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By *orthEastJohn OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

I can sympathise with women having 100s of emails to delete There's a shame fab does not have a no thanks button, that deltes and auto says no thanks message but does not use up the message limits, may even be a benefit in that email having an optional blocking any further emails from the sender, ie if the sender keeps posting, that can be used to highlight the block who don't respect no is no, who knows maybe could be used to negatively score members who pester. Ie I like to chat to anyone on here, but I'm not gay, but same guys seem to think because I have not block there preferences I'm closest gay, I'm not. But by the same token I don't block because I'm not homophobic either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is the benefit of a “No thanks” message though?

A message being deleted is quite a good indicator that someone isn’t interested.

Besides, an auto reply wouldn’t stop people moaning, they’d just say something else like “Why can’t people send a written message instead of an auto reply, it’s lazy” etc.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Blocking single guys from messaging you by using message filters isn't being homophobic

I know some people like to know for sure that it's a definitive no but I think it's probably safe to assume that absence of any sort of response even if the message has been read and not deleted, deleted or left unread, means that it's a no anyway.

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By *orthEastJohn OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne


"Blocking single guys from messaging you by using message filters isn't being homophobic

I know some people like to know for sure that it's a definitive no but I think it's probably safe to assume that absence of any sort of response even if the message has been read and not deleted, deleted or left unread, means that it's a no anyway."

I know what your saying but I do chat with some single guys on here, just chatting and good craic. I block single guy I can't chat to them.

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By *orthEastJohn OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne


"What is the benefit of a “No thanks” message though?

A message being deleted is quite a good indicator that someone isn’t interested.

Besides, an auto reply wouldn’t stop people moaning, they’d just say something else like “Why can’t people send a written message instead of an auto reply, it’s lazy” etc. "
that's why I said have an auto block reply allso, and maybe moderators could see just who the blokes are who pester and pester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair point Op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would be the point in this button?

Clearly on FAQ it says:

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply. 

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

If a guy can't read the FAQ or gets hung up over a no reply... maybe they shouldn't be on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blocking single guys from messaging you by using message filters isn't being homophobic

I know some people like to know for sure that it's a definitive no but I think it's probably safe to assume that absence of any sort of response even if the message has been read and not deleted, deleted or left unread, means that it's a no anyway.

I know what your saying but I do chat with some single guys on here, just chatting and good craic. I block single guy I can't chat to them. "
if you chatted before there immune to a filter block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the benefit of a “No thanks” message though?

A message being deleted is quite a good indicator that someone isn’t interested.

Besides, an auto reply wouldn’t stop people moaning, they’d just say something else like “Why can’t people send a written message instead of an auto reply, it’s lazy” etc. that's why I said have an auto block reply allso, and maybe moderators could see just who the blokes are who pester and pester "

Or they could keep Fab as it is, since it seems to work perfectly well for most of us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i got a message yesturday, sent a few messages back and forth..... weird part is i got blocked as soon as she asked for my number so there are alot of strange people about

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By *orthEastJohn OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne


"Blocking single guys from messaging you by using message filters isn't being homophobic

I know some people like to know for sure that it's a definitive no but I think it's probably safe to assume that absence of any sort of response even if the message has been read and not deleted, deleted or left unread, means that it's a no anyway.

I know what your saying but I do chat with some single guys on here, just chatting and good craic. I block single guy I can't chat to them. if you chatted before there immune to a filter block"
. Thanks, I didn't know that

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

Something I found funny even though a bit off topic....

I clicked a profile to reply from the forums and was greeted by the this user has blocked you....I've never even spoke to them...so that kind of baffled me as to why they would block me even if we've never interacted before!!! Hahaha

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