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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering what signs to look for ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering what signs to look for ?"

Do you want to suck a penis? Or take one in the arse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say if you have any sort of reaction at looking at someone of the same sex and thinking I wonder how they look naked then your at least bi-curious

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By *uncan LynnCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

Dont out a label on your feelings that's a start

And nothing to look for.

If your playing with a couple and anything goes then it's just fun. Unlabeled fun

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By *oxymTV/TS
over a year ago

cramlington

Are you attracted to both sexes then you are bi

Experiment see how you feel it’s not something you catch it’s a gut feeling you always had

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Just wondering what signs to look for ?

Do you want to suck a penis? Or take one in the arse?"

That just about covers it in one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering what signs to look for ?

Do you want to suck a penis? Or take one in the arse?"

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Just wondering what signs to look for ?"

Seriously

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering what signs to look for ?

Do you want to suck a penis? Or take one in the arse?"

curious about sucking a penis

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Reach out at touch it.

As the song goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi curious then,Bi when you have actually sucked one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi curious = thinking about it!

Bi = actually done something with a person of the same sex several times!

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By *eavensScentCouple
over a year ago

Southend

I always wanted to at least try being with a woman so I started bi curious... then I was with a woman and realised I wanted it again so I guess I am bi after all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering what signs to look for ?

Do you want to suck a penis? Or take one in the arse? curious about sucking a penis "

You’ve just answered your own question then.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

What makes you think your curious. Do you twang when you see a nice penis or do you wake up fingering your ass??? Just asking

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Just wondering what signs to look for ?

Do you want to suck a penis? Or take one in the arse? curious about sucking a penis "

A penis is just a body part, so the sucking isn't a big deal. It's what happens to that person you're fellating that changes the dynamic, when he starts to moan, how the penis goes from soft to hard, the salty taste...if that's turning you on, you're certainly bi curious

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"Just wondering what signs to look for ?

Do you want to suck a penis? Or take one in the arse?"

Summed it up beautifully!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Just wondering what signs to look for ?"

Not sure it catching and been on Fab isn't going to make you any bi or straighter...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi curious= thinking about it

Bi= done it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With me it was when watching st8 porn, I then noticed I was looking at the guys cock and ass more then the women ,so I met up with a guy on fabguys and never looked back x

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By *elliNevvaMan
over a year ago

London

To me -being truly bi sexual is being open to a relationship with either sex -that is it is not so much about the sex per se as the state of mind. Whereas Bi-curious would indicate that you are still exploring your attitudes towards tthis while the idea has appeal.

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"To me -being truly bi sexual is being open to a relationship with either sex -that is it is not so much about the sex per se as the state of mind. Whereas Bi-curious would indicate that you are still exploring your attitudes towards tthis while the idea has appeal."

You may have a legitimate argument there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi curious= thinking about it

Bi= done it

"

Simples!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi curious= thinking about it

Bi= done it

Simples!!"

Not rocket science is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think we should have bi learning.

As there is a period where you may have tried. But are still learning where you are

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By *uckymooMan
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire

By nature of the thread id say youre defo curious.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Bi curious= thinking about it

Bi= done it

Simples!!

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Not rocket science is it "

But, if you're curious about whether you're Bi Curious, does that make you Bi Curious Curious?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Dont out a label on your feelings that's a start

And nothing to look for.

If your playing with a couple and anything goes then it's just fun. Unlabeled fun"

this. Go with the flow and accept it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering what signs to look for ?"
youve stuck it in a guy havnt you give us the Goss

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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I would run a mile from bi or bi curious men, I want them to concentrate on me, not my partner lol. X

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"I would run a mile from bi or bi curious men, I want them to concentrate on me, not my partner lol. X"

Just cuz we is bi doesn’t mean we don’t like lady time

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By *ocbigMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I would run a mile from bi or bi curious men, I want them to concentrate on me, not my partner lol. X

Just cuz we is bi doesn’t mean we don’t like lady time "

..kinda the point of being bi...or am I doing it wrong?

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By *ocbigMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Bi curious= thinking about it

Bi= done it

Simples!!

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Not rocket science is it

But, if you're curious about whether you're Bi Curious, does that make you Bi Curious Curious?"

Bi Bi curious, forgotten B side by The Bay City Rollers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I'm definitely bi-curious. I figure I try and if I like it I'm bi and if I don't I'm straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi curious= thinking about it

Bi= done it

Simples!!

Not rocket science is it "

I do sometimes wonder if some of these threads are for real or a wind up!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I know I'm definitely bi-curious. I figure I try and if I like it I'm bi and if I don't I'm straight. "

I think I could soft play with a women in the right place, right time, right mood

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Bi curious= thinking about it

Bi= done it

Simples!!

Not rocket science is it

I do sometimes wonder if some of these threads are for real or a wind up!"

She rolls her eyes yet again

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By *urning the kinkMan
over a year ago

bristol

Mate just go for it

Life's way to short

If you don't like it then who cares

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

my hubby wouldn't take a cock up the arse or do a guy up the arse and he wouldn't suck a cock but has wanked a cock in a foursum so i don't know what that makes him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering what signs to look for ?"

Just suck a dick then you will know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my hubby wouldn't take a cock up the arse or do a guy up the arse and he wouldn't suck a cock but has wanked a cock in a foursum so i don't know what that makes him "
Just playful bi hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think of the same sex in a sexual way then surely that would make you bi curious and if you act on it then you must be bi

I know that I'm straight because I don't think of other women in a sexual way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my hubby wouldn't take a cock up the arse or do a guy up the arse and he wouldn't suck a cock but has wanked a cock in a foursum so i don't know what that makes him "
hes hands on so bi sexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering what signs to look for ?

Do you want to suck a penis? Or take one in the arse?"

Bit of over simplfiction lol. If your a woman and you are into anal. Does taking one up the arse constitute being a bi female also? Lol there is a lot more to being bi guy than taking one up the arse

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By *liviaGTV/TS
over a year ago

Preston

Good question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering what signs to look for ?

Do you want to suck a penis? Or take one in the arse?

Bit of over simplfiction lol. If your a woman and you are into anal. Does taking one up the arse constitute being a bi female also? Lol there is a lot more to being bi guy than taking one up the arse "

That doesn’t make sense. How does “taking one up the arse” make you a bi female?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering what signs to look for ?

Do you want to suck a penis? Or take one in the arse?

Bit of over simplfiction lol. If your a woman and you are into anal. Does taking one up the arse constitute being a bi female also? Lol there is a lot more to being bi guy than taking one up the arse

That doesn’t make sense. How does “taking one up the arse” make you a bi female?"

It doesn't that's the point, making a statement that taking one up the arse determines if a guy is bi or not makes no sense either....There is more to it that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you have asked I would say your curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were you turned on by John Inman in your youth? Fancied being buggered by Burt Reynolds in a Stetson? If yes then you are bi. If you have just started thinking about knobbing Tom Daley then you are probably just bi-curious.

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By *ayde164TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *ayde164TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

Easy most people are Bi some bisexual or bipolar some are even a bit of both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering what signs to look for ?

Do you want to suck a penis? Or take one in the arse?

Bit of over simplfiction lol. If your a woman and you are into anal. Does taking one up the arse constitute being a bi female also? Lol there is a lot more to being bi guy than taking one up the arse

That doesn’t make sense. How does “taking one up the arse” make you a bi female?

It doesn't that's the point, making a statement that taking one up the arse determines if a guy is bi or not makes no sense either....There is more to it that's all"

It does if it’s a man surely. If it’s a woman pegging him of course it doesn’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering what signs to look for ?

Do you want to suck a penis? Or take one in the arse?

Bit of over simplfiction lol. If your a woman and you are into anal. Does taking one up the arse constitute being a bi female also? Lol there is a lot more to being bi guy than taking one up the arse "

I was thinking along the same lines. So do gay men need to have anal to be gay then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Easy most people are Bi some bisexual or bipolar some are even a bit of both.

"

This cracked me up haha

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I kissed a girl, and I liked it

Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering what signs to look for ?

Do you want to suck a penis? Or take one in the arse?

Bit of over simplfiction lol. If your a woman and you are into anal. Does taking one up the arse constitute being a bi female also? Lol there is a lot more to being bi guy than taking one up the arse

I was thinking along the same lines. So do gay men need to have anal to be gay then?"

That is the point. it is a misconception which many hold in ignorance and often in predudice. Many gay men do not have anal but are in a loving relationship. That was the point that taking one up the arse or not, does not determine if they are bi or gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering what signs to look for ?

Do you want to suck a penis? Or take one in the arse?

Bit of over simplfiction lol. If your a woman and you are into anal. Does taking one up the arse constitute being a bi female also? Lol there is a lot more to being bi guy than taking one up the arse

I was thinking along the same lines. So do gay men need to have anal to be gay then?

That is the point. it is a misconception which many hold in ignorance and often in predudice. Many gay men do not have anal but are in a loving relationship. That was the point that taking one up the arse or not, does not determine if they are bi or gay"

I knew what you meant

For me it's....

Bi curious

Bi playful/ hetero-flexible

Bi sexual

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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago

Shoreditch east London


"To me -being truly bi sexual is being open to a relationship with either sex -that is it is not so much about the sex per se as the state of mind. Whereas Bi-curious would indicate that you are still exploring your attitudes towards tthis while the idea has appeal.

You may have a legitimate argument there. "

I'd go a step further n say there's different levels of "bi"sexuality. There's those that would happily have a relationship with the same sex and have an emotional attachment to someone as well as a physical sexual attraction and there's those that can swing both ways n have sex with both men n women.

I think those that just want the sex side fit into the category of "bi"curious. Even within that I'd consider there are diff levels. Some men will have sex with other men in a group situation but not M-M only. I'm gay but am slightly "pussy curious" to a degree but def wouldn't consider myself "bi" at any level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering what signs to look for ?

Do you want to suck a penis? Or take one in the arse?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me -being truly bi sexual is being open to a relationship with either sex -that is it is not so much about the sex per se as the state of mind. Whereas Bi-curious would indicate that you are still exploring your attitudes towards tthis while the idea has appeal.

You may have a legitimate argument there.

I'd go a step further n say there's different levels of "bi"sexuality. There's those that would happily have a relationship with the same sex and have an emotional attachment to someone as well as a physical sexual attraction and there's those that can swing both ways n have sex with both men n women.

I think those that just want the sex side fit into the category of "bi"curious. Even within that I'd consider there are diff levels. Some men will have sex with other men in a group situation but not M-M only. I'm gay but am slightly "pussy curious" to a degree but def wouldn't consider myself "bi" at any level. "

I’ve thought about this recently. Whether to change my profile to bi curious. Even though I’ve had quite a few encounters with women it is and always will be purely a physical thing. Totally different to a man in every way. Not even comparable really. I could never have a relationship with a woman, whereas with a man I need that little bit more. Hard to explain really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me -being truly bi sexual is being open to a relationship with either sex -that is it is not so much about the sex per se as the state of mind. Whereas Bi-curious would indicate that you are still exploring your attitudes towards tthis while the idea has appeal.

You may have a legitimate argument there.

I'd go a step further n say there's different levels of "bi"sexuality. There's those that would happily have a relationship with the same sex and have an emotional attachment to someone as well as a physical sexual attraction and there's those that can swing both ways n have sex with both men n women.

I think those that just want the sex side fit into the category of "bi"curious. Even within that I'd consider there are diff levels. Some men will have sex with other men in a group situation but not M-M only. I'm gay but am slightly "pussy curious" to a degree but def wouldn't consider myself "bi" at any level.

I’ve thought about this recently. Whether to change my profile to bi curious. Even though I’ve had quite a few encounters with women it is and always will be purely a physical thing. Totally different to a man in every way. Not even comparable really. I could never have a relationship with a woman, whereas with a man I need that little bit more. Hard to explain really. "

This is the conundrum, Bi term is a bit of a 1 dimensional term - we prefer the term sexually liberated but no one puts it on as an option lol. Being in involved with the LBGT communities and others through various different routes, you see a very different picture than what is perceived by many.

With true Bi or Gay there has to be an attraction or an emotional level and not just physical as I alluded to in previous threads. Enjoy Bi side "physical and a little bit emotional or chemistry and think it is important to enjoy it fully", but we have a full and fulfilling relationship and (home fire burn brightly) that's where my real emotions and feelings lie. So because strait side you could say is the focus and centre of the relationship, but enjoy the bi side, am I straight or Bi) or just sexually liberated?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My bi side ranges depending on who I'm with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its in your jeans if you get a hard on when you see another mans cock youre bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its in your jeans if you get a hard on when you see another mans cock youre bi "

LOL Can see people don't really have a clue sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, the amount of female profiles I've seen which say bi-curious then have explicit lesbian photos, I'd say actually having sex with the same gender makes you bi-curious!

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By *oachman 9CoolMan
over a year ago

derby

young attractive traps younger the better made up are a turn on for me but I,d only ever be a top etc, bi curious I suppose something I,ve only realised in recent times..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, the amount of female profiles I've seen which say bi-curious then have explicit lesbian photos, I'd say actually having sex with the same gender makes you bi-curious! "

If you're if interested in exploring same sex sex, then you're bi curious or could be pre gay.

Having sex with either sex more than once or twice would put you in firmly in the "no longer curious" catagory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The signs he’s bi when he meets more men than you & sucks more c*ck than you & that’s not even being nasty it’s just my experience

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