FabSwingers.com forum: People who blocked you commenting on your threads

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

After reading a comment on another thread and having had the same experience I was wondering about this.

The rules say "Do not use the forum to try and contact people who have BLOCKED you"

But blocking someone doesn't mean that you don't see what they write on forums and vice versa.

So what about people who put you on block for whatever reasons and still decide to comment on your threads or comments you made in a thread?

This has happened to me before and personally, I wanted to tell them to fook off. If I'm not 'permitted' to talk to them, why are they allowed to do the same?

Thing is, once they've blocked me, I can't block them in return, forcing that rule upon them.

What do you all think? Or do I misinterpret the rules?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

They can respond to threads but what they can't do is try and contact you through the forums or ask on them about why they have been blocked

You can block people that have blocked you if you want by going to your block list and manually entering the username

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You can counterblock people, go to your block list and manually type their username in there.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

the way i read it is don't try to use the forums as a way of personally contacting someone who has blocked you.....

if it is a forum topic i think everyone has a right to a view....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They can respond to threads but what they can't do is try and contact you through the forums or ask on them about why they have been blocked

You can block people that have blocked you if you want by going to your block list and manually entering the username

I think by replying to threads it's a way of contacting the person. But that's just me.

I didn't know about going to the block list and do the blocking from there. Thanks very much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This came up just yesterday evening in another thread.

It is perfectly permissable to post on the thread of someone you have blocked.

You just can't use it as an opportunity to ask them to 'Unblock' you.

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran

"They can respond to threads but what they can't do is try and contact you through the forums or ask on them about why they have been blocked

You can block people that have blocked you if you want by going to your block list and manually entering the username

Or just search for their profile and even tho you can't see it there is still an option on the left to block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry.... 'who has blocked you' I got it the wrong way around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They can respond to threads but what they can't do is try and contact you through the forums or ask on them about why they have been blocked

You can block people that have blocked you if you want by going to your block list and manually entering the username

If someone goes to talk with you directly via a thread then report it. Other than that, They can write on whatever thread they like.

Blocking's a power trip for some people. I've come across profiles where I've been blocked and then unblocked just so they could perve on my profile.

Just ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get the frustration of it..but don't agree with you..sorry...its an open forum. Just ignore them or alternatively...tell em to "fook off!". x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its funnier in the chat rooms where people say 'can you ask (username) why i'm blocked' and then this other person asks why they have blocked a specific user..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get the frustration of it..but don't agree with you..sorry...its an open forum. Just ignore them or alternatively...tell em to "fook off!". x"

sadly you can't tell them to fuck off... because then it becomes personal

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"They can respond to threads but what they can't do is try and contact you through the forums or ask on them about why they have been blocked

You can block people that have blocked you if you want by going to your block list and manually entering the username

This ^^^

Lots of people get confused with this rule.

Once a person puts up a thread or post up then it isn't yours anymore.

Anyone can answer, within rules of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great thread is this I would like to coment toi every one but that would be breaking the rules as I think im going to block every mother F.... last one of yas just so I can start my own threads and agree with my self all the time in replies from my multiple split personalities mwahaahaaahaaa

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Once a person puts up a thread or post up then it isn't yours anymore.

Anyone can answer, within rules of course."

it's not MINE anymore? shocking lol

I can see that happening especially when things get out of MY hands haha

Fair enough. 'Tis the rules, so be it. Personally, I find it weird that people block someone for sometimes unknown reasons and then still have the cheek to give their 2 cents to what the person has to say. If you don't like them, leave them. Just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great thread is this I would like to coment toi every one but that would be breaking the rules as I think im going to block every mother F.... last one of yas just so I can start my own threads and agree with my self all the time in replies from my multiple split personalities mwahaahaaahaaa

lol Timbers you can block us all,, but we can still reply to your thread

... just means you'd not be able to wank over all our pictures pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sadly you can't tell them to fuck off... because then it becomes personal "

AWWW!! Tch..that is just soooo....rubbish!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a person puts up a thread or post up then it isn't yours anymore.

Anyone can answer, within rules of course.

it's not MINE anymore? shocking lol

I can see that happening especially when things get out of MY hands haha

I have an opinion on this subject... which would have been better in private...;-);-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a person puts up a thread or post up then it isn't yours anymore.

Anyone can answer, within rules of course.

it's not MINE anymore? shocking lol

I can see that happening especially when things get out of MY hands haha

Agreed hun/ oooooow shite let me unblock ya quick before I get reported haha have you change please also for my 2cents as im broke this week and need the money

That was a joke by the way moderator woman

However if she wants to give me 2cents then thats up to her aint it. Please fly me over to New York all inclusive to spend those 2cents would ya hun and I will spend them both on you

Aint I just a little sweetie then hey haha xx

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

it's not MINE anymore? shocking lol

I can see that happening especially when things get out of MY hands haha

okay.. so just a thought for you....

if i asked a general question about the current main topic of the day, should those who you have blocked not be as entitled to an opinion as everyone else?

when you put it like that it does seem like a bit of madness.....

if people grate you that much, just don't reply to them... a nice way to deal with it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have an opinion on this subject... which would have been better in private...;-);-)"

Feck off before I block you lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

okay.. so just a thought for you....

if i asked a general question about the current main topic of the day, should those who you have blocked not be as entitled to an opinion as everyone else?

when you put it like that it does seem like a bit of madness.....

if people grate you that much, just don't reply to them... a nice way to deal with it..."

Of course they're entitled to their opinion. But not on my thread lmao! Nah, they don't bugger me too much it's just a thought I had when I realised it was happening to me. I just find people like that a bit ... well ... weird lol

Now let's get back to the 'fuck off' option

Permitted or not? Is 'Feck off' allowed? Father Ted used it a lot and he was a priest after all

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Once a person puts up a thread or post up then it isn't yours anymore.

Anyone can answer, within rules of course.

it's not MINE anymore? shocking lol

I can see that happening especially when things get out of MY hands haha

To be honest if everyone was banned from speaking to anyone on a block it could be we all end up talking to ourselves

Don't forget people have mail filters going on, so a lot of people will be blocked for that, it would make it very sad if someone couldn't answer on a forum just because someone has say single men blocked from mailing them.

Best thing to do is ignore anyone you don't want to answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an opinion on this subject... which would have been better in private...;-);-)

Feck off before I block you lol"

Erm... Theres a reason for my post...

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

okay.. so just a thought for you....

if i asked a general question about the current main topic of the day, should those who you have blocked not be as entitled to an opinion as everyone else?

when you put it like that it does seem like a bit of madness.....

if people grate you that much, just don't reply to them... a nice way to deal with it...

Of course they're entitled to their opinion. But not on my thread lmao!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Best thing to do is ignore anyone you don't want to answer.

Just to clarify this is not about personal preferences and mailing lists. This is about people who for whatever reason put you on BLOCK by pressing the button.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

All applies though....and it is still their preference wether it is mail block or pressing the button block

Anyway, you have your answer from HPC.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

but Mod, you didn't tell me if I can tell them to feck off the Father Ted way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but Mod, you didn't tell me if I can tell them to feck off the Father Ted way lol"

DRINK!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"but Mod, you didn't tell me if I can tell them to feck off the Father Ted way lol

DRINK!!"

ARSE!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but Mod, you didn't tell me if I can tell them to feck off the Father Ted way lol

DRINK!!

ARSE! "

FOOK!!....and i'm immovable on the matter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see any point in trying to interact with people who block you. In general I will ignore as there are plenty more who I find more interesting and amusing.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"but Mod, you didn't tell me if I can tell them to feck off the Father Ted way lol"

I can't say I have ever seen Father Ted....so the answer is I don't know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't see any point in trying to interact with people who block you. In general I will ignore as there are plenty more who I find more interesting and amusing.

I agree. But also vice versa, I don't try to interact with people I have blocked. But some people still seem to do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't see any point in trying to interact with people who block you. In general I will ignore as there are plenty more who I find more interesting and amusing.

I agree. But also vice versa, I don't try to interact with people I have blocked. But some people still seem to do that.

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lolol i find the blocking thing funny ... some block because you dont mail back ... some block as you dont say everything thay like to here ... some block because thay can .... i would block if really really nasty in some sort of way to me thats all , lol would take me for -ever blocking everyone who mail and i dont wish to meet .. and i see no need to . its a power thing to some i am sure the blocking button , lolol

i find them funny sorry just do the blockers xx

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

So what about people who put you on block for whatever reasons and still decide to comment on your threads or comments you made in a thread?

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Ignore?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what about people who put you on block for whatever reasons and still decide to comment on your threads or comments you made in a thread?

Ignore?

That's what I do, 99.99% of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can counterblock people, go to your block list and manually type their username in there."

ooohhh....learnt something new and useful!! thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ignore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocking and partaking in the forums are completely different for me.

Blocking is used for people who have messaged and we don't wish to meet for play. Or maybe guys/couples are a bit pushy, or for those who insist on saying good morning every day, after about the third day I get pissed off and block.

On the forums, there is only a minority of people that I wish to meet but I may enjoy reading their views and interacting on the forums, either agreeing or disagreeing. Its about debate for me. I can interact with someone on a forum that I don't particularly warm to on a personal level. Its rather childish to think that just because you don't like someone that you can't put forward your views on something they may have said in discussion.

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By *1dKingColeMan
over a year ago

east london

But we are all much to important to be ignored!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"But we are all much to important to be ignored!

Hello you ...... who could ignore you ? No - one.

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