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Is it the pictures or the text

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That attract people to a profile. Think i struggling on both to be fair..lol.. time to get dictionary out and some new pics sorted me thinks!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all about the name.

Try changing it to something more intriguing like...

Eric Tion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s all about the name.

Try changing it to something more intriguing like...

Eric Tion "

That has tickled me xx

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"That attract people to a profile. Think i struggling on both to be fair..lol.. time to get dictionary out and some new pics sorted me thinks!!!"

It's both. Don't let your game down with either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Text for me with I suppose 1 or 2 pics to back up.

Seen loads of profiles and you think ‘oh aye, tidy...’ then read the profile before reaching for the block button.

Status’ are a good filter too. Some ridiculously graphic ones from females (suspect not actual females.)

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Pics primary

I want to meet those I’m physically attracted to , if they have humour and charisma it’s a bonus

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Both. The pictures attract me but if I read the profile and they sound like a dick, the pretty pictures become less appealing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Both. The pictures attract me but if I read the profile and they sound like a dick, the pretty pictures become less appealing. "

How's mine... dick sounding? Or passable?

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Both. The pictures attract me but if I read the profile and they sound like a dick, the pretty pictures become less appealing. "

Yeppo

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think it's a number of factors OP including BOTH your profile text and pictures which are the initial attractors.

You can then add into that things like attitude, approach and expectations that may come across in messages, or forum posts etc and of course a connection and chemistry on some level.

Just as with attraction in *normal* life it probably comes down to a very small minority of people that all of that falls into place with so the key is finding those that it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First pictures then text.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Both. The pictures attract me but if I read the profile and they sound like a dick, the pretty pictures become less appealing.

How's mine... dick sounding? Or passable?"

Not dickish

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"First pictures then text. "

I likes reading your pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both for me

Although I know my profile isn't the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First pictures then text.

I likes reading your pictures "

Same here

Yours give me butterflies that can fly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A message to me or pictures are what catch my attention in the first place.

Bear in mind that pictures don't tell the whole story. Some people are better at picture taking than others. And phone cameras can distort things a bit.

I then read the profile. You can get a good sense of someone from what they write, including what they say in the forums if they post there.

For me it's about the whole person. It just makes any conversation or meet a whole lot better.

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