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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I've only been back on afew days (I was on account afew years ago but only just come back on)

And I've been blocked already by people me and my fella are looking for a woman and they asked for a picture of both of us so i said I'll get one when hes home and then got blocked ?? x any advice xx

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Maybe get photo verified by the site and dont expect miracles straight away!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Have a photo ready to go. If you get blocked, move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe set up the profile with pictures of both of you first before starting to chat?

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"So I've only been back on afew days (I was on account afew years ago but only just come back on)

And I've been blocked already by people me and my fella are looking for a woman and they asked for a picture of both of us so i said I'll get one when hes home and then got blocked ?? x any advice xx "

in your situation id say mention it on your profile and photo verification is a must. good luck

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

If your having no look with the ladies OP then give me a shout and I’ll happily finger blast you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone just felt as soon as I chatted got blocked lol I guess there not the ones then ? A well I'll get photo verified soon x

Does both my pictures show up on here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pics of both of you would help.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've just added some and waiting to be verified too so fingers crossed I've blurted his face out of them do you think that will be fine ... he dont mined sending them in a private message but not on the profile xx

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've also recently rejoined the site.

It will take time to rebuild a reputation.

Good luck.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"So I've only been back on afew days (I was on account afew years ago but only just come back on)

And I've been blocked already by people me and my fella are looking for a woman and they asked for a picture of both of us so i said I'll get one when hes home and then got blocked ?? x any advice xx "

There are too many fake profiles here for most women to take a chance.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I've just added some and waiting to be verified too so fingers crossed I've blurted his face out of them do you think that will be fine ... he dont mined sending them in a private message but not on the profile xx "

its no problem blurring faces but anyone who knows you will know its him anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know but that's what he wants hahah xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I know but that's what he wants hahah xx "

That's fair enough, nobody should show more of themselves than they want to

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

People block for all sorts of reasons, it's not necessarily a bad thing. People may have blocked you because they want immediate returns or they misunderstood your circumstances.

As you're probably aware from your previous time on the site, it can take a little while to find your 'groove' regarding interaction.

Dont take the blocks to heart, it's just people managing their experiences as to what they want.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

You can't really see much of the male on the one you have added.

Are you sending pics of you both when you message women?

If not i can kind of see why they would delete/block.

As a straight female if we get a wink/message from a couple with no male pics on profile or none attached,i delete too.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be suspicious, I am suspicious tbh, so really you need to address those suspicions if you want guys to not be suspicious. Pics of you showing BOTH your faces and being photo or cam verified might help....... You can pick any idiot to cam veri you on the chat room....

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be suspicious, I am suspicious tbh, so really you need to address those suspicions if you want guys to not be suspicious. Pics of you showing BOTH your faces and being photo or cam verified might help....... You can pick any idiot to cam veri you on the chat room....

Good luck "

Says the man with no profile pic

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Lots of clear face pictures of the female only, and pretty much nothing of the other half, on a couples profile is a red flag. I'm not suggesting you're not genuine, but a lot of dodgy profiles look like yours does just now. A single male posting pics of his ex and claiming still to be a couple, it happens on here. That's probably why you're not getting anywhere.

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