not saying all women are perfect but when you ladies get tons of Messages like fancy a fuck,meet me now etc... I can understand why it could be disheartening.

And that doesn't give us the right to be disrespectful to men who are perfectly polite in their messages. I'm sure it's disheartening for some men being rejected repeatedly, and that doesn't excuse any abuse they might send. So it should work the other way too.

I've never had a negative response as I am always polite so can't comment on that, not messaged that many people to be honest but I get where you are coming from."

I was going to say something like this.

If someone is getting a lot of people being "moody" maybe it's their approach that's the issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply politely to almost all my messages, as long as they are not aggressive/abusive and more than a couple of words.

I’ve had abuse back 4 times in 2 years. Most reply with ‘thanks for the reply’

I have tight filters which reduce my messages, so appreciate my experiences may not be representative. I’m happy in my little corner of Fab. I understand why many ladies are not!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"I reply politely to almost all my messages, as long as they are not aggressive/abusive and more than a couple of words.

I’ve had abuse back 4 times in 2 years. Most reply with ‘thanks for the reply’

I have tight filters which reduce my messages, so appreciate my experiences may not be representative. I’m happy in my little corner of Fab. I understand why many ladies are not!"

Same experience here.

99% of my messages since being on here since 2016 have been positive and polite and i try to reply to all as due to my filters and size/height/saggy tits/body hair/age, my inbox isn’t rammed, thankfully! but i do appreciate that other ladies have a different Fab experience to mine.

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By *arkbaneMan
over a year ago

East lerds


"

Because they’re fed of up *some* men’s shit, in all honesty "

But isn’t that part and parcel of joining a site like Fab lol

Take the “Bad” with the “Bad”. ??

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By *arkbaneMan
over a year ago

East lerds


"I reply politely to almost all my messages, as long as they are not aggressive/abusive and more than a couple of words.

I’ve had abuse back 4 times in 2 years. Most reply with ‘thanks for the reply’

I have tight filters which reduce my messages, so appreciate my experiences may not be representative. I’m happy in my little corner of Fab. I understand why many ladies are not!"

Will “Wonders” never cease !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men are disgusting animals so I understand why the ladies get upset. A little respect goes a long way. And men who whine on their statuses is fucking hilarious.

And some women are horrible bitches. If a woman is being a cow, it's not always the man's fault!

I'd agree with that 100%. I wish people would STOP the gender wars and r learn to recognise when they are speaking to a gobshite individual.

"

Couldn't agree more. I was taught from a young age to speak to people in the way I'd wish to be spoken to. Whether it's a man or a woman makes no blind bit difference. Its basic people skills, but I guess lots of people on here do lack those basic skills

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland


"They're probably sick of getting torrents of abuse for turning down "FAF" messages from guys who just send cock pictures."
THIS 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Because they’re fed of up *some* men’s shit, in all honesty "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha,ha women getting moody on here never they just like a good natter..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're probably sick of getting torrents of abuse for turning down "FAF" messages from guys who just send cock pictures."

How right you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or maybe that's just how you're reading it. Yes, *some* women do get pissed off and you can read it in their messages/posts/profiles. I think it's because they get tired of the same old crap and being treated like a fleshlight. Rightly or wrongly that affects their future interactions.

this.

I’m sick of SOME guys (yes, guys) who don’t get that I’m swinger. Yep, lovely, you want a 1:1 meet but I want an orgy bullshit messages and judgement are day to day on here because SOME guys don’t get what they want! They need a hooker not fab!

Sometimes it gets my back up... it’s one of those days today

A lot of guys who i receive messages from need a hooker rather than a swinger, i think the site has slowly become more free prostitution or quick fuck and chuck bedpost knotches. I always reply to all my messages but if an ego surfaces then they get the wind up

Hope it answers your question "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they are harassed and verbally abused by some of the guys ok a lot of guys on here

Yeah by “some” not all, so what about the polite ones who don’t verbally abuse or harass the women is that fair for them to catch the blunt of it all? "

Us guys can’t comprehend the amount of messages the girls receive as we get 20 a day if lucky they get hundreds just have some respect and decorum and things will get better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do a lot of women on here take things so serious and personal?

Why do they sound so pissed off and negative in there description box or when replying with an answer to a question?

I’m not saying every woman on here is like that but what’s with the arrogance when ones only been polite?

I think some people need to get out more and not treat this place like it’s the be all and end all haha.

Take your advice and apply it to your post.

You couldn't get to people via private message so you thought you'd give them a good telling on how to behave via the forum and you're so puff proud you can't see yourself.

How am I telling people how to behave, Where have I stated that anywhere in my post this is how you should behave?

It’s not directed at anyone personally just a few that are ill mannered abit like yourself.

Quote: so serious wasn't a compliment.

Quote: Take things so personally wasn't an accolade.

Quote: Sound pissed off and negative - isn't a positive.

Quote: arrogant - wasn't said as a good quality.

Quote: They need to get out more.

Quote: They shouldn't treat the place as the be all and end all.

Given your response to me - i'd say all those women did was not give you what you think you are entitled to and you're bothered so much you start a post about it.

Brilliant reply. Just because it's a swingers site no one is entitled to anything. Respect,respect, respect."

Respect goes a long way and would get guys better results instead of some believing the are entitled to it. Sympathy votes on statuses are a real turn off and i usually tell them to man up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men are disgusting animals so I understand why the ladies get upset. A little respect goes a long way. And men who whine on their statuses is fucking hilarious.

And some women are horrible bitches. If a woman is being a cow, it's not always the man's fault!

I'm not saying all women are perfect but when you ladies get tons of Messages like fancy a fuck,meet me now etc... I can understand why it could be disheartening."

Oh it gets so boring hearing those type of messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is some right moody girls out there! Same as the guys, good and bad in both sexes but don’t let someone who is negative affect your views.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reply politely to almost all my messages, as long as they are not aggressive/abusive and more than a couple of words.

I’ve had abuse back 4 times in 2 years. Most reply with ‘thanks for the reply’

I have tight filters which reduce my messages, so appreciate my experiences may not be representative. I’m happy in my little corner of Fab. I understand why many ladies are not!"

Same here been on nearly four years and very rarely get a rude message, the odd ignorant one which I just delete but I reply to about 98% of my messages and never received a rude response! Just treat people exactly how I like to be treated and it works fine even when I put up new pics!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its not gender specific op

Seen loads of negative status updates from couples and men too.

Miss"

I fully understand it’s not a gender thing I had no intention of it looking like that, I just don’t look a male profiles or message males so a woman could say the exact same thing about a man.

It’s an individual thing not on women as a whole or men in that matter, I stated maybe I should of put negative people instead of “women” and it would of be a whole different matter haha

It’s not about rejection or sending and receiving vile or inappropriate context my point is being spoken to the way you speak to people.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Swap inbox’s for the day, read and reply to everything and see if you’re still wondering...

I’d love to I’d have a right laugh with it all and all the vile disgusting ones would get told straight but your missing the point what if a polite message falls in your inbox yet you reply to it like it’s a abusive one is that still fair?"

You might think you've been polite but if their profile says they're not looking for men, you're outside of their age range or there is something else in their profile making it clear you don't meet their criteria then it's not really polite to message them at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They're probably sick of getting torrents of abuse for turning down "FAF" messages from guys who just send cock pictures.THIS 100% "

Well I couldn’t no that could I, that’s not something I’d do if they wanted to see a cock theres pictures of that in friends only.

You can’t say don’t do this or that don’t message her she or he may be pissed of because they’ve just received a bodily photograph how are people suppose to know that?

You should still speak to others how you are spoken to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not gender specific op

Seen loads of negative status updates from couples and men too.

Miss

I fully understand it’s not a gender thing I had no intention of it looking like that, I just don’t look a male profiles or message males so a woman could say the exact same thing about a man.

It’s an individual thing not on women as a whole or men in that matter, I stated maybe I should of put negative people instead of “women” and it would of be a whole different matter haha

It’s not about rejection or sending and receiving vile or inappropriate context my point is being spoken to the way you speak to people. "

When I've questioned some men over the vile messages they've sent me they usually say they're only trying to get my attention because they're so sick of being ignored. Which means they didn't start out that way but their behaviour slowly morphed due to their experiences on here.

It's exactly the same for women. I know I was very bubbly, welcoming and scared of offending anybody when I first joined. My experiences quickly made me harden and now I just say it how it is,which probably makes me come across "moody" but I am just protecting myself.

You have to realise we have put up with so many shitty men on here that we regard any newcomers with the same suspicion until you have proven you're not one of them. Guilty until proven innocent. Might not sound fair but that's just how it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block those who are bothering you & being rude to you.

Problem solved.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Swap inbox’s for the day, read and reply to everything and see if you’re still wondering...

I’d love to I’d have a right laugh with it all and all the vile disgusting ones would get told straight but your missing the point what if a polite message falls in your inbox yet you reply to it like it’s a abusive one is that still fair?

You might think you've been polite but if their profile says they're not looking for men, you're outside of their age range or there is something else in their profile making it clear you don't meet their criteria then it's not really polite to message them at all."

But that’s not the point I’m making ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swap inbox’s for the day, read and reply to everything and see if you’re still wondering...

I’d love to I’d have a right laugh with it all and all the vile disgusting ones would get told straight but your missing the point what if a polite message falls in your inbox yet you reply to it like it’s a abusive one is that still fair?

You might think you've been polite but if their profile says they're not looking for men, you're outside of their age range or there is something else in their profile making it clear you don't meet their criteria then it's not really polite to message them at all."

The thing is politeness can be subjective. For example a lot of men message me saying they love large women or BBW, not knowing that I absolutely despise that label. Therefore to me they're being impolite whereas they just think they've paid me a massive compliment. Doesn't help that that kind of message will usually also say something rude about slimmer women; often they think that adds to the compliment but it just pisses me off more. Do you see?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Swap inbox’s for the day, read and reply to everything and see if you’re still wondering...

I’d love to I’d have a right laugh with it all and all the vile disgusting ones would get told straight but your missing the point what if a polite message falls in your inbox yet you reply to it like it’s a abusive one is that still fair?

You might think you've been polite but if their profile says they're not looking for men, you're outside of their age range or there is something else in their profile making it clear you don't meet their criteria then it's not really polite to message them at all.

The thing is politeness can be subjective. For example a lot of men message me saying they love large women or BBW, not knowing that I absolutely despise that label. Therefore to me they're being impolite whereas they just think they've paid me a massive compliment. Doesn't help that that kind of message will usually also say something rude about slimmer women; often they think that adds to the compliment but it just pisses me off more. Do you see? "

Absolutely. Similar to what I was trying to say. Men might think their messages are polite but that doesn't mean they are.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Swap inbox’s for the day, read and reply to everything and see if you’re still wondering...

I’d love to I’d have a right laugh with it all and all the vile disgusting ones would get told straight but your missing the point what if a polite message falls in your inbox yet you reply to it like it’s a abusive one is that still fair?

You might think you've been polite but if their profile says they're not looking for men, you're outside of their age range or there is something else in their profile making it clear you don't meet their criteria then it's not really polite to message them at all.

But that’s not the point I’m making ha ha "

You said women are moody when you've sent a polite message. I'm saying maybe it's not as polite as you think it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be interested to see some of the ‘polite messages’ that some people claim to send. I stuck up for a guy who made a similar thread a month ago and it turns out he wasn’t quite so polite. He got caught out and promptly left fab.

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By *iss behaving2019Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"remember behind every bitch there is a string of men who made her that way "
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Exactly!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I would be interested to see some of the ‘polite messages’ that some people claim to send. I stuck up for a guy who made a similar thread a month ago and it turns out he wasn’t quite so polite. He got caught out and promptly left fab. "

Exactly this. It's like "nice guys" who complain they never get the girl. They're often not actually that nice at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"remember behind every bitch there is a string of men who made her that way"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men assume it’s moody rather than reactive to the behaviour of the majority on here? . I’m a pretty chirpy person and the people on here can get me in a rant with their moaning and assumptions. If you find someone too negative, ask yourself why. - Mrs

I’m not saying every women is the same I’m just saying the few that are like that for no particular reason when one does nothing wrong. believing it’s because no one has wronged them is where you’re going wrong. Women get a lot of harassment on this site and that’s why the profiles read that way, hoping men read it and learn. You’re off to a better start than many if you’re actually reading them and messaging politely while referencing what you’ve read.

It is reactive even if you can’t see what’s gone wrong. The nonsense is rampant here from single men. Just try to be one of the good ones and recognise there is a reason, not just a “mood”

Clearly there’s a reason but is that right to be that way with someone else for the way somebody different as made you feel? "

Yes. It’s right for me to be cautious with every hello as that person could be the next stalker, the next one who rudely crosses my boundaries, who disrespects my relationship with my amazing husband, who calls me names because I’m not interested, who is incredibly abusive. I will continue being nice with caution as the experiences shape how you approach, not learning from being too nice at first would make me an idiot. Humans learn from things and set boundaries when other humans behave like rabid beasts. No one is being directly mean to you because another man didn’t like them, you just aren’t getting it.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Some men are disgusting animals so I understand why the ladies get upset. A little respect goes a long way. And men who whine on their statuses is fucking hilarious.

And some women are horrible bitches. If a woman is being a cow, it's not always the man's fault!

I'm not saying all women are perfect but when

you ladies get tons of Messages like fancy a

fuck,meet me now etc... I can understand why

it could be disheartening.

And that doesn't give us the right to be disrespectful to men who are perfectly polite in their messages. I'm sure it's disheartening for some men being rejected repeatedly, and that doesn't excuse any abuse they might send. So it should work the other way too. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swap inbox’s for the day, read and reply to everything and see if you’re still wondering...

I’d love to I’d have a right laugh with it all and all the vile disgusting ones would get told straight but your missing the point what if a polite message falls in your inbox yet you reply to it like it’s a abusive one is that still fair?

You might think you've been polite but if their profile says they're not looking for men, you're outside of their age range or there is something else in their profile making it clear you don't meet their criteria then it's not really polite to message them at all.

But that’s not the point I’m making ha ha

You said women are moody when you've sent a polite message. I'm saying maybe it's not as polite as you think it is."

Or even saying no thank you can get you a string of abuse. It’s a balance and sometimes I don’t have the energy to protect the feelings of others and choose me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Swap inbox’s for the day, read and reply to everything and see if you’re still wondering...

I’d love to I’d have a right laugh with it all and all the vile disgusting ones would get told straight but your missing the point what if a polite message falls in your inbox yet you reply to it like it’s a abusive one is that still fair?

Just general chit chat really, nothing prerogative or anything in that manner, read the profile see what there description is and kindly approach them. I think it could also be about timing I’m not saying it’s all women because I fully understand men can be the same it’s just the respect you give people would you expect the same back?

You might think you've been polite but if their profile says they're not looking for men, you're outside of their age range or there is something else in their profile making it clear you don't meet their criteria then it's not really polite to message them at all.

But that’s not the point I’m making ha ha

You said women are moody when you've sent a polite message. I'm saying maybe it's not as polite as you think it is."

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over a year ago


"Why do men assume it’s moody rather than reactive to the behaviour of the majority on here? . I’m a pretty chirpy person and the people on here can get me in a rant with their moaning and assumptions. If you find someone too negative, ask yourself why. - Mrs

I’m not saying every women is the same I’m just saying the few that are like that for no particular reason when one does nothing wrong. believing it’s because no one has wronged them is where you’re going wrong. Women get a lot of harassment on this site and that’s why the profiles read that way, hoping men read it and learn. You’re off to a better start than many if you’re actually reading them and messaging politely while referencing what you’ve read.

It is reactive even if you can’t see what’s gone wrong. The nonsense is rampant here from single men. Just try to be one of the good ones and recognise there is a reason, not just a “mood”

Clearly there’s a reason but is that right to be that way with someone else for the way somebody different as made you feel?

Yes. It’s right for me to be cautious with every hello as that person could be the next stalker, the next one who rudely crosses my boundaries, who disrespects my relationship with my amazing husband, who calls me names because I’m not interested, who is incredibly abusive. I will continue being nice with caution as the experiences shape how you approach, not learning from being too nice at first would make me an idiot. Humans learn from things and set boundaries when other humans behave like rabid beasts. No one is being directly mean to you because another man didn’t like them, you just aren’t getting it. "

But I done disrespect anyone or do anything like you’ve just said, I am getting it but your clearly not understanding where I’m coming from.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

I think i understand the OP you send a polite message and you expect a polite message back.

I often send polite replies that lead to that person trying to change my mind or that person thinks their message is polite but to me its pushy or over familiar.

Part of the problem is expectation.

Expectation (no matter how well intended) often lead to disappointment.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I don’t really like moody, sulky people - irrespective of their gender. I’m sure some have their reasons but some are just plain grumpy.

There are two sides to every story though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men assume it’s moody rather than reactive to the behaviour of the majority on here? . I’m a pretty chirpy person and the people on here can get me in a rant with their moaning and assumptions. If you find someone too negative, ask yourself why. - Mrs

I’m not saying every women is the same I’m just saying the few that are like that for no particular reason when one does nothing wrong. believing it’s because no one has wronged them is where you’re going wrong. Women get a lot of harassment on this site and that’s why the profiles read that way, hoping men read it and learn. You’re off to a better start than many if you’re actually reading them and messaging politely while referencing what you’ve read.

It is reactive even if you can’t see what’s gone wrong. The nonsense is rampant here from single men. Just try to be one of the good ones and recognise there is a reason, not just a “mood”

Clearly there’s a reason but is that right to be that way with someone else for the way somebody different as made you feel?

Yes. It’s right for me to be cautious with every hello as that person could be the next stalker, the next one who rudely crosses my boundaries, who disrespects my relationship with my amazing husband, who calls me names because I’m not interested, who is incredibly abusive. I will continue being nice with caution as the experiences shape how you approach, not learning from being too nice at first would make me an idiot. Humans learn from things and set boundaries when other humans behave like rabid beasts. No one is being directly mean to you because another man didn’t like them, you just aren’t getting it.

But I done disrespect anyone or do anything like you’ve just said, I am getting it but your clearly not understanding where I’m coming from. "

Basically just move on to someone that is polite and don’t look back. That’s what us woman have had to do with all the annoying and abusive messages/replies. The block button is also pretty handy so you don’t message again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do men assume it’s moody rather than reactive to the behaviour of the majority on here? . I’m a pretty chirpy person and the people on here can get me in a rant with their moaning and assumptions. If you find someone too negative, ask yourself why. - Mrs

I’m not saying every women is the same I’m just saying the few that are like that for no particular reason when one does nothing wrong. believing it’s because no one has wronged them is where you’re going wrong. Women get a lot of harassment on this site and that’s why the profiles read that way, hoping men read it and learn. You’re off to a better start than many if you’re actually reading them and messaging politely while referencing what you’ve read.

It is reactive even if you can’t see what’s gone wrong. The nonsense is rampant here from single men. Just try to be one of the good ones and recognise there is a reason, not just a “mood”

Clearly there’s a reason but is that right to be that way with someone else for the way somebody different as made you feel?

Yes. It’s right for me to be cautious with every hello as that person could be the next stalker, the next one who rudely crosses my boundaries, who disrespects my relationship with my amazing husband, who calls me names because I’m not interested, who is incredibly abusive. I will continue being nice with caution as the experiences shape how you approach, not learning from being too nice at first would make me an idiot. Humans learn from things and set boundaries when other humans behave like rabid beasts. No one is being directly mean to you because another man didn’t like them, you just aren’t getting it.

But I done disrespect anyone or do anything like you’ve just said, I am getting it but your clearly not understanding where I’m coming from.

Basically just move on to someone that is polite and don’t look back. That’s what us woman have had to do with all the annoying and abusive messages/replies. The block button is also pretty handy so you don’t message again. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....well, this post served it's intended purpose.....

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"And these daily threads from men moaning dont help.

What about the daily threads moaning about men?

These outnumber the moaning men threads I'd say.

At about 1000 to one."

A bit of an exaggeration there Granny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do a lot of women on here take things so serious and personal?

Why do they sound so pissed off and negative in there description box or when replying with an answer to a question?

I’m not saying every woman on here is like that but what’s with the arrogance when ones only been polite?

I think some people need to get out more and not treat this place like it’s the be all and end all haha. "

Because a lot of them(not all) like the drama. In reality they could use the filters to block everyone and just message the ones they like. But that would be far to easy

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Because they are harassed and verbally abused by some of the guys ok a lot of guys on here

Yeah by “some” not all, so what about the polite ones who don’t verbally abuse or harass the women is that fair for them to catch the blunt of it all?

Us guys can’t comprehend the amount of messages the girls receive as we get 20 a day if lucky they get hundreds just have some respect and decorum and things will get better"

I did an experiment once, it wasn't the result that people mention

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"And these daily threads from men moaning dont help.

What about the daily threads moaning about men?

These outnumber the moaning men threads I'd say.

At about 1000 to one.

A bit of an exaggeration there Granny "

Not much tho

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"I reply politely to almost all my messages, as long as they are not aggressive/abusive and more than a couple of words.

I’ve had abuse back 4 times in 2 years. Most reply with ‘thanks for the reply’

I have tight filters which reduce my messages, so appreciate my experiences may not be representative. I’m happy in my little corner of Fab. I understand why many ladies are not!"

We don't have filters but never get abuse from any person who mail us for a meet when we say no thanks.

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over a year ago


"I reply politely to almost all my messages, as long as they are not aggressive/abusive and more than a couple of words.

I’ve had abuse back 4 times in 2 years. Most reply with ‘thanks for the reply’

I have tight filters which reduce my messages, so appreciate my experiences may not be representative. I’m happy in my little corner of Fab. I understand why many ladies are not!

We don't have filters but never get abuse from any person who mail us for a meet when we say no thanks. "

But lots do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just women. There are plenty of moody people and complainers. I really don't understand why they stick around being all disgruntled. I wouldn't.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"I reply politely to almost all my messages, as long as they are not aggressive/abusive and more than a couple of words.

I’ve had abuse back 4 times in 2 years. Most reply with ‘thanks for the reply’

I have tight filters which reduce my messages, so appreciate my experiences may not be representative. I’m happy in my little corner of Fab. I understand why many ladies are not!

We don't have filters but never get abuse from any person who mail us for a meet when we say no thanks.

But lots do. "

I can't talk for "lots" only for ourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

But I done disrespect anyone or do anything like you’ve just said, I am getting it but your clearly not understanding where I’m coming from. "
. Yeah I do understand. You’re upset that women have an edge to them when you think you are just being polite. You asked why. Women are telling you why they are like that on this site and you’re just telling them that they’re wrong, they’re rude, they’re unfair. It’s also possible that sometimes they’re blunt rather than impolite. If your approach isn’t working try another because this post definitely would factor into my perspective on your attitude towards women. . I’m a genuinely nice person but I don’t owe anyone more of myself than I feel like giving just because they think they’re polite and deserve it. I understand you, you’re just not listening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think i understand the OP you send a polite message and you expect a polite message back.

I often send polite replies that lead to that person trying to change my mind or that person thinks their message is polite but to me its pushy or over familiar.

Part of the problem is expectation.

Expectation (no matter how well intended) often lead to disappointment."

This is absolutely the issue we have with replying to polite messages. It’s hard as I would like to be nice to everyone who’s nice, but the expectation that a reply means interest is tricky.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Some need to remember one little thing.... if you approach me on the street and say things like you do in an opening message here, I’d probably turn around and slap you.

Just because you are hiding behind a computer screen does not mean your basic manners have to disappear ! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men complain about women, it’s not the end of the world"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men complain about women, it’s not the end of the world

This "

How gorgeous are you!.xxx

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Why do men complain about women, it’s not the end of the world"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

But I done disrespect anyone or do anything like you’ve just said, I am getting it but your clearly not understanding where I’m coming from. . Yeah I do understand. You’re upset that women have an edge to them when you think you are just being polite. You asked why. Women are telling you why they are like that on this site and you’re just telling them that they’re wrong, they’re rude, they’re unfair. It’s also possible that sometimes they’re blunt rather than impolite. If your approach isn’t working try another because this post definitely would factor into my perspective on your attitude towards women. . I’m a genuinely nice person but I don’t owe anyone more of myself than I feel like giving just because they think they’re polite and deserve it. I understand you, you’re just not listening. "

No I don’t ask them why there being like that, why would I message someone to get an ill mannered reply back to then reply back and ask them what’s the issue.

People don’t owe no one any more than what you want to give them but there’s some level to respect, I’m not saying you have to be respectful but it says a lot about a person in my opinion.

Women are telling why there like that but why be like that with someone who hasn’t done anything wrong in regards of being respectful and polite, it’s not nothing personal to any women on this forum but people are taking it personal.

There’s no intention to disgruntle people so why take it to heart? There saying this and that why they are the way they are, it’s a bleeding swingers site for Christ sake, surely they understand there’s going to be a few inappropriate people on here but my point is why take it out on someone who is genuine and well mannered. I am listening to what your saying, your saying I have an attitude towards women when that’s not the case it’s only a selected few so how can you say I have an attitude towards women? Just because I state a few facts that means I have an attitude?! Behave yourself that’s nonsense.

Men might be the same I don’t know I don’t read men’s profiles or message men so I can’t speak on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will give you my opinion

My profile says I do NOT use kik

My profile says shadow profile pic messages will be deleted without opening.

Yet I get them asking to kik.

When your profile says you will post a meet when you are free but you get constant messages to meet

After a while it does grind you down

Needy men who think you have to reply keep messaging

Come on lads, act like men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting thread.

Bottom line for myself is that I’m never rude or disrespectful so if that happens I use the block button. My filters are high and I rarely get bad messages just ones that haven’t read my profile - it gets tiresome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

But I done disrespect anyone or do anything like you’ve just said, I am getting it but your clearly not understanding where I’m coming from. . Yeah I do understand. You’re upset that women have an edge to them when you think you are just being polite. You asked why. Women are telling you why they are like that on this site and you’re just telling them that they’re wrong, they’re rude, they’re unfair. It’s also possible that sometimes they’re blunt rather than impolite. If your approach isn’t working try another because this post definitely would factor into my perspective on your attitude towards women. . I’m a genuinely nice person but I don’t owe anyone more of myself than I feel like giving just because they think they’re polite and deserve it. I understand you, you’re just not listening.

No I don’t ask them why there being like that, why would I message someone to get an ill mannered reply back to then reply back and ask them what’s the issue.

People don’t owe no one any more than what you want to give them but there’s some level to respect, I’m not saying you have to be respectful but it says a lot about a person in my opinion.

Women are telling why there like that but why be like that with someone who hasn’t done anything wrong in regards of being respectful and polite, it’s not nothing personal to any women on this forum but people are taking it personal.

There’s no intention to disgruntle people so why take it to heart? There saying this and that why they are the way they are, it’s a bleeding swingers site for Christ sake, surely they understand there’s going to be a few inappropriate people on here but my point is why take it out on someone who is genuine and well mannered. I am listening to what your saying, your saying I have an attitude towards women when that’s not the case it’s only a selected few so how can you say I have an attitude towards women? Just because I state a few facts that means I have an attitude?! Behave yourself that’s nonsense.

Men might be the same I don’t know I don’t read men’s profiles or message men so I can’t speak on that. "

Why does it bother you this much?

Just block them and they won’t be rude to you again, problem solved.

As you said it’s a swingers site, so why harp on those who aren’t polite to you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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But I done disrespect anyone or do anything like you’ve just said, I am getting it but your clearly not understanding where I’m coming from. . Yeah I do understand. You’re upset that women have an edge to them when you think you are just being polite. You asked why. Women are telling you why they are like that on this site and you’re just telling them that they’re wrong, they’re rude, they’re unfair. It’s also possible that sometimes they’re blunt rather than impolite. If your approach isn’t working try another because this post definitely would factor into my perspective on your attitude towards women. . I’m a genuinely nice person but I don’t owe anyone more of myself than I feel like giving just because they think they’re polite and deserve it. I understand you, you’re just not listening.

No I don’t ask them why there being like that, why would I message someone to get an ill mannered reply back to then reply back and ask them what’s the issue.

People don’t owe no one any more than what you want to give them but there’s some level to respect, I’m not saying you have to be respectful but it says a lot about a person in my opinion.

Women are telling why there like that but why be like that with someone who hasn’t done anything wrong in regards of being respectful and polite, it’s not nothing personal to any women on this forum but people are taking it personal.

There’s no intention to disgruntle people so why take it to heart? There saying this and that why they are the way they are, it’s a bleeding swingers site for Christ sake, surely they understand there’s going to be a few inappropriate people on here but my point is why take it out on someone who is genuine and well mannered. I am listening to what your saying, your saying I have an attitude towards women when that’s not the case it’s only a selected few so how can you say I have an attitude towards women? Just because I state a few facts that means I have an attitude?! Behave yourself that’s nonsense.

Men might be the same I don’t know I don’t read men’s profiles or message men so I can’t speak on that.

Why does it bother you this much?

Just block them and they won’t be rude to you again, problem solved.

As you said it’s a swingers site, so why harp on those who aren’t polite to you?"

I’m just replying to comments on here it really doesn’t bother me I don’t go back and entertain them, it was just a topic I thought I’d bring up and some people take it to heart.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Wimmen, know your place!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"

But I done disrespect anyone or do anything like you’ve just said, I am getting it but your clearly not understanding where I’m coming from. . Yeah I do understand. You’re upset that women have an edge to them when you think you are just being polite. You asked why. Women are telling you why they are like that on this site and you’re just telling them that they’re wrong, they’re rude, they’re unfair. It’s also possible that sometimes they’re blunt rather than impolite. If your approach isn’t working try another because this post definitely would factor into my perspective on your attitude towards women. . I’m a genuinely nice person but I don’t owe anyone more of myself than I feel like giving just because they think they’re polite and deserve it. I understand you, you’re just not listening.

No I don’t ask them why there being like that, why would I message someone to get an ill mannered reply back to then reply back and ask them what’s the issue.

People don’t owe no one any more than what you want to give them but there’s some level to respect, I’m not saying you have to be respectful but it says a lot about a person in my opinion.

Women are telling why there like that but why be like that with someone who hasn’t done anything wrong in regards of being respectful and polite, it’s not nothing personal to any women on this forum but people are taking it personal.

There’s no intention to disgruntle people so why take it to heart? There saying this and that why they are the way they are, it’s a bleeding swingers site for Christ sake, surely they understand there’s going to be a few inappropriate people on here but my point is why take it out on someone who is genuine and well mannered. I am listening to what your saying, your saying I have an attitude towards women when that’s not the case it’s only a selected few so how can you say I have an attitude towards women? Just because I state a few facts that means I have an attitude?! Behave yourself that’s nonsense.

Men might be the same I don’t know I don’t read men’s profiles or message men so I can’t speak on that.

Why does it bother you this much?

Just block them and they won’t be rude to you again, problem solved.

As you said it’s a swingers site, so why harp on those who aren’t polite to you?

I’m just replying to comments on here it really doesn’t bother me I don’t go back and entertain them, it was just a topic I thought I’d bring up and some people take it to heart. "

Like you are! The irony.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone tell me what FAF means

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone tell me what FAF means "

Fancy a fuck (it's not an offer, it's an explanation!)

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Why do a lot of women on here take things so serious and personal?

Why do they sound so pissed off and negative in there description box or when replying with an answer to a question?

I’m not saying every woman on here is like that but what’s with the arrogance when ones only been polite?

I think some people need to get out more and not treat this place like it’s the be all and end all haha. "

Single women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone tell me what FAF means

Fancy a fuck (it's not an offer, it's an explanation!) "

Pmsl now I see thank you

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Bloody women hey? All the same, some of them. Wouldn't this site be great without them?

Oh wait.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

But I done disrespect anyone or do anything like you’ve just said, I am getting it but your clearly not understanding where I’m coming from. . Yeah I do understand. You’re upset that women have an edge to them when you think you are just being polite. You asked why. Women are telling you why they are like that on this site and you’re just telling them that they’re wrong, they’re rude, they’re unfair. It’s also possible that sometimes they’re blunt rather than impolite. If your approach isn’t working try another because this post definitely would factor into my perspective on your attitude towards women. . I’m a genuinely nice person but I don’t owe anyone more of myself than I feel like giving just because they think they’re polite and deserve it. I understand you, you’re just not listening.

No I don’t ask them why there being like that, why would I message someone to get an ill mannered reply back to then reply back and ask them what’s the issue.

People don’t owe no one any more than what you want to give them but there’s some level to respect, I’m not saying you have to be respectful but it says a lot about a person in my opinion.

Women are telling why there like that but why be like that with someone who hasn’t done anything wrong in regards of being respectful and polite, it’s not nothing personal to any women on this forum but people are taking it personal.

There’s no intention to disgruntle people so why take it to heart? There saying this and that why they are the way they are, it’s a bleeding swingers site for Christ sake, surely they understand there’s going to be a few inappropriate people on here but my point is why take it out on someone who is genuine and well mannered. I am listening to what your saying, your saying I have an attitude towards women when that’s not the case it’s only a selected few so how can you say I have an attitude towards women? Just because I state a few facts that means I have an attitude?! Behave yourself that’s nonsense.

Men might be the same I don’t know I don’t read men’s profiles or message men so I can’t speak on that.

Why does it bother you this much?

Just block them and they won’t be rude to you again, problem solved.

As you said it’s a swingers site, so why harp on those who aren’t polite to you?

I’m just replying to comments on here it really doesn’t bother me I don’t go back and entertain them, it was just a topic I thought I’d bring up and some people take it to heart.

Like you are! The irony."

I wouldn’t say I was taking it to heart haha you don’t see me getting all riled and upset do you, it’s a bleeding swingers site theres plenty more ways to go out and meet other people this isn’t the only option, it just goes to show what I mean people getting on all the defensive when’s it’s only a topic not an individual insult, I honestly couldn’t give a shit there’s more to life than sat on some website taking things to heart haha there’s a lot of women and I bet there is men aswell that are up there own arse and there’s no need for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bloody women hey? All the same, some of them. Wouldn't this site be great without them?

Oh wait..... "

No some are just up there own arse, it’s only a topic ffs hahaha

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Going to have to read all the comments, although your assumption is kind of rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bloody women hey? All the same, some of them. Wouldn't this site be great without them?

Oh wait..... "

No pussy, no swinging lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone tell me what FAF means

Fancy a fuck (it's not an offer, it's an explanation!)

Pmsl now I see thank you "

All this time I thought it meant funny as fuck, it all makes sense now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Going to have to read all the comments, although your assumption is kind of rude. "

Yep it is quite rude just like some of the people on here, someone said in here respect is not owed if you give it and no one owes you nothing more than they want to give you so it’s clear some people really arnt arsed how they speak to others, they will still be rude towards you whether your polite or not, that’s why some people are up there own arse, where I’ve not been rude to anyone individually but if people want to be rude to me because I’ve brought a topic up I will give just as good as I get which I’ve not been rude to anyone anyway.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Going to have to read all the comments, although your assumption is kind of rude.

Yep it is quite rude just like some of the people on here, someone said in here respect is not owed if you give it and no one owes you nothing more than they want to give you so it’s clear some people really arnt arsed how they speak to others, they will still be rude towards you whether your polite or not, that’s why some people are up there own arse, where I’ve not been rude to anyone individually but if people want to be rude to me because I’ve brought a topic up I will give just as good as I get which I’ve not been rude to anyone anyway. "

Look up ‘cognitive dissonance’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're probably sick of getting torrents of abuse for turning down "FAF" messages from guys who just send cock pictures."

Absolutely true!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Going to have to read all the comments, although your assumption is kind of rude.

Yep it is quite rude just like some of the people on here, someone said in here respect is not owed if you give it and no one owes you nothing more than they want to give you so it’s clear some people really arnt arsed how they speak to others, they will still be rude towards you whether your polite or not, that’s why some people are up there own arse, where I’ve not been rude to anyone individually but if people want to be rude to me because I’ve brought a topic up I will give just as good as I get which I’ve not been rude to anyone anyway.

Look up ‘cognitive dissonance’."

Why what evidence is proved to me that I’m wrong in what I’m saying? There’s no denying it some people are rude towards others that doesn’t take anything away from my topic because some people are up there own arse fuelled with arrogance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Going to have to read all the comments, although your assumption is kind of rude.

Yep it is quite rude just like some of the people on here, someone said in here respect is not owed if you give it and no one owes you nothing more than they want to give you so it’s clear some people really arnt arsed how they speak to others, they will still be rude towards you whether your polite or not, that’s why some people are up there own arse, where I’ve not been rude to anyone individually but if people want to be rude to me because I’ve brought a topic up I will give just as good as I get which I’ve not been rude to anyone anyway. "

Some people are just rude and oblivious to their behaviour. Then complain when others treat them the same way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Going to have to read all the comments, although your assumption is kind of rude.

Yep it is quite rude just like some of the people on here, someone said in here respect is not owed if you give it and no one owes you nothing more than they want to give you so it’s clear some people really arnt arsed how they speak to others, they will still be rude towards you whether your polite or not, that’s why some people are up there own arse, where I’ve not been rude to anyone individually but if people want to be rude to me because I’ve brought a topic up I will give just as good as I get which I’ve not been rude to anyone anyway.

Some people are just rude and oblivious to their behaviour. Then complain when others treat them the same way."

Clearly that’s incinerated at me, and your statement should be the other way round that’s why the topic was brought up in the first place, well if you’ve been getting it like I have today then clearly your going to fire back, my initial topic wasn’t directed at anyone impaticulor but when they start giving it you then you give it back simple as that, it’s a topic for fs clearly some people are moody because it hits a nerve with them when I’ve not personally insulted them or anything like that, and people are moody there’s no denying that fact and some are up there own arse, harsh? Maybe but I say it how it is, there’s some nice decent people on here I’m just pointing out a few that arnt do nice, maybe they are with other people I couldn’t give a shit but if you talk to me like shit I’ll give it back, don’t no why some people on here get so offended if it’s not direct criticism, just goes to show how moody you really are.

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By *andyladMan
over a year ago

Hereorthere

Insinuated

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Insinuated"

That’s the one fella

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By *andyladMan
over a year ago

Hereorthere

Couldn't resist

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Couldn't resist"

Fat thumbs on a speed dial haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Going to have to read all the comments, although your assumption is kind of rude.

Yep it is quite rude just like some of the people on here, someone said in here respect is not owed if you give it and no one owes you nothing more than they want to give you so it’s clear some people really arnt arsed how they speak to others, they will still be rude towards you whether your polite or not, that’s why some people are up there own arse, where I’ve not been rude to anyone individually but if people want to be rude to me because I’ve brought a topic up I will give just as good as I get which I’ve not been rude to anyone anyway.

Some people are just rude and oblivious to their behaviour. Then complain when others treat them the same way."

Yes, I’ve noticed that quite often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Going to have to read all the comments, although your assumption is kind of rude.

Yep it is quite rude just like some of the people on here, someone said in here respect is not owed if you give it and no one owes you nothing more than they want to give you so it’s clear some people really arnt arsed how they speak to others, they will still be rude towards you whether your polite or not, that’s why some people are up there own arse, where I’ve not been rude to anyone individually but if people want to be rude to me because I’ve brought a topic up I will give just as good as I get which I’ve not been rude to anyone anyway.

Some people are just rude and oblivious to their behaviour. Then complain when others treat them the same way.

Clearly that’s incinerated at me, and your statement should be the other way round that’s why the topic was brought up in the first place, well if you’ve been getting it like I have today then clearly your going to fire back, my initial topic wasn’t directed at anyone impaticulor but when they start giving it you then you give it back simple as that, it’s a topic for fs clearly some people are moody because it hits a nerve with them when I’ve not personally insulted them or anything like that, and people are moody there’s no denying that fact and some are up there own arse, harsh? Maybe but I say it how it is, there’s some nice decent people on here I’m just pointing out a few that arnt do nice, maybe they are with other people I couldn’t give a shit but if you talk to me like shit I’ll give it back, don’t no why some people on here get so offended if it’s not direct criticism, just goes to show how moody you really are. "

Sorry you've had a shit day.

No I wasn't meaning you at all. I meant other people.

I was agreeing with you. Re: the comment I quoted.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Some folk need to have a word with themselves. There are basically people here saying if a woman's a bitch, it's obviously a man's fault. If you're getting rude women replying to you, it's probably your own fault, you must have done something wrong. Some women are just bitches. Just because some guy sent you a shitty message doesn't give you the right to be shitty to every guy who messages you from then on.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm a right moody cow, I blame hormones.

I'm never rude though!

Jo.Xx

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I don’t get or give the abuse people are talking about. My experience on here is very different to that.

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"Some folk need to have a word with themselves. There are basically people here saying if a woman's a bitch, it's obviously a man's fault. If you're getting rude women replying to you, it's probably your own fault, you must have done something wrong. Some women are just bitches. Just because some guy sent you a shitty message doesn't give you the right to be shitty to every guy who messages you from th on. "

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I don’t get or give the abuse people are talking about. My experience on here is very different to that. "

So is mine, the abusive messages I've had over several years is probably in single figures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im much more a cunt than most the girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t get or give the abuse people are talking about. My experience on here is very different to that. "

Same here ... maybe a few ignorant message per year, never a rude reply back and I reply to 98% of my messages

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Can the person in the thread who said they fancy my bits off please pm me? Ta muchly.

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