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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My heart is breaking somewhat as I type.

As some of you may know my 4 legged rock has been unwell recently.

She left the house with energy. She didn't make a fuss about getting into the car.

She said hello to 3 other dogs in the vets.

I did all I could for her, I put on her on the table, I held her.

The vet couldn't find a vein in her left leg, which apparently is a sign her heart wasn't working as well, so we swapped sides and he went to the right leg. He put a strap on her leg to get the vein to show itself.

Not once did she struggle, moan or make a fuss, she simply had her head nuzzled into my chest while I showered her with kisses and love. 2 sighs and she was gone peacefully in my arms.

I carried my girl out with heartbreak yet pride. She had kept me alive during my darkest days. Truth was, I didn't trust anyone to love her as much as me and that kept me going when all I wanted to do was end my life.

Thank you to everyone who's messaged with their best wishes and kind words.

To my darling girl, I love you and thank you for spending your life in mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My heart is breaking somewhat as I type.

As some of you may know my 4 legged rock has been unwell recently.

She left the house with energy. She didn't make a fuss about getting into the car.

She said hello to 3 other dogs in the vets.

I did all I could for her, I put on her on the table, I held her.

The vet couldn't find a vein in her left leg, which apparently is a sign her heart wasn't working as well, so we swapped sides and he went to the right leg. He put a strap on her leg to get the vein to show itself.

Not once did she struggle, moan or make a fuss, she simply had her head nuzzled into my chest while I showered her with kisses and love. 2 sighs and she was gone peacefully in my arms.

I carried my girl out with heartbreak yet pride. She had kept me alive during my darkest days. Truth was, I didn't trust anyone to love her as much as me and that kept me going when all I wanted to do was end my life.

Thank you to everyone who's messaged with their best wishes and kind words.

To my darling girl, I love you and thank you for spending your life in mine.

"

Oh my god. My heart goes out to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

So so sorry to read this with tears in my eyes. Such a lovely lovely girl, a real character. My heart goes out to you, I know she was your world and you were hers too xxxxxx

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

My heart is braking for you

I know how much she meant to you

Saying goodbye is one of the hardest things to do

I'm here for you, my shoulders are wide & waterproof

Love you LittleOne xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor woof.

Poor peach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh peach that just made me cry. I’ve been there and it’s heartbreaking. Sending lots of love and hugs sweetheart xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You were there for her, as she was for you. Take care x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh

Big hugs and love coming your way xxxxxx

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By *CDecauxMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

I cannot express the sadness this brought.

I dread the day my little lady draws her last breath.

Sending you massive hugs, and well wishes xx

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

bigs hugs lovely xxxxxx

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

My deepest condolences at this very sad time x I lost my pooch of twelve years last year and still miss her

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

You’ve been best friends for a long time and it’s so natural to be heart broken. You did the right thing at the right time. I’m sending a whole lot of love to you Peach x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Aww peach that's incredibly sad,it sounds like you gave her a wonderful life of love though

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Our sincerest sympathies, we know how much Peg meant to you and we know exactly what you’re going through at the moment. Take consolation in the fact that you have made the greatest sacrifice for her by making the hardest and bravest decision for her and that she is now free of pain and resting peacefully.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Omg I just put spotify on, first song...

Forever Autumn

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

RIP Peg - never knew you but know what you bought to a wonderful person and that alone tells me all I need to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My heart is breaking somewhat as I type.

As some of you may know my 4 legged rock has been unwell recently.

She left the house with energy. She didn't make a fuss about getting into the car.

She said hello to 3 other dogs in the vets.

I did all I could for her, I put on her on the table, I held her.

The vet couldn't find a vein in her left leg, which apparently is a sign her heart wasn't working as well, so we swapped sides and he went to the right leg. He put a strap on her leg to get the vein to show itself.

Not once did she struggle, moan or make a fuss, she simply had her head nuzzled into my chest while I showered her with kisses and love. 2 sighs and she was gone peacefully in my arms.

I carried my girl out with heartbreak yet pride. She had kept me alive during my darkest days. Truth was, I didn't trust anyone to love her as much as me and that kept me going when all I wanted to do was end my life.

Thank you to everyone who's messaged with their best wishes and kind words.

To my darling girl, I love you and thank you for spending your life in mine.

"

Massive hugs this made me cry a little at least your 4 legged friend is no longer in pain ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My heart is breaking somewhat as I type.

As some of you may know my 4 legged rock has been unwell recently.

She left the house with energy. She didn't make a fuss about getting into the car.

She said hello to 3 other dogs in the vets.

I did all I could for her, I put on her on the table, I held her.

The vet couldn't find a vein in her left leg, which apparently is a sign her heart wasn't working as well, so we swapped sides and he went to the right leg. He put a strap on her leg to get the vein to show itself.

Not once did she struggle, moan or make a fuss, she simply had her head nuzzled into my chest while I showered her with kisses and love. 2 sighs and she was gone peacefully in my arms.

I carried my girl out with heartbreak yet pride. She had kept me alive during my darkest days. Truth was, I didn't trust anyone to love her as much as me and that kept me going when all I wanted to do was end my life.

Thank you to everyone who's messaged with their best wishes and kind words.

To my darling girl, I love you and thank you for spending your life in mine.

"

Big hugs to you from both of us. We lost our hound last month and it can an emotional time to lose, what is essentially, a member of the family.

Fuzz

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

Awwwww, Aunty P, I feel for you....but remember all the good times, they will far outweigh the bad!!

Sending you love and big hugs

Jizzy

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

The biggest of hugs to you xx

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Sending you massive bosies (as we say up here)

Mrs TMN xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My deepest condolences and sympathy to you.

There will be one new brighter star in the heavens this evening x

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

My heart just broke a little reading this!!

Love and thoughts

Just no words xx

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Love and hugs my dear. I knows it’s a terrible feeling loosing a friend like that Stay strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m so so sorry. Pet loss is one of the biggest family losses. Sending hugs - Mrs ( mr would say the same) xxxx

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

So sorry for your loss P

Big hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending peace and love xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Oh I’m so sorry Peach.

I’m sending a virtual hug to xxx

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By *0something1965Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Im heartbroken for you.

Gorgeous eulogy though - well done for being able to say it. I couldnt have.

Peace on your glorious friend x

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"My heart is breaking somewhat as I type.

As some of you may know my 4 legged rock has been unwell recently.

She left the house with energy. She didn't make a fuss about getting into the car.

She said hello to 3 other dogs in the vets.

I did all I could for her, I put on her on the table, I held her.

The vet couldn't find a vein in her left leg, which apparently is a sign her heart wasn't working as well, so we swapped sides and he went to the right leg. He put a strap on her leg to get the vein to show itself.

Not once did she struggle, moan or make a fuss, she simply had her head nuzzled into my chest while I showered her with kisses and love. 2 sighs and she was gone peacefully in my arms.

I carried my girl out with heartbreak yet pride. She had kept me alive during my darkest days. Truth was, I didn't trust anyone to love her as much as me and that kept me going when all I wanted to do was end my life.

Thank you to everyone who's messaged with their best wishes and kind words.

To my darling girl, I love you and thank you for spending your life in mine.

"

So sorry for your loss.. my heart goes out to you...

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I went through the same with my beloved cat a couple of years ago. I feel your pain. Luke

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

So sad and heartbreaking. I’ve a 14 year old Bearded Collie - love him to bits but he’s getting on and slowing down. Just a fleeting thought of what’s to come upsets me. Reminds me of this poem that I have posted before:-

Brothers and sisters

be aware

Never open your heart

for a dog to tear

Chin up OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending a hug xx

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Sending muchos amounts of your way

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By *0something1965Man
over a year ago

Belfast

I know this is important but i cant read it anymore - im sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so sorry for your loss. I did exactly the same thing last week with my beautiful dog and my heart is breaking, I can't stop crying, I feel totally lost and don't know what to do with myself.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to read this, it made me cry. I’m still missing my gorgeous furry friend - although it was over 5 years ago that I did the same thing as you.

You know you did the right thing, but it’s such a hard decision to make.

Sending big hugs xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You poor kid xxxx

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I'm so so sorry xxxxxx

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

That me me cry.....

I’m so sorry P

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Sending hugs so very sadx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That me me cry.....

I’m so sorry P "

And me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to see this terrible news. At least your beloved pooch is over the rainbow bridge running with all the other pooches.

Sending you hugs.xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending you absolutely massive hugs...xxxxx

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

So sorry P, sending lots of love

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

O my ....deepest sympathy P, bless ya

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

It’s so sad when we say goodbye to our fur friends, you loved your pooch to her last breath and that is all they ask of us take care of yourself today xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to read this. RIP little pooch... Sending you hugs... Hope you're doing ok

PT x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I'm sorry.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Oh love you. Tears here for you.

So beautiful those words, but so very sad. But you made each other very happy.

Jo xx

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww bless you. I’m so sorry. I know how those little furries take up so much of our hearts. I have a dog too and she’s like my baby and I just can’t think about if that time comes. Sending love and big hugs to you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

heart broken for you. sending you lots of love x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've discovered today that it's not a good idea to have bedding or household objects the same colour as your pets.

I've gasped at my black n white butterfly bedspread and my black hairbrush on a white cushion thinking both were her.

It's the weirdest thing. Your eyes trick you for a second.

Thank you all so so much. As much as it rips you to shreds it's certainly touched me that you could tell how much she meant to me even over a public forum.

A few of you have met her and you're so right, she has the sweetest character and good nature. I'm saying has, because she's not gone, she'll still be with me for a while yet for as long as I remember her love.

B deserves a mention.

He has been amazing through this whole thing (not that it's over yet, sorry baby this may take a while to heal, but know I'll do my best by you as I've done my best by her)

P

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Big hugs to you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My heart is breaking somewhat as I type.

As some of you may know my 4 legged rock has been unwell recently.

She left the house with energy. She didn't make a fuss about getting into the car.

She said hello to 3 other dogs in the vets.

I did all I could for her, I put on her on the table, I held her.

The vet couldn't find a vein in her left leg, which apparently is a sign her heart wasn't working as well, so we swapped sides and he went to the right leg. He put a strap on her leg to get the vein to show itself.

Not once did she struggle, moan or make a fuss, she simply had her head nuzzled into my chest while I showered her with kisses and love. 2 sighs and she was gone peacefully in my arms.

I carried my girl out with heartbreak yet pride. She had kept me alive during my darkest days. Truth was, I didn't trust anyone to love her as much as me and that kept me going when all I wanted to do was end my life.

Thank you to everyone who's messaged with their best wishes and kind words.

To my darling girl, I love you and thank you for spending your life in mine.

"

So sorry for your loss, you obviously loved her so much. Keep that love with you and use it to be strong x sending you massive healing hugs xx

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

This just made me cry. So sorry to hear your loss. It's little comfort but be proud of yourself for giving her the best life and a dignified end. Allow yourself to grieve, she will always carry a place in your heart xx

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"My heart is breaking somewhat as I type.

As some of you may know my 4 legged rock has been unwell recently.

She left the house with energy. She didn't make a fuss about getting into the car.

She said hello to 3 other dogs in the vets.

I did all I could for her, I put on her on the table, I held her.

The vet couldn't find a vein in her left leg, which apparently is a sign her heart wasn't working as well, so we swapped sides and he went to the right leg. He put a strap on her leg to get the vein to show itself.

Not once did she struggle, moan or make a fuss, she simply had her head nuzzled into my chest while I showered her with kisses and love. 2 sighs and she was gone peacefully in my arms.

I carried my girl out with heartbreak yet pride. She had kept me alive during my darkest days. Truth was, I didn't trust anyone to love her as much as me and that kept me going when all I wanted to do was end my life.

Thank you to everyone who's messaged with their best wishes and kind words.

To my darling girl, I love you and thank you for spending your life in mine.

"

Jo.Xx

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Oh my goodness, that just made me very tearful,

I have been there to, it’s like they know.... one of the the hardest things to have to do.

Sending lots of love to you x

She will visit you in your dreams I’m sure

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

I’m a great big hairy skin-head Biker, and that just made me shed tears. I dread the day when I have to do the same.

Mr

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over a year ago

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

Well that's me in tears! So sorry x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My heart is breaking somewhat as I type.

As some of you may know my 4 legged rock has been unwell recently.

She left the house with energy. She didn't make a fuss about getting into the car.

She said hello to 3 other dogs in the vets.

I did all I could for her, I put on her on the table, I held her.

The vet couldn't find a vein in her left leg, which apparently is a sign her heart wasn't working as well, so we swapped sides and he went to the right leg. He put a strap on her leg to get the vein to show itself.

Not once did she struggle, moan or make a fuss, she simply had her head nuzzled into my chest while I showered her with kisses and love. 2 sighs and she was gone peacefully in my arms.

I carried my girl out with heartbreak yet pride. She had kept me alive during my darkest days. Truth was, I didn't trust anyone to love her as much as me and that kept me going when all I wanted to do was end my life.

Thank you to everyone who's messaged with their best wishes and kind words.

To my darling girl, I love you and thank you for spending your life in mine.

"

Wonderfully put darling. I know first hand how much Peg meant to you, I found her a lovely affectionate kind-hearted woofer and that's even without how much she steadied your life? And if without her you wouldn't be here then I owe her more than she'd ever have known...

B x

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Oh bless you, I'm crying for you.

If you ever want a puppy cuddle, when your ready feel free to let me know and I'll bring our hound for you to play with.

Big boobie hugs and wet nose licks from the hound x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the most difficult thing to do, but you did the right thing for her, even though it's broken you. I've had to do the same and it broke my heart, but she couldn't have asked for more love, she is a lucky pup x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww so sorry, sending ((((hugs)))) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for your loss too OP.Been 40 years since mine..never forgotten.

I filled up reading your post too OP..

Yours is the most beautifully written post ive ever seen on here.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I think she knew it was time, I am glad you helped her when she needed you to be there.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Sorry for your pain and loss. Xx

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Bless you Peach xx hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aunty P x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry to hear this. It's the hardest decision you ever have to make. I had to put my girl to sleep in February as she was in so much pain. You have done what's best. Remember the good times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My heart is breaking somewhat as I type.

As some of you may know my 4 legged rock has been unwell recently.

She left the house with energy. She didn't make a fuss about getting into the car.

She said hello to 3 other dogs in the vets.

I did all I could for her, I put on her on the table, I held her.

The vet couldn't find a vein in her left leg, which apparently is a sign her heart wasn't working as well, so we swapped sides and he went to the right leg. He put a strap on her leg to get the vein to show itself.

Not once did she struggle, moan or make a fuss, she simply had her head nuzzled into my chest while I showered her with kisses and love. 2 sighs and she was gone peacefully in my arms.

I carried my girl out with heartbreak yet pride. She had kept me alive during my darkest days. Truth was, I didn't trust anyone to love her as much as me and that kept me going when all I wanted to do was end my life.

Thank you to everyone who's messaged with their best wishes and kind words.

To my darling girl, I love you and thank you for spending your life in mine.

"

Sorry for your loss.

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