FabSwingers.com forum: Too friendly for your own good?

By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

Do think you can be?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes, I talk to anyone

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Nooooooo, I have a twato radar.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think that's something I'll ever be accused of

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I would say no. Some men take friendliness as a come on but that's more their problem than a problem with friendliness. It's possible to be too nice for your own good though as some people don't deserve your kindness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On Fab.......yes!

In real life? .....Also yes

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I was frequently "accused" of this when I was younger. People would telle "you will get yourself in trouble"

. I was friendly to men and women alike but only being friendly to men was wrong. If anything I'm less friendly now than previously although nobody would accuse me of being unfriendly off line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Too friendly, too trusting, too open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on who you're being friendly to.

There are those that will take full advantage and be your "friend" because you can offer them something, when in reality they couldn't give 2 shits if you vanished off the face of the earth. If you were in need they wouldn't come through for ya, they only want the bits that benefit them.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Do think you can be?

Maybe... If I'm in a good mood I can be very bubbly and outgoing, which can sometimes be mistaken as a sign of interest and leads to awks moments and convos... On the other hand, sometimes I am genuinely and embarrassingly smitten with someone but they don't realise it because 'I seem to flirt with everyone'. I'm not very good at this 'being an adult' lark

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Yes, but this is how I am.

Big hugs to all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends but I would say you can be over friendly to the point others take advantage of that fact.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

To answer the question I think you can be too friendly. It can be intrusive and unwanted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I'm far too friendly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do think you can be?

I hope not. We are super friendly. It’s something that attracts us to others.

A warm smile is a sexy thing

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By *4ScotMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

I think I am

I'm far too happy to just chat normally instead of going straight to sex talk for some people I think

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I am quite friendly, I chit chat all day to different people but there are those that get the

face if they overstep the mark, people seem to open up to me where as I hardly give anything of myself away.

I don’t chat to anyone on here regularly as I don’t want to be accused of leading anyone on

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By *northernsoulMan
over a year ago

Manchester

By default, I am... but also learning when to kerb it and when to say no, because people will take advantage of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think that's something I'll ever be accused of "

Me either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I'm far too friendly. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *ust TL nowMan
over a year ago

Durham

"I would say no. Some men take friendliness as a come on but that's more their problem than a problem with friendliness. It's possible to be too nice for your own good though as some people don't deserve your kindness."

I get this !! Hubby tells me I flirt to much but I'm just friendly and can't help my dirty mouth running away with itself x

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Flik is ridiculously friendly and outgoing which can be misconstrued by men....she's just a friendly person...I, on the other hand, can can be a miserable git, but I'm comfortable with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do think you can be?

Yes ... and quite honestly get some proper rude people here

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Yes, I talk to anyone

Making a note of that, Sparkle. You're lovely.

We're friendly too.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I wouldn't say I was. I'm a miserable bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guilty!

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Yes, I'm very much a people person. Being too friendly to the wrong people screws me over sometimes xx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I am too friendly. Too trusting and too kind.

I won't change either.

What I do do ( do do ) is judge quickly too. Those who mistake kindness for weakness get fucked off swiftly.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Doubtful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do think you can be?

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to friendly is way better than being an ass I think x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends but I would say you can be over friendly to the point others take advantage of that fact. "
chat away to me people. Take advantage to if yeah want

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I am too friendly. Too trusting and too kind.

I won't change either.

What I do do ( do do ) is judge quickly too. Those who mistake kindness for weakness get fucked off swiftly. "

do do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am too friendly. Too trusting and too kind.

I won't change either.

What I do do ( do do ) is judge quickly too. Those who mistake kindness for weakness get fucked off swiftly. "

Absofuckinglutely

I'm like an angel with a scythe that I ain't afraid to put to use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am too friendly. Too trusting and too kind.

I won't change either.

What I do do ( do do ) is judge quickly too. Those who mistake kindness for weakness get fucked off swiftly. "

How can you be trusting but also judge quickly? How do you draw the line?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Is being friendly the same as being too trusting and too kind? Both of us are very friendly but we don't trust people until we know they can be trusted. I don't think friendliness is the same as being quick to trust, is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is being friendly the same as being too trusting and too kind? Both of us are very friendly but we don't trust people until we know they can be trusted. I don't think friendliness is the same as being quick to trust, is it? "

I would say no. I'm very approachable in life, so I always get into conversations with old people and charity workers. When it comes to trust there aren't many people that I do trust completely. I usually will play it safe especially when it's around unknown people

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We never get in to conversations with charity workers

. Both of us will start up a conversation or respond to people if they do except for the weirdo on the bus...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never get in to conversations with charity workers

. Both of us will start up a conversation or respond to people if they do except for the weirdo on the bus... "

Your lucky

. If I get within 10 metres of a charity worker I'm being targeted lol. I'm used to it now and I would never be mean to them as they're just doing their job. But any other time I'm minding my own business and someone will start a conversation with me. Sometimes it has been insightful so don't be afraid of random people, just be cautious of some of the crazier people around lmao

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We never get in to conversations with charity workers

. Both of us will start up a conversation or respond to people if they do except for the weirdo on the bus...

Your lucky

Both of us just smile at charity workers and politely say "no thank you" if they chase us down the road we are somewhat firmer though.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’m friendly. I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like the American fake smile? Friendly on the outside but going "wtf?!" on the inside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I definitely can be.

I quite often don't know when to stop chatting to ladies on here without them thinking 'I wish he'd stop chatting!' Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep. Too friendly, too trusting, too open "

Exactly this, and I must change

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

"Do think you can be?

I'm too kind for my own good. I'm friendly to most people but not everyone deserves my kindness, lessons learnt.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Like the American fake smile? Friendly on the outside but going "wtf?!" on the inside. "

A bit like that but our friendliness isn't fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like the American fake smile? Friendly on the outside but going "wtf?!" on the inside.

A bit like that but our friendliness isn't fake

Good point, my analogy was wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep! I'm learning to be a bitch haha

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I started a convo with a lady on here.

During the convo she said she needed to pick up a prescription, but didn't have any cash.

(yes I did)

Then...... Of course there was something else she needed money for.

That will teach me for trying to be helpful and trusting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can never be too friendly

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I started a convo with a lady on here.

During the convo she said she needed to pick up a prescription, but didn't have any cash.

(yes I did)

Then...... Of course there was something else she needed money for.

That will teach me for trying to be helpful and trusting.

Bless you...but don't do it again x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I started a convo with a lady on here.

During the convo she said she needed to pick up a prescription, but didn't have any cash.

(yes I did)

Then...... Of course there was something else she needed money for.

That will teach me for trying to be helpful and trusting.

Bless you...but don't do it again x"

Yes miss. Just felt sorry for her - yes I'm a silly sod

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I started a convo with a lady on here.

During the convo she said she needed to pick up a prescription, but didn't have any cash.

(yes I did)

Then...... Of course there was something else she needed money for.

That will teach me for trying to be helpful and trusting.

Bless you...but don't do it again x

Yes miss. Just felt sorry for her - yes I'm a silly sod"

not at all ..you just have a heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flik is ridiculously friendly and outgoing which can be misconstrued by men....she's just a friendly person...I, on the other hand, can can be a miserable git, but I'm comfortable with that."

Ditto ...... I’m Like “ you can’t say that “ .... his response .... “ I just did”

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By *erriAnneTV/TS
over a year ago

The shire

Yeah bit me on the arse a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am but don’t always get it in return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a big difference between nice.. and gullible.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yes.

But I'm a polite person so will say morning with a smile when passing someone on the street. So do i actively encourage it?

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

But I'm a polite person so will say morning with a smile when passing someone on the street. So do i actively encourage it?

Jo.Xx "

Think woman can do that but if a guy says morning they get that strange look first lol

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