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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me and my partner have a date Friday with a new lady we’ve been chatting to and I’m a little shy and nervous.

My partner is confident but i don’t want to leave all the chatting up to him.

What are some good conversation started I can use ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask what her favourite vowel is

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Or her favourite trowel

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Or towel. Lots of conversation openers to choose from.

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By *hysoseriouslyMan
over a year ago

Kent

Can always start with some things that are open and allow conversation to flow...

What’s the funniest line you’ve received on fab?

What do you think makes a great meet? (Can tell you their intentions and if they are after just after a shag)

Do you have a guilty secret tv show?

Fav movie you wouldn’t want to say in a survey?

They usually get you all laughing

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Ask what her favourite vowel is "

And ask if she can write it out with her tongue

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Just go with the conversation flow. Make sure your partner disappears to the loo and the bar so you ladies can chat.

When I am meeting a couple I am far more interested in getting to know the female.

No offence to men, but I am just about to lol. Mostly you are easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just go with the conversation flow. Make sure your partner disappears to the loo and the bar so you ladies can chat.

When I am meeting a couple I am far more interested in getting to know the female.

No offence to men, but I am just about to lol. Mostly you are easy "

Exactly this! When I’ve participated in 3 sum’s I’ll always have the ladies talk alone to see if the chemistry is there too..

It’s not all about one person - it’s about all 3 enjoying the experience.

Just go along with the convo & pick out pointers throughout the conversation to then expand upon! You’ll be fine, stop stressing.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I talk about all sorts of things on socials. Fab experience, clothes, the venue, sometimes really random things of only academic interest. Just let the conversation flow.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Hopefully you've found a chatty one and can let her lead the way. As someone else had said, break the ice for a few minutes then send him away to 'pay for parking'

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Chat about what she's wearing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start by telling her you can be a little shy?

Some people can come across as aloof, when they are actually shy, and you dont want that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can overthink these things. I'm terribly shy in groups but good 1-1. I think between the chatting you will just naturally start talking

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Google "conversation starters"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Google "conversation starters" "

And just read them out to her lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Google "conversation starters"

And just read them out to her lol"

It might give you some ideas if you're both sitting there in silence

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Google "conversation starters"

And just read them out to her lol

It might give you some ideas if you're both sitting there in silence "

My partner is very chatty and funny. It’s more when he leaves us alone that I’ll struggle. I will ask google lol

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Start by telling her you can be a little shy?

Some people can come across as aloof, when they are actually shy, and you dont want that x"

Good advice. I apparently come across as unfriendly but it's really just shyness.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can overthink these things. I'm terribly shy in groups but good 1-1. I think between the chatting you will just naturally start talking "

Hope so. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Start by telling her you can be a little shy?

Some people can come across as aloof, when they are actually shy, and you dont want that x"

I have already lol.

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Chat about what she's wearing? "

That could work x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best thing to do is over think it.

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