FabSwingers.com forum: Do women really seek men on here?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've read so many profiles on Fab (I like to ensure I get an understanding of womens' wants and wantnots) and every so often a woman will say "don't message me, if I want a man I will seek him"..

I've had a girlfriend on here before and she would get inundated with messages on a daily. She never had to seek a man.

So it makes me wonder: how often do

the fairer sex actually cast their net and approach men on fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've read so many profiles on Fab (I like to ensure I get an understanding of womens' wants and wantnots) and every so often a woman will say "don't message me, if I want a man I will seek him"..

I've had a girlfriend on here before and she would get inundated with messages on a daily. She never had to seek a man.

So it makes me wonder: how often do

the fairer sex actually cast their net and approach men on fab?"

I've had a few messages/approaches from women, and regardless of my level of interest, I'm always happy and flattered to receive them, and respond a such

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

They don’t. That would require a bit of effort

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Some block men and search/ message themselves.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Plenty do - I've had a number of messages and meets as a result of being contacted first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've read so many profiles on Fab (I like to ensure I get an understanding of womens' wants and wantnots) and every so often a woman will say "don't message me, if I want a man I will seek him"..

I've had a girlfriend on here before and she would get inundated with messages on a daily. She never had to seek a man.

So it makes me wonder: how often do

the fairer sex actually cast their net and approach men on fab?"

On the forum they do. On wider Fab they also do, but the difference in number, by comparison, given the difference in number, is remarkable.

On the forum you are given the opportunity to prove you are who you say you are. That you can communicate effectively and build up a rapport.

In wider Fab, you've only your photos, your profile and the messages you send.

The messages men send usually start "Hello my name is" Or "I want to *horrific acts of some descrption* to you".

So if you're going to send them, make it STAND OUT.

If your not, expect a quiet life on Fab. Though, with a good variety of photos, spaced out regularly, over time and profile text that STANDS OUT from the crowd of cock.

Then you might just get a message. Though it's not going to happen very quickly. A lot of people like to watch on Fab, they Lurk, Lust and Lie in wait to make their move. Maybe hoping you'll make yours first?

I like to wait for them

If you do too, try to use the Forum to show people who YOU are.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes. It's good to make contact with someone I like, as it's pot luck for who makes contact with me. Both bring success. Guys, keep up your hard work - we appreciate it and love you for your determination to satisfy us all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple answer, of course we do.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads there like sex pests

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I do. Usually in the forums though, someones personality catches my eye and I let them know I'm interested. Sometimes they are too and sometimes not xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was on a single profile I would, and I’ve messaged men I find attractive if I’m doing a bukkake meet. I don’t tend to otherwise, as I don’t meet men as a rule, so that would be misleading, and as such not fair nor honest. Viv xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't read messages I only go after who I want. It's easier that way. I'm looking for something specific though. I also won't approach anyone that regularly uses the forum. There is a whole big world outside of the forum. That's where the true gems that meet my search criteria lie.

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By *owithflow321Man
over a year ago

Molesey

It is surely about having respect but there are a lot of pervs or fakes who ruin it, mind you wherever you go it will happen, I have some female friends on here who spot the odd ones straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of sense in these comments ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some block men and search/ message themselves. "

This is the approach I adopt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been successful by chasing interesting people around the forum threads and starting something from there.

In the real world it's the actual flirting and twinkle in somebodys eye that starts the ball rolling. When you see that twinkle, you both just know...

Looking for people on FAB profiles and sending a first message, just doesn't work for me.

Put me in a room with somebody..

And the basic instinct...guys chase girls..girls play hard to get, but not too hard when somebody shows them the right attention..

Hard to replicate on forums, but not impossible

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never - Women get bombarded with messages on here and I’ve never had the need to go looking

I don’t open many messages as the few words shown in the preview is often enough to know that it’s going nowhere e.g. one word messages like ‘hello’

Also I check profiles before opening messages so if I don’t like the profile I don’t open the message.

I reply to about 1% of messages I receive and usually then it is only to men I chat with regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My box is practically dripping with random females messaging my nipples.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you misunderstand their point. They don’t like to be swamped with messages so they’d rather not be messaged at all and if they want a man they will do the messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My box is practically dripping with random females messaging my nipples..... "

Funny you should say that,my inbox is dripping with messages from nipples

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"They don’t. That would require a bit of effort"

They do, maybe just not you.

I message/wink quite often.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"My box is practically dripping with random females messaging my nipples.....

Funny you should say that,my inbox is dripping with messages from nipples

My nipples are dripping with inbox from messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My box is practically dripping with random females messaging my nipples.....

Funny you should say that,my inbox is dripping with messages from nipples

My nipples are dripping with inbox from messages

Hang on a second! messages can't send inboxes!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"My box is practically dripping with random females messaging my nipples.....

Funny you should say that,my inbox is dripping with messages from nipples

My nipples are dripping with inbox from messages

Hang on a second! messages can't send inboxes!"

It doesn't concern you that my nipples are dripping with inbox?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you misunderstand their point. They don’t like to be swamped with messages so they’d rather not be messaged at all and if they want a man they will do the messaging. "

Wasn't the point he was making that if you don't try you might miss out and fall to the bottom of the pile? I kinda get that, and I've had dates from being proactive and messaging people or couples who apparently do their own seeking.... (maybe I've lost dates with that same approach too, but fuck it....)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My box is practically dripping with random females messaging my nipples.....

Funny you should say that,my inbox is dripping with messages from nipples

Bitty.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My box is practically dripping with random females messaging my nipples.....

Funny you should say that,my inbox is dripping with messages from nipples

My nipples are dripping with inbox from messages

Hang on a second! messages can't send inboxes!

It doesn't concern you that my nipples are dripping with inbox? "

Initially? Very much so, till I realised messages can't send inboxes and therefore your nipples simply can't be dripping with inbox. The lengths some people go to

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Thankfully my nipples arent dripping...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thankfully my nipples arent dripping..."

.....yet.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been approached more times than I can believe!

Ladies do make the first move. I am amazed and stunned when someone does, I must stand out from the crowd more than I realise

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"My box is practically dripping with random females messaging my nipples.....

Funny you should say that,my inbox is dripping with messages from nipples

My nipples are dripping with inbox from messages

Hang on a second! messages can't send inboxes!

It doesn't concern you that my nipples are dripping with inbox?

Initially? Very much so, till I realised messages can't send inboxes and therefore your nipples simply can't be dripping with inbox. The lengths some people go to

What if you're sending a copy of an inbox in a message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My box is practically dripping with random females messaging my nipples.....

Funny you should say that,my inbox is dripping with messages from nipples

My nipples are dripping with inbox from messages

Hang on a second! messages can't send inboxes!

It doesn't concern you that my nipples are dripping with inbox?

Initially? Very much so, till I realised messages can't send inboxes and therefore your nipples simply can't be dripping with inbox. The lengths some people go to

What if you're sending a copy of an inbox in a message? "

I'd get down the local GUM Clinic, that sounds nasty

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"My box is practically dripping with random females messaging my nipples.....

Funny you should say that,my inbox is dripping with messages from nipples

My nipples are dripping with inbox from messages

Hang on a second! messages can't send inboxes!

It doesn't concern you that my nipples are dripping with inbox?

Initially? Very much so, till I realised messages can't send inboxes and therefore your nipples simply can't be dripping with inbox. The lengths some people go to

What if you're sending a copy of an inbox in a message?

I'd get down the local GUM Clinic, that sounds nasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely. Just being slightly old fashioned.

But have done few times, for different reasons.

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

"They don’t. That would require a bit of effort

They do, maybe just not you.

I message/wink quite often.

I always avoided winking as it felt lazy... but I am a single man who can construct a sentence which I understand is a rarity on here.

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

"Thankfully my nipples arent dripping..."

I’m sad my nipples aren’t dripping.

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

I will occasionally look for men, but I won't wink or message if there's no face pic, however good their body or profile might be.

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

Over 2 profiles and 6 years I have been approached by a woman twice, but I never expected to be so that is two times more than I thought I would be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will occasionally look for men, but I won't wink or message if there's no face pic, however good their body or profile might be. "

Not every good guy wants to be recognised locally.. just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only come on here when I have had a drink. I treat it like a game. No women on here could ever convince me to meet them in a million years. I have a beautiful wife and intend to keep it that way. Haha. Good luck though dick pic guys. Haha

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I only come on here when I have had a drink. I treat it like a game. No women on here could ever convince me to meet them in a million years. I have a beautiful wife and intend to keep it that way. Haha. Good luck though dick pic guys. Haha"

I'm not sure your wife would be happy you're on here exchanging pics with women

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Wait, your profile says you're looking for fun with women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She’s fully aware and can’t believe some of you girls! Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure your wife would be happy you're on here exchanging pics with women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did I tell you I thought it was a game?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"She’s fully aware and can’t believe some of you girls! Ha"

What can't you believe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let’s wait for all of the knight in shining armour with there dick pics to respond!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got it in one pal! That’s me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any guy I've met or am friends with I've messaged them first.

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

"I will occasionally look for men, but I won't wink or message if there's no face pic, however good their body or profile might be.

Not every good guy wants to be recognised locally.. just a thought. "

Oh I'm well aware, I just don't want to open myself up to a torrent of abuse, because heaven forbid I might not be attracted to someone once I've seen their face

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

I've had quite a few women make the first contact over the 2 profiles I've had in about 10 years ish!!!

quite lucky maybe, or maybe because I engage in forums I don't know?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it’s just that snappy name you mustered up???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had quite a few women make the first contact over the 2 profiles I've had in about 10 years ish!!!

quite lucky maybe, or maybe because I engage in forums I don't know?!

"
. Maybe it’s just that snappy name you mustered up???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first line of this post makes the thread you started a whole lot clearer.

You're not sober.

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

"I've had quite a few women make the first contact over the 2 profiles I've had in about 10 years ish!!!

quite lucky maybe, or maybe because I engage in forums I don't know?!

. Maybe it’s just that snappy name you mustered up???

maybe your right...

It must be good if you say....especially as you quoted/messaged me twice!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first line of this post makes the thread you started a whole lot clearer.

You're not sober.

And every post on every thread tonight.

Have a kip bum. It will be better in the morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first line of this post makes the thread you started a whole lot clearer.

You're not sober.

Thanks doll. Means a lot.

And every post on every thread tonight.

Have a kip bum. It will be better in the morning"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had quite a few women make the first contact over the 2 profiles I've had in about 10 years ish!!!

quite lucky maybe, or maybe because I engage in forums I don't know?!

. Maybe it’s just that snappy name you mustered up???

maybe your right...

It must be good if you say....especially as you quoted/messaged me twice!!!

Love you jiz monkey! I know you are probably a real straight shooter. I tail chaser of the highest order

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I've had quite a few women make the first contact over the 2 profiles I've had in about 10 years ish!!!

quite lucky maybe, or maybe because I engage in forums I don't know?!

. Maybe it’s just that snappy name you mustered up???

maybe your right...

It must be good if you say....especially as you quoted/messaged me twice!!!

Have you pulled jizzy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had quite a few women make the first contact over the 2 profiles I've had in about 10 years ish!!!

quite lucky maybe, or maybe because I engage in forums I don't know?!

. Maybe it’s just that snappy name you mustered up???

maybe your right...

It must be good if you say....especially as you quoted/messaged me twice!!!

Have you pulled jizzy?

Forum bants!! Amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first line of this post makes the thread you started a whole lot clearer.

You're not sober.

Thanks doll. Means a lot.

And every post on every thread tonight.

Have a kip bum. It will be better in the morning"

No worries, but do have a rest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thankfully my nipples arent dripping...

I’m sad my nipples aren’t dripping. "

its overrated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thankfully my nipples arent dripping...

I’m sad my nipples aren’t dripping.

its overrated

Trying my hardest to be upbeat and nice. You should be the same. It costs nothing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thankfully my nipples arent dripping...

I’m sad my nipples aren’t dripping.

its overrated

Trying my hardest to be upbeat and nice. You should be the same. It costs nothing?"

R u ok hun? You seem very angry at someone/something

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Thankfully my nipples arent dripping...

I’m sad my nipples aren’t dripping.

its overrated

Trying my hardest to be upbeat and nice. You should be the same. It costs nothing?"

Sorry, we'll make Genghis use a cover when breastfeeding in future. That's what's offending you right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really? Please let me know where I have been angry! If you can quote one angry statement of mine I will give you a prize! Hurry up!! 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thankfully my nipples arent dripping...

I’m sad my nipples aren’t dripping.

its overrated

Trying my hardest to be upbeat and nice. You should be the same. It costs nothing?

Sorry, we'll make Genghis use a cover when breastfeeding in future. That's what's offending you right?"

Not speaking to you anyway babe! I messaged you two months ago inviting you to spain! We are done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really? Please let me know where I have been angry! If you can quote one angry statement of mine I will give you a prize! Hurry up!! 3"

Erm this comes across as quite angry. You are scaring me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really? Please let me know where I have been angry! If you can quote one angry statement of mine I will give you a prize! Hurry up!! 3

Erm this comes across as quite angry. You are scaring me

You win. Let’s make sure people aren’t subjected to that sort of anger again. You should report me. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck I wish I had the energy to stay up, this could be quite a funny thread.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck I wish I had the energy to stay up, this could be quite a funny thread.....

Imagine wanting to stay up to witness the sex site banter. Real hoot you are buddy!!!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Thankfully my nipples arent dripping...

I’m sad my nipples aren’t dripping.

its overrated

Trying my hardest to be upbeat and nice. You should be the same. It costs nothing?

Sorry, we'll make Genghis use a cover when breastfeeding in future. That's what's offending you right?

Not speaking to you anyway babe! I messaged you two months ago inviting you to spain! We are done.

Wow... clearly I didn't want to go to Spain soz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck I wish I had the energy to stay up, this could be quite a funny thread.....

Imagine wanting to stay up to witness the sex site banter. Real hoot you are buddy!!!"

Whatcha doooooiiinnnnnn.....

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Hi we have had more than one contact us but we are a couple try be your self in the forum...

I try not to pull to many punches ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a little tired now. I’m going to go to sleep, I wish all of you the best and hope my anger hasn’t been a real issue! Take care guys x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi we have had more than one contact us but we are a couple try be your self in the forum...

I try not to pull to many punches ..

You really don’t want that my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really? Please let me know where I have been angry! If you can quote one angry statement of mine I will give you a prize! Hurry up!! 3

Erm this comes across as quite angry. You are scaring me

You win. Let’s make sure people aren’t subjected to that sort of anger again. You should report me. X"

Nah I dont report chicken pie. I like the bantz too much

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over a year ago

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Its fairly easy once you think about it.

A confident woman who knows what she wants will browse profiles look to see what she likes and mails them.

A less confident/lazy/less switched on one will just pick from what she is offered not realising there is better out there!

If you went into tescos you wouldn't pick from 10 trolleys of shopping already bagged up and take one you would go round and pick exactly what you want not make do with whats pushed on you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its fairly easy once you think about it.

A confident woman who knows what she wants will browse profiles look to see what she likes and mails them.

A less confident/lazy/less switched on one will just pick from what she is offered not realising there is better out there!

If you went into tescos you wouldn't pick from 10 trolleys of shopping already bagged up and take one you would go round and pick exactly what you want not make do with whats pushed on you. "

You have just hit the nail on the head! I agree with everything you are saying. But you are

Posting pics on a sex site. The nice girls are all in bed getting their shopping delivered from Waitrose. Lol

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

"Its fairly easy once you think about it.

A confident woman who knows what she wants will browse profiles look to see what she likes and mails them.

A less confident/lazy/less switched on one will just pick from what she is offered not realising there is better out there!

If you went into tescos you wouldn't pick from 10 trolleys of shopping already bagged up and take one you would go round and pick exactly what you want not make do with whats pushed on you. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've read so many profiles on Fab (I like to ensure I get an understanding of womens' wants and wantnots) and every so often a woman will say "don't message me, if I want a man I will seek him"..

I've had a girlfriend on here before and she would get inundated with messages on a daily. She never had to seek a man.

So it makes me wonder: how often do

the fairer sex actually cast their net and approach men on fab?"

No. I act like every other woman in here. I like the attention and to see who would fuck me. There's no chance I would meet the desperate idiots it's just a way to pass my boring day and get a ego boost and blow up my ego

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Of course females take a peek and seek men ,

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Some ladies prefer to find their own sexual partners.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Quite often - I figure if I look for myself, it doubles my chances of finding men I like.

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