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By *stella OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

What’s the one trait above all you’d want in a long term partner?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Devoted to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty "

Jinx padlock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Consistency

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good communication

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That if I went missing he could describe me to the police

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Honestly

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Only the one, Honesty, but I would settle for less insecurity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loyalty is something we’re very passionate about.

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By *stella OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"That if I went missing he could describe me to the police "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Followed by sense of humour

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By *stella OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

In a report, apparently kindness was top. I wonder if this site skews the popular answer to honesty...

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Loyalty.

Honesty.

Respect.

There are more.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a report, apparently kindness was top. I wonder if this site skews the popular answer to honesty... "
as long as its not nastiness the people will live on

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Honesty

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"That if I went missing he could describe me to the police "

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

Ermmmmmmmm...

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By *stella OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Loyalty.

Honesty.

Respect.

There are more.

Jo.Xx "

But the question was to pick one...

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By *020herewecumMan
over a year ago

Exmouth

Honesty x

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By *stella OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"Ermmmmmmmm..."

A V?

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Openness.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty os overrated give me loyalty and devotion any day as id not care if they lied about the odd thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friend

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Loyalty.

Honesty.

Respect.

There are more.

Jo.Xx

But the question was to pick one... "

Estella

To be 100% loyal.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Total devotion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emotionally eloquent.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"Ermmmmmmmm...

A V?"

Openness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still no kindness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal access

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Honesty..

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Chilled

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

Nice tits! Oh, a trait? Hmmm.

Kindness is all well and good but what if they're lying about it?!

Nup, I'd go with honesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chilled"
so thats why women sometimes just want a bottle of wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"In a report, apparently kindness was top. I wonder if this site skews the popular answer to honesty... "

Maybe,but lots have experienced some cheating sh*t away from here also haven't they.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Good communication.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Chilledso thats why women sometimes just want a bottle of wine "

That's the most intelligent thing you've ever said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Ermmmmmmmm...

A V?

Openness. "

Snap!

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By *stella OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"In a report, apparently kindness was top. I wonder if this site skews the popular answer to honesty...

Maybe,but lots have experienced some cheating sh*t away from here also haven't they."

For sure, but the concentration of people on here that have been cheated on or have cheated is likely very high.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"Ermmmmmmmm...

A V?

Openness.

Snap! "

We really are on similar wavelengths.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's amazing how many say "Honesty" shame can't practice what is preached

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Empathy

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Honesty.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Honesty. You can work with everything else, but someone who lies...you just can’t. Not without it affecting you.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

A lady that was attentive. If she could see I didn’t have an erection, she would make me a sandwich.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"A lady that was attentive. If she could see I didn’t have an erection, she would make me a sandwich. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blowjob alarm clock

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Loyalty with a bit of openness thrown in, ohh and add a sprinkle of humour (and a beard) yep I think that’s one word for sure

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Someone you wants just you as much as you want just them to be enough for someone

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Someone you wants just you as much as you want just them to be enough for someone

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"A lady that was attentive. If she could see I didn’t have an erection, she would make me a sandwich. "

What sort of sandwich will result in an erection?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Understanding.

Lovely profile photo, Estella. I haven't seen that one before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need one with a lot, like loads of patience!

Thankfully I have found my one.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Loyalty.

Honesty.

Respect.

There are more.

Jo.Xx "

That’s 3!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty, if we haven't got that then there isn't anything real. Communication isn't there and neither is loyalty for me.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"A lady that was attentive. If she could see I didn’t have an erection, she would make me a sandwich.

What sort of sandwich will result in an erection?

"

I’m a sucker (not literally) for a chip buttie

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Honest communication

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honest communication "

I was going to say that but I don't see that as an attribute, it's essential. It's a shame not all see it like that. X

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"A lady that was attentive. If she could see I didn’t have an erection, she would make me a sandwich.

What sort of sandwich will result in an erection?

I’m a sucker (not literally) for a chip buttie"

You're making it sound like it would need to be a chip butty and a sucky. You're hard work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Faithfulness

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Loyalty.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

I don't think just one trait is enough to recognise in a long term partner unfortunately

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"A lady that was attentive. If she could see I didn’t have an erection, she would make me a sandwich.

What sort of sandwich will result in an erection?

I’m a sucker (not literally) for a chip buttie

You're making it sound like it would need to be a chip butty and a sucky. You're hard work! "

Hahaha I’ve never denied that

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Burger King loyalty card

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Honest communication

I was going to say that but I don't see that as an attribute, it's essential. It's a shame not all see it like that. X"

I understand what your saying, it’s definitely an essential..... so for me most can’t communicate and most aren’t honest, so combine the two and half way there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honest communication

I was going to say that but I don't see that as an attribute, it's essential. It's a shame not all see it like that. X

I understand what your saying, it’s definitely an essential..... so for me most can’t communicate and most aren’t honest, so combine the two and half way there "

Absolutely.

It's the very foundation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard to pick one.

Feeling you are loved exactly for who you are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kindness

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

It would have to be honesty for me too.

With trust, there is nothing

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By *easidegirlWoman
over a year ago

south shore

Tolerance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loyalty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one trait. I'm greedy I want it all...

That knowing the other you are with feels like home, where I can just be me with all my faults and failings, and knowing that other feels exactly the same way about me...

Probably a bit optimistic of me, but then that's dreamers for you ..

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love

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By * Star FilthMan
over a year ago

staplehurst

Honesty

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

A like mind - which may sound like a cop out but it does, in it's way, encapsulate most of the traits already mentioned and ultimately if someone is not on the same page as you then they're probably not for you

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By *entleman Blue EyesMan
over a year ago

Saffron Walden

Space.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Loyalty.

Honesty.

Respect.

There are more.

Jo.Xx

That’s 3! "

I chose 1 "Loyalty". Its further up the thread.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Openness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s the one trait above all you’d want in a long term partner?

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Acceptance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Considerate

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Infinite patience despite my calamities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Passion....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Openness - not afraid to say what they feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to click totally

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Once they can walk my dog I'll hug them for life x

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary


"What’s the one trait above all you’d want in a long term partner?

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Symbiosis

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"What’s the one trait above all you’d want in a long term partner?

Symbiosis "

Mutualism symbiosis I hope you mean

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By *tradesmanMan
over a year ago

colchester


"Loyalty.

Honesty.

Respect.

There are more.

Jo.Xx "

I pick this one

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary


"What’s the one trait above all you’d want in a long term partner?

Symbiosis

Mutualism symbiosis I hope you mean "

Indeed... think I’ve come across enough parasites to last a lifetime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mutual respect.

To hear the 3 words when said in a sentence you make you feel like the happiest person in the world

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Open Communication!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so glad some one said some but honesty we all want a good fuck that's why were all in a forum swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wherever she wears her knickers thats her home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Open Communication!"

I would say open communication too. With it you can work through most issues.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"What’s the one trait above all you’d want in a long term partner?

Symbiosis

Mutualism symbiosis I hope you mean

Indeed... think I’ve come across enough parasites to last a lifetime."

Oi! You've met sone fucking great ones too!

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"What’s the one trait above all you’d want in a long term partner?

"

Honesty.

That's it. Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust.

I would want my partner to trust that no matter what happens I've got their back through everything and anything, and vice versa

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

The ability to put up with me.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Autonomy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Compatibility

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary


"What’s the one trait above all you’d want in a long term partner?

Symbiosis

Mutualism symbiosis I hope you mean

Indeed... think I’ve come across enough parasites to last a lifetime.

Oi! You've met sone fucking great ones too! "

I have indeed. Had to suffer a few idiots to find it first though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Open Communication!"

I like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loyalty, transparency, honest and amazing sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have it.

Trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty first and foremost then the respect, trust and loyalty follow easily

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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Caring had enough of guys who dont give a shit haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that i want ooooo ooooo ooooo

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