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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I keep seeing statuses where women on fab are complaining about having 100’s of messages to sift through and wondered on average how many do people get (men and women)?

I’ll start by admitting I only get about 2-3 per day, of which nearly all are responses...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally about 8-10 a day

Hundreds is a huge exaggeration

If you change your profile pic or put up new pics you tend to get an increase in messages but I think the most I got in the first week in one day was around 40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on how long I am on here but around 20 - 30 an hour I would say far more if I upload photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get hundreds.

I cant speak for others but I think it depends on whether you put new pics up etc..

I average around 10 - 20 messages a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One too many.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well my average of a few a day now doesn’t sound so bad! Here was me thinking I’ve been doing it wrong!!

You’re definitely right though I think you have to be an “active” member to get more attention so posting on a forum, uploading a new pic.... all good ideas I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so we’re ranging from 8-10 a day to 40 An hour!

Posting new pics clearly seems to be the key, what other advice ladies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get several a day if we are chatting to someone we already know, but "first contact" messages, I reckon we get less than 1 a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back when I started first it was relentless, hundreds a day before I'd even uploaded a pic! It's tapered off now, I think my wall of text profile puts people off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Normally about 8-10 a day

Hundreds is a huge exaggeration

If you change your profile pic or put up new pics you tend to get an increase in messages but I think the most I got in the first week in one day was around 40"

It's not a huge exaggeration I can assure you . I know lots of single females on here, and when we catch up they show me their phones. It's annoying for them as they get to miss the decent ones. They also have their filters set. I'm glad I'm only a single male and don't get a huge amount of messages.

Even then if I don't think to save them. I find it frustrating when they go into cyber space

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to sift through about 3 a month. So time consuming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm meeting being active new photos etc then yes I get hundreds. I've been hid most of today and I've had about 10

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It varies and very much depends on whether I have "active" conversations going on etc

What you have to remember OP is the nature of the site and balance of men to women here means that women will get a lot more than men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 50 mainly from my woman or friends

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I think for most guys like me I send more than I receive and I think for having been on this site for this long I only ever got one straight out message I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We usually get a couple of messages per week.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The messages from the guys have defo made me feel slightly better about my fab experience it seems we are all suffering from the same thing!

Perhaps it’s all about the headline.....

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

At the moment, my messages received are NIL.

But, I'm not meeting at present, so obviously, no-one is messaging me!

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

On average zero. But it's cool, as I send on average zero

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

I get around 50 per day, god knows how the women and couples cope! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

about 10 but if I've chatted in the forums usually 20+

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

I'm not sure, but I currently have over 1000 unread. I've been here for 8 days. And then obviously I actually have those I've replied to and talk to.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I changed all my settings last week

Apart from existing friends

I have had NO new messages for 3 days

I actually don't dread logging on anymore

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

It differs - normally only get them through forum chats.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I'm not sure, but I currently have over 1000 unread. I've been here for 8 days. And then obviously I actually have those I've replied to and talk to."

Note to self - don't send message.

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way


"I'm not sure, but I currently have over 1000 unread. I've been here for 8 days. And then obviously I actually have those I've replied to and talk to.

Note to self - don't send message. "

I hardly see any of the ones I actually want to reply to lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 600 a day on average

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I'm not sure, but I currently have over 1000 unread. I've been here for 8 days. And then obviously I actually have those I've replied to and talk to.

Note to self - don't send message.

I hardly see any of the ones I actually want to reply to lol."

That's me out then. Lol

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way


"I'm not sure, but I currently have over 1000 unread. I've been here for 8 days. And then obviously I actually have those I've replied to and talk to.

Note to self - don't send message.

I hardly see any of the ones I actually want to reply to lol.

That's me out then. Lol"

Oh stop! Haha

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I'm not sure, but I currently have over 1000 unread. I've been here for 8 days. And then obviously I actually have those I've replied to and talk to.

Note to self - don't send message.

I hardly see any of the ones I actually want to reply to lol.

That's me out then. Lol

Oh stop! Haha"

OK. I'll do as I told. (this once)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can get a few in bunches but since I made my profile so specific on purpose, I have reduced them which I am fine with. So I may get half a dozen or more now instead of a load from unsuitable profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually 0 but have got the odd one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say at least 40 a day which sounds unbelievable but is really a nightmare to get through! x

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

I maybe get 1 a year

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way


"I'm not sure, but I currently have over 1000 unread. I've been here for 8 days. And then obviously I actually have those I've replied to and talk to.

Note to self - don't send message.

I hardly see any of the ones I actually want to reply to lol.

That's me out then. Lol

Oh stop! Haha

OK. I'll do as I told. (this once) "

Haha good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far a grand total of 0 for me ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a completely unrelated note: why does it show two question marks when it's supposed to be a laughing face?

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way


"On a completely unrelated note: why does it show two question marks when it's supposed to be a laughing face?"

You cant use your phone emojis. It will just show as the question marks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a completely unrelated note: why does it show two question marks when it's supposed to be a laughing face?"

Because the site only accepts the emojis on here and not from a phone.

On average 20 ish a day. If I'm really active on the forums or add new photos it goes up dramatically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drat, ok 'lol' will have to do then... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 people with a total of 37 messages between them... quality not quantity counts though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get many messages.. I think women are spoilt for choice so why would they chase men so much?

Personally speaking I only need the right message that sparks my interest rather than a flood of small talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

12 yesterday. Day before none. Filters set so don't get many most days

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

0.0000000000000000000000000001

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, still more than me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get maybe 3 or less messages a day. If i let single men in it would be well over a 50 messages per dia.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We don't get many. Maybe 2-3 a week at most.

Mr2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does vary but on average, even with my filters about 50 a day. If I put a new pic up which I haven't for ages, then it just gets silly. I've had over 2,000 unread messages in my box at times and it gets overwhelming. Bulk delete is all one can do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to sift through about 3 a month. So time consuming "

Hehehehe...

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

2 perhaps

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

When I was a single lady it was between 25 and 40 messages a day. Now we’re on as a couple we’re lucky if we get one a week from new people (we do get the odd one from people we’ve chatted to before)! A single guy messaged us yesterday so I suppose that’s our quota up for the week! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’m lucky four or five

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than 50 most days but 49 of them get immediately deleted or blocked because they've not read my profile or are making disgusting remarks as an introduction. It's a great distraction from the real world though!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get about 40-50 a day

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

If I work out the hourly average, it is something like ..... 0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you do the maths, there is no way a person will get 200 messages a day, every day. It's just sad souls trying to show off. I'm here for quality, not quantity lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A big fat zero

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"If you do the maths, there is no way a person will get 200 messages a day, every day. It's just sad souls trying to show off. I'm here for quality, not quantity lol"

I can get 150 or more a day if I am helping to organise an event and have no filters, so that I can answer questions about it. Even when I have filters up , I still get about 20 - 30 a day. And post lots in the forums or add new photos and that increases.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


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I don't get many messages.. I think women are spoilt for choice so why would they chase men so much?

Personally speaking I only need the right message that sparks my interest rather than a flood of small talk. "

Maybe ladies would be better served searching ..they know better than any description they can write what it is they seek, same as anyone else.

**News flash **

guys have the same choice(s).

Yes please or no thanks. Anyone can say no thanks at any time, being male its not compulsory to say yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None. I turned off all my "looking for" so I don't show up in searches. It's bliss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 4/5 but mostly replies to my messages rather than a fresh intro.....but I'm happy with that!

Face pic fridays are my best days, in the 6's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on a normal day 10/20 if we put the meet sign up then anything above 50 on the day the meet goes up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i first signed up got zero!now i still get zero lol

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't even register on the scale..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe 2 or 3 a week but nearly all 1 liners and not really worth replying to. Like most men on here I definitely send more than I receive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been a big fat zero for a while now

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork


"We get several a day if we are chatting to someone we already know, but "first contact" messages, I reckon we get less than 1 a week."

Same

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"We get several a day if we are chatting to someone we already know, but "first contact" messages, I reckon we get less than 1 a week.

Same "

Hello

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

As ‘mr nice x’ states above (& it’s probably me he’s referring to) I can get a hundred a day. And then there’s replies to the replies on top. These ladies aren’t lying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 plus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can do daily basic or a weekly one which I think amount to a big fat 0

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Maybe 10 or 20 a day.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

If I put up new pictures and contribute to the forums or add to meet today, I'd say around 20-30.

I generally come on to the site when I wake up at 5am, almost guaranteed a message or two whilst browsing the forums.

I'd say on average around five a day.

Winks however are a different matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 10 weekly, mostly from the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait... what? - we can get incoming messages from other fab members? (QED)

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"Wait... what? - we can get incoming messages from other fab members? (QED)

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to get silly numbers, then I discovered the filters. Game changer. You can be really specific about who can message, and you can control it, easily, if you choose to. Makes life much easier!

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Between 5 and 30 a day. Depends how active we are on the site.

Katie.

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Berween 0 and 4 on average

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Back when I started first it was relentless, hundreds a day before I'd even uploaded a pic! It's tapered off now, I think my wall of text profile puts people off "

Same for me, when I'm online for a few hours I'll maybe get one or two but if I'm only online for 5 minutes or so at a time I can go weeks without any new messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still the same. Zero zilch. Not even a wink lol x

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Depends but most days if we are not doing anything other than browse then no messages. If we upload a photo between 5 and 10 at most.

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By *atisfying jackMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Minus 6!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends if am on for long and if am chatting ! So can be from anything from 5/30 a day.

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

I think it can be somewhere around 5-20. That doesn’t mean they are of good quality, and most clearly haven’t looked at my profile and are from a copy/paste scattergun approach.

I do remember when I first joined being absolutely overwhelmed with messages, to the point that I deleted my account after a couple of days.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

22 so far by it is only 7.43am

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Thanks to filters probably 7. More if i put up a status or new pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One or two a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hundreds, sometimes thousands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On average between 8/14 per day..lots more when we post new pics..we did this yesterday and in one hour had 18 messages and 14 winks and 6 friend requests from random people we had not spoken to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly see any as my outer office normally deletes them for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

72

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I log into fab and see a message I go

Wwwwhhhhhooooooooo - someone messaged me

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I'm lucky if I get 1 then it's normally from men. I don't mind but as long as they realise I'm straight lol

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By *tatMan
over a year ago

Horrabridge

My average is between nought and zero

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By *isnerdsCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

2 or 3. Unless posting a new pic, then it’s 3 or 4!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hid profile as it was too much to deal with :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I changed all my settings last week

Apart from existing friends

I have had NO new messages for 3 days

I actually don't dread logging on anymore "

that made me chuckle

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Hid profile as it was too much to deal with :/ "

You can still get idiots messaging you from posts on the forum.

As I’ll now demonstrate

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Not sure usually more if put a new pic on, usually 90% guys, 8% couples and 2% ladies so it seems the guys are the chatty ones on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 3 a week

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London


"Normally about 8-10 a day

Hundreds is a huge exaggeration

If you change your profile pic or put up new pics you tend to get an increase in messages but I think the most I got in the first week in one day was around 40"

I've seen some inboxes first hand. We are talking hundreds...per day. It's mindblowing. I'm surprised friends get back to me at times.

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

On an average day around 80. On a busy day 150 +

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

Usually none, sometimes even fewer, or so it seems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a slow day is about 8 a busy day is 20-30

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"If you do the maths, there is no way a person will get 200 messages a day, every day. It's just sad souls trying to show off. I'm here for quality, not quantity lol"
it can be true. I have had over 200 some days,. I'm not sad. I don't have to show off at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0000000 hmph

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Usually about 80 a day , if I post a new pic it can jump to about 200 for a few days , if I'm advertising for a meet I can get 500 in a day , bulk delete mostly cos don't have time to respond to all , sorry guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None!

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By *r roleplayMan
over a year ago

carnforth


"About 600 a day on average "

Lol I now see why looking at some of your shots outstanding chuck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About one a week!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a new message every 5-10 min.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get one every 50 days on average when I subscribe to FAB Silver Membership again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot off the same people but quite a few at the moment for some reason... not saying the number because I’d look a dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to get over 100 a day even with tight filters but since I changed my profile I don’t get as many. Still get about 20 though, proves a lot don’t read profiles!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Got about 100 yesterday, I've tightened my filters a bit more again today so will see how that goes.

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By *candiumWoman
over a year ago

oban

Most days, zero.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

About 10/day on the average, but then my profile is scary and most men seem to read them. I reply to all and then block the chancers, illiterates and desperados.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I have no idea...... each day differs. Too many to read though.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Normally around 20-30 a day but if I've posted a status or new pics it can easily go into the hundreds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be lucky to get 1 a day haha

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

As a response to my message sent, maybe 1 per week. Messages not as a response, a couple per year. Plus occasionally a direct response to a forum post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do increase when my site supporter is about to run out....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

today 635 because i put a sexy pic up normally 40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None, you are all blocked

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"None, you are all blocked "

Even checked. And I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero- nil poi - not a sausage lol

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

100-200/day now my filters are tighter.

It was less over the summer when Fab seemed quieter overall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on how much I'm on online.

But I guess on average 100 to 200 a day. These are mostly ongoing chats or forum related.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Normally about 8-10 a day

Hundreds is a huge exaggeration

If you change your profile pic or put up new pics you tend to get an increase in messages but I think the most I got in the first week in one day was around 40

It's not a huge exaggeration I can assure you . I know lots of single females on here, and when we catch up they show me their phones. It's annoying for them as they get to miss the decent ones. They also have their filters set. I'm glad I'm only a single male and don't get a huge amount of messages.

Even then if I don't think to save them. I find it frustrating when they go into cyber space "

I think it also depends where you live ... for example you are showing up on who's near or local updates for wayyyy more people within your filter range in say london than you would be in the highlands

That said i have a single female profile , used in 2 decent sized cities, with pictures that i think get a decent chunk of fabs and spend far too much time online on the forums ... and i have still managed to keep it to about 20 or less a day by having good filters

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Not enough.

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By *art123Man
over a year ago

Stoke

Zero.

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By *estSussexGuy76Man
over a year ago

copthorne


"Normally about 8-10 a day

Hundreds is a huge exaggeration

If you change your profile pic or put up new pics you tend to get an increase in messages but I think the most I got in the first week in one day was around 40"

I've never had a message out of the blue... I may get one or two messages every now and again ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

right sorry bulk deleting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None for me but I’ve been more of a lurker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends but at its worst was 1200+ in a 24hr period. New photos on peoples profiles always multiplies it massively.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

When my inbox gets too busy I post my face picture as my avatar, that stops most messages.

New messages

Maybe 2-3 a week.

Replies to ongoing conversations. Ten - fifteen a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've unchecked all my 'looking for' boxes and it's bliss. Just getting a manageable amount of messages from friends, forum and replies to conversations I start now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It all depends but at its worst was 1200+ in a 24hr period. New photos on peoples profiles always multiplies it massively. "

Iv found having new verifications ups the numbers too.

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

0000.000-1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rejoining after a break, with no veris...its very quiet, but that's always the way it's been. I guess it depends on lifestyle and location in the country too.

This isnt the be all and end all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get about one a week buts it always a man who wants to suck my cock. Not my cup of tea but I suppose I always have options if I want

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I get probably about 10 a day normally, at least 10 per hour if upload a picture or put an attention seeking status on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remove the tick from the can accommodate box and it drops by half! What on earth would be the cause of that???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remove the tick from the can accommodate box and it drops by half! What on earth would be the cause of that??? "
theyre tight maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None.Nadal. zilch.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Between 0-3.

Maybe all those complaining need to take a look at their filters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Most days we don't get any messages, but then we have single guys blocked. If we are particularly active on the forum or post new pics then there will be a message or two, but generally nothing.

Cal

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

I seem to get more if the weather's warm. Don't ask me why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

keeping next week free just in case i get a message -don't want to miss it..........

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