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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you left fab for some reason, say life got in the way or you were just fed up, would you stick with the same name, pics etc or start afresh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please don’t go ?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'm not sure if I could reinvent myself, because then i wouldnt quite be me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start fresh like i did

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’d probably stick with the same. It’s taken long enough to get 0.0001% of the women to accept I’m not a complete tool, I don’t want to throw that away.

How about you, Rubi? Will that pair of dark glasses and a slightly different haircut work for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same name. Left a few times and always came back as Nora

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'd come back with blurry photos of my quim and boobs and have a catchy new name so no one would ever work out who I was. I'd black and white the photos as well. It could be fun being all right wing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd come back with blurry photos of my quim and boobs and have a catchy new name so no one would ever work out who I was. I'd black and white the photos as well. It could be fun being all right wing. "

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I'd come back with blurry photos of my quim and boobs and have a catchy new name so no one would ever work out who I was. I'd black and white the photos as well. It could be fun being all right wing. "

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I considered coming back with a different name etc.. but I’d still be me so decided it was pointless. I’d rather be consistently me than trying to play some kind of character. I’m pretty happy being me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start afresh of course.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d probably stick with the same. It’s taken long enough to get 0.0001% of the women to accept I’m not a complete tool, I don’t want to throw that away.

How about you, Rubi? Will that pair of dark glasses and a slightly different haircut work for you?"

I wouldn't try to fool people into thinking I was someone else but I might try to fly under the radar for a while, I sometimes wonder if I come across right on here if that makes sense? Some people have a different view of me to how I really am but then I guess a lot of that is because of their presumptions too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hide my profile and come back the same way. I'm still the same me, I dont want to change my persona on here. I have projected myself true self to the best of my ability on here, love me or hate me at least I'm being me.

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By *eavensScentCouple
over a year ago

Southend

We’re pretty happy with ours so would probably stick.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Hopefully my name wouldn't be nicked and i'd be able to use the same one. I don't feel my approach would be any different on a return. As to pics; depends on how long I was away for. If for a short time i might use some of the ones I currently have but would mostly do new ones. Pic taking is fun

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I've done the name change without ever leaving!

New pics. I would feel dishonest using old pics. My look has changed quite a bit over the years, and my photos reflect that. If I were to use my very first photo now as my avatar, I doubt anyone would recognise me. I love some of my old pics... But I was slim in them, and had long brunette hair... I'm a tubby grey badger these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same name, same pics, same me, just more enthusiastic again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd come back with blurry photos of my quim and boobs and have a catchy new name so no one would ever work out who I was. I'd black and white the photos as well. It could be fun being all right wing. "

I thought you were right wing.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Been there done that. And still the same all be it somewhat refined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fresh start. New pictures - completely change my profile probably!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I'd come back with blurry photos of my quim and boobs and have a catchy new name so no one would ever work out who I was. I'd black and white the photos as well. It could be fun being all right wing.

I thought you were right wing."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same everything ... Why change it ..I'm sure someone will disagree

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Probably the same name. I've gone by this moniker in the swinging and kink world since 2003.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I left in 2017 and came back 2019 new pics ect, people change such alot (i did in that time) old pics arn't any use to anyone really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go away and come back all the time. And just use a new name/pics. I get in touch with the friends from before who I'd like to meet again, but apart from that I'm just some boobs on a screen amongst a full sea of them, so it doesn't really matter whether I've been here before or brand new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started afresh xx

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I certainly wouldn’t create a new profile to turn back time it seems to be a thing these days.

I won’t come back if I leave, I will just hide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you left fab for some reason, say life got in the way or you were just fed up, would you stick with the same name, pics etc or start afresh? "

I kept the name for a little while but changed it after about two weeks

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I changed my name a while back. Got told off a few that messaged me now that they wouldn't with my last username x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was gonna be troll slayer on my return but thought this suited me best

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I came back with a different name, new pictures, and a slightly different approach...it's working better than before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d use the same name, but new pics x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd come back with no pics and very little profile text and post on the forum and no one would guess its me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've left and come back a few times now.

Different name, different pictures - yet Fab stays exactly the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've left and come back a few times now.

Different name, different pictures - yet Fab stays exactly the same "

The water cooler has moved since the last time I was here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went into the fab witness protection program for a lil while....

.....I really do need to add some pics now mind.....

I guess it depends if you're bothered so much by what fab folk think.....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My presence is changing slowly, but the core stays and would say the same. I might put more thought into my username than I did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would put I'm 41 ha ha then in the forums say splendid, spiffing ans jolly a lit and soon be blumming well sussed lol

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I’d definitely change my name, would stop so many footie related messages like “would you ever f**k an A*****l fan” or “let me thrash you like we thrashed at the weekend”, some thought would have to actually have to go into a message...... on second thoughts nope it would still be the same nonsense without the footie reference

New pics would be taken as that would be the current you, although the style could be similar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd trick you all into thinking I was someone hot and nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd trick you all into thinking I was someone hot and nice "

I already think that

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I’d post internal orifice photos so people could get to know the REAL me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I left in 2017 and came back 2019 new pics ect, people change such alot (i did in that time) old pics arn't any use to anyone really."

I would have walked straight past you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make a new account every year or so and try to get some kind of external communication alternative with people I want to keep in touch.

When I return it's under a different name, incognito for about a month, new pics and shitty profile description, each time worse than before it seems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it when I need to shave a few more years off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd trick you all into thinking I was someone hot and nice "

Wonder if that would work if I tried it

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley


"I'd come back with blurry photos of my quim and boobs and have a catchy new name so no one would ever work out who I was. I'd black and white the photos as well. It could be fun being all right wing. "

It’s never fun being right wing, at least for those near by!

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley


"My presence is changing slowly, but the core stays and would say the same. I might put more thought into my username than I did. "

I like your user name... has a 40s/50s vibe (in a let your hair down way).

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

I left, got a new profile and changed my name. My last one was a bit cock bragging and I thought there is more to me than my penis, even on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stuck "again" on the end! How lazy was I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've changed mine a few times but a friend helped me with this one and it's a keeper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

left a couple of times and came back... same name, but fresh pics (re-posting old ones would be deception, right?)

Back to stay this time - much more comfortable with who I am, and enjoying Fab more

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I've left and returned a couple of times. Once I came back with new name, new pictures and a new physique! People still worked out who I was very quickly.

When I've returned recently there seemed little point in the cloak and dagger.

Why would you change your name and pictures? Is it in an effort to hide your persona from before?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you left fab for some reason, say life got in the way or you were just fed up, would you stick with the same name, pics etc or start afresh? "
I'd stick with my birth name yes

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

I like to think that if and when I go I'll stay gone. If not I'd start again, different name/pics/blurb etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I left.

I came back with a different name.

I left again.

I came back with another different name.

I left again.

I came back again with yet another different name and a different approach. It was completely not me.

I left again.

And now I'm back. Pretty much as I was the first time.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Have recently thought about leaving, but would I come back as the same old me?

That’s very doubtful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came back with a newish name. Some photos were the same. It took a couple of weeks for people to guess who I was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I came back with a newish name. Some photos were the same. It took a couple of weeks for people to guess who I was "
omg you're ivanka trump

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