FabSwingers.com forum: Regretted?

By *hickennchips OP Woman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

Has anyone regretted a meet they’ve had from here? Curious if so as to why...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Not at all, I've regretted one or two I didn't meet though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not from here but a different site I used to frequent

It was just one of those things that seemed a really good idea then when I got to her house

She wasn't like the pics she had sent me

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By *hickennchips OP Woman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

"Not from here but a different site I used to frequent

It was just one of those things that seemed a really good idea then when I got to her house

She wasn't like the pics she had sent me "

That seems to happen a lot :/

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

No regrets. Just lessons learnt.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

No regrets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. All good so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Il let you know after I have a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with this man, yet to meet

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

No regrets they don't work

No regrets they only hurt

Sing me a love song

Drop me a line…

......oh sorry, is this not the sing a long karaoke thread....

(awkwardly slips out of the thread)

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Yes. They did not look like their pics and were much shorter than stated on profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No regrets they don't work

No regrets they only hurt

Sing me a love song

Drop me a line…

......oh sorry, is this not the sing a long karaoke thread....

(awkwardly slips out of the thread)"

Nah. Stay and entertain us...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've not regretted them, as we can't tell until we've met that they weren't for me. Making excuses and leaving is all part of the filtering process.

If you didn't have some poorer experiences, it would slow our learning.

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By *carlettVanillaWoman
over a year ago

Gloucesterish

No regrets at all from me!!!

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

Nah. Stay and entertain us...

Hell is gone and heaven's here

There's nothing left for you to fear

Shake your arse come over here

Now scream

I'm a burning effigy

Of everything I used to be

You're my rock of empathy, my dear

So come on let me entertain you

Let me entertain you.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've not regretted them, as we can't tell until we've met that they weren't for me. Making excuses and leaving is all part of the filtering process.

If you didn't have some poorer experiences, it would slow our learning. "

I like that.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I haven't regretted meets as such,but do regret I gave people more chances than they deserved in the past.

Miss

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By *hickennchips OP Woman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

I regret not meeting someone because I felt they were out of my league...

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

"I regret not meeting someone because I felt they were out of my league..."

.....Don't Ever feel you aren't good enough for someone or not in their league....that's bullshit....we all have loads to offer others!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very first meet. Ended up an UNLOS and hubby having to take a random stranger to the floor “using minimum and proportionate force”

A tad off putting for a first meet but we stuck with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only when she came back asking for child benefits

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

First ever meet almost 2 years ago when she became violent in an attempt to provoke a reaction from me. Apparently that was her"kink"but I was too naive at the time to pick up on it when chatting socially.

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By *hezGeekCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"No regrets. Just lessons learnt. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've left one when got there and the house was a mess and stunk and looked nothing like pictures.

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

No regrets at all, all the meets ive had both parties enjoyed each others company whether it was sexual or the social side.

All about communication before hand imho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone regretted a meet they’ve had from here? Curious if so as to why..."
yes i have can't say why mind

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"I've left one when got there and the house was a mess and stunk and looked nothing like pictures. "

Try a different estate agent next time.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes last Sunday total disaster darling

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

None at all from this profile - they've all been good.

When I used to go to clubs there were a couple that for various reasons after the event I wish hadn't happened but they were all part of the learning process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I regret not meeting someone because I felt they were out of my league..."

Were they fishandchips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

It was a 2 night meet as well due to distance. All started good we got on well initially and the attraction was there for us both but he became more of a prick as the meet went on. The whole situation actually left me very anxious about meeting new people again until I met the wonderful guy I'm seeing now.

Other than that the only regret I have is giving so much of myself to my previous Fwb with very little in return but you live and learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone regretted a meet they’ve had from here? Curious if so as to why..."

Our very first meet and the subsequent 3 meets with a guy..

We were totally up front at the start and said we would not meet anyone that was married and cheating on their partner..you guessed it, he lied his ass off. Turns out he was married with an 18month old boy..I ended it immediately..it has now made me very wary to say the least..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone regretted a meet they’ve had from here? Curious if so as to why...

Our very first meet and the subsequent 3 meets with a guy..

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but the first 3 meets were good yes?

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By *igJandTheBlondeCouple
over a year ago

Kings Hill

"No regrets. Just lessons learnt. "

Very well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone regretted a meet they’ve had from here? Curious if so as to why...

Our very first meet and the subsequent 3 meets with a guy..

but the first 3 meets were good yes?

They were but sadly he turned out to be a liar and it made me bitterly regret going anywhere near him..He tried a few times to say sorry but nah..detest liars..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not from here no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i regret the meets years ago that never turned up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone regretted a meet they’ve had from here? Curious if so as to why..."

Yes on a few occasions, but that was my own fault been on the scene long enough to have known better. Sometimes you get caught up in something and you have to pay a price

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Not from here no.

Another site site yes, i met a man who got sinister because i wouldn’t meet him again (due to feeling unsafe with him!).

I had to threaten him with the Police.

Turns out he preferred The Eagles.

Sorry, making light out of it, but he is the main reason i would never have a meet to my home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

deffo had some bad meets off here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yes, but not really because of the man I met. I just wasn't meeting for the right reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not off here but a few spur of the moment plays at clubs I have

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By *hickennchips OP Woman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

"I regret not meeting someone because I felt they were out of my league...

.....Don't Ever feel you aren't good enough for someone or not in their league....that's bullshit....we all have loads to offer others!!!

I know that now, back then I didn’t appreciate how much a lot of men like curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not from here no.

Another site site yes, i met a man who got sinister because i wouldn’t meet him again (due to feeling unsafe with him!).

I had to threaten him with the Police.

Turns out he preferred The Eagles.

Sorry, making light out of it, but he is the main reason i would never have a meet to my home."

Similar, met a couple once and the male would not leave me alone after, started out with texts and requests to meet alone then progressed to him sitting outside and stalking. We don't meet at home now only pubs and hotels unless they are implicitly trusted and long term friends

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I had one close call which I absolutely know I would have regretted so I’m proud of myself for avoiding that one

No I have no regrets. I’ve had fun along the way

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Had many a regretted meet since being on here

Perhaps the worst was last year - turned out to be a complete knob sharing out our ‘for our eyes only’ (his words) video to other fems , showboating our meet. Top it off he was in a relationship with another fabber after telling me he was single and obv she never knew he was meeting me and then found out through mutual friends because we were ALL going to be at the same club night !!!! Put me in a very awkward situation I can tell you

Shot himself in the foot as I was messaged by these women to say what a complete arsehole he was and that they wouldn’t meet him if he turned himself into Brad Pitt

He’s still on here banding himself around as a genuine down to earth guy that’s nothing like the rest of the liars on here hahahaha

You couldn’t make it up

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Has anyone regretted a meet they’ve had from here? Curious if so as to why..."
yes in the past when i was part of a couple. Id often be expexted to take one for the team so to speak. I regretted it.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Had many a regretted meet since being on here

Shot himself in the foot as I was messaged by these women to say what a complete arsehole he was and that they wouldn’t meet him if he turned himself into Brad Pitt

He’s still on here banding himself around as a genuine down to earth guy that’s nothing like the rest of the liars on here hahahaha

You couldn’t make it up

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ive heard similar tales in my years on fab to be fair... not nice.. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had many a regretted meet since being on here

Perhaps the worst was last year - turned out to be a complete knob sharing out our ‘for our eyes only’ (his words) video to other fems , showboating our meet. "

Sadly guys have very big ego's - do like to brag. How many guys come into chat asking for Veri's. They need merit points - they want you to tell them how amazing they are so they can tell everyone else. Lets be honest how many pics of fems guys have on their public profiles lol and make out they are amazing so every fem should want them lol

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Completely. Lies and manipulation are never ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had many a regretted meet since being on here

Perhaps the worst was last year - turned out to be a complete knob sharing out our ‘for our eyes only’ (his words) video to other fems , showboating our meet.

You think I’m big. Wow thanks for the complement, never had it called an ego before tho, lol strange but thanks, (just kidding!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Completely. Lies and manipulation are never ok. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had many a regretted meet since being on here

Perhaps the worst was last year - turned out to be a complete knob sharing out our ‘for our eyes only’ (his words) video to other fems , showboating our meet.

You think I’m big. Wow thanks for the complement, never had it called an ego before tho, lol strange but thanks, (just kidding!)

LOL Big egos, but also very fragile !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did it myyyyyyyy waaaaaay

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"i regret the meets years ago that never turned up

You need to turn that.... that’s their loss, not yours

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Had many a regretted meet since being on here

Shot himself in the foot as I was messaged by these women to say what a complete arsehole he was and that they wouldn’t meet him if he turned himself into Brad Pitt

He’s still on here banding himself around as a genuine down to earth guy that’s nothing like the rest of the liars on here hahahaha

You couldn’t make it up

ive heard similar tales in my years on fab to be fair... not nice.. xx"

It’s exactly that type of behaviour from guys that causes all sorts of ill feeling on here

Women on the whole don’t really want to see a potential meet on video with there last encounter and fair crack to the lovely ladies that messaged me to tell me what he was doing !

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By *iss SinWoman
over a year ago

portchester

regretted meetin a married man whose wife came after me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No regrets.. some I wouldn't meet up with again though

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

No but some would not meet again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive regretted some but not because of the meets we had but by how they behaved after mainly the clingy wont go away ones who think too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had many a regretted meet since being on here

Shot himself in the foot as I was messaged by these women to say what a complete arsehole he was and that they wouldn’t meet him if he turned himself into Brad Pitt

He’s still on here banding himself around as a genuine down to earth guy that’s nothing like the rest of the liars on here hahahaha

You couldn’t make it up

ive heard similar tales in my years on fab to be fair... not nice.. xx

It’s exactly that type of behaviour from guys that causes all sorts of ill feeling on here

Women on the whole don’t really want to see a potential meet on video with there last encounter and fair crack to the lovely ladies that messaged me to tell me what he was doing !

Remind him of the revenge porn laws. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ...and some really scary lessons learnt as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one. Was a bit of a car crash from start to finish. Guy was uwashed, mechanic, saggy joggers, sat with his hand down his pants whole time we were there, incontinent aged cat pissing on the floor. Girl made an effort but that all kind of put a dampener on proceedings. Made our excuses and split.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one which was a social meet.

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

After an early social meet that was a complete waste of time I always have a good chat with people before deciding to meet. It’s not failed me......yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only one which was a social meet. "

Yep "Best line ever was, opening with "Never done this before, so when do we fuck" ........ errrrrr never

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Havent met anyone yet to regret but I'm taking notes here! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only one which was a social meet.

Yep "Best line ever was, opening with "Never done this before, so when do we fuck" ........ errrrrr never

Oh wow!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"I did it myyyyyyyy waaaaaay"

All together now

Regrets, I've had a few

But then again, too few to mention

I did what I had to do

And saw it through without exemption

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes bloody dogs wouldn’t shut up barking! Lol

big animal lover too incase anyone gets offended

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Had many a regretted meet since being on here

Shot himself in the foot as I was messaged by these women to say what a complete arsehole he was and that they wouldn’t meet him if he turned himself into Brad Pitt

He’s still on here banding himself around as a genuine down to earth guy that’s nothing like the rest of the liars on here hahahaha

You couldn’t make it up

Can't these type of men be banned from fab for poor behaviour? I'm scared of meeting anyone now. I kinda vet them quite thoroughly before i want anything to do with them... Thats why i haven't met anyone yet.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Long story short, the woman who brought her kids to my hotel with a built in children's play area.

Wanted to go to my room and leave the "young kids" on there own in the play area.

I said no I'm not doing that as it's not right on the kids and she started calling me all the names under the sun IN A VERY LOUD SCREECHY VOICE

Then she calmed down and suggested bringing the kids to the room so we could play while the kids entertained themselves.

Again I politely said no that's not right either and she went bat shit crazy again so much that the manager said i would have to take my wife and kids and leave the building.

Which led to a very interesting conversation about how they weren't my wife and kids and that I'd just arranged to meet her for a social

To which he winked and said i would have more chance of getting laid if I hadn't invited her kids along

Still see the manager in the same hotel now and he always asks me who I'm meeting tonight and if I want a baby sitter but it's done with a smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had an issue to date but the scary stories on here make you think twice.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Long story short, the woman who brought her kids to my hotel with a built in children's play area.

Wanted to go to my room and leave the "young kids" on there own in the play area.

I said no I'm not doing that as it's not right on the kids and she started calling me all the names under the sun IN A VERY LOUD SCREECHY VOICE

Then she calmed down and suggested bringing the kids to the room so we could play while the kids entertained themselves.

Again I politely said no that's not right either and she went bat shit crazy again so much that the manager said i would have to take my wife and kids and leave the building.

Which led to a very interesting conversation about how they weren't my wife and kids and that I'd just arranged to meet her for a social

To which he winked and said i would have more chance of getting laid if I hadn't invited her kids along

Still see the manager in the same hotel now and he always asks me who I'm meeting tonight and if I want a baby sitter but it's done with a smile

Jeez them women should not have kids... But the story made me giggle... I'm glad I'm not a lesbo as women sound more crazy! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had many a regretted meet since being on here

Shot himself in the foot as I was messaged by these women to say what a complete arsehole he was and that they wouldn’t meet him if he turned himself into Brad Pitt

He’s still on here banding himself around as a genuine down to earth guy that’s nothing like the rest of the liars on here hahahaha

You couldn’t make it up

It goes with the territory I'm afraid a lot is down to experience being able to see through, the lies, deceit and bullshit. Take your time and scrutinise all very carefully and you will hopefully find the one

amongst the many

, Try chat rooms but avoid the directing rooms