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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was following a forum earlier and a lady said a man cum almost immediately after he saw her

I don't know if she was joking or what, but I guess it's possible.

Has anyone experienced this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was following a forum earlier and a lady said a man cum almost immediately after he saw her

I don't know if she was joking or what, but I guess it's possible.

Has anyone experienced this?

I had one where I was about to go down on him and he cum. I actually found it a complement but he was terribly embarrassed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant say I have. It would certainly be an embarrassing situation in a social meet.

Eh could you give me 15 mins while I pop home to change my boxers luv ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was following a forum earlier and a lady said a man cum almost immediately after he saw her

I don't know if she was joking or what, but I guess it's possible.

Has anyone experienced this?

I had one where I was about to go down on him and he cum. I actually found it a complement but he was terribly embarrassed"

I can imagine

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

I ran my fingernails across a man's bum cheeks once. That seemed to be enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cant say I have. It would certainly be an embarrassing situation in a social meet.

Eh could you give me 15 mins while I pop home to change my boxers luv ?"

Aha. I wonder will any guys admit to doing this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had a gut come as I lowered my head down to suck his cock. I just blew warm air over his cock. He was so embarrassed he just upped and left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kissed a guy once and he came before his hand reached my tit

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

No but i’ve had two pumps and a squirt.

I quite like it. But I like it even more if they crack on for round 2

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I once literally got my lips round his cock and he came loads, everywhere. It was it first time at a swingers club, I think he just got over excited, he legged it and never came back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy cum literally as he was about to enter me.

Poor guy, I felt so sorry for him. He was mortified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If my cock is feeling super sensitive then there's no technique in the world that's gonna stop me from blowing a load after half a cm of penetration, but worry not! 6 hours of sleep later and I'll be ready for round 2

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes, it's happened to me.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes it definitely happens. Got my hand in his pants and he came straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If my cock is feeling super sensitive then there's no technique in the world that's gonna stop me from blowing a load after half a cm of penetration, but worry not! 6 hours of sleep later and I'll be ready for round 2"

Lol 6hours!!!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Any guy that says he hasn't cum quicker than he'd like to at some point in his life is probably either lying or in a few rare cases very controlled or has a condition of some kind.

I know I have and probably more than I'd like but the key is how you deal with it - there are plenty of other things you can be doing while waiting for him to wake up again and with an understanding partner cumming quickly doesn't have to mean game over.

Trouble is on a site like this, or even just viewing porn, it's very easy to assume you're somehow inadequate if you can't last for hours and keep repeating and lose sight of the fact we're all different and have different reactions.

Yes it can be embarrassing not to mention frustrating when it happens - but like I said, when it does, it doesn't have to mean game over either.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I think this thread has shown that women are far more understanding about this than you fellas think. It actually just makes the fun last longer as you can fool around while waiting for the guy to get hard again!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

The last two posts are both spot on. It doesn't matter if a man comes quickly if he is happy to continue satisfying his partner with mouth or fingers even if he can't get hard again. It's just if he leaves immediately after cumming and gives nothing in return it's frustrating.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"The last two posts are both spot on. It doesn't matter if a man comes quickly if he is happy to continue satisfying his partner with mouth or fingers even if he can't get hard again. It's just if he leaves immediately after cumming and gives nothing in return it's frustrating. "

Definitely.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"I think this thread has shown that women are far more understanding about this than you fellas think. It actually just makes the fun last longer as you can fool around while waiting for the guy to get hard again! "

Like I said above I think for a lot of guys it can be very easy to get caught up in how they *think* they should perform and not how they are *able* to.

They also lose sight of the various factors that can come into play like tiredness, stress, simply having a bad day etc and then descend into a vicious circle of fretting about it.

I know I have, and can but mostly realise it's just me, and work out ways to manage it.

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By *hubarbandcustard1000Couple
over a year ago

Dudley

"Ive had a gut come as I lowered my head down to suck his cock. I just blew warm air over his cock. He was so embarrassed he just upped and left "

This gives me an idea for how to make proper use of that new Dyson in the gents at work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This happened to me years ago. I came from a blowjob and I felt disappointed because I wanted to please her. I didn't know what to do and then she put her hand in her bad and pulled out a vibrator and I thought damn that's me replaced

But then she asked me to lick her until she came and she did! I loved that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my diabetes has had an effect on the sensitivity of my penis so thankfully I don't have this problem or maybe I just haven't met the right woman yet. I think it's a good thing that I haven't met her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bag*

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By *tudiousPipWoman
over a year ago

W Yorks

Had a guy cum while he was putting on a condom once! I wasn't even touching him, I was lounging on the bed in stockings and suspenders. Oh, to have my 17 year old body again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it seems women tend to take it as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well it seems women tend to take it as a compliment

Yeah it must be disappointing to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha!

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By *aughty island coupleCouple
over a year ago

Portland dorset

Yes had this happen. Just a waste of time meeting lol

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Well it seems women tend to take it as a compliment

Yeah it must be disappointing to"

Only if they just run off, if they stay and carry on with the fun it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well it seems women tend to take it as a compliment

Yeah it must be disappointing to

Only if they just run off, if they stay and carry on with the fun it's all good. "

Exactly the tongue still works after you’ve cum

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Yes had this happen. Just a waste of time meeting lol"

Depends how both people dealt with it really - if the guy upped and ran or was made to feel bad about it then yes probably was a waste of time meeting.

If however everyone just accepted it happened and carried on having fun without making a fuss about it either way then a good time could still be had by all involved.

I had a situation in a club once where I was meeting a couple and it happened to me fairly early in the proceedings - they laughed it off, told me they saw it as a compliment and we carried on playing in other ways - then took a break for a drink etc before resuming by which time I had recovered enough for us all to have a great night (so much so I met them again a few months later).

So it's all down to how everyone deals with it when it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it hasn't ever on my life, I'm now in the region of not cuming!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

A man came in his pants once when were kissing, I really liked it.

There was plenty more in the barrel

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Yes had this happen. Just a waste of time meeting lol

Depends how both people dealt with it really - if the guy upped and ran or was made to feel bad about it then yes probably was a waste of time meeting.

If however everyone just accepted it happened and carried on having fun without making a fuss about it either way then a good time could still be had by all involved.

So it's all down to how everyone deals with it when it happens

Exactly, loads of weird and wonderful things happen when playing, some embarrassing, some downright mortifying but if people can just accept and it carry on, it, males things much easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A man came in his pants once when were kissing, I really liked it.

There was plenty more in the barrel"

The mind boggles at what you were doing to his tonsils

Me personally I will leak loads of precum when I'm kissing a women

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

I had a man cum in my mouth after about 5 "sucks" , I took it as a compliment x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Yes had this happen. Just a waste of time meeting lol

Depends how both people dealt with it really - if the guy upped and ran or was made to feel bad about it then yes probably was a waste of time meeting.

If however everyone just accepted it happened and carried on having fun without making a fuss about it either way then a good time could still be had by all involved.

So it's all down to how everyone deals with it when it happens

Exactly, loads of weird and wonderful things happen when playing, some embarrassing, some downright mortifying but if people can just accept and it carry on, it, males things much easier."

It does and I was very thankful that couple dealt with it in exactly that way - had they of handled it in the opposite way I'd have been mortified and probably had an already very fragile confidence knocked to a point I may well have considered knocking all *this* on the head.

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

"I kissed a guy once and he came before his hand reached my tit

That’s one awesome kiss!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Cant say I have. It would certainly be an embarrassing situation in a social meet.

Eh could you give me 15 mins while I pop home to change my boxers luv ?"

these things happen and I don't think it should be embarrassing..disappointing maybe. but you got to feel for the guy. Personally I'd just try and work round it...or chalk it down to experience. No hard feelings.

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

Sulking off when you have cum within a few seconds... no manners. I would have thought most men would want to stay to prove a point, although some of us do have very fragile egos!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Sulking off when you have cum within a few seconds... no manners. I would have thought most men would want to stay to prove a point, although some of us do have very fragile egos! "

Trouble is, like I said further up, because of porn and the nature of this place, a lot of guys feel they have somehow failed if they don't manage to go all night and leave their partner an exhausted mess having performed the kama sutra both forwards and backwards - so get shamefaced and frustrated and do head for the hills in embarrassment.

And it's easily done - I know there have been times I've felt bad about it, although have never done a runner, but with an understanding partner it doesn't have to be that way at all.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Sulking off when you have cum within a few seconds... no manners. I would have thought most men would want to stay to prove a point, although some of us do have very fragile egos! "

I don't think it's sulking, it's more embarrassment, a knock to their confidence and possibly their masculinity. If more men realised we honestly don't mind that much, and some immature women wouldn't mock men for it, there would be many more smiley people around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first time! I was 18, nervous and completely shit at holding back so to speak! Blew it just as i entered her! I learned from that though luckily!

S(m)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cant say I have. It would certainly be an embarrassing situation in a social meet.

Eh could you give me 15 mins while I pop home to change my boxers luv ?

'No hard feelings' literally

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

I once met a lovely lady that was so hot that I sneezed and shot my load at the same time....worst thing was I hadn't "emptied the tank" for a while and literally left her looking like a plasterer's radio.....so embarrassing

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I once met a lovely lady that was so hot that I sneezed and shot my load at the same time....worst thing was I hadn't "emptied the tank" for a while and literally left her looking like a plasterer's radio.....so embarrassing

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Not like in scary movie where he shoots her up to the ceiling?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep remembering that scene in American Pie while reading this thread lol

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

It's a disappointment when you spend more time thinking about it than having it.

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By *elaxedcplCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Any guy that says he hasn't cum quicker than he'd like to at some point in his life is probably either lying or in a few rare cases very controlled or has a condition of some kind.

Yes it can be embarrassing not to mention frustrating when it happens - but like I said, when it does, it doesn't have to mean game over either."

Not strictly true, I was circumcised at a young age so I'm less sensitive than most men. I've never cum too soon and from my mid 20s I can pretty much cum on demand

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By *atisfying jackMan
over a year ago

Hereford

It happened when I was about 17, I was mortified, I mean proper felt conscious about it for years! I'm over it now...just!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i have too much self control and self respect to waste an orgasm

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Any guy that says he hasn't cum quicker than he'd like to at some point in his life is probably either lying or in a few rare cases very controlled or has a condition of some kind.

Yes it can be embarrassing not to mention frustrating when it happens - but like I said, when it does, it doesn't have to mean game over either."

Absolutely this! I've had sex with women so I am perfectly capable of having a great time without a cock being involved. So many guys are more worried about their bruised ego though and would rather leave the woman completely unsatisfied than do other things if they fun too quick which is a shame.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"It happened when I was about 17, I was mortified, I mean proper felt conscious about it for years! I'm over it now...just!

Look I said it didnt matter. You need to let it go

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Any guy that says he hasn't cum quicker than he'd like to at some point in his life is probably either lying or in a few rare cases very controlled or has a condition of some kind.

Yes it can be embarrassing not to mention frustrating when it happens - but like I said, when it does, it doesn't have to mean game over either.

Cum not fun

. Autocorrect keeps doing that to me!

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By *atisfying jackMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"It happened when I was about 17, I was mortified, I mean proper felt conscious about it for years! I'm over it now...just!

Look I said it didnt matter. You need to let it go

And I'm now back in the self conscious hole! Thanks!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"I was following a forum earlier and a lady said a man cum almost immediately after he saw her

I don't know if she was joking or what, but I guess it's possible.

Has anyone experienced this?

This a worry for yourself as it natural and often tends to affect the more sensitive of people most women will support a guy with this issue you shouldn't let it worry get too much..

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Any guy that says he hasn't cum quicker than he'd like to at some point in his life is probably either lying or in a few rare cases very controlled or has a condition of some kind.

Yes it can be embarrassing not to mention frustrating when it happens - but like I said, when it does, it doesn't have to mean game over either.

Not strictly true, I was circumcised at a young age so I'm less sensitive than most men. I've never cum too soon and from my mid 20s I can pretty much cum on demand

I refer you to the "few rare cases" part of my post

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

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Not like in scary movie where he shoots her up to the ceiling? "

....if I'd of left the tank full for another day or so.....it would of been full on scary movie style and she'd of been stuck to wall/ceiling!!!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

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Not like in scary movie where he shoots her up to the ceiling?

....if I'd of left the tank full for another day or so.....it would of been full on scary movie style and she'd of been stuck to wall/ceiling!!!

Living up to your name!

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Its happened to me, we just used the time to enjoy some more foreplay...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was following a forum earlier and a lady said a man cum almost immediately after he saw her

I don't know if she was joking or what, but I guess it's possible.

Has anyone experienced this?

This a worry for yourself as it natural and often tends to affect the more sensitive of people most women will support a guy with this issue you shouldn't let it worry get too much.."

It isn't a worry of mine. Getting sex full stop is the worry lol.

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

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Not like in scary movie where he shoots her up to the ceiling?

....if I'd of left the tank full for another day or so.....it would of been full on scary movie style and she'd of been stuck to wall/ceiling!!!

Living up to your name!"

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

I had a guy enter the room. "He said I won't last long, you look stunning". I dropped to my knees started to unzip him and he came.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"I had a guy enter the room. "He said I won't last long, you look stunning". I dropped to my knees started to unzip him and he came.

At least he warned you

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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It really does turn me on, I'm not sure why I'm not sure if it's like a power thing that they are so excited they lose control of their own body.

Similar thing to why I like edging so I can take control of their own body and they end up begging to be allowed to cum.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

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Not like in scary movie where he shoots her up to the ceiling?

....if I'd of left the tank full for another day or so.....it would of been full on scary movie style and she'd of been stuck to wall/ceiling!!!

I dunno whether to be turned on or horrified

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

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Not like in scary movie where he shoots her up to the ceiling?

....if I'd of left the tank full for another day or so.....it would of been full on scary movie style and she'd of been stuck to wall/ceiling!!!

Porno Spiderman Style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never cummed at all during any meets. I fuk’n wish it was me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to cum much quicker than I'd like to the first time but there is never any real down time involved. I just change the condom and get back into it. I don't go soft easily and the second round can last a long time thankfully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must been someone inexperience young man

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had a guy enter the room. "He said I won't last long, you look stunning". I dropped to my knees started to unzip him and he came.

At least he warned you

Exactly

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