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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just had a newbie call me Daddy in her second message.

Me and my partner are in a DDBG dynamic which has taken a long time to cultivate.

It’s really off putting when someone assumes they can use that title.

But my partner bearing her teeth was amusing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many of us find the term unsettling full stop.

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By *atisfying jackMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Many of us find the term unsettling full stop. "

Each to their own but I agree with the above.

I've never understood the word play like this at all, the undertones to it are disturbing.

That is however my own personal opinion, and I'm not attempting to kink shame or call you out on it at all.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Many of us find the term unsettling full stop.

Each to their own but I agree with the above.

I've never understood the word play like this at all, the undertones to it are disturbing.

That is however my own personal opinion, and I'm not attempting to kink shame or call you out on it at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was probably a guy taking the piss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It was probably a guy taking the piss"

Very possibly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Many of us find the term unsettling full stop.

Each to their own but I agree with the above.

I've never understood the word play like this at all, the undertones to it are disturbing.

That is however my own personal opinion, and I'm not attempting to kink shame or call you out on it at all.

"

“Undertones to it are disturbing”

Does sound a little kink shaming but we don’t take it personally. It’s all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get called it a lot on another site , I hate it to me it's very inappropriate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the word dynamic,why would a woman call her guy 'daddy' at all,sounds so fucking wrong to me

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

It makes my skin crawl...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was probably a guy taking the piss"

Why?

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By *44bertCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

People misunderstand the dynamic a lot.

It's nothing to do with father/daughter relationships, and everything to do with submission and feeling safe and nurtured at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Newbies are new, give them a chance.

Maybe politely and gently point it out to her instead of posting on the forums about it.

She could see and that is hardly welcoming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes my skin crawl..."

Fuck me, where have you been hiding, those tits and that ass!! Hotlist update

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Newbies are new, give them a chance.

Maybe politely and gently point it out to her instead of posting on the forums about it.

She could see and that is hardly welcoming."

Good point. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People misunderstand the dynamic a lot.

It's nothing to do with father/daughter relationships, and everything to do with submission and feeling safe and nurtured at the same time. "

Choose another word then, why use the word daddy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a newbie call me Daddy in her second message.

Me and my partner are in a DDBG dynamic which has taken a long time to cultivate.

It’s really off putting when someone assumes they can use that title.

But my partner bearing her teeth was amusing "

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It sounds like she was trying to make an effort with yourselves. Take it as a backhanded compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow some small minded people in here considering this is a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get called mummy alot by my cubs...not sure how I feel about it tbh...(better than nan I suppose! hehehe!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes my skin crawl...

Fuck me, where have you been hiding, those tits and that ass!! Hotlist update "

Totes agree!! Wow!!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Wow some small minded people in here considering this is a swingers site"

Is this news to you? Are you new here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a newbie call me Daddy in her second message.

Me and my partner are in a DDBG dynamic which has taken a long time to cultivate.

It’s really off putting when someone assumes they can use that title.

But my partner bearing her teeth was amusing "

I feel the same when someone calls me "Mistress" in their first email. I agree it takes time and effort to cultivate a relationship like that. You're not automatically someone's Daddy or Mistress just because it's something they want and assume it's OK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was probably a guy taking the piss

Why?"

Because singlemen are to blame for everything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow some small minded people in here considering this is a swingers site

Is this news to you? Are you new here? "

Not in the slightest. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate the word dynamic,why would a woman call her guy 'daddy' at all,sounds so fucking wrong to me "

Totally agree same a guy wanting to call an older woman mommy just so wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was probably a guy taking the piss

Why?"

I wouldn't think a new single woman would be so brazen

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"It makes my skin crawl...

Fuck me, where have you been hiding, those tits and that ass!! Hotlist update "
hahaha x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just had a newbie call me Daddy in her second message.

Me and my partner are in a DDBG dynamic which has taken a long time to cultivate.

It’s really off putting when someone assumes they can use that title.

But my partner bearing her teeth was amusing

.

It sounds like she was trying to make an effort with yourselves. Take it as a backhanded compliment"

Yeah we did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried to message you but it wouldn’t allow! I’m currently in the early part of a daddy Dom kink with a crazily keen 19 year old . Would be good to connect with more experienced couples like yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just had a newbie call me Daddy in her second message.

Me and my partner are in a DDBG dynamic which has taken a long time to cultivate.

It’s really off putting when someone assumes they can use that title.

But my partner bearing her teeth was amusing

I feel the same when someone calls me "Mistress" in their first email. I agree it takes time and effort to cultivate a relationship like that. You're not automatically someone's Daddy or Mistress just because it's something they want and assume it's OK "

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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago

london

Ditto, daddys just seedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Puts me off, I get called it a lot especially on other sites and apps. It is not the age difference, just feels a bit creepy the role play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love it.

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