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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Does it (mildly) irritate anyone else when people assume you're rejecting them because you're shy?

If I were that shy I wouldn't be here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shy? Aren’t you half naked in most of your profile pictures - wouldn’t of been my first guess of words to describe you...

Rejection is rejection - people are always going to find an excuse to make themselves feel that little bit better

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Wells that’s a new one !

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Shy? Aren’t you half naked in most of your profile pictures - wouldn’t of been my first guess of words to describe you...

Rejection is rejection - people are always going to find an excuse to make themselves feel that little bit better"

It's stuff like, "I see you deleted my message. You shy, baby?" No I'm not, and now I'm pissed off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its easier for it to be your issue, rather than admitting they are unattractive, dull, stupid (delete as appropriate)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shy? Aren’t you half naked in most of your profile pictures - wouldn’t of been my first guess of words to describe you...

Rejection is rejection - people are always going to find an excuse to make themselves feel that little bit better

It's stuff like, "I see you deleted my message. You shy, baby?" No I'm not, and now I'm pissed off. "

Hahahahahaha “You shy, baby?” People actually call you ‘baby’ over messages. Oh dear...

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I was always told "if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all"

So you're actually being kind - in some cases. ??

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Shy? Aren’t you half naked in most of your profile pictures - wouldn’t of been my first guess of words to describe you...

Rejection is rejection - people are always going to find an excuse to make themselves feel that little bit better

It's stuff like, "I see you deleted my message. You shy, baby?" No I'm not, and now I'm pissed off.

Hahahahahaha “You shy, baby?” People actually call you ‘baby’ over messages. Oh dear... "

Lord, if baby were only the worst of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been accused of being shy for not wanting to take part in a 3 man gangbang at 4am.

That's not shy luv, that's just my self preservation kicking in.

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By *atisfying jackMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Does it (mildly) irritate anyone else when people assume you're rejecting them because you're shy?

If I were that shy I wouldn't be here! "

Some people want an excuse for why they're being rejected and if they can pass that reason on to the person who rejected them....well it makes them feel better.

I for one assume everyone rejects me because they cannot understand my amazingness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone said I must be shy when I politely declined their offer of meeting them in their truck at the local motorway services, at midnight.

Um...

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By *atisfying jackMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I've been accused of being shy for not wanting to take part in a 3 man gangbang at 4am.

That's not shy luv, that's just my self preservation kicking in. "

Well how very inconsiderate of you, I mean who in their right mind would pass up that offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone said I must be shy when I politely declined their offer of meeting them in their truck at the local motorway services, at midnight.

Um..."

You missed out.......

On a Ginsters Pasty supper and a knee trembler.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shy? Aren’t you half naked in most of your profile pictures - wouldn’t of been my first guess of words to describe you...

Rejection is rejection - people are always going to find an excuse to make themselves feel that little bit better

It's stuff like, "I see you deleted my message. You shy, baby?" No I'm not, and now I'm pissed off.

Hahahahahaha “You shy, baby?” People actually call you ‘baby’ over messages. Oh dear...

Lord, if baby were only the worst of it "

Ohhhh - ive met some great women here! The odd few show time their inbox’s. It a scary scary place!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been accused of shyness

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Shy? Aren’t you half naked in most of your profile pictures - wouldn’t of been my first guess of words to describe you...

Rejection is rejection - people are always going to find an excuse to make themselves feel that little bit better

It's stuff like, "I see you deleted my message. You shy, baby?" No I'm not, and now I'm pissed off.

Hahahahahaha “You shy, baby?” People actually call you ‘baby’ over messages. Oh dear...

Lord, if baby were only the worst of it

Ohhhh - ive met some great women here! The odd few show time their inbox’s. It a scary scary place!! "

"I've seen things you people wouldn't believe..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone said I must be shy when I politely declined their offer of meeting them in their truck at the local motorway services, at midnight.

Um..."

Perfectly fine. Perfectly safe. Perfectly normal.

Hey - want to meet me behind the bench in the woods at 1am tonight for a quickie?... hahah some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it (mildly) irritate anyone else when people assume you're rejecting them because you're shy?

If I were that shy I wouldn't be here! "

Not midly no..... infuriatingly yep !!!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Shy? Aren’t you half naked in most of your profile pictures - wouldn’t of been my first guess of words to describe you...

Rejection is rejection - people are always going to find an excuse to make themselves feel that little bit better

It's stuff like, "I see you deleted my message. You shy, baby?" No I'm not, and now I'm pissed off. "

God I hate it when they say that it gets an instant delete.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Shy? Aren’t you half naked in most of your profile pictures - wouldn’t of been my first guess of words to describe you...

Rejection is rejection - people are always going to find an excuse to make themselves feel that little bit better

It's stuff like, "I see you deleted my message. You shy, baby?" No I'm not, and now I'm pissed off.

God I hate it when they say that it gets an instant delete."

You shy bae?

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Shy? Aren’t you half naked in most of your profile pictures - wouldn’t of been my first guess of words to describe you...

Rejection is rejection - people are always going to find an excuse to make themselves feel that little bit better

It's stuff like, "I see you deleted my message. You shy, baby?" No I'm not, and now I'm pissed off.

God I hate it when they say that it gets an instant delete."

For me any questioning my initial delete is a block.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"Does it (mildly) irritate anyone else when people assume you're rejecting them because you're shy?

If I were that shy I wouldn't be here! "

As if your shy!!!

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I’m shy

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I’m shy "

You wouldn't know shy if it bit you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It does mildly make me incandescent with rage when men think that I'm rejecting their advances because I lack confidence, yes .

A guy actually said this to me at a party when I had just forcibly removed his hand from up my skirt for the second time.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"I’m shy

You wouldn't know shy if it bit you "

I am shy

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It does mildly make me incandescent with rage when men think that I'm rejecting their advances because I lack confidence, yes .

A guy actually said this to me at a party when I had just forcibly removed his hand from up my skirt for the second time. "

I like mildly incandescent with rage (it sometimes more than mildly irritates me to be fair).

If you're going to assume things about me because I've said no to you, can we go with bitch instead of shy? I like being a bitch when it's warranted. And not respecting my no... Totally warranted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does mildly make me incandescent with rage when men think that I'm rejecting their advances because I lack confidence, yes .

A guy actually said this to me at a party when I had just forcibly removed his hand from up my skirt for the second time. "

This is what pisses me off at clubs. I can’t refrain from getting annoyed sometimes - you can clearly see when a woman isn’t into you, so why can’t you just leave her be.

That’s when I feel sorry for single females at parties. The amount of women that I’ve had to pretend to be their boyfriend or guest is actually disgusting. At least 2/3 women every club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does mildly make me incandescent with rage when men think that I'm rejecting their advances because I lack confidence, yes .

A guy actually said this to me at a party when I had just forcibly removed his hand from up my skirt for the second time. "

Hmmm "I'm not too shy to break your nose" would have probably left my mouth

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It does mildly make me incandescent with rage when men think that I'm rejecting their advances because I lack confidence, yes .

A guy actually said this to me at a party when I had just forcibly removed his hand from up my skirt for the second time.

This is what pisses me off at clubs. I can’t refrain from getting annoyed sometimes - you can clearly see when a woman isn’t into you, so why can’t you just leave her be.

That’s when I feel sorry for single females at parties. The amount of women that I’ve had to pretend to be their boyfriend or guest is actually disgusting. At least 2/3 women every club. "

I was with my partner. He knows I can look after myself

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It does mildly make me incandescent with rage when men think that I'm rejecting their advances because I lack confidence, yes .

A guy actually said this to me at a party when I had just forcibly removed his hand from up my skirt for the second time.

Hmmm "I'm not too shy to break your nose" would have probably left my mouth

P"

I did deck him one.

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It does mildly make me incandescent with rage when men think that I'm rejecting their advances because I lack confidence, yes .

A guy actually said this to me at a party when I had just forcibly removed his hand from up my skirt for the second time.

This is what pisses me off at clubs. I can’t refrain from getting annoyed sometimes - you can clearly see when a woman isn’t into you, so why can’t you just leave her be.

That’s when I feel sorry for single females at parties. The amount of women that I’ve had to pretend to be their boyfriend or guest is actually disgusting. At least 2/3 women every club. "

Plus side, you learn a thick skin and to channel the inner bitch. No you do not touch me, etc. At most clubs and parties, if anyone messes with me there's hell to pay. And all I have to say is get off, loud enough for others to hear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does mildly make me incandescent with rage when men think that I'm rejecting their advances because I lack confidence, yes .

A guy actually said this to me at a party when I had just forcibly removed his hand from up my skirt for the second time.

Hmmm "I'm not too shy to break your nose" would have probably left my mouth

P

I did deck him one. "

I just cheered internally.

If he'd apologised I think I'd have let it pass, but that response fucking earned it

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Plus side, you learn a thick skin and to channel the inner bitch. No you do not touch me, etc. At most clubs and parties, if anyone messes with me there's hell to pay. And all I have to say is get off, loud enough for others to hear. "

I mean yeah that’s all nice and stuff - but shouldn’t be happening. But it does happen to us men too sometimes. I’ve had a very very attractive women lock me in a room & not let me out to I give her a kiss at least - it’s a shitty situation. (She was d*unk - don’t care where I am. A d*unk woman is a d*unk woman - no go zone)

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


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Plus side, you learn a thick skin and to channel the inner bitch. No you do not touch me, etc. At most clubs and parties, if anyone messes with me there's hell to pay. And all I have to say is get off, loud enough for others to hear.

I mean yeah that’s all nice and stuff - but shouldn’t be happening. But it does happen to us men too sometimes. I’ve had a very very attractive women lock me in a room & not let me out to I give her a kiss at least - it’s a shitty situation. (She was d*unk - don’t care where I am. A d*unk woman is a d*unk woman - no go zone) "

Oh I agree, but shit people exist and I can handle it. And the culture usually empowers me to do so.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"I’m shy

You wouldn't know shy if it bit you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they're mostly just trying to engage you in conversation. It's kinda like when a kid goes quiet and adults tease them to get them joining in.

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