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How do you define N.S.A meets/sex?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What does No Strings Attached mean to you?

(what even are the strings? And where do they attach?)

Is it a one off meet never to be repeated?

An open fb/fwb situation?

Im curious please discuss....

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

For me it means meeting for sex with no contact afterwards

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I think most people see NSA as sex with total freedom of movement. Like a pay as you go phone deal where you can drop or swap anytime, without obligation or explanation. However sometimes people like the package so much they try and lock in for a more substantial contract.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like some strings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done one offs in the past but I prefer a regular fun with someone I know a bit more. As sex gets better the more time you have to explore eachother. In my case anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does No Strings Attached mean to you?

(what even are the strings? And where do they attach?)

Is it a one off meet never to be repeated?

An open fb/fwb situation?

Im curious please discuss.... "
no strings means you meet once or meet many times but you're not emotionally involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No emotional attachment but plenty of fun and can become regular play

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

to me it means theres no pressure for a follow up meet and we arnt exclusive to each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nsa to be means its sex and fun only no clingyness and deffo nothing more than fun/sex.. nsa to me does not mean one offs

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By *lderamDarkMan
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

It says it in the word no strings attache= no attachment

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By *hubarbandcustard1000Couple
over a year ago

Dudley

It means no sex with marronettes... because that's just weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As opposed to any other kind of date/meet, I'd define it by saying you don't need to lock your phone, clear your browsing history or hide your handcuffs/dildo etc

On the downside, you do need to de-fuzz your bits. Personally i run a blow-torch over my balls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would imagine it’s meet, fuck and go. Although I really don’t know. It’s not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither of us cum

And I won’t meet Spider-Man

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Doesn't involve puppets

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

It’s supposed to be just sex. However, in my experience it translates to “i’m Not ready for a relationship, but let’s do everything that a relationship consists of whilst I tell you I don’t want anything serious and call you a friend”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NSA for me would be a one off night/day of sex. Any repeats would make the other person a fuck buddy. As you continue to see your fuck buddy and get to know them more you will spend more time in their company, doing things that people do on dates, before you get to sex. I personally think that if both parties want to just be fuck buddies there should be an adequate amount of spacing between each meet, and also each person should actively meet other people. This is only my opinion, but I think if I see too much of someone too fast or for too long then at some point a bell will go off in my head and I'll be questioning if I'm in a relationship or not. It's stupid, but when it has happened before I have hit the panic button and tried to slow things down and create distance only to have the whole thing come to an end.

Relationships aren't the devil either, neither is 2 people on here going steady after meeting on the site I think thats class. I'm better at being single though and I've had nothing but failed relationships in the past that I cant help but compare the next one to. My demons that I can rationally talk away but in the moment often get the better of me lol long story short I'm here for the sex

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"What does No Strings Attached mean to you?

(what even are the strings? And where do they attach?)

Is it a one off meet never to be repeated?

An open fb/fwb situation?

Im curious please discuss.... "

Interesting one. I would say it means no emotional involvement, or exclusivity?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I had a long term lady friend and our agreement was sex whenever we could but to ignore each other if we saw each other in town and only no hassle messages in between meets and that was that. Arrive on time and leave when I said I would. Safe sex. That was NSA for us.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I had a long term lady friend and our agreement was sex whenever we could but to ignore each other if we saw each other in town and only no hassle messages in between meets and that was that. Arrive on time and leave when I said I would. Safe sex. That was NSA for us. "
oh yeah and no exclusivity. So limiting.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

I got no strings to hold me down

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Unless your want to tie me down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NSA for me can be a regular fwb, but no obligations or commitments on either side, i.e. either party can end it at any time, no questions asked.

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