FabSwingers.com forum: Opinion poll time

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

20 a day smoker who gets themselves scrupulously clean before a meet when meeting non smokers.

Doesn't smoke on the meet but may vape.

Considers themself a non-smoker as that's what those they meet with will be privy to (plus it limits the number of people who will meet them of course)

What are they really?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Smoker. If you smoke you're a smoker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Smoker. If you smoke you're a smoker. "

This

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By *atisfying jackMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Yep no idea how they could be anything but a smoker!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"20 a day smoker who gets themselves scrupulously clean before a meet when meeting non smokers.

Doesn't smoke on the meet but may vape.

Considers themself a non-smoker as that's what those they meet with will be privy to (plus it limits the number of people who will meet them of course)

What are they really?"

A liar and a smoker.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

A smoker

Just because you don’t on a meet, your still a smoker

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

Definitly a smoker

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Smoker. Impossible for a smoker to be "scrupulously clean". Non smokers can smell it straight away.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Smoker. I try to be considerate when I meet. I won't light up before I meet them but I probably do still smell of smoke. I try and meet fellow smokers now so as not to be so conscious of it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smoker.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Smoker. I try to be considerate when I meet. I won't light up before I meet them but I probably do still smell of smoke. I try and meet fellow smokers now so as not to be so conscious of it x"

I'm like that. I know it stinks so normally get on best with those I meet in the smoking area at a club, feel guilty otherwise and of course it's normally pretty busy!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Smoker. Impossible for a smoker to be "scrupulously clean". Non smokers can smell it straight away. "

'tis true.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Smoker. I try to be considerate when I meet. I won't light up before I meet them but I probably do still smell of smoke. I try and meet fellow smokers now so as not to be so conscious of it x

I'm like that. I know it stinks so normally get on best with those I meet in the smoking area at a club, feel guilty otherwise and of course it's normally pretty busy!

Smoking area is great to hang out in. Loads of random conversations. I've had guys say they'll meet smokers but in a club I smoke more, cos I usually have a couple of drinks. They've made comments after, still fucked me though!!!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"20 a day smoker who gets themselves scrupulously clean before a meet when meeting non smokers.

Doesn't smoke on the meet but may vape.

Considers themself a non-smoker as that's what those they meet with will be privy to (plus it limits the number of people who will meet them of course)

What are they really?"

Sounds like a fab straight argument to me... Just trying to convince themselves something that they're not.

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By *ommickMan
over a year ago

cork

I've no problems meeting with a smoker as long as they brush teeth etc but would find it hard to live with one

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I only smoke when I go out which is usually every other Friday but I still say I'm a smoker. I don't smoke at all any other time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I only smoke when I go out which is usually every other Friday but I still say I'm a smoker. I don't smoke at all any other time. "

This is my way of thinking. If a vegetarian eats meat only on Tuesdays, they ain't a vegetarian!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I only smoke when I go out which is usually every other Friday but I still say I'm a smoker. I don't smoke at all any other time.

This is my way of thinking. If a vegetarian eats meat only on Tuesdays, they ain't a vegetarian!

Exactly me wench

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the same way, if I drink a bottle of vodka every night, but then abstain on the day of a meet, it doesn't make me tee-total

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you smoke there's no point hiding it. I'm always getting approached by those that say they won't meet smokers. I do remind them if i decide i want to meet them. I'm considerate like op to an extent but i wouldn't consider pretending to be a nonsmoker, honesty is far more important.

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By *moothman2000Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Smoker. Impossible for a smoker to be "scrupulously clean". Non smokers can smell it straight away. "

Find it really obvious since I quit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smoker definitely. I never smoke when I meet people and don’t smoke much but I’m still a smoker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"20 a day smoker who gets themselves scrupulously clean before a meet when meeting non smokers.

Doesn't smoke on the meet but may vape.

Considers themself a non-smoker as that's what those they meet with will be privy to (plus it limits the number of people who will meet them of course)

What are they really?

A liar and a smoker. "

This!

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"20 a day smoker who gets themselves scrupulously clean before a meet when meeting non smokers.

Doesn't smoke on the meet but may vape.

Considers themself a non-smoker as that's what those they meet with will be privy to (plus it limits the number of people who will meet them of course)

What are they really?"

A wet Egyptian

They're in ... here it comes ... denial

They're a deceptive smoker

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What about jizz/poonani? Does smokers baby batter/tuna tunnel taste different to non smokers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Smoker. Impossible for a smoker to be "scrupulously clean". Non smokers can smell it straight away.

Find it really obvious since I quit."

Me too. I think ex-smokers can smell it even more than non-smokers do. It’s like I’ve got a go go gadget nose, just for detecting the smell of tobacco.

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

"Smoker. I try to be considerate when I meet. I won't light up before I meet them but I probably do still smell of smoke. I try and meet fellow smokers now so as not to be so conscious of it x

I'm like that. I know it stinks so normally get on best with those I meet in the smoking area at a club, feel guilty otherwise and of course it's normally pretty busy!

Couldn't agree more. I've met, chatted to, made friends and had sexy liaisons with so many people from smoking area conversations. Nothing better than forcing a random group of people into a confined area!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"20 a day smoker who gets themselves scrupulously clean before a meet when meeting non smokers.

Doesn't smoke on the meet but may vape.

Considers themself a non-smoker as that's what those they meet with will be privy to (plus it limits the number of people who will meet them of course)

What are they really?

Sounds like a fab straight argument to me... Just trying to convince themselves something that they're not."

Interesting....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So what if they meet those who won't meet smokers and all went well. No suspicions raised. Everyone on the meet had a wonderful time, left smiling and satisfied.

Does it matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay, how about from this point of view...

Man turns up and there's no sign of a wedding ring, but after a bit you notice the callus where the ring rubs. So does not wearing a wedding ring doesn't make you single? I don't think so.

If you're a smoker you're a smoker. That's your choice and I'd still be happy to meet you - might not kiss much, but still plenty of fun to be had.

Having said that was out with a girl last who smokes in her car. When I got home I had to shower and put all my clothes in the wash – she’s a friend and we had only gone for a drink, and other than a hug, no body contact whatsoever, but still felt I stank of smoke...

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"So what if they meet those who won't meet smokers and all went well. No suspicions raised. Everyone on the meet had a wonderful time, left smiling and satisfied.

Does it matter?"

If people are happy to lie to themselves to make their life better...carry on.

Don't do it to me or have your bullshit lies fuck up others I love.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Okay, how about from this point of view...

Man turns up and there's no sign of a wedding ring, but after a bit you notice the callus where the ring rubs. So does not wearing a wedding ring doesn't make you single? I don't think so.

If you're a smoker you're a smoker. That's your choice and I'd still be happy to meet you - might not kiss much, but still plenty of fun to be had.

Indeed. If it walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck... wearing a goose costume doesn't change things in my view.

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Smoker. Impossible for a smoker to be "scrupulously clean". Non smokers can smell it straight away. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you smoke there's no point hiding it. I'm always getting approached by those that say they won't meet smokers. I do remind them if i decide i want to meet them. I'm considerate like op to an extent but i wouldn't consider pretending to be a nonsmoker, honesty is far more important."

Giving people the right to make an informed decision. Simple.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Smoker. I try to be considerate when I meet. I won't light up before I meet them but I probably do still smell of smoke. I try and meet fellow smokers now so as not to be so conscious of it x

I'm like that. I know it stinks so normally get on best with those I meet in the smoking area at a club, feel guilty otherwise and of course it's normally pretty busy!

I hang out in the smoking area at SX as I like to cool down out there and chat.....

I could sit in the garden but better convo round the corner lol

Oh and I've not smoked in years!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Smoker. I try to be considerate when I meet. I won't light up before I meet them but I probably do still smell of smoke. I try and meet fellow smokers now so as not to be so conscious of it x

I'm like that. I know it stinks so normally get on best with those I meet in the smoking area at a club, feel guilty otherwise and of course it's normally pretty busy!

I hang out in the smoking area at SX as I like to cool down out there and chat.....

I could sit in the garden but better convo round the corner lol

Oh and I've not smoked in years!

I feel like there's just a lot less pressure in the smoking areas too for some reason. Like I'm not being ogled to the point retinas are burning into me!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I think don't lie. Be honest to yourself and others, it only comes back to bite you on the arse and people pleasing to benefit yourself is a really ugly trait.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I hang out in the smoking area at SX as I like to cool down out there and chat.....

I could sit in the garden but better convo round the corner lol

Oh and I've not smoked in years!

I find that it's easier to join in conversations in the smoking area x

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"I hang out in the smoking area at SX as I like to cool down out there and chat.....

I could sit in the garden but better convo round the corner lol

Oh and I've not smoked in years!

I find that it's easier to join in conversations in the smoking area x"

Its usually a little quieter too as music is inside x

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

As others have said, they are a smoker, one of the more minor lies people spout on here though.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Smoker. I try to be considerate when I meet. I won't light up before I meet them but I probably do still smell of smoke. I try and meet fellow smokers now so as not to be so conscious of it x

I'm like that. I know it stinks so normally get on best with those I meet in the smoking area at a club, feel guilty otherwise and of course it's normally pretty busy!

I hang out in the smoking area at SX as I like to cool down out there and chat.....

I could sit in the garden but better convo round the corner lol

Oh and I've not smoked in years!

I feel like there's just a lot less pressure in the smoking areas too for some reason. Like I'm not being ogled to the point retinas are burning into me!

Don't be so gorgeous then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smoker in denial be proud dont bow to the pressure of the bleeters 20 yrs ago almost everyone was a smoker 80 yrs ago it was good for you but thats a battle for another day smoking nazis have a lot to answer for and most of them are former smokers

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Smoker. Impossible for a smoker to be "scrupulously clean". Non smokers can smell it straight away.

'tis true. "

even if someone hasn't smoked beforehand. Fresh clean clothes..showered, hair done..spray of your favourite perfume?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Nailed on smoker.

Until I quit 3 years ago I didn't realise how noticeable the smell of a smoker is (doesn't bother me in the slightest and I will meet and have met smokers) but it did surprise me when I first quit how much I noticed it, when as a smoker I thought otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What i dont get is if an alcoholic is always a alcoholic even when they stop drinking why isnt a former smoker still classed as a smoker i stopped 5 yrs before starting again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What i dont get is if an alcoholic is always a alcoholic even when they stop drinking why isnt a former smoker still classed as a smoker i stopped 5 yrs before starting again "

I think they're a recovering alcoholic once they stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What i dont get is if an alcoholic is always a alcoholic even when they stop drinking why isnt a former smoker still classed as a smoker i stopped 5 yrs before starting again

I think they're a recovering alcoholic once they stop.

P"
exactly recovering but always will be alcoholic

But nobodys a recovering smoker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What i dont get is if an alcoholic is always a alcoholic even when they stop drinking why isnt a former smoker still classed as a smoker i stopped 5 yrs before starting again "

Fair point. (For a change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What i dont get is if an alcoholic is always a alcoholic even when they stop drinking why isnt a former smoker still classed as a smoker i stopped 5 yrs before starting again

Fair point. (For a change

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