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Do you really believe there's an art to phone sex?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I pissed this on another site just seeing what the thoughts are here

Some think phone sex is weird or it isn't really sex & some even believe that its something easy to do just talk dirty & moan. Others like me think odds more than just A easy money grab, we think there's am actual art. To be able to form the right words with the right voice to have a person not only picture themselves having actual sex but can also actually feel it. Agree or disagree?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything has a time and place I have never found it to be a turn on but sexting I adore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife said she’d never do it but has and came twice in 8 minutes!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get it to each his/her own I enjoy sexting too I just like it to lead up to something & a lot of times the times & places don't lead to a physical meet up....... hence the telephone luv lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She's A winner in every way glad she changed her tone lol

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By *inkyjxxWoman
over a year ago

Waterford

I have had phone sex a few times and i have always enjoyed it and cum from it. I just think if yee know each others like before hand it can be great.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have had phone sex a few times and i have always enjoyed it and cum from it. I just think if yee know each others like before hand it can be great. "

I agree but I think part of the art of it is wanting to be a pleaser & being able to quickly get intune with a person

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By *iss KissWoman
over a year ago

near Coventry

I used to do it for a job many years ago. I suppose I was good at it. Regulars used to call me back every day.

I also tell my hubby stories. He really likes that. I dont know what I do that's right. But I do something.

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By *urning the kinkMan
over a year ago

bristol

Do it all the time it's fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like getting voice and video messages in amongst some sexting, but I have a Glasgow accent so it just sounds ridiculous when I try do it!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I suppose if one has a stutter, it could sound pretty cool saying ‘fuck’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is most definitely an art form. If the two people are both really in to it then it can be fantastic.

Otherwise it's a bit pointless for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I know the person on the other end well it can be amazing but with a stranger then totally a waste of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's sometimes just knowing what makes the other person tick. I couldn't do it with someone I hadn't had sex with but it's amazing with someone who knows what makes your body and mind tick.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

my first couple of sexy conversations were a little awkward never having done them before. But then I've since had some very sexy chats. I'd say for me it depends on the interaction with the person beforehand. I couldn't go in cold

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Never again took me weeks to get my phone out and then I had to put it in a box of rice totally ruined the screen. And I’m sure the charger cable is still up there

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Never again took me weeks to get my phone out and then I had to put it in a box of rice totally ruined the screen. And I’m sure the charger cable is still up there "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never again took me weeks to get my phone out and then I had to put it in a box of rice totally ruined the screen. And I’m sure the charger cable is still up there "

Hahahahahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see a few women getting inundated with messages for phone sex today lol x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We have had a lot of phone sex together because we have been apart for much of our relationship. We really enjoy it. There is certainly a knack to it that not everybody has got.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use to do it a lot back in the day and there is a knack with stringing a filthy sentence together. It helps is there is a build up via text first xx

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I like sexting (similar).

Knowing I've made her cum just using words. Oh yes.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

It takes some one with the ability to use the right tone, mindset and vocabulary without turning it into something crude.

Personally I’m not a fan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It takes some one with the ability to use the right tone, mindset and vocabulary without turning it into something crude.

Personally I’m not a fan "

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Agree with DC.

Not my thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to do it for a job many years ago. I suppose I was good at it. Regulars used to call me back every day.

I also tell my hubby stories. He really likes that. I dont know what I do that's right. But I do something. "

I think those stories would be hella interesting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like getting voice and video messages in amongst some sexting, but I have a Glasgow accent so it just sounds ridiculous when I try do it! "

Now I'm curious lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It takes some one with the ability to use the right tone, mindset and vocabulary without turning it into something crude.

Personally I’m not a fan "

Everything you said is definitely the art of it & not everyone can do that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A comment from the other die I posted this to

"I agree. It is an art that I am exceedingly skilled.

Sad to state, most womyn that I have encountered are not. It makes those who give as great as they get prized.. For me, like actual physical sex, developing a relationship enhances the sex. Even I have difficulty engaging in phone sex after the initial hello.

The art of phone sex involves creating mental pictures in yr partner's mind. Listening to their responses, non verbal and verbal, to the stimulus abounding is highly important. I tailor my descriptive language to their specific fetishes. This is just a start....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep im the da Vinci of talk8ng orgasms out of my princess

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep im the da Vinci of talk8ng orgasms out of my princess"

Good shit bro

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

There’s a knack to it. There’s a fine line between it being a sexy experience or it being the breathless panting call with the distant wet squidgy sound of a cock being wanked at 90mph.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There’s a knack to it. There’s a fine line between it being a sexy experience or it being the breathless panting call with the distant wet squidgy sound of a cock being wanked at 90mph."

Definitely agree with that I think a guy that's in it for his own pleasure & only offering up squidgy sounds can't possible provide a sexy experience at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a knack to it. There’s a fine line between it being a sexy experience or it being the breathless panting call with the distant wet squidgy sound of a cock being wanked at 90mph."

Totally agree

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