FabSwingers.com forum: Women do you like men being intimated by you ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Or would you rather you were approachable ?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'm guessing that like most preferences it will differ between individuals.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Intimidated? No.

Being taken seriously? Yes.

If I have to choose between "nice"/doormat and scary bitch who doesn't take any shit... Be afraid.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I can’t imagine why anyone, man or woman, would be intimidated by me

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I want them intimidated and grateful please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Although I don’t think anyone would be by me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confirm - I had a co-worker lock me in a disabled toilet & asked if I was ‘intimidated by her’ - she then proceeded to strip me down.

Can confirm I was extremely turned on by it.

Personally for me - id like it the other way around every once in a while.... a woman to take full control & drive that intimidation factor.

Nothing sexier than a powerful woman

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I can come across as a prickly bitch but that’s social awkwardness not attitude. I’d like to come across as more approachable..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can’t imagine why anyone, man or woman, would be intimidated by me

Is it because you’re an Independent, beautiful woman who didn’t compromise on her way to the top ?

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've been told I'm intimidating. No idea why. Yet anyone who knows me properly knows that I'm not x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can come across as a prickly bitch but that’s social awkwardness not attitude. I’d like to come across as more approachable..

I think you have a kind face, there’s an empathy there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No. Although I don’t think anyone would be by me!"

I beg to differ, I don’t think you’d take any crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they should be grateful that I chosen to give them the chance to prove they're worthy of my time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Although I don’t think anyone would be by me!

I beg to differ, I don’t think you’d take any crap "

I definitely don’t but I don't think that makes me intimidating though.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"I can’t imagine why anyone, man or woman, would be intimidated by me

Is it because you’re an Independent, beautiful woman who didn’t compromise on her way to the top ?"

Er, no

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I don't think I'm intimidating in the slightest. I wouldn't want to be seen that way either.

I'll keep with the cute and approachable thing, it works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can come across as a prickly bitch but that’s social awkwardness not attitude. I’d like to come across as more approachable..

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straight talking scares some folks mainly southerners

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No. Although I don’t think anyone would be by me!

I beg to differ, I don’t think you’d take any crap

I definitely don’t but I don't think that makes me intimidating though. "

Plus I think you have powerful thighs, that would scare some men, not me however, if anything I welcome them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

People are often intimidated by me, not just men. Some aren't though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I can come across as a prickly bitch but that’s social awkwardness not attitude. I’d like to come across as more approachable..

straight talking scares some folks mainly southerners

Yep, it terrifies us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Although I don’t think anyone would be by me!

I beg to differ, I don’t think you’d take any crap

I definitely don’t but I don't think that makes me intimidating though.

Plus I think you have powerful thighs, that would scare some men, not me however, if anything I welcome them."

I can crush nuts between those thighs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can come across as a prickly bitch but that’s social awkwardness not attitude. I’d like to come across as more approachable..

straight talking scares some folks mainly southerners

Yep, it terrifies us

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No. Although I don’t think anyone would be by me!

I beg to differ, I don’t think you’d take any crap

I definitely don’t but I don't think that makes me intimidating though.

Plus I think you have powerful thighs, that would scare some men, not me however, if anything I welcome them.

I can crush nuts between those thighs "

Are we flirting ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Although I don’t think anyone would be by me!

I beg to differ, I don’t think you’d take any crap

I definitely don’t but I don't think that makes me intimidating though.

Plus I think you have powerful thighs, that would scare some men, not me however, if anything I welcome them.

I can crush nuts between those thighs

Are we flirting ?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No. Although I don’t think anyone would be by me!

I beg to differ, I don’t think you’d take any crap

I definitely don’t but I don't think that makes me intimidating though.

Plus I think you have powerful thighs, that would scare some men, not me however, if anything I welcome them.

I can crush nuts between those thighs

Are we flirting ?

No "

Phew

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By *ittlewinkerMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

a lot of women (not all) do intimidate men. The last woman I met who tried to be, I told to get her head out of her arse

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By *ittlewinkerMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

but there again it was in Chester

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"a lot of women (not all) do intimidate men. The last woman I met who tried to be, I told to get her head out of her arse"

Blimey she was flexible!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

It depends on the situation. Sexually, I like to be on an even footing, with both of us occasionally taking control.

At work, I love being able to switch on that persona when needed, or just for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Although I don’t think anyone would be by me!

I beg to differ, I don’t think you’d take any crap

I definitely don’t but I don't think that makes me intimidating though.

Plus I think you have powerful thighs, that would scare some men, not me however, if anything I welcome them.

I can crush nuts between those thighs

Are we flirting ?

Phew"

Do you have a favourite fruit. Just out of interest?

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By *ittlewinkerMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

"a lot of women (not all) do intimidate men. The last woman I met who tried to be, I told to get her head out of her arse

Blimey she was flexible!"

she was a gymnast lol

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I consider myself to be approachable unless deliberately trying to be intimidating

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By *ittlewinkerMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

I suppose I do, thinking about it as I went to a boarding school for boys only

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I get told, in real life I'm intimidating .

Always amuses me

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I can come across as a prickly bitch but that’s social awkwardness not attitude. I’d like to come across as more approachable..

I think you have a kind face, there’s an empathy there."

Thank you.. I hope so.. I’m just difficult to read so doesn’t always translate with those that don’t know me well..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I consider myself to be approachable unless deliberately trying to be intimidating

I know I'm approachable but other people's perception is that I'm intimidating. Not much I can do about that

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By *ittlewinkerMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

"I can come across as a prickly bitch but that’s social awkwardness not attitude. I’d like to come across as more approachable..

I think you have a kind face, there’s an empathy there.

Thank you.. I hope so.. I’m just difficult to read so doesn’t always translate with those that don’t know me well.. "

I hear you hun, Im like that myself sometimes

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Both.... depends on the man.

If I intimidate him then he’s not for me.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I can come across as a prickly bitch but that’s social awkwardness not attitude. I’d like to come across as more approachable..

straight talking scares some folks mainly southerners

Ha ha not to generalise..

sarcasm and manc accent maybe isn’t the greatest combination..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can come across as a prickly bitch but that’s social awkwardness not attitude. I’d like to come across as more approachable..

straight talking scares some folks mainly southerners

Ha ha not to generalise..

sarcasm and manc accent maybe isn’t the greatest combination.. "

Yeah people do struggle with it I think lol

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I'd much rather be approachable xx

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By *ittlewinkerMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

"I consider myself to be approachable unless deliberately trying to be intimidating

I would be if I met you only due to your red hair....I don't normally stutter

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I can come across as a prickly bitch but that’s social awkwardness not attitude. I’d like to come across as more approachable..

straight talking scares some folks mainly southerners

Ha ha not to generalise..

sarcasm and manc accent maybe isn’t the greatest combination..

Yeah people do struggle with it I think lol "

Yup!!

I’m not sweet and girly.. the pan face and accent just top it off!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd like to think I'm approachable x

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By *ittlewinkerMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

"I can come across as a prickly bitch but that’s social awkwardness not attitude. I’d like to come across as more approachable..

straight talking scares some folks mainly southerners

Ha ha not to generalise..

sarcasm and manc accent maybe isn’t the greatest combination..

Yeah people do struggle with it I think lol

Yup!!

I’m not sweet and girly.. the pan face and accent just top it off! "

I love the manc accent, I always go to Ashton to see my sister

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In life or on fab? In life I'm quite shy but I'm always smiling and random people approach me all the time and I'd prefer it that way.

On fab I've been told I'm quite intimidating which I find hilarious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get told, in real life I'm intimidating .

Always amuses me

Your name means to the stars ?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No. Although I don’t think anyone would be by me!

I beg to differ, I don’t think you’d take any crap

I definitely don’t but I don't think that makes me intimidating though.

Plus I think you have powerful thighs, that would scare some men, not me however, if anything I welcome them.

I can crush nuts between those thighs

Are we flirting ?

Phew

Do you have a favourite fruit. Just out of interest?"

Not really, I’m more a veg man.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I consider myself to be approachable unless deliberately trying to be intimidating

Is that when you’ve got the blue strap on on ?

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By *ittlewinkerMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

"In life or on fab? In life I'm quite shy but I'm always smiling and random people approach me all the time and I'd prefer it that way.

On fab I've been told I'm quite intimidating which I find hilarious. "

I suppose its better that way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In life or on fab? In life I'm quite shy but I'm always smiling and random people approach me all the time and I'd prefer it that way.

On fab I've been told I'm quite intimidating which I find hilarious. "

I’m thinking more in real life, but on here to a lesser extent, I know you need to have your guard up more on here.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Frankly it depends on my mood and the situation. In particular settings I'm quite happy to be intimidating (in dominant mode for example). For the most part though I'm pretty approachable.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

No one intimidates me. I just love women in general and like to meet them

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I just love women in general and like to meet them

You do? I had no idea. This is truly groundbreaking.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I consider myself to be approachable unless deliberately trying to be intimidating

Is that when you’ve got the blue strap on on ? "

I'll have you know it's purple

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I just love women in general and like to meet them

You do? I had no idea. This is truly groundbreaking."

Shocking isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I consider myself to be approachable unless deliberately trying to be intimidating

Is that when you’ve got the blue strap on on ?

I'll have you know it's purple

So it is, I got distracted!

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By *atisfying jackMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"I just love women in general and like to meet them

You do? I had no idea. This is truly groundbreaking.

Shocking isn't it?

The only people that intimidate me are vegans! I mean c'mon milk is the juice of gods!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can come across as a prickly bitch but that’s social awkwardness not attitude. I’d like to come across as more approachable..

I would say your approachable, and lovely when you get chatting

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I can come across as a prickly bitch but that’s social awkwardness not attitude. I’d like to come across as more approachable..

I would say your approachable, and lovely when you get chatting

Ah that’s very sweet of you

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Or would you rather you were approachable ?"

I wouldn’t like to come across as intimidating and I am definitely approachable

Welcome back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can come across as a prickly bitch but that’s social awkwardness not attitude. I’d like to come across as more approachable..

I would say your approachable, and lovely when you get chatting

for a pit bull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one intimidates me. I just love women in general and like to meet them

Sue pollard says hi

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I can come across as a prickly bitch but that’s social awkwardness not attitude. I’d like to come across as more approachable..

I would say your approachable, and lovely when you get chatting

for a pit bull

Only when necessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can come across as a prickly bitch but that’s social awkwardness not attitude. I’d like to come across as more approachable..

I would say your approachable, and lovely when you get chatting

for a pit bull

Only when necessary

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"No one intimidates me. I just love women in general and like to meet them

Sue pollard says hi

Who's that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I consider myself to be approachable unless deliberately trying to be intimidating

Is that when you’ve got the blue strap on on ?

I'll have you know it's purple

Men never know that colour, want to play hide the strap on.....

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