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"If your girl is cheating on you? " Gut instinct counts for alot.. | |||
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"If your girl is cheating on you? " Change of routine Doesn't want to be near you Many indicators | |||
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"If your girl is cheating on you? " Has a single persons fab profile that's actively meeting? P | |||
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"If your girl is cheating on you? Gut instinct counts for alot.. " How do you know if the gut feeling is true or paranoia? | |||
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"Finding them in bed with somebody else. That's how I found out." Sorry to hear... what happened? | |||
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"Finding them in bed with somebody else. That's how I found out. Sorry to hear... what happened?" She blamed me and opened up the relationship | |||
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"She doesn’t want you near her " Not necessarily true, cheating can cause a case of permanent horniness and reignite passions at home (even if the cheater is imaging they are with someone else ) | |||
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"If your girl is cheating on you? " Asking for yourself or a friend? | |||
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"If your girl is cheating on you? Has a single persons fab profile that's actively meeting? P" | |||
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"If your girl is cheating on you? Gut instinct counts for alot.. " This | |||
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"If your girl is cheating on you? " something didn't feel right for me, my gut said something was going on even though I wanted to believe nothing was and she wouldn't do that to me....anyway, so I turned self confessed detective and caught the cheating cow bag out through a few different silly lies she told and also whilst using our joint tablet which had backed up her Snapchat conversations via Google drive/photo's that the stupid bint had screenshot'd....BUSTED.... | |||
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"Signs of cheating include : Sudden upgrade of both outward and personal grooming, new clothes, hairstyle, weight loss, waxing/shaving regularly where it wasn't the norm Lots of new social activities where you're not invited - allegedly with friends or colleagues Increased secrecy of phone/online activity New sexy lingerie replaces the M&S grey ones Phone calls which suddenly change in tone or are rapidly concluded when you are around - increase in "wrong numbers" Perky and cheerful for no discernible reason" Haha, loving your status | |||
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"If your girl is cheating on you? Gut instinct counts for alot.. How do you know if the gut feeling is true or paranoia? " Because there was a change that sparked your gut reaction.. Whether yours or hers, something has changed. | |||
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"If your girl is cheating on you? Gut instinct counts for alot.. How do you know if the gut feeling is true or paranoia? " A lot of people don't know the difference. This is when you have to do a bit of soul searching. Are you the type of person who gets suspicious over trivial things? | |||
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"Signs of cheating include : Sudden upgrade of both outward and personal grooming, new clothes, hairstyle, weight loss, waxing/shaving regularly where it wasn't the norm Lots of new social activities where you're not invited - allegedly with friends or colleagues Increased secrecy of phone/online activity New sexy lingerie replaces the M&S grey ones Phone calls which suddenly change in tone or are rapidly concluded when you are around - increase in "wrong numbers" Perky and cheerful for no discernible reason Haha, loving your status " How could I refuse?? | |||
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"When she gets my name tattooed on her ass " Oh, so you're the Chri5 she's been talking about? | |||
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"If your girl is cheating on you? " Because she keeps dipping into the bank when you’re not looking and gives herself £400 for passing go | |||
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"When she gets my name tattooed on her ass Oh, so you're the Chri5 she's been talking about? " I was Chris4 but it was my 5th time with her | |||
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"If your girl is cheating on you? " The gap gets a lot wider | |||
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"My ex was cheating on me, I knew. I didnt need to be told, I just knew. He denied it of course, accused me of losing my marbles, being a paranoid crazy bitch who needed sectioning. One time I had the sense he was with her right there and then, he said he had gone to the pub. Something in me told me to get my arse there right at that moment so I called a taxi and went there in my pjs. That's how certain I was. I peeped through the pub window. There he was talking to some bird. The barman saw me and told him I was outside. He came out calling me all the psycho bitches under the sun, dragged me in the pub and introduced me to her and made me apologise for being so stupid. He then dragged me to the car by my hair, drove me home like a racing driver and pulled me out the car onto the floor outside out house then off he trotted back to the pub. 15 months later she contacted me... and admitted they'd been seeing each other for a while at that time and I was right all along. If I'd got to the pub 5 minutes earlier I'd have caught them smooching. P" What a colossal douche nozzle, both of them actually | |||
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"My ex was cheating on me, I knew. I didnt need to be told, I just knew. He denied it of course, accused me of losing my marbles, being a paranoid crazy bitch who needed sectioning. One time I had the sense he was with her right there and then, he said he had gone to the pub. Something in me told me to get my arse there right at that moment so I called a taxi and went there in my pjs. That's how certain I was. I peeped through the pub window. There he was talking to some bird. The barman saw me and told him I was outside. He came out calling me all the psycho bitches under the sun, dragged me in the pub and introduced me to her and made me apologise for being so stupid. He then dragged me to the car by my hair, drove me home like a racing driver and pulled me out the car onto the floor outside out house then off he trotted back to the pub. 15 months later she contacted me... and admitted they'd been seeing each other for a while at that time and I was right all along. If I'd got to the pub 5 minutes earlier I'd have caught them smooching. P" I hope he dies lonely. | |||
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"My ex was cheating on me, I knew. I didnt need to be told, I just knew. He denied it of course, accused me of losing my marbles, being a paranoid crazy bitch who needed sectioning. One time I had the sense he was with her right there and then, he said he had gone to the pub. Something in me told me to get my arse there right at that moment so I called a taxi and went there in my pjs. That's how certain I was. I peeped through the pub window. There he was talking to some bird. The barman saw me and told him I was outside. He came out calling me all the psycho bitches under the sun, dragged me in the pub and introduced me to her and made me apologise for being so stupid. He then dragged me to the car by my hair, drove me home like a racing driver and pulled me out the car onto the floor outside out house then off he trotted back to the pub. 15 months later she contacted me... and admitted they'd been seeing each other for a while at that time and I was right all along. If I'd got to the pub 5 minutes earlier I'd have caught them smooching. P What a colossal douche nozzle, both of them actually " Yep. Sometimes you just KNOW. P | |||
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"She doesn’t want you near her Not necessarily true, cheating can cause a case of permanent horniness and reignite passions at home (even if the cheater is imaging they are with someone else ) " That is true with some guys too xxx | |||
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"My ex was cheating on me, I knew. I didnt need to be told, I just knew. He denied it of course, accused me of losing my marbles, being a paranoid crazy bitch who needed sectioning. One time I had the sense he was with her right there and then, he said he had gone to the pub. Something in me told me to get my arse there right at that moment so I called a taxi and went there in my pjs. That's how certain I was. I peeped through the pub window. There he was talking to some bird. The barman saw me and told him I was outside. He came out calling me all the psycho bitches under the sun, dragged me in the pub and introduced me to her and made me apologise for being so stupid. He then dragged me to the car by my hair, drove me home like a racing driver and pulled me out the car onto the floor outside out house then off he trotted back to the pub. 15 months later she contacted me... and admitted they'd been seeing each other for a while at that time and I was right all along. If I'd got to the pub 5 minutes earlier I'd have caught them smooching. P What a colossal douche nozzle, both of them actually Yep. Sometimes you just KNOW. P" I didn't have a clue my hubby was cheating. What made it worse was he was cheating with a girl that I gave a job to and fed and helped her through a rough time in her life. Only to come home and find them in my bed in the house I paid for and he beat me up for catching them in the act. If you would of asked me if they were cheating behind my back then I would of said no so I must be blind or stupid. | |||
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"If your girl is cheating on you? Because she keeps dipping into the bank when you’re not looking and gives herself £400 for passing go " | |||
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"My ex was cheating on me, I knew. I didnt need to be told, I just knew. He denied it of course, accused me of losing my marbles, being a paranoid crazy bitch who needed sectioning. One time I had the sense he was with her right there and then, he said he had gone to the pub. Something in me told me to get my arse there right at that moment so I called a taxi and went there in my pjs. That's how certain I was. I peeped through the pub window. There he was talking to some bird. The barman saw me and told him I was outside. He came out calling me all the psycho bitches under the sun, dragged me in the pub and introduced me to her and made me apologise for being so stupid. He then dragged me to the car by my hair, drove me home like a racing driver and pulled me out the car onto the floor outside out house then off he trotted back to the pub. 15 months later she contacted me... and admitted they'd been seeing each other for a while at that time and I was right all along. If I'd got to the pub 5 minutes earlier I'd have caught them smooching. P What a colossal douche nozzle, both of them actually Yep. Sometimes you just KNOW. P I didn't have a clue my hubby was cheating. What made it worse was he was cheating with a girl that I gave a job to and fed and helped her through a rough time in her life. Only to come home and find them in my bed in the house I paid for and he beat me up for catching them in the act. If you would of asked me if they were cheating behind my back then I would of said no so I must be blind or stupid." I just think you were a believer, you believed in him and you believed in her. I don't think it makes you either blind or stupid. I had caught my ex out on multiple lies, manipulation and general evilness many times before, all of which were apparently made up by me in my own head. I already knew he was a wrong un, but I was stuck. I was looking for that definitive answer that nobody could deny or say I was making up. Something I could prove. I knew he was lying, I could tell when he was lying as it was something I'd seen so so many times (just over different subject matter) when he lied to me he would either not make eye contact, or when he did he would have a sort of rage eye, you could see the evil and almost feel the venom in his words. You were taken advantage of and that's cruel, you believed you were in a happy committed relationship, at least I knew mine was toxic so it was a relief to discover the truth rather than an earth shattering shock. P | |||
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"My ex was cheating on me, I knew. I didnt need to be told, I just knew. He denied it of course, accused me of losing my marbles, being a paranoid crazy bitch who needed sectioning. One time I had the sense he was with her right there and then, he said he had gone to the pub. Something in me told me to get my arse there right at that moment so I called a taxi and went there in my pjs. That's how certain I was. I peeped through the pub window. There he was talking to some bird. The barman saw me and told him I was outside. He came out calling me all the psycho bitches under the sun, dragged me in the pub and introduced me to her and made me apologise for being so stupid. He then dragged me to the car by my hair, drove me home like a racing driver and pulled me out the car onto the floor outside out house then off he trotted back to the pub. 15 months later she contacted me... and admitted they'd been seeing each other for a while at that time and I was right all along. If I'd got to the pub 5 minutes earlier I'd have caught them smooching. P What a colossal douche nozzle, both of them actually Yep. Sometimes you just KNOW. P I didn't have a clue my hubby was cheating. What made it worse was he was cheating with a girl that I gave a job to and fed and helped her through a rough time in her life. Only to come home and find them in my bed in the house I paid for and he beat me up for catching them in the act. If you would of asked me if they were cheating behind my back then I would of said no so I must be blind or stupid. I just think you were a believer, you believed in him and you believed in her. I don't think it makes you either blind or stupid. I had caught my ex out on multiple lies, manipulation and general evilness many times before, all of which were apparently made up by me in my own head. I already knew he was a wrong un, but I was stuck. I was looking for that definitive answer that nobody could deny or say I was making up. Something I could prove. I knew he was lying, I could tell when he was lying as it was something I'd seen so so many times (just over different subject matter) when he lied to me he would either not make eye contact, or when he did he would have a sort of rage eye, you could see the evil and almost feel the venom in his words. You were taken advantage of and that's cruel, you believed you were in a happy committed relationship, at least I knew mine was toxic so it was a relief to discover the truth rather than an earth shattering shock. P" It would of been better to see the lies rather than the shock of finding out the way I did. The worst part of it is he won't move out of my house until the divorce is finalised and she lives two doors away with her parents so it's constantly there and I can't get away from what happened yet. Yes I'm on here so that's sort of hypocritical but I never cheated on him and our marriage is over and he doesn't sleep in my bed. So yes I'm sort of cheating but I'm sort of not cheating as we don't even speak to each other. | |||
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"My ex was cheating on me, I knew. I didnt need to be told, I just knew. He denied it of course, accused me of losing my marbles, being a paranoid crazy bitch who needed sectioning. One time I had the sense he was with her right there and then, he said he had gone to the pub. Something in me told me to get my arse there right at that moment so I called a taxi and went there in my pjs. That's how certain I was. I peeped through the pub window. There he was talking to some bird. The barman saw me and told him I was outside. He came out calling me all the psycho bitches under the sun, dragged me in the pub and introduced me to her and made me apologise for being so stupid. He then dragged me to the car by my hair, drove me home like a racing driver and pulled me out the car onto the floor outside out house then off he trotted back to the pub. 15 months later she contacted me... and admitted they'd been seeing each other for a while at that time and I was right all along. If I'd got to the pub 5 minutes earlier I'd have caught them smooching. P What a colossal douche nozzle, both of them actually Yep. Sometimes you just KNOW. P I didn't have a clue my hubby was cheating. What made it worse was he was cheating with a girl that I gave a job to and fed and helped her through a rough time in her life. Only to come home and find them in my bed in the house I paid for and he beat me up for catching them in the act. If you would of asked me if they were cheating behind my back then I would of said no so I must be blind or stupid. I just think you were a believer, you believed in him and you believed in her. I don't think it makes you either blind or stupid. I had caught my ex out on multiple lies, manipulation and general evilness many times before, all of which were apparently made up by me in my own head. I already knew he was a wrong un, but I was stuck. I was looking for that definitive answer that nobody could deny or say I was making up. Something I could prove. I knew he was lying, I could tell when he was lying as it was something I'd seen so so many times (just over different subject matter) when he lied to me he would either not make eye contact, or when he did he would have a sort of rage eye, you could see the evil and almost feel the venom in his words. You were taken advantage of and that's cruel, you believed you were in a happy committed relationship, at least I knew mine was toxic so it was a relief to discover the truth rather than an earth shattering shock. P It would of been better to see the lies rather than the shock of finding out the way I did. The worst part of it is he won't move out of my house until the divorce is finalised and she lives two doors away with her parents so it's constantly there and I can't get away from what happened yet. Yes I'm on here so that's sort of hypocritical but I never cheated on him and our marriage is over and he doesn't sleep in my bed. So yes I'm sort of cheating but I'm sort of not cheating as we don't even speak to each other. " You aren't being hypocritical, you're not sort of cheating... you're moving on. You're in a situation and position you absolutely shouldn't have found yourself in, and I'm gutted for you. P | |||
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"My ex was cheating on me, I knew. I didnt need to be told, I just knew. He denied it of course, accused me of losing my marbles, being a paranoid crazy bitch who needed sectioning. One time I had the sense he was with her right there and then, he said he had gone to the pub. Something in me told me to get my arse there right at that moment so I called a taxi and went there in my pjs. That's how certain I was. I peeped through the pub window. There he was talking to some bird. The barman saw me and told him I was outside. He came out calling me all the psycho bitches under the sun, dragged me in the pub and introduced me to her and made me apologise for being so stupid. He then dragged me to the car by my hair, drove me home like a racing driver and pulled me out the car onto the floor outside out house then off he trotted back to the pub. 15 months later she contacted me... and admitted they'd been seeing each other for a while at that time and I was right all along. If I'd got to the pub 5 minutes earlier I'd have caught them smooching. P What a colossal douche nozzle, both of them actually Yep. Sometimes you just KNOW. P I didn't have a clue my hubby was cheating. What made it worse was he was cheating with a girl that I gave a job to and fed and helped her through a rough time in her life. Only to come home and find them in my bed in the house I paid for and he beat me up for catching them in the act. If you would of asked me if they were cheating behind my back then I would of said no so I must be blind or stupid. I just think you were a believer, you believed in him and you believed in her. I don't think it makes you either blind or stupid. I had caught my ex out on multiple lies, manipulation and general evilness many times before, all of which were apparently made up by me in my own head. I already knew he was a wrong un, but I was stuck. I was looking for that definitive answer that nobody could deny or say I was making up. Something I could prove. I knew he was lying, I could tell when he was lying as it was something I'd seen so so many times (just over different subject matter) when he lied to me he would either not make eye contact, or when he did he would have a sort of rage eye, you could see the evil and almost feel the venom in his words. You were taken advantage of and that's cruel, you believed you were in a happy committed relationship, at least I knew mine was toxic so it was a relief to discover the truth rather than an earth shattering shock. P It would of been better to see the lies rather than the shock of finding out the way I did. The worst part of it is he won't move out of my house until the divorce is finalised and she lives two doors away with her parents so it's constantly there and I can't get away from what happened yet. Yes I'm on here so that's sort of hypocritical but I never cheated on him and our marriage is over and he doesn't sleep in my bed. So yes I'm sort of cheating but I'm sort of not cheating as we don't even speak to each other. You aren't being hypocritical, you're not sort of cheating... you're moving on. You're in a situation and position you absolutely shouldn't have found yourself in, and I'm gutted for you. P" Thank you as it's always nice to have a outsiders point of view on it | |||
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"If your girl is cheating on you? " Not sure you will ever trust someone as you may only see your own reflection in there eye's if you truly want to find somebody you can trust you should maybe remove yourself form herehere and and dedicate yourself to person until you have no doubts then get back on as a couple.. | |||
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"If your girl is cheating on you? " Is she on here too OP or are you cheating on her ? | |||
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"If your girl is cheating on you? " 14 pairs of knickers every week on the washing line. | |||
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"If your girl is cheating on you? Is she on here too OP or are you cheating on her ? " Maybe he's asking for a friend | |||
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"If your girl is cheating on you? Is she on here too OP or are you cheating on her ? Maybe he's asking for a friend " Aah of course ! There’s always that ‘friend’ | |||
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