FabSwingers.com forum: Curvy Nerves

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I have my first proper Fab meet tomorrow. I already met this guy for coffee and can’t wait to meet him for more tomorrow but....

I’m so nervous, not about what we’ll do but basically about getting naked in front of him! I’m not fat but I’m not thin! Like you can definitely tell that I like chocolate. I would best describe myself as Chubbylicious. I’m just worried he’ll be disappointed, but he has met me already so he should have an idea?? Right?

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

It's just nerves. Have confidence in you! You look gorgeous, try to relax and just enjoy the moment xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve met already so if you’re meeting again, you fancy him, and he fancies you. Guaranteed.

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By *shoreMan
over a year ago

cork

The nerves is what i think is the excitment.....hell its sex give as good as you get and ya will have a ball.....ps be proud of your bod and he will love you for it.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will be just fine. This is just a stage freight. Just imagine how you will feel hopefully tomorrow at this time and take it from there. Put some lipstick on and attack

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

If he's already met you and wants to meet again, then he likes what he's seen. Don't worry he's probably as nervous as you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You’ve met already so if you’re meeting again, you fancy him, and he fancies you. Guaranteed.

This exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've met already and the guy wants to see you again ? What does that tell you ? He fancies you. Good luck and have fun

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By *urning the kinkMan
over a year ago

bristol

"So I have my first proper Fab meet tomorrow. I already met this guy for coffee and can’t wait to meet him for more tomorrow but....

He will be as nervous as you.

Enjoy your night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he's already met you he knows what he's getting. Relax!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It makes me so sad to hear women who are so negative about their bodies. Many men love women who have a bit extra. You don't have to believe the bullshit that comes from the media that there is something wrong with you if you don't look a certain way.

I have been with women who are size 18 and above who are absolutely gorgeous and I would change a thing about them. I bet if I saw you I would fancy the pants off you.

This guy is very lucky. He would be a fucking idiot to meet you, get an opportunity to have sex with you and then decide he didn't like your body shape. Hopefully he we make it clear that he finds you amazingly sexy and will make you feel sexy too.

Would you be willing to let us know how you got on? I don't mean the details of what you did together, I mean whether your body was an issue for him or if your insecurities melted away in his arms?

Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He has met you so he knows exactly what to expect. You will be just fine. Just try to not think about and enjoy yourself. Have fun OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look Great ! plus you’ve already met x have a wonderful first fab date am sure you’ll enjoy xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never be shy about them curves

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The sheer number of thin women on media skews people’s perceptions of what they think sexy is, I think. I can assure you (and I bet many men will agree) that sexy ladies are curvy. If he didn’t fancy sex with you, he wouldn’t be meeting you.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Honestly, men that find you attractive with your clothes on are only going to be more hot for you as the clothes come off!

When women look at themselves and others they tend to see the bits that aren’t perfect. When men look at themselves and others they tend to just notice the good bits.

A bit of a generalisation but it’s the way our brains work.

I hope you have an amazing time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only echo what others have said.

I do understand how you feel . I can meet people several times and still have the same nerves. It's natural to feel nervous the first time but hopefully excited more.

I'd love to be able to buy confidence and share it with others but sadly it's not that easy. Hopefully though you'll soon be having so much fun and he will be making you feel good about yourself that it's not on your mind.

Enjoy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most of us worry the same. I'm sure while you're stressing imagining him seeing you naked, he's sitting just imagining you naked! Hope you have an absolute ball

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By *ushNWWoman
over a year ago

Salford

I am fat lol and I’m always nervous but everyone I have met has been very complimentary!! This has done amazing things for my confidence and people who have no idea I do this say I’m so much more confident and sexy. If only they knew

Have fun and relax but most importantly don’t forget to let us all know how you got on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It makes me so sad to hear women who are so negative about their bodies. Many men love women who have a bit extra. You don't have to believe the bullshit that comes from the media that there is something wrong with you if you don't look a certain way.

I have been with women who are size 18 and above who are absolutely gorgeous and I would change a thing about them. I bet if I saw you I would fancy the pants off you.

Would you be willing to let us know how you got on? I don't mean the details of what you did together, I mean whether your body was an issue for him or if your insecurities melted away in his arms?

Luke"

To be honest I’m not sure it is media etc. It’s how you feel about yourself. Id hate to be slim and I like my curves but I totally get where she’s coming from and I know it’s daft. Doesn’t matter how many people tell you you’re sexy or you look amazing it won’t change a thing if you don’t feel that about yourself. I was like that when I put weight on. I just wasn’t confident at all with people because I wasn’t happy.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

He has already met you and likes you... You've got this!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"I can only echo what others have said.

I do understand how you feel . I can meet people several times and still have the same nerves. It's natural to feel nervous the first time but hopefully excited more.

Enjoy x"

I'm with Sinders here... Even 3 years down the road, I sometimes feel a little bashful about Boo seeing me naked, particularly if we haven't seen each other in a while and I've put on a few pounds, yet he has never commented on my appearance (good or bad)... He might compliment something I'm wearing, but never my body or any of my physical features... But that's just his way... He loves me for me, not how I look.

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By *northernsoulMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Don't worry about your shape - any man that likes woman and doesn't find curves attractive is lying!

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I wouldn't worry most men like a wide variety of body shapes and contrary to many say most men from here are polite and complementary I am sure it will go well and him like you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck today! You've got this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks so much everyone I’m blown away by all your kind words and positivity!

I lashed the fake tan on last night and I’ve a little sexy number from Ann Summers so hopefully it’ll distract from my wobbly bits

I’ll let ye know how it goes

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"If he's already met you and wants to meet again, then he likes what he's seen. Don't worry he's probably as nervous as you "

this totally

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

He's already met and seen you op?so I would say he finds you attractive.

Nerves are normal

Have a great time x

Miss

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By *illiamMeetsMan
over a year ago

sunnyside

"Thanks so much everyone I’m blown away by all your kind words and positivity!

I lashed the fake tan on last night and I’ve a little sexy number from Ann Summers so hopefully it’ll distract from my wobbly bits

I’ll let ye know how it goes

You'll be fine as others have said. Just do what comes naturally. Plus, he's bound to appreciate the Ann Summers and keep that on a bit longer

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Break off bits of dairy milk and lay them on ur naked body!!!! Say to him ENJOY!!!!!... lol ...nerves are natural once u see him u will be ok! & u look fabulous embrace ur body!! All the best jessie x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So you’ll be happy to hear that you were all right! I got inside my head too much and did some serious overthinking. The meet went so well and judging by his performance my giggly bits didn’t put him off in the slightest

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"So you’ll be happy to hear that you were all right! I got inside my head too much and did some serious overthinking. The meet went so well and judging by his performance my giggly bits didn’t put him off in the slightest

Pleased to hear of your undoubted successful meet. Your jiggly bits would inspire me to greater efforts.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Go girl, go girl, go girl.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yay! I'm so happy for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent, nothing to worry about, the jiggly bits are the best bets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking stunning.. just try to relax and enjoy the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent, glad you had a good time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a super sized lady myself, think you’ve done the hardest part by meeting in person already.

He won’t be expecting a size ten when your clothes come off!

Sadly society and the media has done a hatchet job on women where it has got us to believe that only one body type is attractive. Nothing could be further from the truth.

Embrace your sex appeal. Fake it till you feel it. Posh panties and lippy on, then go forth and have a glorious day.

Ps do let us know how it went lol

Much love C x

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read your update. Fab news x

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