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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In the situation, were we have spoke to someone who is good looking.

But what is it that makes someone attractive to you?

Looks or personality?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

looks, I don't know their personality until much later in our relationship

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Looks at first, but the personality can put me off. Similarly I may not be instantly attracted to someone physically, but their personality can make them more attractive.

Well that's as clear as mud, you're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want both. But I guess looks first as if I like someone’s personality and they send a pic and I don’t fancy them then it wouldn’t work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks at first, but the personality can put me off. Similarly I may not be instantly attracted to someone physically, but their personality can make them more attractive.

Well that's as clear as mud, you're welcome "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can think someone is attractive but not be attracted to them and the reverse is true. The why is that thing you can't easily explain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First impressions are important and its looks that normally make them.

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By *moothman2000Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

It's personality for me all the way.

I'd rather have a reliable battered table than one with thin veneer on shitty chipboard...

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By *ustme34Man
over a year ago

Bingley


"Looks at first, but the personality can put me off. Similarly I may not be instantly attracted to someone physically, but their personality can make them more attractive.

Well that's as clear as mud, you're welcome "
clear to me .. I think the same is most cases.

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Looks at first, but they certainly dont have to be "conventionally" good looking.

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By *0something1965Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"In the situation, were we have spoke to someone who is good looking.

But what is it that makes someone attractive to you?

Looks or personality?"

Neither - I look for good grammar and spelling......

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm sure I don't need to explain this, but it's my personality.

And my sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Online mostly looks, although sometimes if you chat to them for long enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally both, looks for initial attraction, but if they a) can't hold a decent conversation or b) are dumb as rocks, then it won't end well,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks first, confidence next and being perseverant lastly, I don't like weak willed people no matter how intelligent they might be, just doesn't do it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here it's a bit of both. I might see a pic that instantly attracts me to its owner, or I might get a chat with a silhouette who is funny and flirty and attracts me with their personality and conversation. Differnt strokes for differnt folks, at differnt times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks turn my head, personality keeps me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No type here. I look often for attractive to me details.. then the rest becomes a bit of a background. It is how we both engage and respond with body language, facial expression, etc

Looks can change! No need to hang up on them..

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