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By *im and her Herts OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

This is a slight annoyance/wonderment for us.

Who else feel that when people send friend invite requests when they’ve never ever contacted or even winked us is plain lazy and just disappointingly rude?

Do you accept them?

Do you make an exception if the sender is attractive to you?

Be good to hear your thoughts?

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We wait till they are not online then accept friends request, fab a photo and then unfriend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a slight annoyance/wonderment for us.

Who else feel that when people send friend invite requests when they’ve never ever contacted or even winked us is plain lazy and just disappointingly rude?

Do you accept them?

Do you make an exception if the sender is attractive to you?

Be good to hear your thoughts?

"
if they are attractive its only fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We wait till they are not online then accept friends request, fab a photo and then unfriend "

You sneaky Devils I like that one hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a slight annoyance/wonderment for us.

Who else feel that when people send friend invite requests when they’ve never ever contacted or even winked us is plain lazy and just disappointingly rude?

Do you accept them?

Do you make an exception if the sender is attractive to you?

Be good to hear your thoughts?

"

I never accept random friend requests. If they have some photos showing as for friends only, I wait until they are offline, accept, take peek then unfriend. Even if I liked what I saw, I would still not take things any further, I too find it annoyingly rude.

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

Won't accept any of them all they want is to look at your private naughty pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Won't accept any of them all they want is to look at your private naughty pics"
do you have any?

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

I don't accept them. I have my face in my friends only and I only want certain people to see those.

It definitely comes across as lazy if we haven't spoken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just ignore the friend invite, that way they can’t keep sending, now and again I’ll accept one or two, then delete once perved on the pics

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By *oreno0969Man
over a year ago

Rugby

I will always message and talk fona bit first then ask if i can send a request id never just send one. I think those that do just want to have some extra material. You wouldnt do it on facebook so why here? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We wait till they are not online then accept friends request, fab a photo and then unfriend "

This Or I'll just block them if I'm in a grumpy mood.

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool


"Won't accept any of them all they want is to look at your private naughty picsdo you have any? "
yes I have loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Won't accept any of them all they want is to look at your private naughty picsdo you have any? yes I have loads"
friend request in post

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I just ignore them

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool


"Won't accept any of them all they want is to look at your private naughty picsdo you have any? yes I have loadsfriend request in post "
there's a sneek preview since we don't add single males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We wait till they are not online then accept friends request, fab a photo and then unfriend "

I do this also. I don’t fab their pics though, just have a nosy at who they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We wait till they are not online then accept friends request, fab a photo and then unfriend "

Love it

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By *STWO65Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"This is a slight annoyance/wonderment for us.

Who else feel that when people send friend invite requests when they’ve never ever contacted or even winked us is plain lazy and just disappointingly rude?

Do you accept them?

Do you make an exception if the sender is attractive to you?

Be good to hear your thoughts?

"

We just think that they are a bunch of ignorant rude wankers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a slight annoyance/wonderment for us.

Who else feel that when people send friend invite requests when they’ve never ever contacted or even winked us is plain lazy and just disappointingly rude?

Do you accept them?

Do you make an exception if the sender is attractive to you?

Be good to hear your thoughts?

"

Never. Need to have met them first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Won't accept any of them all they want is to look at your private naughty picsdo you have any? yes I have loadsfriend request in post there's a sneek preview since we don't add single males"
omg love your doors

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I accept them, look at their pics then unfriend but only if they look like they might have potential.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I accept them, look at their pics then unfriend but only if they look like they might have potential."
i have potential surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never accept. It usually guys wanting a perv

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By *ackenzie-LeighWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

I've got it stated on my profile that if someone sends me a friend request without even talking to me, I'll block them. It's amazing how many people don't read profiles because my block list is becoming huge!

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I send them a polite message saying its normally polite to talk before sending a friend request. Funny how many block me after that

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By *moothman2000Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"We wait till they are not online then accept friends request, fab a photo and then unfriend "

That is probably the funniest thing I've read on here this week...

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By *im and her Herts OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"We wait till they are not online then accept friends request, fab a photo and then unfriend "

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've only received 1 & that was from a member I know from last time I was here.

I almost missed it because I'm not used to seeing them. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I choose my friends carefully based on lots of things especially that sense that I may be able to trust them...

It works rather well for me....

Most of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends invite what's that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t accept them. If we like a profile we may message them off the back of the request. We only send them with permission or once sent a few based on a post on the forums but someone got upset we’d requested despite being in on the post lol

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

16 currently waiting for me to delete or accept, non spoke to me prior the request. I don't delete as those people can't send another, I imagine it's to see my friends only pictures rather than get to know me.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"I accept them, look at their pics then unfriend but only if they look like they might have potential."

I do same on single profile

Jack tends to block them if we get a friend req no other contact ,on this profile.

Miss

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By *STWO65Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"Friends invite what's that? "

Couples and single women get friends invite everyday from people that they have never spoken to and don't even fit in with what they are looking for.

Why on earth would they want to be friends without having chatted on here to someone first, and clearly not having anything in common according to their profiles??

We are constantly up against this crap.

Then single guys post on here asking why they are ignored..

We aren't saying all single guys, but a fair few do this and they know who they are.

And the REALLY sad thing? Some couples do it as well.

What about mutual respect? Is it lost when you can hide behind a keyboard.

We had this happen the other day to us.

The guy has photos of his car on his profile. We could find him in in 15 minutes.

Why behave so rudely? Would these people behave like this face to face in a club?

No they wouldn't.

Sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore them

It’s super easy to do

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By *uscious_Lady1Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

Never accept them, although after reading this thread I think I’ll wait till they’re offline and have a quick peek then delete lol what a great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only accept friend requests from men

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By *im and her Herts OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"Never accept them, although after reading this thread I think I’ll wait till they’re offline and have a quick peek then delete lol what a great idea "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only accept friend requests from men "

This

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By *atisfying jackMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"This is a slight annoyance/wonderment for us.

Who else feel that when people send friend invite requests when they’ve never ever contacted or even winked us is plain lazy and just disappointingly rude?

Do you accept them?

Do you make an exception if the sender is attractive to you?

Be good to hear your thoughts?

"

Nope, I've had a few an not accepted any, even if they did look intresting, it's strange as all they have is my profile text and shoes, at least they could talk to me first.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I accepted one today. First for months.

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By *rimtonMan
over a year ago

Bromley

Or you get a lovely girl accept your friend request, yay.

Then tell you it was a mistake.

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