FabSwingers.com forum: “But it’s a sex site......”

By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I’m bored and I’m one of them weirdoes that reads old threads from a year ago.

One spurred a bit of an argument that this is a sex site and someone else argued that it was not it was a place to make connections.

Which camp are you in?

I’m the latter. If sex happens,cool. If not, no need to cry about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could not fuck just for the sake of it i find it hollow feel like shit after rather wank about someone i actually like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could not fuck just for the sake of it i find it hollow feel like shit after rather wank about someone i actually like"

Unfortunately a lot see it as they’re saving a tenner on a prostitute rather than being genuine swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

swinging isnt just about sex, its to us about meeting like minded people, and if sex happens then great

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By *randonStarkMan
over a year ago

Surrey

I think it's the latter, although with a high leaning of focus towards sex. Take a dating site-it doesn't have an interests like a site like this one!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Bit of both? A place to make connections, but with a sex orientation.

I hate the "but it's a sex site" argument because it's so often used to try to negate my standards, preferences, or the fact I do other things with my life.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Instashag isn't it???

Get a profile here and you'll be beating then of with a stick!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m bored and I’m one of them weirdoes that reads old threads from a year ago.

One spurred a bit of an argument that this is a sex site and someone else argued that it was not it was a place to make connections.

Which camp are you in?

I’m the latter. If sex happens,cool. If not, no need to cry about it. "

It's what you want it to be. Find someone to fuck. Find someone to talk to. Find a life partner. Find a distraction. Find a gardener. Find someone to eat meatballs at Ikea with. Or be all of the above for someone else.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I actually think it's a bit of both tbh for me anyway...

I won't have sex unless there is a connection and whether it takes a week or a couple of months to make that connection, its definitely worth the effort that results in fabulous sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love meeting like minded people before retirement I loved socials gatherings and clubs more than the sex to be honest. But when the sex was good ***** it was wild lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could not fuck just for the sake of it i find it hollow feel like shit after rather wank about someone i actually like

Unfortunately a lot see it as they’re saving a tenner on a prostitute rather than being genuine swingers "
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A Tenner lady ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m bored and I’m one of them weirdoes that reads old threads from a year ago.

One spurred a bit of an argument that this is a sex site and someone else argued that it was not it was a place to make connections.

Which camp are you in?

I’m the latter. If sex happens,cool. If not, no need to cry about it.

I want meatballs from Ikea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m bored and I’m one of them weirdoes that reads old threads from a year ago.

One spurred a bit of an argument that this is a sex site and someone else argued that it was not it was a place to make connections.

Which camp are you in?

I’m the latter. If sex happens,cool. If not, no need to cry about it. "

Completely agree, why would anyone have sex without a connection

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

To meet people.

If anything leads from there then that great.

But no expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could not fuck just for the sake of it i find it hollow feel like shit after rather wank about someone i actually like

Unfortunately a lot see it as they’re saving a tenner on a prostitute rather than being genuine swingers "
woah im no swinger either dont paint me with that brush

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

Plenty of blokes seem to join thinking that any ladies on here won't say no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plenty of blokes seem to join thinking that any ladies on here won't say no."
they dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could not fuck just for the sake of it i find it hollow feel like shit after rather wank about someone i actually like

Unfortunately a lot see it as they’re saving a tenner on a prostitute rather than being genuine swingers woah im no swinger either dont paint me with that brush "

I did say “a lot”, not “all”

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

I was thinking about this earlier. I joined thinking about / hoping for uncomplicated slightly kinky sex. I now am using it as somewhere I can find like minded and open people, where I realise I am not alone with some of my ‘unusual’ tastes, E.g. pegging, being switch.

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By *ocodoughnutgirlWoman
over a year ago

Sea of jelly and doughnuts

"I’m bored and I’m one of them weirdoes that reads old threads from a year ago.

One spurred a bit of an argument that this is a sex site and someone else argued that it was not it was a place to make connections.

Which camp are you in?

I’m the latter. If sex happens,cool. If not, no need to cry about it. "

I'd say its both for me, I need some sort of connection to have sex.

Finding someone to laugh, chat absolute rubbish, drink rum, eat cake with then great sex follows.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Connections

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m bored and I’m one of them weirdoes that reads old threads from a year ago.

One spurred a bit of an argument that this is a sex site and someone else argued that it was not it was a place to make connections.

Which camp are you in?

I’m the latter. If sex happens,cool. If not, no need to cry about it.

I want meatballs from Ikea

Pop over. I've got a bag in the freezer and an unassembled Billy bookcase.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

I'm enjoying a bit of naughty chat at the moment. Swapping messages is actually quite a turn on for me

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By *ay123mailMan
over a year ago

Seaham

"I’m bored and I’m one of them weirdoes that reads old threads from a year ago.

One spurred a bit of an argument that this is a sex site and someone else argued that it was not it was a place to make connections.

Which camp are you in?

I’m the latter. If sex happens,cool. If not, no need to cry about it.

I want meatballs from Ikea

can i join in for the meatballs for ikea aswell they are the dogs ..erm well they are amazing

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Need a connection to make the juices flow.... that does not mean I want to marry you or be your GF, just uncomplicated friends who have sex together and say hi to each other

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By *esireXposedMan
over a year ago

East sussex

I joined for the sex, and stayed for the illiteracy.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"I’m bored and I’m one of them weirdoes that reads old threads from a year ago.

One spurred a bit of an argument that this is a sex site and someone else argued that it was not it was a place to make connections.

Which camp are you in?

I’m the latter. If sex happens,cool. If not, no need to cry about it. "

Yes,make connections and social like minded friends that like to swing .... which normally ends up as sex

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Connection definitely sex is only a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard to say it's not got a rather strong sexual element to the site! But it's also about meeting people you get on with, can have a laugh, and perhaps enjoy some other extra-curricular activities ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say its both for me, I need some sort of connection to have sex.

Finding someone to laugh, chat absolute rubbish, drink rum, eat cake with then great sex follows. "

This exactly!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it’s debatable how many on here are actually swingers or just here to get laid or pictures fabbed.

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

"Well it’s debatable how many on here are actually swingers or just here to get laid or pictures fabbed. "

How is ‘swinger’ defined? We will each have our own definition, which can be a whole new thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in the latter one to

No spark no fun

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Ultimately in it's most basic sense it IS undeniably a sex site as it's basic premise is underpinned by sex.

How each of us define our use of it however is where opinions differ - some will see it as a place to meet like minded others for uncomplicated NSA encounters (and even within that you have those that look for a connection and chemistry and those that want to just meet, have sex and leave) - then you have those that take the more traditional "swinging" view of swapping partners etc, those that just want to talk sex, those that want to post pics, those looking for a relationship and many more varieties.

I personally fall into the meet "likeminded others for uncomplicated NSA encounters (with a connection and chemistry)" category - how others choose to use the site is up to them and really no concern of mine unless it impacts me somehow, which invariably it doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s both.

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

"I could not fuck just for the sake of it i find it hollow feel like shit after rather wank about someone i actually like

Unfortunately a lot see it as they’re saving a tenner on a prostitute rather than being genuine swingers "

A tenner? And the provincials moan about londoners having it easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m bored and I’m one of them weirdoes that reads old threads from a year ago.

One spurred a bit of an argument that this is a sex site and someone else argued that it was not it was a place to make connections.

Which camp are you in?

I’m the latter. If sex happens,cool. If not, no need to cry about it. "

Swinging is an umbrella term has many different facets. It is not a sex site .. it is adult lifestyle site that may or may not include sexual experiences and shared with others l,

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I could not fuck just for the sake of it i find it hollow feel like shit after rather wank about someone i actually like

Unfortunately a lot see it as they’re saving a tenner on a prostitute rather than being genuine swingers ..

A Tenner lady ?"

funny

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

"I joined for the sex, and stayed for the illiteracy."

I no wot u meen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is whatever you want it to be.....majority of the decent member's use it for a lot more than casual sexploits

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

Personally, I need a connection to have sex with someone, I'm attracted to people not just physically but also mentally, I need someone who I can bounce off, someone who gets my daft sense of humour & sarcasm, if we can sit and chat for hours, share some food, some cake and some alcohol (spiced rum preferable), then have some great sex and maybe end with a session of spooning before going for round 2....then that's what I crave personally!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 16/09/19 23:44:28]"

It is what is it. Its a site associated with sex, where people make connections.

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

Fab has killed my sex life.

So many idiots on here now ive stopped bothering looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my partner would only play with another if there is a connection built. Each to their own but that’s us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The latter. I've mad wonderful friends here. I have a high sex drive but for me to actually have sex with someone I have to really trust them. So I need connections

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Honestly, if I used fab just to find a shag, I'd be a nun.

I use it mostly to keep in touch with people I've met at clubs and for the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me and my partner would only play with another if there is a connection built. Each to their own but that’s us "

Us too

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"[Removed by poster at 16/09/19 23:44:28]

It is what is it. Its a site associated with sex, where people make connections. "

This

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By *ffinfuntMan
over a year ago

liverpool

It's mote like a porn site now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well it’s debatable how many on here are actually swingers or just here to get laid or pictures fabbed. "

I’m none of those and I’m here. It’s whatever you want it to be

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