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"No idea. Personally Fab isn't a great place for building confidence. It's extremely fickle and can switch from adoration to abuse in a split second. " I agree - there’s females I connected with when I first joined 4 years ago that will never come back because of the sheer abuse they get here. So understandable! | |||
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"No idea. Personally Fab isn't a great place for building confidence. It's extremely fickle and can switch from adoration to abuse in a split second. I agree - there’s females I connected with when I first joined 4 years ago that will never come back because of the sheer abuse they get here. So understandable! " In conjunction with other things, and being lucky enough to connect with some great people here, it's helped me. But it's in realising that I do not give a fuck what most people think about me. | |||
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"It's nice to be told nice things but not obsessing over no.. Its actually been quite bad in 1 instance that Ive had to take precautions, social media, etc. That's not fun xx" Agreed - was reading yesterday how a guy was looking to meet an individual then he turned psycho and was looking to share images of her. Just make sure do your due diligence and everything should be cool! Met some great people on this site over the years | |||
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"Just had the thought; Do you think some people just use fab as a form to boost their ego? You see it on dating apps all the time, people just going on there for attention and not actually looking to date. A few certainly love their ego boosted - can’t blame then. It’s nice to hear compliments & people obsessing over you at times! "Personally, it's had the opposite effect on me. I know nothing most folk say on here is sincere. The messages I get, false flattery. People telling me what they think I want to hear, thinking they can charm me. | |||
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"Just had the thought; Do you think some people just use fab as a form to boost their ego? You see it on dating apps all the time, people just going on there for attention and not actually looking to date. A few certainly love their ego boosted - can’t blame then. It’s nice to hear compliments & people obsessing over you at times! "yes..the amount of fk on their profiles saying fab my/our pics is embarrassing! Your an adult get a grip and stop begging for an ego stroke  | |||
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"Hell yeah! I am ugly as sin Fab's taught me that doesnt matter Alot of men aint that picky Boosted my ego big time" I just think it’s what women allow themselves to believe?... if I asked every woman on here to explain what kind of woman I go for they’d probably be wrong? - but they already do it in their head. Think this guy isn’t into me. | |||
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" I think for a lot of men it can be an ego destroyer My personal opinion is that if your ego isn't strong in the first place this isn't the place to look to reinforce it." I think that goes for everyone tbh. | |||
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"Hell yeah! I am ugly as sin Fab's taught me that doesnt matter Alot of men aint that picky Boosted my ego big time I just think it’s what women allow themselves to believe?... if I asked every woman on here to explain what kind of woman I go for they’d probably be wrong? - but they already do it in their head. Think this guy isn’t into me." What is it women allow themselves to believe? | |||
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" I think for a lot of men it can be an ego destroyer My personal opinion is that if your ego isn't strong in the first place this isn't the place to look to reinforce it." Ohh 100%. I thought I’d do okay on the site. I came back & it was brutal! I even have more success on tinder & such. Thankfully i couldn’t give a fuck what anyone but my momma says! Cause she says I’m beautiful  hahahah | |||
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"Hell yeah! I am ugly as sin Fab's taught me that doesnt matter Alot of men aint that picky Boosted my ego big time I just think it’s what women allow themselves to believe?... if I asked every woman on here to explain what kind of woman I go for they’d probably be wrong? - but they already do it in their head. Think this guy isn’t into me." How can any of us know the kind of woman you go for? I know a lot of women (and men) think they know but it's not possible | |||
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"Hell yeah! I am ugly as sin Fab's taught me that doesnt matter Alot of men aint that picky Boosted my ego big time I just think it’s what women allow themselves to believe?... if I asked every woman on here to explain what kind of woman I go for they’d probably be wrong? - but they already do it in their head. Think this guy isn’t into me. What is it women allow themselves to believe?" When approached by a guy they’ll automatically rule it out in their head because they don’t think they’re the guys ‘type’. | |||
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" I think for a lot of men it can be an ego destroyer My personal opinion is that if your ego isn't strong in the first place this isn't the place to look to reinforce it. Ohh 100%. I thought I’d do okay on the site. I came back & it was brutal! I even have more success on tinder & such. Thankfully i couldn’t give a fuck what anyone but my momma says! Cause she says I’m beautiful hahahah"Yeah, I'm pretty much like that so is my partner. You either like me or you don't there's nothing I can do to change it. | |||
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"Just had the thought; Do you think some people just use fab as a form to boost their ego? You see it on dating apps all the time, people just going on there for attention and not actually looking to date. A few certainly love their ego boosted - can’t blame then. It’s nice to hear compliments & people obsessing over you at times! "Some do I would think though more the superficial people, what harm do they do? Well not a lot really just leave them in their own little world. | |||
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"It’s a hilarious place as my previous profile stated I was fat, ugly and crap in bed and I’ve never had so many messages... "Always undersell! Get there & be pleased with their discoveries. | |||
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"It’s a hilarious place as my previous profile stated I was fat, ugly and crap in bed and I’ve never had so many messages... "I had no pictures, at all, for about two months. My pictures were so, so gorgeous. I was so beautiful.  | |||
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"Just had the thought; Do you think some people just use fab as a form to boost their ego? You see it on dating apps all the time, people just going on there for attention and not actually looking to date. A few certainly love their ego boosted - can’t blame then. It’s nice to hear compliments & people obsessing over you at times!
Some do I would think though more the superficial people, what harm do they do? Well not a lot really just leave them in their own little world."0 harm to me or anyone else. It wasn’t a statement - it was a simple question. Some people do go on though - block list is forever growing. | |||
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"No idea. Personally Fab isn't a great place for building confidence. It's extremely fickle and can switch from adoration to abuse in a split second. " This ^ Personally I take everything said with a pinch of salt, especially from those I’ve never met. Those I’ve met you have a better judge of character and whether being true full | |||
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"Fab can be very fickle, build you up one moment and pulls you down the next. Lots of fake compliments x " I don't believe a damn thing I'm told on here | |||
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"Fab can be very fickle, build you up one moment and pulls you down the next. Lots of fake compliments x " tell me about it angie nomatter how many times i say it im hounded | |||
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" As for compliments it depends who's saying them...most are taken with a pinch of salt" This  | |||
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"I gladly accept any and all compliments, it does boost my ego and there is nowt wrong with that " This exactly. ( except we know I’m not allowed to say “nowt”). It does boost mine, but we also look to meet. - Mrs | |||
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"No idea. Personally Fab isn't a great place for building confidence. It's extremely fickle and can switch from adoration to abuse in a split second. " I agree with this too. I do gain more than I lose most of the time thankfully. But the abuse is not fun. | |||
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"I believe very little of what’s said - certainly not by people I’ve never met. You’re the most beautiful woman on here, you’re classier than most of the otters on here, you have a gorgeous body... then straight onto the next with the same lines. So while genuine compliments are welcome, the hyperbole does nothing to boost my ego. " This 100% | |||
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"Obsession, that's a strong word that I don't find attractive in the least. As for compliments it depends who's saying them...most are taken with a pinch of salt" Obsession - had to be used. Only way to describe some of the people on here. They become fixated on you & will start making fake profile & such to message you - it’s a strange one to say at the very least! But you’re a very attractive woman - people will compliment of course. Why take most with a pinch of salt? Is it you don’t believe what they’re saying or what? | |||
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"I believe very little of what’s said - certainly not by people I’ve never met. You’re the most beautiful woman on here, you’re classier than most of the otters on here, you have a gorgeous body... then straight onto the next with the same lines. So while genuine compliments are welcome, the hyperbole does nothing to boost my ego. This 100%" Of course - surprised my copy & paste message hasn’t hit your messages yet 
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"I guess some do. This hasn't boosted me though, quite the opposite. " Single male - don’t worry mate. I’ve had A LOT of rejection messages! A LOT! But it’s okay - not everyone is for everyone. | |||
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"Just had the thought; Do you think some people just use fab as a form to boost their ego? You see it on dating apps all the time, people just going on there for attention and not actually looking to date. A few certainly love their ego boosted - can’t blame then. It’s nice to hear compliments & people obsessing over you at times! "It certainly can give you a boost, but the opposite is also true! It's easy to see through the fake flattery to the genuine people though, so as long as you don't take everything at face value, I think it balances out. Mrs TMN x | |||
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"No idea. Personally Fab isn't a great place for building confidence. It's extremely fickle and can switch from adoration to abuse in a split second. " | |||
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"Obsession, that's a strong word that I don't find attractive in the least. As for compliments it depends who's saying them...most are taken with a pinch of salt Obsession - had to be used. Only way to describe some of the people on here. They become fixated on you & will start making fake profile & such to message you - it’s a strange one to say at the very least! But you’re a very attractive woman - people will compliment of course. Why take most with a pinch of salt? Is it you don’t believe what they’re saying or what? "because it's just to get into my pants which is cool that's why I'm here. If someone tells me I'm the best thing since sliced bread and we've never had a conversation it means nothing. So compliments in context I will graciously accept and others disregard. | |||
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"I would take everything with a pinch of salt, Its nice to be complimented but like most have commented above its usually only a means to an end. Although I do firmly believe I have nice shoes....so to all the fans of them! Thank you! "You're welcome. Amen | |||
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"We have found that swinging has massively challenged both our body confidence issues to the point that we came off the site a couple of times...sorted now and enjoying it all.." Looking at your profile and great pics I would never have thought that. You both look great x | |||
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"We have found that swinging has massively challenged both our body confidence issues to the point that we came off the site a couple of times...sorted now and enjoying it all.. Looking at your profile and great pics I would never have thought that. You both look great x" Agreed - looks like an excellent selection of images. Ones with a real effort shooting them! One thing I appreciate is when someone puts effort into their images | |||
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"I’m sure some do yes. But when you’re inundated with ‘complements’ without showing or saying anything you don’t really see much on here as real. " I agree. But if they have a few pics they won't see the other side, and so will believe the 'compliments'. The other side being where even with no pics and a shit profile, I can still get many 'complimentary' messages from men. All I have to do is put Men on my looking for list and I'm incredibly shaggable. | |||
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"I would take everything with a pinch of salt, Its nice to be complimented but like most have commented above its usually only a means to an end. Although I do firmly believe I have nice shoes....so to all the fans of them! Thank you! "Oi you pinching my salt | |||
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"I’m sure some do yes. But when you’re inundated with ‘complements’ without showing or saying anything you don’t really see much on here as real. I agree. But if they have a few pics they won't see the other side, and so will believe the 'compliments'. The other side being where even with no pics and a shit profile, I can still get many 'complimentary' messages from men. All I have to do is put Men on my looking for list and I'm incredibly shaggable. " Exactly.. some of the messages when they can’t see anything are hilarious! Destroys faith rather than gives any thrill.. | |||
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"We have found that swinging has massively challenged both our body confidence issues to the point that we came off the site a couple of times...sorted now and enjoying it all.. Looking at your profile and great pics I would never have thought that. You both look great x" Why thank you kind lady  i think most people have a wobble for one reason or another.. | |||
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"We have found that swinging has massively challenged both our body confidence issues to the point that we came off the site a couple of times...sorted now and enjoying it all.. Looking at your profile and great pics I would never have thought that. You both look great x Agreed - looks like an excellent selection of images. Ones with a real effort shooting them! One thing I appreciate is when someone puts effort into their images" Thank you for your kind comments they were taken in August this year whilst on holiday.. | |||
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"I never belive anything im told on fab "But bby - me luv u looooong time | |||
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"I believe very little of what’s said - certainly not by people I’ve never met. You’re the most beautiful woman on here, you’re classier than most of the otters on here, you have a gorgeous body... then straight onto the next with the same lines. So while genuine compliments are welcome, the hyperbole does nothing to boost my ego. " | |||
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