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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I had a burst appendix a couple of years ago and they had to do open surgery. I have a gnarley scar which wouldn’t look out of place in the scar comparison scene in jaws.

I used to be paranoid about it but my partner helped me realise it tells a story.

Anyone have scars or what are your thoughts about scars on others?

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London

Scars with stories are cool

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By *hubarbandcustard1000Couple
over a year ago

Dudley

They are stories. Life stories. Every scar you have was an event. Some small events. Some large events. But they all form the story that is you. Never be ashamed of a scar. They were around before tattoos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars tell a story of how you had a close shave and lived to tell the tale

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I have plenty. Show I've lived, and survived.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars are what you who you are

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

How big is this appendix scar? Surely only about a third of the size of a Caesarian scar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a burst appendix a couple of years ago and they had to do open surgery. I have a gnarley scar which wouldn’t look out of place in the scar comparison scene in jaws.

I used to be paranoid about it but my partner helped me realise it tells a story.

Anyone have scars or what are your thoughts about scars on others? "

Oddly I have a burst appendix scar. Happened when I was 6 or 7. Covers most of that side of my pelvis.

I've always looked at it as "that was when I could have died if not for modern medicine" never look on that as a disfigurement OP. But I hear that you're over that now...

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

Apart from all the ones on my knees and elbows from tooooooo many years playing football on astroturf....I probably only have life scars....

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Scars are what you who you are"

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I don’t mind scars. I have scars from surgery, accidents and a large scar/skin discolouration on my wrist from a second degree burn where i scalded myself with a cup of tea. Life happens.

My grampy had gunshot wound scars from the Second World War - I loved hearing how he got them. Insensitive twit that i am!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t mind scars. I have scars from surgery, accidents and a large scar/skin discolouration on my wrist from a second degree burn where i scalded myself with a cup of tea. Life happens.

My grampy had gunshot wound scars from the Second World War - I loved hearing how he got them. Insensitive twit that i am!

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Kinda cool tho eh. I wanna hear those stories too. Survival stories are awesome.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It goes from just below the centre of my rib cage down an inch past my belly button. It ruptured so they had to operate quick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Round my left bicep where most of the muscle had to be cut away when I had my arm almost severed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It goes from just below the centre of my rib cage down an inch past my belly button. It ruptured so they had to operate quick "

Similar deal. Was just a child so would have healed differently.

I'd tell people it was a bite if I were you. You were learning to surf in NSW in a place with no shark nets. You punched it on the nose and managed to swim ashore..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hahaha

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Round my left bicep where most of the muscle had to be cut away when I had my arm almost severed "

What happened?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"I don’t mind scars. I have scars from surgery, accidents and a large scar/skin discolouration on my wrist from a second degree burn where i scalded myself with a cup of tea. Life happens.

My grampy had gunshot wound scars from the Second World War - I loved hearing how he got them. Insensitive twit that i am!

Kinda cool tho eh. I wanna hear those stories too. Survival stories are awesome. "

He was in North Africa fighting and they were getting shot at. My grampy got hit by two bullets and the medic went to tend to him and the medic got shot and killed. Fell right on top of my Grampy. When they went to get the wounded/dead they found my Grampy, still alive.

He also had terribly ulcerated legs caused by damage to them from shrapnel (they gave him bother most of his life after the War).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t mind scars. I have scars from surgery, accidents and a large scar/skin discolouration on my wrist from a second degree burn where i scalded myself with a cup of tea. Life happens.

My grampy had gunshot wound scars from the Second World War - I loved hearing how he got them. Insensitive twit that i am!

Kinda cool tho eh. I wanna hear those stories too. Survival stories are awesome.

He was in North Africa fighting and they were getting shot at. My grampy got hit by two bullets and the medic went to tend to him and the medic got shot and killed. Fell right on top of my Grampy. When they went to get the wounded/dead they found my Grampy, still alive.

He also had terribly ulcerated legs caused by damage to them from shrapnel (they gave him bother most of his life after the War).

"

Bloody hell. Humbling...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ve got quite a few scars but changed my mind about tattooing to hide them...they are a map of my life..they are my flags of what I went thru and overcame...as they should be for any scarred individual..but that's my individual opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The finest ones are skin grafts left arm and left torso from a childhood accident, thighs are interesting due to the skin being taken for the above and gravel rash, then just accumulated cuts and things over the years

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

Use Bio Oil (Holland & Barratt) if if really bothers you - it will help to reduce it

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have one about 10cm long just under my ribs. I had an operation at 2 months old for pyloric stenosis. I obviously don't even remember not having it so I often forget I'm any different to others until someone mentions it. Or when it starts twinging when I do ab excercises in the gym.

I also have a few small ones like on on my eyebrow from it being split and one in my groin from having a big cannula inserted in the vein so they could thread electrodes up it to my heart.

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

Do whip scars count?

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock

"Bones heal.

Chicks dig scars.

Pain is temporary.

Glory lasts forever"

Evel Kneivel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a burst appendix a couple of years ago and they had to do open surgery. I have a gnarley scar which wouldn’t look out of place in the scar comparison scene in jaws.

I used to be paranoid about it but my partner helped me realise it tells a story.

Anyone have scars or what are your thoughts about scars on others? "
i have many scars on a guy i dont think it's a prob so can't see why it would be a prob for you

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By *ikerswingCouple
over a year ago

mcr

got a cracker right across the top of my left pectoral muscle .where i had part of my ribs and sternum removed following a bike crash also left with bone bumps sticking out on my collar bone and sternum where the new bone started to grow.bothered me at first but hey i am who i am take me or leave me .(mr)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have operation scars, some more a laughing point than others and tons of self made scars! way it goes they say, always respect anyone with scars whether surgeon made or self made they carry good days and bad days! but iv`e had issues with showing them to anyone

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I have 3 very obvious ones on my tummy from believe it or not brain surgery. They show how far I've come and I'm not ashamed of them at all xx

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

I don't have many scars, but I love looking at scars on other people and hearing the stories behind them.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It goes from just below the centre of my rib cage down an inch past my belly button. It ruptured so they had to operate quick

Similar deal. Was just a child so would have healed differently.

I'd tell people it was a bite if I were you. You were learning to surf in NSW in a place with no shark nets. You punched it on the nose and managed to swim ashore.. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I now have a c section scar. It’s bloody tiny. And itchy. Otherwise it doesn’t bother me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite apt for us at the moment. Hubby had surgery yesterday to partial remove a tumour and about 3 feet of knotted gut. He’s going to have a corker running from just below his nipples to his belly button. Chicks dig scars. Scars are just nature’s tattoo. Everyone has a story to tell. A scar would NEVER put us off meeting someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Bones heal.

Chicks dig scars.

Pain is temporary.

Glory lasts forever"

Evel Kneivel"

This

'with the birds I'll share this lonely view...'

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If you do a search through the forum you’ll see that I’ve said many a time that I find scars very sexy. They add character and tell a story and I don’t see what is ugly about them. They are interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have scars (f) main scar right across my throat, surgeons done a grand job, have to take medication now for the rest of my life, which makes me a bbw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my appendix removed and had my children convinced I was attacked by ninjas for years because of the scar it left.

I had a few more but they seem to have disappeared. It's a bit like everything else you can either be self conscious about it or embrace it.

But to answer your question they tell a story and each one is unique.

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By *randMrsBlondeCouple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

It’s funny I have a scar from neck to butt crack thanks to two spinal surgeries which I am very self conscious about, whereas my c section scar I aren’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars tell a story!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

C-section scars that birthed my babies so always a happy reminder for me. Scars shouldn’t be seen as a flaw, just goes to prove how bloody awesome our bodies are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly 98% of mine are self made! and have landed me in some situations i could only say "wtf" about! i know there are loads of others that share that path lol

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By *ristolcouple21Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

I have a scar on the front of my neck.. you wouldn’t notice it unless you were up close but I get paranoid about it and strangely it itches when I’m anxious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A 8 inch scar on my head after my hubby threw me down the stairs into a glass telephone table

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye - a few from my year’s competiting mma.

Bone straight through my right leg when I kicked someone.. then just a few over the face & knuckles..

Scars are scars - all tell a story. Some even funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars from a razor attack (not as dramatic as it sounds)

sports, chemical burn and a bullet scar (again, minor). Probably a few mental scars. .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few on my forehead and one a couple of inches long going down the left side of my head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*points to a scar on chest* Mary Ellen Moffat. She broke my heart.

- Hooper (Jaws)

I've a faint line running down my left flank - Shark attack (carrying a makeshift market stall, guy I was carrying it with wasnt paying attention and one of the 6ft metal picket that made up each corner, sliced up my side as stall fell sideways

I've a juicy one on my ankl - Bear mauling (knocked off a moped by a Seat Leon). As they sewed my tendons back together, I could see my toes wiggling and it wasn't me doing it! Worse still was when they grabbed the tendon that started tugging on my groin!

Scars equal stories, I find them interesting and help get to know people better.

As for Csection scars? Just Love mark's in my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have scars on my ankle after internal repair after a fracture.

6" on one side where my ankle was repaired with a plate and 4" on the other where they fitted pins.

Facing heart surgery at some point so that scar should be interesting

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By *oleydelMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Scars add decorative character to a body in my opinion. In my teens I came out of a brawl with multiple stab wounds and an awesome new nickname, Holey-Del, which obviously left a shed load of scars, chest drain scars, a exploratory laparotomy scar which I popped doing sit ups not long after and a surgical scar running from my heel to my butt cheek to repair a severed nerve - it was like a bloomin' zip along my leg when I first copped eyes on it, what with all the staples. Ironically I was in a tattooists today and we were working out a path to avoid going over any of the scars as many have mentioned above, scars tell a story.

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By *arex2Couple
over a year ago

Bradford

I had a colostomy when I was 4 days old and then a repair op at 2 years old. Scars from both. Proud of them both. Never bothered me a jot!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’ve got a real rapier scar on my face on my cheek. It’s faded but discernible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Scars add decorative character to a body in my opinion. In my teens I came out of a brawl with multiple stab wounds and an awesome new nickname, Holey-Del, which obviously left a shed load of scars, chest drain scars, a exploratory laparotomy scar which I popped doing sit ups not long after and a surgical scar running from my heel to my butt cheek to repair a severed nerve - it was like a bloomin' zip along my leg when I first copped eyes on it, what with all the staples. Ironically I was in a tattooists today and we were working out a path to avoid going over any of the scars as many have mentioned above, scars tell a story."

Would love to know if you can get tattooed over scars! i mean deep scars lol i would sell my soul to get half sleeves both arms

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’ve seen scars tattooed to look like zips. Awesome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve seen scars tattooed to look like zips. Awesome! "
i`ll have more zips than zippy`s gob

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

I have a huge scar.

It was done to save my life a couple of years ago, I don’t like it but without it, I would no longer be here.

Mrs M

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By *arex2Couple
over a year ago

Bradford

Exactly!!!

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By *oleydelMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Would love to know if you can get tattooed over scars! i mean deep scars lol i would sell my soul to get half sleeves both arms "

Pop into a tatt artists joint and ask, they should be able to give you a quick answer.

They normally prefer cash payment however.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would love to know if you can get tattooed over scars! i mean deep scars lol i would sell my soul to get half sleeves both arms

Pop into a tatt artists joint and ask, they should be able to give you a quick answer.

They normally prefer cash payment however."

I asked local artist but they said no no too risky as skin is too fucked tattooing over scars causes ink to settle badly or summin lol, guess i`m fucked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have 3 very obvious ones on my tummy from believe it or not brain surgery. They show how far I've come and I'm not ashamed of them at all xx"

Good for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't have many scars, but I love looking at scars on other people and hearing the stories behind them. "

Mine looks like a feather

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you do a search through the forum you’ll see that I’ve said many a time that I find scars very sexy. They add character and tell a story and I don’t see what is ugly about them. They are interesting. "

Agreed

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"They are stories. Life stories. Every scar you have was an event. Some small events. Some large events. But they all form the story that is you. Never be ashamed of a scar. They were around before tattoos. "

I like this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Scars tell a story!"

Yep

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

I’ve got a scar on my forehead. I had a motorbike crash in Thailand 20 years ago. The scar is from the brain surgery I had not the accident. Often people don’t mention it until they’ve known me for several years. Maybe because it’s more prominent after I’ve caught the sun.

I don’t mind it, it’s part of me now and I’ve got a wicked story to tell. The only thing I can’t stand about the whole incident is that it came about as a result of my own stupidity. Phoning my parents from my hospital bed on an island of the coast of Thailand the day after the surgery is not something I want to repeat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them and listening to stories behind them... have some rather insignificant myself.

'Imperfections' are more intriguing to me, than anything close to ideal.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I’ve got a scar on my forehead. I had a motorbike crash in Thailand 20 years ago. The scar is from the brain surgery I had not the accident. Often people don’t mention it until they’ve known me for several years. Maybe because it’s more prominent after I’ve caught the sun.

I don’t mind it, it’s part of me now and I’ve got a wicked story to tell. The only thing I can’t stand about the whole incident is that it came about as a result of my own stupidity. Phoning my parents from my hospital bed on an island of the coast of Thailand the day after the surgery is not something I want to repeat. "

having looked at your pics the first thing I would see is your great smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t mind scars. I have scars from surgery, accidents and a large scar/skin discolouration on my wrist from a second degree burn where i scalded myself with a cup of tea. Life happens.

My grampy had gunshot wound scars from the Second World War - I loved hearing how he got them. Insensitive twit that i am!

Kinda cool tho eh. I wanna hear those stories too. Survival stories are awesome.

He was in North Africa fighting and they were getting shot at. My grampy got hit by two bullets and the medic went to tend to him and the medic got shot and killed. Fell right on top of my Grampy. When they went to get the wounded/dead they found my Grampy, still alive.

He also had terribly ulcerated legs caused by damage to them from shrapnel (they gave him bother most of his life after the War).

"

Amazing story..I'm being serious not sarcastic btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the great support from people saying scars are great and they love the stories, what are your views on self harm? only seen the surgery/bullets/explosions chat x don`t shoot me down! just asking! ah well fire away lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Self harming is mental illness or on its way as is a symptom of deeper troubles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the great support from people saying scars are great and they love the stories, what are your views on self harm? only seen the surgery/bullets/explosions chat x don`t shoot me down! just asking! ah well fire away lol"

It would depend on where that person is currently. Are they still in that frame of mind? If so, I'd be concerned, I'd not want to add to the pressure they're already feeling.

If they're old and it's not continuing. It's just another scar story that adds character, for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Self harming is mental illness or on its way as is a symptom of deeper troubles. "

So are you fine with meeting self harmers? as most peeps said they love scars? they all tell a story after all! surgeons knife or not lol, just after views as i`m confused on the issue

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Self harming is mental illness or on its way as is a symptom of deeper troubles.

So are you fine with meeting self harmers? as most peeps said they love scars? they all tell a story after all! surgeons knife or not lol, just after views as i`m confused on the issue "

I’m not aware I’ve met any. It’s not a question I ask before i make a decision to meet them or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the great support from people saying scars are great and they love the stories, what are your views on self harm? only seen the surgery/bullets/explosions chat x don`t shoot me down! just asking! ah well fire away lol

It would depend on where that person is currently. Are they still in that frame of mind? If so, I'd be concerned, I'd not want to add to the pressure they're already feeling.

If they're old and it's not continuing. It's just another scar story that adds character, for me. "

Haha i`m old and have tons of character! as do most humans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Self harming is mental illness or on its way as is a symptom of deeper troubles.

So are you fine with meeting self harmers? as most peeps said they love scars? they all tell a story after all! surgeons knife or not lol, just after views as i`m confused on the issue

I’m not aware I’ve met any. It’s not a question I ask before i make a decision to meet them or not. "

Just a question if you met with no idea and seen fresh deep scars? would you think ekk and say no thanks?

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood

have two biggish ones top of my leg hip. and down part of leg had em so long i forget about them.

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By *moothman2000Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I have a few scars dotted around my person.

Some vaguely heroic looking, but mostly from being, what is commonly known as, "a twat".

As far as I'm concerned, an odd scar is only a problem if you're self concious about it.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I have scars all over the place.

My nose from being a stupid kid, I jumped over a rocking horse and fell onto a concrete slab. I was 4 at the time.

A nice 3 inch scar on my abdomen from an operation, that was in my late 20's.

These tell a story like everyone says.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Self harming is mental illness or on its way as is a symptom of deeper troubles.

So are you fine with meeting self harmers? as most peeps said they love scars? they all tell a story after all! surgeons knife or not lol, just after views as i`m confused on the issue

I’m not aware I’ve met any. It’s not a question I ask before i make a decision to meet them or not.

Just a question if you met with no idea and seen fresh deep scars? would you think ekk and say no thanks?"

Recent is a more accurate word and they’d not worry me. I’d think ‘wow’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the great support from people saying scars are great and they love the stories, what are your views on self harm? only seen the surgery/bullets/explosions chat x don`t shoot me down! just asking! ah well fire away lol

It would depend on where that person is currently. Are they still in that frame of mind? If so, I'd be concerned, I'd not want to add to the pressure they're already feeling.

If they're old and it's not continuing. It's just another scar story that adds character, for me.

Haha i`m old and have tons of character! as do most humans"

You're not old. If they were fresh.. then yes, I'd have my concerns, especially if it's not something they'd mentioned prior to meeting.

I'm not saying it's a bad thing, I'm saying I personally may feel uncomfortable. I've no automatic right to that info prior to meeting, but to me common sense would dictate that its something you'd have brought up. If you did, it'd depend on the conversation we had together as to whether I continue on to a meet, or just become a friend.

I'd probably want to go do some research, ask you questions and get verbally feel you up a bit before making a decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Self harming is mental illness or on its way as is a symptom of deeper troubles.

So are you fine with meeting self harmers? as most peeps said they love scars? they all tell a story after all! surgeons knife or not lol, just after views as i`m confused on the issue

I’m not aware I’ve met any. It’s not a question I ask before i make a decision to meet them or not.

Just a question if you met with no idea and seen fresh deep scars? would you think ekk and say no thanks?"

I think I'd like to know more about that person..

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport

I have a few, don't do tats.

Some have been from my mistakes (angle grinder for instance), others from being run over.

They are what they are, they are me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have a 2 inch scar under my eye from an accident on a fairground ride when i was 4

no one notices it but it shows up in cold weather

few others but hidden away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have a 2 inch scar under my eye from an accident on a fairground ride when i was 4

no one notices it but it shows up in cold weather

few others but hidden away

"

Noted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your partner is right OP you are what you are its good to learn to live with yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one going acriss the palm of my right hand from being stupid and throwing a piece of glass as a kid which ended up in slicing my hand open. One on my left forearm which i have no idea where it came from..a zig zag shaped one one my wrist from doing a very high tackle in rugby at school and the boys braces dug into my wrist and one on my chin from falling over again at school cutting chin open. Plus a few more here and there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the great support from people saying scars are great and they love the stories, what are your views on self harm? only seen the surgery/bullets/explosions chat x don`t shoot me down! just asking! ah well fire away lol

It would depend on where that person is currently. Are they still in that frame of mind? If so, I'd be concerned, I'd not want to add to the pressure they're already feeling.

If they're old and it's not continuing. It's just another scar story that adds character, for me.

Haha i`m old and have tons of character! as do most humans

You're not old. If they were fresh.. then yes, I'd have my concerns, especially if it's not something they'd mentioned prior to meeting.

I'm not saying it's a bad thing, I'm saying I personally may feel uncomfortable. I've no automatic right to that info prior to meeting, but to me common sense would dictate that its something you'd have brought up. If you did, it'd depend on the conversation we had together as to whether I continue on to a meet, or just become a friend.

I'd probably want to go do some research, ask you questions and get verbally feel you up a bit before making a decision.

Research on fab? wanna fuck? ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Self harming is mental illness or on its way as is a symptom of deeper troubles.

So are you fine with meeting self harmers? as most peeps said they love scars? they all tell a story after all! surgeons knife or not lol, just after views as i`m confused on the issue

I’m not aware I’ve met any. It’s not a question I ask before i make a decision to meet them or not.

Just a question if you met with no idea and seen fresh deep scars? would you think ekk and say no thanks?

Recent is a more accurate word and they’d not worry me. I’d think ‘wow’. "

Ok I`ll wow you! but then i`m thinking forum guy after wet pussy points

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the great support from people saying scars are great and they love the stories, what are your views on self harm? only seen the surgery/bullets/explosions chat x don`t shoot me down! just asking! ah well fire away lol

It would depend on where that person is currently. Are they still in that frame of mind? If so, I'd be concerned, I'd not want to add to the pressure they're already feeling.

If they're old and it's not continuing. It's just another scar story that adds character, for me.

Haha i`m old and have tons of character! as do most humans

You're not old. If they were fresh.. then yes, I'd have my concerns, especially if it's not something they'd mentioned prior to meeting.

I'm not saying it's a bad thing, I'm saying I personally may feel uncomfortable. I've no automatic right to that info prior to meeting, but to me common sense would dictate that its something you'd have brought up. If you did, it'd depend on the conversation we had together as to whether I continue on to a meet, or just become a friend.

I'd probably want to go do some research, ask you questions and get verbally feel you up a bit before making a decision.

Research on fab? wanna fuck? ok

"

Not quite what I meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the great support from people saying scars are great and they love the stories, what are your views on self harm? only seen the surgery/bullets/explosions chat x don`t shoot me down! just asking! ah well fire away lol

It would depend on where that person is currently. Are they still in that frame of mind? If so, I'd be concerned, I'd not want to add to the pressure they're already feeling.

If they're old and it's not continuing. It's just another scar story that adds character, for me.

Haha i`m old and have tons of character! as do most humans

You're not old. If they were fresh.. then yes, I'd have my concerns, especially if it's not something they'd mentioned prior to meeting.

I'm not saying it's a bad thing, I'm saying I personally may feel uncomfortable. I've no automatic right to that info prior to meeting, but to me common sense would dictate that its something you'd have brought up. If you did, it'd depend on the conversation we had together as to whether I continue on to a meet, or just become a friend.

I'd probably want to go do some research, ask you questions and get verbally feel you up a bit before making a decision.

Research on fab? wanna fuck? ok

Not quite what I meant "

Ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have a 2 inch scar under my eye from an accident on a fairground ride when i was 4

no one notices it but it shows up in cold weather

few others but hidden away

Noted "

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By *ubsteffTV/TS
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I’ve got 3 biggish ones, two on my face, from a sporting accident and a bike crash and one on my back from being glassed.

They don’t bother me at all, mostly because I don’t see them unless I’m looking in the mirror, which I try to avoid, lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your partner is right OP you are what you are its good to learn to live with yourself."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasn't sure about scars but my OH has a quite a few due to a pretty tough life, kids, surgery and a wanky ex husband. They're just part of her and I kinda love them because they're unique, nobody else has the same and they remind me how fragile she is but still so strong. Scars are cute

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By *edVelvet08Woman
over a year ago

Kettering

The eyes tell a different story. From what I've experienced...

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over a year ago


"Wasn't sure about scars but my OH has a quite a few due to a pretty tough life, kids, surgery and a wanky ex husband. They're just part of her and I kinda love them because they're unique, nobody else has the same and they remind me how fragile she is but still so strong. Scars are cute "

Love that

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By *edVelvet08Woman
over a year ago

Kettering


"Wasn't sure about scars but my OH has a quite a few due to a pretty tough life, kids, surgery and a wanky ex husband. They're just part of her and I kinda love them because they're unique, nobody else has the same and they remind me how fragile she is but still so strong. Scars are cute

Love that "

That's beautiful...

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By *ge_load_ladMan
over a year ago

NW & Mids

Never broke a bone till 4 years ago when my car was hit head on by a car overtaking on the wrong side of the road. Basically Im extremely lucky to be alive and have 4 scars now the biggest 10 inches from a broken hip

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By *elshguy999Man
over a year ago

Caerphilly

I have had 5 hernia operations, 4 on one side of the groin with a 4 inch scar and one the other side with a neater scar.

Rugby injuries and stomach weakness.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great how many positive responses this has had. Glad there are so many lovely people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I`m sure i`m not alone with my comments on this? maybe i am!, i don`t care about surgery scars i`m after those humans that have their own scars lol not after look at me i got scar from..... looking for input from those that have self made scars and their story!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I`m sure i`m not alone with my comments on this? maybe i am!, i don`t care about surgery scars i`m after those humans that have their own scars lol not after look at me i got scar from..... looking for input from those that have self made scars and their story!"

The small scar on my face was made by the point of a sharp sword that I wasn’t quick enough to deflect or move. It’s called being a stupid idiot playing with real swords.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I`m sure i`m not alone with my comments on this? maybe i am!, i don`t care about surgery scars i`m after those humans that have their own scars lol not after look at me i got scar from..... looking for input from those that have self made scars and their story!

The small scar on my face was made by the point of a sharp sword that I wasn’t quick enough to deflect or move. It’s called being a stupid idiot playing with real swords. "

Haha lessons learned me thinks

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

I've a massive scar on my leg from surgery after a crash. I've also some from a darker time which I don't talk about as there seems to be a huge stigma still surrounding that issue.

To the person who said self harm is a mental illness no it's not it's a symptom of a mental issue. I'm not a self harmer, but I have dated a few in the past. Some use it as a coping mechanism. Same as people with OCD issue. Is it linked to mental illness yes it is. But the act itself is not a mental illness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the great support from people saying scars are great and they love the stories, what are your views on self harm? only seen the surgery/bullets/explosions chat x don`t shoot me down! just asking! ah well fire away lol"

They need to be healed for me...Because if one is not healed, and self harm to me is a symptom, then you are at risk of getting hurt and also them getting their wounds open, those on skin, as well as those on the inside.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I've a massive scar on my leg from surgery after a crash. I've also some from a darker time which I don't talk about as there seems to be a huge stigma still surrounding that issue.

To the person who said self harm is a mental illness no it's not it's a symptom of a mental issue. I'm not a self harmer, but I have dated a few in the past. Some use it as a coping mechanism. Same as people with OCD issue. Is it linked to mental illness yes it is. But the act itself is not a mental illness."

I said this ....”Self harming is mental illness or on its way as is a symptom of deeper troubles...”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've a massive scar on my leg from surgery after a crash. I've also some from a darker time which I don't talk about as there seems to be a huge stigma still surrounding that issue.

To the person who said self harm is a mental illness no it's not it's a symptom of a mental issue. I'm not a self harmer, but I have dated a few in the past. Some use it as a coping mechanism. Same as people with OCD issue. Is it linked to mental illness yes it is. But the act itself is not a mental illness."

Self harm becomes a normal coping method says the professionals, you get used to that rather than other methods that normal humans use! it can be fatal! when mixed with meds and alcohol as i have first hand with! i could write a book on blackouts and the morning after a dark day

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"Scars add decorative character to a body in my opinion. In my teens I came out of a brawl with multiple stab wounds and an awesome new nickname, Holey-Del, which obviously left a shed load of scars, chest drain scars, a exploratory laparotomy scar which I popped doing sit ups not long after and a surgical scar running from my heel to my butt cheek to repair a severed nerve - it was like a bloomin' zip along my leg when I first copped eyes on it, what with all the staples. Ironically I was in a tattooists today and we were working out a path to avoid going over any of the scars as many have mentioned above, scars tell a story.

Would love to know if you can get tattooed over scars! i mean deep scars lol i would sell my soul to get half sleeves both arms "

You can. Some artist specialize in that.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"I've a massive scar on my leg from surgery after a crash. I've also some from a darker time which I don't talk about as there seems to be a huge stigma still surrounding that issue.

To the person who said self harm is a mental illness no it's not it's a symptom of a mental issue. I'm not a self harmer, but I have dated a few in the past. Some use it as a coping mechanism. Same as people with OCD issue. Is it linked to mental illness yes it is. But the act itself is not a mental illness.

Self harm becomes a normal coping method says the professionals, you get used to that rather than other methods that normal humans use! it can be fatal! when mixed with meds and alcohol as i have first hand with! i could write a book on blackouts and the morning after a dark day "

Yeah I had many an experience with that with the Ex's, and the clean up. Always keep a first aid kit with lots of dressings as a result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are from operations or bike crashes. R/ankle r/knee l/elbow r/bicep (new) are the main notable ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 15 on my head

One on my eye

4 on my right hand

One on my nose

1 on my shin

A fair few mainly from rugby a scrapping few mental ones too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Scars add decorative character to a body in my opinion. In my teens I came out of a brawl with multiple stab wounds and an awesome new nickname, Holey-Del, which obviously left a shed load of scars, chest drain scars, a exploratory laparotomy scar which I popped doing sit ups not long after and a surgical scar running from my heel to my butt cheek to repair a severed nerve - it was like a bloomin' zip along my leg when I first copped eyes on it, what with all the staples. Ironically I was in a tattooists today and we were working out a path to avoid going over any of the scars as many have mentioned above, scars tell a story.

Would love to know if you can get tattooed over scars! i mean deep scars lol i would sell my soul to get half sleeves both arms

You can. Some artist specialize in that. "

Would love that! sadly they all told me scars dont tattoo well and said no, don`t blame them it`s their name after all

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"Scars add decorative character to a body in my opinion. In my teens I came out of a brawl with multiple stab wounds and an awesome new nickname, Holey-Del, which obviously left a shed load of scars, chest drain scars, a exploratory laparotomy scar which I popped doing sit ups not long after and a surgical scar running from my heel to my butt cheek to repair a severed nerve - it was like a bloomin' zip along my leg when I first copped eyes on it, what with all the staples. Ironically I was in a tattooists today and we were working out a path to avoid going over any of the scars as many have mentioned above, scars tell a story.

Would love to know if you can get tattooed over scars! i mean deep scars lol i would sell my soul to get half sleeves both arms

You can. Some artist specialize in that.

Would love that! sadly they all told me scars dont tattoo well and said no, don`t blame them it`s their name after all"

Try a different artist. I've seen many scars covered by tattoos.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Scars add decorative character to a body in my opinion. In my teens I came out of a brawl with multiple stab wounds and an awesome new nickname, Holey-Del, which obviously left a shed load of scars, chest drain scars, a exploratory laparotomy scar which I popped doing sit ups not long after and a surgical scar running from my heel to my butt cheek to repair a severed nerve - it was like a bloomin' zip along my leg when I first copped eyes on it, what with all the staples. Ironically I was in a tattooists today and we were working out a path to avoid going over any of the scars as many have mentioned above, scars tell a story.

Would love to know if you can get tattooed over scars! i mean deep scars lol i would sell my soul to get half sleeves both arms

You can. Some artist specialize in that.

Would love that! sadly they all told me scars dont tattoo well and said no, don`t blame them it`s their name after all"

I have a tattoo covering a scar on my bum see a different artist, its possible xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a burst appendix a couple of years ago and they had to do open surgery. I have a gnarley scar which wouldn’t look out of place in the scar comparison scene in jaws.

I used to be paranoid about it but my partner helped me realise it tells a story.

Anyone have scars or what are your thoughts about scars on others? "

Mental scars are worse. I m ex military, with hearing damage, currently im pissed up on vodka because i have to face family 2ho lodt someone. Im a piss3d up coward and i know yhey widh i hadnt returned instead of theit loved ones, if i could i would swap placed and br dead instead of yhem but i can't do tjat im a pissed up nobody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant face them because i widh it was me, ive no family left abd pisded up and loo for an excuse to get out of nmeeeetin them cod o know theyf widh it was me instead of yheir dad snd i agree

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I cant face them because i widh it was me, ive no family left abd pisded up and loo for an excuse to get out of nmeeeetin them cod o know theyf widh it was me instead of yheir dad snd i agree "
you don’t have to meet them at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Scars add decorative character to a body in my opinion. In my teens I came out of a brawl with multiple stab wounds and an awesome new nickname, Holey-Del, which obviously left a shed load of scars, chest drain scars, a exploratory laparotomy scar which I popped doing sit ups not long after and a surgical scar running from my heel to my butt cheek to repair a severed nerve - it was like a bloomin' zip along my leg when I first copped eyes on it, what with all the staples. Ironically I was in a tattooists today and we were working out a path to avoid going over any of the scars as many have mentioned above, scars tell a story.

Would love to know if you can get tattooed over scars! i mean deep scars lol i would sell my soul to get half sleeves both arms

You can. Some artist specialize in that.

Would love that! sadly they all told me scars dont tattoo well and said no, don`t blame them it`s their name after all

I have a tattoo covering a scar on my bum see a different artist, its possible xx"

Ha i have tons that they said won`t ink well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cant face them because i widh it was me, ive no family left abd pisded up and loo for an excuse to get out of nmeeeetin them cod o know theyf widh it was me instead of yheir dad snd i agree "

Easier to get passed and hide away, sock of trump anh johndon who difnt have to deal with dead bodied, i dis and war is pointless fucking shit i hatr it and war mongering pihs likr trimp! Fuck him and his scum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a burst appendix a couple of years ago and they had to do open surgery. I have a gnarley scar which wouldn’t look out of place in the scar comparison scene in jaws.

I used to be paranoid about it but my partner helped me realise it tells a story.

Anyone have scars or what are your thoughts about scars on others?

Mental scars are worse. I m ex military, with hearing damage, currently im pissed up on vodka because i have to face family 2ho lodt someone. Im a piss3d up coward and i know yhey widh i hadnt returned instead of theit loved ones, if i could i would swap placed and br dead instead of yhem but i can't do tjat im a pissed up nobody"

Talk here! thats why we are here, i support that deep issue, hope peeps can help here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a burst appendix a couple of years ago and they had to do open surgery. I have a gnarley scar which wouldn’t look out of place in the scar comparison scene in jaws.

I used to be paranoid about it but my partner helped me realise it tells a story.

Anyone have scars or what are your thoughts about scars on others?

Mental scars are worse. I m ex military, with hearing damage, currently im pissed up on vodka because i have to face family 2ho lodt someone. Im a piss3d up coward and i know yhey widh i hadnt returned instead of theit loved ones, if i could i would swap placed and br dead instead of yhem but i can't do tjat im a pissed up nobody

Talk here! thats why we are here, i support that deep issue, hope peeps can help here"

Hiya, dont kneed help, judt way life unfolds unfortunately. Worde off people thsn me. Im a fatslist, whst will be woll br

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a burst appendix a couple of years ago and they had to do open surgery. I have a gnarley scar which wouldn’t look out of place in the scar comparison scene in jaws.

I used to be paranoid about it but my partner helped me realise it tells a story.

Anyone have scars or what are your thoughts about scars on others?

Mental scars are worse. I m ex military, with hearing damage, currently im pissed up on vodka because i have to face family 2ho lodt someone. Im a piss3d up coward and i know yhey widh i hadnt returned instead of theit loved ones, if i could i would swap placed and br dead instead of yhem but i can't do tjat im a pissed up nobody

Talk here! thats why we are here, i support that deep issue, hope peeps can help here

Hiya, dont kneed help, judt way life unfolds unfortunately. Worde off people thsn me. Im a fatslist, whst will be woll br"

indeed it will be but maybe chat to others? here or on phone! life is shit and cruel!as an ex military family iv`e lost them all! and the extended family that felt it! don`t be alone dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a burst appendix a couple of years ago and they had to do open surgery. I have a gnarley scar which wouldn’t look out of place in the scar comparison scene in jaws.

I used to be paranoid about it but my partner helped me realise it tells a story.

Anyone have scars or what are your thoughts about scars on others?

Mental scars are worse. I m ex military, with hearing damage, currently im pissed up on vodka because i have to face family 2ho lodt someone. Im a piss3d up coward and i know yhey widh i hadnt returned instead of theit loved ones, if i could i would swap placed and br dead instead of yhem but i can't do tjat im a pissed up nobody

Talk here! thats why we are here, i support that deep issue, hope peeps can help here

Hiya, dont kneed help, judt way life unfolds unfortunately. Worde off people thsn me. Im a fatslist, whst will be woll br

indeed it will be but maybe chat to others? here or on phone! life is shit and cruel!as an ex military family iv`e lost them all! and the extended family that felt it! don`t be ralone dude "
:l owceo yo feel about survive? Yoy regret them n wish they were not hwrw?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a burst appendix a couple of years ago and they had to do open surgery. I have a gnarley scar which wouldn’t look out of place in the scar comparison scene in jaws.

I used to be paranoid about it but my partner helped me realise it tells a story.

Anyone have scars or what are your thoughts about scars on others?

Mental scars are worse. I m ex military, with hearing damage, currently im pissed up on vodka because i have to face family 2ho lodt someone. Im a piss3d up coward and i know yhey widh i hadnt returned instead of theit loved ones, if i could i would swap placed and br dead instead of yhem but i can't do tjat im a pissed up nobody

Talk here! thats why we are here, i support that deep issue, hope peeps can help here

Hiya, dont kneed help, judt way life unfolds unfortunately. Worde off people thsn me. Im a fatslist, whst will be woll br

indeed it will be but maybe chat to others? here or on phone! life is shit and cruel!as an ex military family iv`e lost them all! and the extended family that felt it! don`t be ralone dude :l owceo yo feel about survive? Yoy regret them n wish they were not hwrw? "
ivecno family to miss me so no worries am not suicidal kudt pidded up so please don't wo4ry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whst bugd me id all thr ordinary people killed I their 1000s own count who just want to live without hassle. Not surprised they want tk cimr here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whst bugd me id all thr ordinary people killed I their 1000s own count who just want to live without hassle. Not surprised they want tk cimr here "

Morning all, sobered up snd back on the wagon. All cool here now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Whst bugd me id all thr ordinary people killed I their 1000s own count who just want to live without hassle. Not surprised they want tk cimr here

Morning all, sobered up snd back on the wagon. All cool here now "

Hugs

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Whst bugd me id all thr ordinary people killed I their 1000s own count who just want to live without hassle. Not surprised they want tk cimr here

Morning all, sobered up snd back on the wagon. All cool here now "

Ha! No worries.

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I have a large scar approx 6in long in my pubic area were I had varicose veins removed from my testicles . It doesn't look great

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

You should love them, they are your life story, especially if they are the reason you are still here today, I have two one quite large from a life saving operation, most people don’t even notice it and certainly doesn’t put people off that we have met in this world that’s for sure, so no more worrying about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a one under my belly button that looks like a smile keep thinking of getting a tattoo of some eyes so it looks like a smilie face with my belly button as the nose haha

I love my scars it shows what I’ve over come in my life x

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By *nnnikCouple
over a year ago

Walsall

I have Caesarean scar, and wouldn't change it for anything, that's where my son came from.

Beauty is in within not on the outside

(titch xx)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have Caesarean scar, and wouldn't change it for anything, that's where my son came from.

Beauty is in within not on the outside

(titch xx) "

Totally agree with you there, both my children were born c section

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By *nnnikCouple
over a year ago

Walsall


"I have Caesarean scar, and wouldn't change it for anything, that's where my son came from.

Beauty is in within not on the outside

(titch xx)

Totally agree with you there, both my children were born c section "

Have few scars but won't go into it xx

But yea, priceless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The scar and tattoo question reminded me of my beautiful friend who had an injection type of mark on her left bum cheek. She got a tattoo of pouty lips all around it. It actually worked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The scar and tattoo question reminded me of my beautiful friend who had an injection type of mark on her left bum cheek. She got a tattoo of pouty lips all around it. It actually worked "

Haha sounds like a real character! i`d need shit tons of lip tatts haha

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over a year ago


"I have a large scar approx 6in long in my pubic area were I had varicose veins removed from my testicles . It doesn't look great"

I've no problem with scars. One woman i met had one on her elbow, presumably from an operation, with marks from the stitches, not a problem to me but she was self conscious about it

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over a year ago


"I have a large scar approx 6in long in my pubic area were I had varicose veins removed from my testicles . It doesn't look great

I've no problem with scars. One woman i met had one on her elbow, presumably from an operation, with marks from the stitches, not a problem to me but she was self conscious about it "

Sadly i`m covered in scars all over my arms! self dealt pain i agree, i would welcome any haters to ask why and how! long story and i`m not sure i know why i chose the blade

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over a year ago


"I have a large scar approx 6in long in my pubic area were I had varicose veins removed from my testicles . It doesn't look great

I've no problem with scars. One woman i met had one on her elbow, presumably from an operation, with marks from the stitches, not a problem to me but she was self conscious about it

Sadly i`m covered in scars all over my arms! self dealt pain i agree, i would welcome any haters to ask why and how! long story and i`m not sure i know why i chose the blade "

Doubt any would admit that. I suppose they may think about the circumstances behind it etc..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Haha sounds like a real character! i`d need shit tons of lip tatts haha "

She was! Gorgeous and smart.

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over a year ago


"Round my left bicep where most of the muscle had to be cut away when I had my arm almost severed

What happened?"

At work,cutting up some heavy duty steel,ended up with saw nearly take my my arm off,luckily didn't hit artery so walked bout half mile back to van,waiting for ambulance would've taken too long,no where for air ambulance to land,knew as long as I was conscious had to get myself out of there,had to have muscle cut away cos of dirt n being ripped took three months to recover,or at least get as good as it ever will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got a few from my past couple of scary ones that remind me how fragile life can be and how lucky I was at the time

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over a year ago


"I had a burst appendix a couple of years ago and they had to do open surgery. I have a gnarley scar which wouldn’t look out of place in the scar comparison scene in jaws.

I used to be paranoid about it but my partner helped me realise it tells a story.

Anyone have scars or what are your thoughts about scars on others? "

Scars totally tell the story of you! Not off putting at all, they just make you, you!

Anyone want to show pics of their scars? D x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a nice big one on the side of my bum cheek, compliments of a kitchen knife

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

I have a scar on my stomach from surgery two years ago, now also have a second belly button from a feed peg last year. Looks like I have been shot in stomach now..

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over a year ago


"I have a large scar approx 6in long in my pubic area were I had varicose veins removed from my testicles . It doesn't look great

I've no problem with scars. One woman i met had one on her elbow, presumably from an operation, with marks from the stitches, not a problem to me but she was self conscious about it

Sadly i`m covered in scars all over my arms! self dealt pain i agree, i would welcome any haters to ask why and how! long story and i`m not sure i know why i chose the blade

Doubt any would admit that. I suppose they may think about the circumstances behind it etc.. "

That`s kinda sad! i hope others feel ok to say fuck it that how i cope! sadly most don`t, it`s not an attention thing btw it`s hey seeing what i can do to myself no one can hurt me! ( kinda spoke lightly for the mods that hate truth )

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