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"Really! Blimey! I always keep my phone handy during meets or when I'm socialising for my parents to be able to contact me so my emotional baggage goes the other way "Yeah, I get that, but one of my ex's had Sunday as a phone her family day, which is cool   | |||
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"Really! Blimey! I always keep my phone handy during meets or when I'm socialising for my parents to be able to contact me so my emotional baggage goes the other way
Yeah, I get that, but one of my ex's had Sunday as a phone her family day, which is cool "We had a brief period when the kids were old enough to leave us alone and my parents well enough to be left alone. . We always laugh about just getting the kids off hand and they're replaced by my parents.
I think if I was on a date with someone and they kept chatting to their ex I'd leave them to it. I did have a friend who was in constant touch with her adult children when we were out together. I gave up on the end. | |||
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"Really! Blimey! I always keep my phone handy during meets or when I'm socialising for my parents to be able to contact me so my emotional baggage goes the other way
Yeah, I get that, but one of my ex's had Sunday as a phone her family day, which is cool
We had a brief period when the kids were old enough to leave us alone and my parents well enough to be left alone. . We always laugh about just getting the kids off hand and they're replaced by my parents.
I think if I was on a date with someone and they kept chatting to their ex I'd leave them to it. I did have a friend who was in constant touch with her adult children when we were out together. I gave up on the end. "Most of the women I've had relationships with, I've met their ex and we've got along just fine and in some cases become good friends
What gives me grief though is when you are talking to the lady of your desire, and she's constantly on the phone to someone else   | |||
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"Well I've 4 grown up kids and several grandkids,I'm not on the phone to them constantly but il always put them first" Yeah, I understand that, obviously family has to come first | |||
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"Really! Blimey! I always keep my phone handy during meets or when I'm socialising for my parents to be able to contact me so my emotional baggage goes the other way
Yeah, I get that, but one of my ex's had Sunday as a phone her family day, which is cool
We had a brief period when the kids were old enough to leave us alone and my parents well enough to be left alone. . We always laugh about just getting the kids off hand and they're replaced by my parents.
I think if I was on a date with someone and they kept chatting to their ex I'd leave them to it. I did have a friend who was in constant touch with her adult children when we were out together. I gave up on the end.
Most of the women I've had relationships with, I've met their ex and we've got along just fine and in some cases become good friends
What gives me grief though is when you are talking to the lady of your desire, and she's constantly on the phone to someone else "Yep, it's very disheartening, especially when you don't get much time together. Makes you feel like you're not exiting or intersting enough to hold their attention. If it's sorting out younger kids or in contact with their partner tho then that's understandable for me. P | |||
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"Yep, it's very disheartening, especially when you don't get much time together. Makes you feel like you're not exiting or intersting enough to hold their attention. If it's sorting out younger kids or in contact with their partner tho then that's understandable for me. P" I makes me feel like confiscating their phone sometimes | |||
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"Couldn't agree more! Go out with friends and they're talking on the phone ... no emergencies etc! I walk off tbh I have kids and other responsibilities, always have my phone with me but have no need to chat with others when I'm off out or with friends! Unfortunately it's the way the world has become and lots are missing out on life for the need to be be online etc Their loss but personally have no need for it ... " Exactly, if it's an emergency, then fair enough, but just to rattle to random people that you could talk to any other time is not cool in my opinion. Let them know that you are out, and I'll text/call you later | |||
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"Yep, it's very disheartening, especially when you don't get much time together. Makes you feel like you're not exiting or intersting enough to hold their attention. If it's sorting out younger kids or in contact with their partner tho then that's understandable for me. P I makes me feel like confiscating their phone sometimes "I think it is rude. We now have a drawer that any adult children have to put their phones in when they enter the house....they get very twitchy after a while  | |||
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"Yep, it's very disheartening, especially when you don't get much time together. Makes you feel like you're not exiting or intersting enough to hold their attention. If it's sorting out younger kids or in contact with their partner tho then that's understandable for me. P I makes me feel like confiscating their phone sometimes
I think it is rude. We now have a drawer that any adult children have to put their phones in when they enter the house....they get very twitchy after a while "*raids Ruggers drawer and reads all of their texts  | |||
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"Yep, it's very disheartening, especially when you don't get much time together. Makes you feel like you're not exiting or intersting enough to hold their attention. If it's sorting out younger kids or in contact with their partner tho then that's understandable for me. P I makes me feel like confiscating their phone sometimes
I think it is rude. We now have a drawer that any adult children have to put their phones in when they enter the house....they get very twitchy after a while "We have a phone ban in the house for social times too! | |||
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"Yep, it's very disheartening, especially when you don't get much time together. Makes you feel like you're not exiting or intersting enough to hold their attention. If it's sorting out younger kids or in contact with their partner tho then that's understandable for me. P I makes me feel like confiscating their phone sometimes
I think it is rude. We now have a drawer that any adult children have to put their phones in when they enter the house....they get very twitchy after a while
*raids Ruggers drawer and reads all of their texts "The top one will be " the pigging oldies are stopping me using the phone again, how am I going to cope !!" I do think it rude though when you are out with someone and they are constantly checking phones or on the phone. We were at a restaurant once where there was a round table of eight women...all were on their phones and not talking to each other, then one shouted "selfie", they all smiled for the selfie and then went back to their phones and not talking 
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"Yep, it's very disheartening, especially when you don't get much time together. Makes you feel like you're not exiting or intersting enough to hold their attention. If it's sorting out younger kids or in contact with their partner tho then that's understandable for me. P I makes me feel like confiscating their phone sometimes
I think it is rude. We now have a drawer that any adult children have to put their phones in when they enter the house....they get very twitchy after a while
*raids Ruggers drawer and reads all of their texts
The top one will be " the pigging oldies are stopping me using the phone again, how am I going to cope !!"
I do think it rude though when you are out with someone and they are constantly checking phones or on the phone.
We were at a restaurant once where there was a round table of eight women...all were on their phones and not talking to each other, then one shouted "selfie", they all smiled for the selfie and then went back to their phones and not talking
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"As for being glued to social media while in company, that is annoying and obvious addiction." That is almost my point entirely, why would someone take the piss by constantly being on their phone during a meet? | |||
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"As for being glued to social media while in company, that is annoying and obvious addiction. That is almost my point entirely, why would someone take the piss by constantly being on their phone during a meet? " Some men do this too, I never have my phone out of my bag during a meet...unless they are constantly checking theirs | |||
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"As for being glued to social media while in company, that is annoying and obvious addiction. That is almost my point entirely, why would someone take the piss by constantly being on their phone during a meet? Some men do this too, I never have my phone out of my bag during a meet...unless they are constantly checking theirs "It's definitely not gender specific and is seen across the board by a lot of under 50s. | |||
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"It's definitely not gender specific and is seen across the board by a lot of under 50s." No respect for the person that they're meeting then? | |||
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"It's definitely not gender specific and is seen across the board by a lot of under 50s. No respect for the person that they're meeting then?" It certainly can come across as disrespect but I think in most cases it is actually down to obsessive behaviour and unintended rudeness. It does remind me of the concept of 'The Matrix' sometimes. Some people are just not comfortable to exist mostly in the physical present and seek to be constantly engaged in the virtual reality of social media. It's the sane with holiday makers who video everywhere and experience most of their break through a lense or monitor. | |||
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"It's definitely not gender specific and is seen across the board by a lot of under 50s. No respect for the person that they're meeting then? It certainly can come across as disrespect but I think in most cases it is actually down to obsessive behaviour and unintended rudeness. It does remind me of the concept of 'The Matrix' sometimes. Some people are just not comfortable to exist mostly in the physical present and seek to be constantly engaged in the virtual reality of social media. It's the sane with holiday makers who video everywhere and experience most of their break through a lense or monitor." I fully understand that, but why can people pay you a little bit of attention then talk to someone else for a few hours, when they can do it at a prearranged time | |||
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"It's definitely not gender specific and is seen across the board by a lot of under 50s. No respect for the person that they're meeting then? It certainly can come across as disrespect but I think in most cases it is actually down to obsessive behaviour and unintended rudeness. It does remind me of the concept of 'The Matrix' sometimes. Some people are just not comfortable to exist mostly in the physical present and seek to be constantly engaged in the virtual reality of social media. It's the sane with holiday makers who video everywhere and experience most of their break through a lense or monitor. I fully understand that, but why can people pay you a little bit of attention then talk to someone else for a few hours, when they can do it at a prearranged time "I'm guessing in many cases that's coming down to their priorities. Also it often comes down to them being available on demand to a dramatic friend or family member who they are effectively dominated by ( but that's getting into codependence / manipulation territory, which is a whole other discussion )  | |||
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"It's definitely not gender specific and is seen across the board by a lot of under 50s. No respect for the person that they're meeting then? It certainly can come across as disrespect but I think in most cases it is actually down to obsessive behaviour and unintended rudeness. It does remind me of the concept of 'The Matrix' sometimes. Some people are just not comfortable to exist mostly in the physical present and seek to be constantly engaged in the virtual reality of social media. It's the sane with holiday makers who video everywhere and experience most of their break through a lense or monitor." Well we've managed to do it for generations so I just think it's more rudeness than anything else sorry ... the internet and mobiles haven't really been around long! | |||
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"It's definitely not gender specific and is seen across the board by a lot of under 50s. No respect for the person that they're meeting then? It certainly can come across as disrespect but I think in most cases it is actually down to obsessive behaviour and unintended rudeness. It does remind me of the concept of 'The Matrix' sometimes. Some people are just not comfortable to exist mostly in the physical present and seek to be constantly engaged in the virtual reality of social media. It's the sane with holiday makers who video everywhere and experience most of their break through a lense or monitor. I fully understand that, but why can people pay you a little bit of attention then talk to someone else for a few hours, when they can do it at a prearranged time
I'm guessing in many cases that's coming down to their priorities. Also it often comes down to them being available on demand to a dramatic friend or family member who they are effectively dominated by ( but that's getting into codependence / manipulation territory, which is a whole other discussion ) "I know someone like that. It's impossible to break my friend away from the manipulator. | |||
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"Really! Blimey! I always keep my phone handy during meets or when I'm socialising for my parents to be able to contact me so my emotional baggage goes the other way
Yeah, I get that, but one of my ex's had Sunday as a phone her family day, which is cool
We had a brief period when the kids were old enough to leave us alone and my parents well enough to be left alone. . We always laugh about just getting the kids off hand and they're replaced by my parents.
I think if I was on a date with someone and they kept chatting to their ex I'd leave them to it. I did have a friend who was in constant touch with her adult children when we were out together. I gave up on the end.
Most of the women I've had relationships with, I've met their ex and we've got along just fine and in some cases become good friends
What gives me grief though is when you are talking to the lady of your desire, and she's constantly on the phone to someone else "I think that's rude and disrespectful of them. You are worth more than being second hand to their phone. Bin them off and find someone who appreciates you. | |||
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"What gives me grief though is when you are talking to the lady of your desire, and she's constantly on the phone to someone else
I think that's rude and disrespectful of them. You are worth more than being second hand to their phone. Bin them off and find someone who appreciates you. "Yeah, being disrespectful is what really grinds my gears, I've got no beef with anyone that needs to get in touch with somebody in an emergency. It fries ma tits though when someone totally ignores you mid conversation... | |||
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" As for being on the phone. A lot of people who suffer from anxiety or are feeling awkward will use their phone to avoid looking nervous, or to avoid social interaction. " I wonder what they did before mobile phones were invented | |||
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"I wonder what they did before mobile phones were invented" I'll send you a smoke signal or a morse code message anyday Ruggers  | |||
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