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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well do you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doubt it, who cares

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Define popular...

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

No. I lack both the breasts and the brains required for popularity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope and don’t care either. Like worrying if you’re popular walking down a street of strangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am sure i kill threads when i post something....

lets see about this one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't got a clue , it's always nice to pop in to the forum and have jolly japes with chums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well do you"
the in crowd noooooo, im aloof

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Nah. I like the sidelines anyhow. I couldn't keep up with the admin of being a popular kid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Define popular... "

As in, are you more likely to get responses on your posts than others

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"No. I lack both the breasts and the brains required for popularity."

I have those, I just lack the figure or the face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Define popular...

As in, are you more likely to get responses on your posts than others "

No

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Haha no - I'm the one they skip over or send private messages to rather than flirt wildly with in public.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

No and don't really care. Often posts are ignored but I will continue to post when I have something to contribute.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No but they are a fun place to be x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Don’t care what others think, say what you want to say and just enjoy

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Some people like me, some people don't.

There's a few who really really dislike me.

Just like in real life.

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By *picknspanMan
over a year ago

North West Leeds


"No. I lack both the breasts and the brains required for popularity.

I have those, I just lack the figure or the face "

Untrue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im loved by all im like fabs version of ant and dec

Jokes im not fussy either way i got all i need without chasing popularity i dont wanna be prom king ta im far too much a grump

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport

I don't actually think whilst I am on the forum

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’m not here to be popular - I’m here for a laugh, flirt etc

Popularity is overrated

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not. But I enjoy them, which is all that really matters

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

not Bothered.

If i piss people off in here, feel free to let me know so I can do it more often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not here to be popular - I’m here for a laugh, flirt etc

Popularity is overrated "

Thats the outlook to have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i dont think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't of thought so xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha no - I'm the one they skip over or send private messages to rather than flirt wildly with in public."

I tired lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don’t think I am but it’s cool

We all have ideas of what we are looking for lol

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis


"Haha no - I'm the one they skip over or send private messages to rather than flirt wildly with in public.

I tired lol "

Then have a nap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.Im about as poplar as all the other ones outside the circle of forum dwellers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m gonna go with no.

But thankfully, I don’t take personally, I’m far too fat skinned for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people like me, some people don't.

There's a few who really really dislike me.

Just like in real life.

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It’s the Wellington boots lol

I’m joking

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

What you see is what you get. If you don't like me, fine, i've nothing against you. Let's just enjoy and have a grand ol' time

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

No idea, never posted anything to try and cultivate popularity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Btw you lot cannot have my penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Define popular...

As in, are you more likely to get responses on your posts than others "

I don't think that's always about popularity. Different thread types attract different attention, an inclusive thread that asks a question will get more response than someone just making a statement. Also some people encourage conversation and engage after starting a thread, others just leave it.

Personally I think some people like me, some people don't. Either way I'll just keep doing my thing, I'm here to entertain myself and pass time, being popular isn't high on my agenda.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Define popular...

As in, are you more likely to get responses on your posts than others "

I don't know, I tend not to keep a tally of who responds or how often.

I know that everyone feels as if they get ignored at times and often perception and personal bias govern how we view things.

It's not a competition though, comparing my experience to someone else's is a very negative world view.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

What about you OP, do you think you are?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Define popular...

As in, are you more likely to get responses on your posts than others

I don't think that's always about popularity. Different thread types attract different attention, an inclusive thread that asks a question will get more response than someone just making a statement. Also some people encourage conversation and engage after starting a thread, others just leave it.

Personally I think some people like me, some people don't. Either way I'll just keep doing my thing, I'm here to entertain myself and pass time, being popular isn't high on my agenda. "

Iv noticed that you can post a thread about a cardboard box and the thread wi fill upid say you are popular

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'm not sure if I am. I think that it depends on what type of post/rare thread I do. Sometimes I go without receiving any comments on a post etc but that's not why I post.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Btw you lot cannot have my penis "

Just to make sure those hordes of ladies finally understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rats arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Define popular...

As in, are you more likely to get responses on your posts than others

I don't think that's always about popularity. Different thread types attract different attention, an inclusive thread that asks a question will get more response than someone just making a statement. Also some people encourage conversation and engage after starting a thread, others just leave it.

Personally I think some people like me, some people don't. Either way I'll just keep doing my thing, I'm here to entertain myself and pass time, being popular isn't high on my agenda.

Iv noticed that you can post a thread about a cardboard box and the thread wi fill upid say you are popular "

I'd say I'm engaging. People aren't necessarily responding to me they're joining in with an inclusive thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK let me put it another way, I can name at least 4 regular forum users than can post a thread about a tomato and it would get loads of responses,but most others it wouldn't get aot, do you get my drift

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Rats arse "

It's only a question, no need to be arsey

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I'm not sure if I am. I think that it depends on what type of post/rare thread I do. Sometimes I go without receiving any comments on a post etc but that's not why I post. "

I think that kind of sums up my point. Meli, objectively I'd say that you're one of the most popular forumites but people rarely perceive that.

I think that if popularity is a person's aim then there's possibly something wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"OK let me put it another way, I can name at least 4 regular forum users than can post a thread about a tomato and it would get loads of responses,but most others it wouldn't get aot, do you get my drift"

Similar to when celebrities post something meaningless or random on their feed and gets loads of attention. Happens here, yes. Not a good or bad thing, just is what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rats arse

It's only a question, no need to be arsey"

Good lord no definitely not arsey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rats arse

It's only a question, no need to be arsey

Good lord no definitely not arsey "

Not a rats one anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe? I try to talk to anyone who talks back.

I know I rub some people up the wrong way and I bet I'm misreading others. Some definitely don't like me and its probably mutual. I try to avoid them and respect the boundaries, clash occasionally, but semi-respectfully out of begrudging respect as a regular forum user.

I hope so, because I do sincerely like most people who contribute regularly. It feels like a community at times. I'm not overly fussed if I'm not, yes attention seek, but only cos I fuckin' loves it I don't need it and function perfectly well without it. Provided I've someone sane to talk to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op

From what every one has posted so far , I don't think any of us are here for popularity .

Just for some splendid larks with friends Fabbers and Forumites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK let me put it another way, I can name at least 4 regular forum users than can post a thread about a tomato and it would get loads of responses,but most others it wouldn't get aot, do you get my drift"

Yeah but look at how those 4 posters interact. It's not all about how much people like them, it's about the energy they bring, the fact that they draw people out by getting involved, most of their threads are actively encouraging conversation by getting people to think and people love talking about themselves.

As Tea Monkey said we are all seeing things from different viewpoints, you see those people as popular because of the threads they start but you don't notice them being ignored 4 times in a row on a snog fuck avoid thread.

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By *irty Flirty HarryMan
over a year ago

East Sussex

Oh no

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm glad I'm not and I'll make sure it stays that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never considered myself popular regardless of Fab or any other social media outlet.. I have a small circle of mates that I'm happy with... But I do get more messages when I'm involved in the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OK let me put it another way, I can name at least 4 regular forum users than can post a thread about a tomato and it would get loads of responses,but most others it wouldn't get aot, do you get my drift

Yeah but look at how those 4 posters interact. It's not all about how much people like them, it's about the energy they bring, the fact that they draw people out by getting involved, most of their threads are actively encouraging conversation by getting people to think and people love talking about themselves.

As Tea Monkey said we are all seeing things from different viewpoints, you see those people as popular because of the threads they start but you don't notice them being ignored 4 times in a row on a snog fuck avoid thread. "

I avoid those threads, and the poster above threads, I prefer music, film or interesting fact threads, maybe the a broccoli thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK let me put it another way, I can name at least 4 regular forum users than can post a thread about a tomato and it would get loads of responses,but most others it wouldn't get aot, do you get my drift

Yeah but look at how those 4 posters interact. It's not all about how much people like them, it's about the energy they bring, the fact that they draw people out by getting involved, most of their threads are actively encouraging conversation by getting people to think and people love talking about themselves.

As Tea Monkey said we are all seeing things from different viewpoints, you see those people as popular because of the threads they start but you don't notice them being ignored 4 times in a row on a snog fuck avoid thread. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK let me put it another way, I can name at least 4 regular forum users than can post a thread about a tomato and it would get loads of responses,but most others it wouldn't get aot, do you get my drift

Yeah but look at how those 4 posters interact. It's not all about how much people like them, it's about the energy they bring, the fact that they draw people out by getting involved, most of their threads are actively encouraging conversation by getting people to think and people love talking about themselves.

As Tea Monkey said we are all seeing things from different viewpoints, you see those people as popular because of the threads they start but you don't notice them being ignored 4 times in a row on a snog fuck avoid thread.

I avoid those threads, and the poster above threads, I prefer music, film or interesting fact threads, maybe the a broccoli thread"

Do you consider yourself popular Dash?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe? I try to talk to anyone who talks back.

I know I rub some people up the wrong way and I bet I'm misreading others. Some definitely don't like me and its probably mutual. I try to avoid them and respect the boundaries, clash occasionally, but semi-respectfully out of begrudging respect as a regular forum user.

I hope so, because I do sincerely like most people who contribute regularly. It feels like a community at times. I'm not overly fussed if I'm not, yes attention seek, but only cos I fuckin' loves it I don't need it and function perfectly well without it. Provided I've someone sane to talk to. "

I think your a good guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe? I try to talk to anyone who talks back.

I know I rub some people up the wrong way and I bet I'm misreading others. Some definitely don't like me and its probably mutual. I try to avoid them and respect the boundaries, clash occasionally, but semi-respectfully out of begrudging respect as a regular forum user.

I hope so, because I do sincerely like most people who contribute regularly. It feels like a community at times. I'm not overly fussed if I'm not, yes attention seek, but only cos I fuckin' loves it I don't need it and function perfectly well without it. Provided I've someone sane to talk to.

I think your a good guy "

its mutual. I also think you're popular/liked by others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'd need a boob Job for that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OK let me put it another way, I can name at least 4 regular forum users than can post a thread about a tomato and it would get loads of responses,but most others it wouldn't get aot, do you get my drift

Yeah but look at how those 4 posters interact. It's not all about how much people like them, it's about the energy they bring, the fact that they draw people out by getting involved, most of their threads are actively encouraging conversation by getting people to think and people love talking about themselves.

As Tea Monkey said we are all seeing things from different viewpoints, you see those people as popular because of the threads they start but you don't notice them being ignored 4 times in a row on a snog fuck avoid thread.

I avoid those threads, and the poster above threads, I prefer music, film or interesting fact threads, maybe the a broccoli thread

Do you consider yourself popular Dash?"

I take it you haven't seen my posts

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

No. Do I care? Also no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK let me put it another way, I can name at least 4 regular forum users than can post a thread about a tomato and it would get loads of responses,but most others it wouldn't get aot, do you get my drift

Yeah but look at how those 4 posters interact. It's not all about how much people like them, it's about the energy they bring, the fact that they draw people out by getting involved, most of their threads are actively encouraging conversation by getting people to think and people love talking about themselves.

As Tea Monkey said we are all seeing things from different viewpoints, you see those people as popular because of the threads they start but you don't notice them being ignored 4 times in a row on a snog fuck avoid thread.

I avoid those threads, and the poster above threads, I prefer music, film or interesting fact threads, maybe the a broccoli thread

Do you consider yourself popular Dash?

I take it you haven't seen my posts"

Well that's what I based my judgement on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. Do I care? Also no. "

I will do a "do you care" thread next week

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own


"No. Do I care? Also no.

I will do a "do you care" thread next week"

I'll be sure to post on it so that you're popular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well do you"

Who are you ...

Hello Dash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. Do I care? Also no.

I will do a "do you care" thread next week

I'll be sure to post on it so that you're popular. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whouldnt have a clue, not sure if I'm overly bothered,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OK let me put it another way, I can name at least 4 regular forum users than can post a thread about a tomato and it would get loads of responses,but most others it wouldn't get aot, do you get my drift

Yeah but look at how those 4 posters interact. It's not all about how much people like them, it's about the energy they bring, the fact that they draw people out by getting involved, most of their threads are actively encouraging conversation by getting people to think and people love talking about themselves.

As Tea Monkey said we are all seeing things from different viewpoints, you see those people as popular because of the threads they start but you don't notice them being ignored 4 times in a row on a snog fuck avoid thread.

I avoid those threads, and the poster above threads, I prefer music, film or interesting fact threads, maybe the a broccoli thread

Do you consider yourself popular Dash?

I take it you haven't seen my posts

Well that's what I based my judgement on.

"

This is my first post in about two weeks, mine are silly childish posts that usually go unnoticed, however, on the odd occasion they sometimes are popular

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. Do I care? Also no.

I will do a "do you care" thread next week

I'll be sure to post on it so that you're popular. "

Your making me popular now, keep going lad

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well do you

Who are you ...

Hello Dash "

Ahhhhh only the finest body on fab X

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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You get used to seeing the same names pop up starting threads. Some of those threads encourage debate, conversation and sometimes a bit of silliness. I don’t respond to threads because of who has started them, I just respond to the parts that catch my eye.

I don’t buy into this popular forumite notion. Some people are more recognisable because of how they are or what they post but that doesn’t make them popular it just means they are more visible. For what it’s worth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You get used to seeing the same names pop up starting threads. Some of those threads encourage debate, conversation and sometimes a bit of silliness. I don’t respond to threads because of who has started them, I just respond to the parts that catch my eye.

I don’t buy into this popular forumite notion. Some people are more recognisable because of how they are or what they post but that doesn’t make them popular it just means they are more visible. For what it’s worth "

Of course some people are more popular than others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK let me put it another way, I can name at least 4 regular forum users than can post a thread about a tomato and it would get loads of responses,but most others it wouldn't get aot, do you get my drift

Yeah but look at how those 4 posters interact. It's not all about how much people like them, it's about the energy they bring, the fact that they draw people out by getting involved, most of their threads are actively encouraging conversation by getting people to think and people love talking about themselves.

As Tea Monkey said we are all seeing things from different viewpoints, you see those people as popular because of the threads they start but you don't notice them being ignored 4 times in a row on a snog fuck avoid thread.

I avoid those threads, and the poster above threads, I prefer music, film or interesting fact threads, maybe the a broccoli thread

Do you consider yourself popular Dash?

I take it you haven't seen my posts

Well that's what I based my judgement on.

This is my first post in about two weeks, mine are silly childish posts that usually go unnoticed, however, on the odd occasion they sometimes are popular "

But you comment on others threads quite well.. on the things you are interested. Add to the conversation/debate.

I find it best not to fret about whether a thread dives or thrives.

Could be inane dribble on my part, could be time of day, other threads taking off in tandem with yours, the mood you're in, general mood of the community.

Wormholes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the hot ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there anyone on this thread who can blow my penis so hard that my ass would swallow the bed linen ?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"You get used to seeing the same names pop up starting threads. Some of those threads encourage debate, conversation and sometimes a bit of silliness. I don’t respond to threads because of who has started them, I just respond to the parts that catch my eye.

I don’t buy into this popular forumite notion. Some people are more recognisable because of how they are or what they post but that doesn’t make them popular it just means they are more visible. For what it’s worth

Of course some people are more popular than others "

People are more popular with their mates etc yes but you can’t judge popularity by the number of comments on a thread in my opinion.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I hope not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OK let me put it another way, I can name at least 4 regular forum users than can post a thread about a tomato and it would get loads of responses,but most others it wouldn't get aot, do you get my drift

Yeah but look at how those 4 posters interact. It's not all about how much people like them, it's about the energy they bring, the fact that they draw people out by getting involved, most of their threads are actively encouraging conversation by getting people to think and people love talking about themselves.

As Tea Monkey said we are all seeing things from different viewpoints, you see those people as popular because of the threads they start but you don't notice them being ignored 4 times in a row on a snog fuck avoid thread.

I avoid those threads, and the poster above threads, I prefer music, film or interesting fact threads, maybe the a broccoli thread

Do you consider yourself popular Dash?

I take it you haven't seen my posts

Well that's what I based my judgement on.

This is my first post in about two weeks, mine are silly childish posts that usually go unnoticed, however, on the odd occasion they sometimes are popular

But you comment on others threads quite well.. on the things you are interested. Add to the conversation/debate.

I find it best not to fret about whether a thread dives or thrives.

Could be inane dribble on my part, could be time of day, other threads taking off in tandem with yours, the mood you're in, general mood of the community.

Wormholes. "

You're looking more like FB every day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You get used to seeing the same names pop up starting threads. Some of those threads encourage debate, conversation and sometimes a bit of silliness. I don’t respond to threads because of who has started them, I just respond to the parts that catch my eye.

I don’t buy into this popular forumite notion. Some people are more recognisable because of how they are or what they post but that doesn’t make them popular it just means they are more visible. For what it’s worth

Of course some people are more popular than others

People are more popular with their mates etc yes but you can’t judge popularity by the number of comments on a thread in my opinion. "

I'd be cheating if that were the case as I make up at least 60% of the comments on any given one of my threads

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By *ocodoughnutgirlWoman
over a year ago

Sea of jelly and doughnuts

No I'm not popular neither am I fussed about it, I post on threads I like.

Plus I mostly speak to people one on one in private messages more than on the forums.

I think there are regular posters, more than popular posters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but I do have the benefit of being in a different time zone, so am usually posting when not many other women are. That definitely helps lol

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..


"You get used to seeing the same names pop up starting threads. Some of those threads encourage debate, conversation and sometimes a bit of silliness. I don’t respond to threads because of who has started them, I just respond to the parts that catch my eye.

I don’t buy into this popular forumite notion. Some people are more recognisable because of how they are or what they post but that doesn’t make them popular it just means they are more visible. For what it’s worth

Of course some people are more popular than others

People are more popular with their mates etc yes but you can’t judge popularity by the number of comments on a thread in my opinion.

I'd be cheating if that were the case as I make up at least 60% of the comments on any given one of my threads "

I hadn’t noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there anyone on this thread who can blow my penis so hard that my ass would swallow the bed linen ? "

Well I guess I am not popular enough as no one replied to my genuine comment written from the heart

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Is there anyone on this thread who can blow my penis so hard that my ass would swallow the bed linen ?

Well I guess I am not popular enough as no one replied to my genuine comment written from the heart

"

Ok I’ll do it, but I’m only blowing on it, nothing else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, but I do have the benefit of being in a different time zone, so am usually posting when not many other women are. That definitely helps lol"
oh that is true lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there anyone on this thread who can blow my penis so hard that my ass would swallow the bed linen ?

Well I guess I am not popular enough as no one replied to my genuine comment written from the heart

"
sorry i did feel it warranted a reply but was distracted

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Popular no. Some people like me, some don't, mostly I just flit about largely unnoticed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I'm not popular neither am I fussed about it, I post on threads I like.

Plus I mostly speak to people one on one in private messages more than on the forums.

I think there are regular posters, more than popular posters. "

So you're making a few friends behind the scenes? Isn't that.. popularity incarnate?

I think you and Babs are right. Regular doesn't mean popular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there anyone on this thread who can blow my penis so hard that my ass would swallow the bed linen ?

Well I guess I am not popular enough as no one replied to my genuine comment written from the heart

"

*speechless at such a hungry bum*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Popular no. Some people like me, some don't, mostly I just flit about largely unnoticed. "

I love your tits

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

Me popular on here. Hell no!

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm a regular poster. No idea if I'm popular. Not really bothered. I use the forums for my own amusement and enjoyment. Some like me, others don't x

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Popular no. Some people like me, some don't, mostly I just flit about largely unnoticed.

I love your tits"

My tits are more popular than me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope but it doesn't stop me posting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope but it doesn't stop me posting "
yes this

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Popular no. Some people like me, some don't, mostly I just flit about largely unnoticed.

I love your tits"

Seconded

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Not particularly. I have friends here and people who are not so much.. you can be popular for all the wrong reasons too.

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By *il FiskMan
over a year ago

sefton

Don't know, not particularly worried. I just try not to be offensive and enjoy!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

As long as I’m popular enough to get the occasional meet, that’s fine by me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not here to be popular - I’m here for a laugh, flirt etc

Popularity is overrated "

You’re popular with us DC xxx

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Popular? You have to be joking, care? Not one jot but I still post as & when it suits if i'm in the mood.

S

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’m a bit of a cunt.

A nice one though.

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over a year ago

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"Is there anyone on this thread who can blow my penis so hard that my ass would swallow the bed linen ?

Well I guess I am not popular enough as no one replied to my genuine comment written from the heart

Ok I’ll do it, but I’m only blowing on it, nothing else "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not particularly. I have friends here and people who are not so much.. you can be popular for all the wrong reasons too. "

Popular for a wrong reason? What would that be?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Not particularly. I have friends here and people who are not so much.. you can be popular for all the wrong reasons too.

Popular for a wrong reason? What would that be?"

Pantomime villains.. people who just enjoy winding others up.

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow

Some people need to be popular

I am guessing some are, for whatever reason

I'm not because I rarely use it

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

Don't think I'm particularly popular but it doesn't stop me from sticking my oar in.Sometimes they can get a bit cliquey though, I avoid those threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not particularly. I have friends here and people who are not so much.. you can be popular for all the wrong reasons too.

Popular for a wrong reason? What would that be?

Pantomime villains.. people who just enjoy winding others up. "

Ah not my idea of popular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Not particularly. I have friends here and people who are not so much.. you can be popular for all the wrong reasons too.

Popular for a wrong reason? What would that be?

Pantomime villains.. people who just enjoy winding others up.

Ah not my idea of popular. "

There’s definitely a love/hate with various characters over the years though.. it’s a funny old place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope, pop in leave a comment and pop off again

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Not particularly. I have friends here and people who are not so much.. you can be popular for all the wrong reasons too.

Popular for a wrong reason? What would that be?

Pantomime villains.. people who just enjoy winding others up.

Ah not my idea of popular. "

One person's popular is another's notorious, context and perspective is an interesting thing.

Sometime people only see what they want to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not particularly. I have friends here and people who are not so much.. you can be popular for all the wrong reasons too.

Popular for a wrong reason? What would that be?

Pantomime villains.. people who just enjoy winding others up.

Ah not my idea of popular.

One person's popular is another's notorious, context and perspective is an interesting thing.

Sometime people only see what they want to. "

Are you Sigmund Freud in disguise?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"nope, pop in leave a comment and pop off again"

You truly are utterly delicious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, I’m pretty quiet on most of the forums. Made a few connections, a bit like in real life. As long as the people who know me like me, I’m happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there anyone on this thread who can blow my penis so hard that my ass would swallow the bed linen ?

Well I guess I am not popular enough as no one replied to my genuine comment written from the heart

Ok I’ll do it, but I’m only blowing on it, nothing else

"

Thank you ever so much brother from another mother

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Define popular...

As in, are you more likely to get responses on your posts than others "

Nope!

Once - long, long ago - I was probably one of the popular kids in class. Now I’m the one at the back who attends very irregularly and is virtually invisible!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Not particularly. I have friends here and people who are not so much.. you can be popular for all the wrong reasons too.

Popular for a wrong reason? What would that be?

Pantomime villains.. people who just enjoy winding others up.

Ah not my idea of popular.

One person's popular is another's notorious, context and perspective is an interesting thing.

Sometime people only see what they want to.

Are you Sigmund Freud in disguise? "

*checks pockets for a cigar*

*checks for an Austrian accent*

*checks to see if I'm 164 years old*

Nope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only when I have a d*unk thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only when I have a d*unk thread "

You’re much more popular on the pics front! Lol! Can see why! Very sexy lady!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not particularly. I have friends here and people who are not so much.. you can be popular for all the wrong reasons too.

Popular for a wrong reason? What would that be?

Pantomime villains.. people who just enjoy winding others up.

Ah not my idea of popular.

One person's popular is another's notorious, context and perspective is an interesting thing.

Sometime people only see what they want to.

Are you Sigmund Freud in disguise?

*checks pockets for a cigar*

*checks for an Austrian accent*

*checks to see if I'm 164 years old*

Nope! "

Austrian accent?

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

I have to admit no I'm not I'd say probably tolerated at best totaly ignored at worst but I like myself so don't care lol

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Absolutely not!

I have my beautiful friends. But real life fab to forum fab is far more exciting

Either way I’m happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only when I have a d*unk thread "

Won’t too see what you write when your d*unk lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah and I can live with that.

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By *ocodoughnutgirlWoman
over a year ago

Sea of jelly and doughnuts


"No I'm not popular neither am I fussed about it, I post on threads I like.

Plus I mostly speak to people one on one in private messages more than on the forums.

I think there are regular posters, more than popular posters.

So you're making a few friends behind the scenes? Isn't that.. popularity incarnate? "

Yes I've made a few friends behind the scenes,don't think that means I'm popular though. Not publicly anyway.

I'm no good with crowds. I'm much better flirting.. I mean talking to people one on one or in twos and threes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got blocked by quite a few folks so I guess I am not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No definitely not and who cares, and I really couldn't give a flying Monkeys left bollock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don't think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno. I post anyway. I think half the people on here get me and half don’t. The ones who do get me seem to like me but a lot don’t seem to. Who cares it’s only th’internet!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Not particularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m don’t think I’m popular but there are a group of forum users that I like very much and they seem to like me too. For many I’m an irrelevance and for a few they probably dislike me. A few have me blocked.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Haven't a clue, probably not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, just the way I like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely post in here, I don't care heh

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Probably not but who cares ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope but we don't care

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I doubt anyone is even aware I am here.....!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I'm not popular in certain forums

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I always thought no one noticed me on the forums however people I have met at socials , club and spa have described my posts as generally positive , helpful and I come across every well on the forums.I generally post on London forums about clubs and spa as well as sports topics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

But then I'm here for my own amusement

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I couldn't give a rats patootie if I am or if I'm not a few forum users I stay away from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no end of it i not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Define popular...

As in, are you more likely to get responses on your posts than others "

I think it depends on the thread. I agree some could post a thread about a tomato and it would hit 175.

My threads are usually something I've read and thinking about. I like the varied opinions. People on here aren't afraid to disagree, or tell me I'm talking bollocks.

If I wanted "yes" answers I'd just ask my mates. As in, mates try to be supportive and agree, but I prefer to see both sides of an argument/ topic.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Well do you"

Do you?

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

Nope, I'm just an idiot who's often making stupid comments and taking the piss.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had more spats than Al Capone.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Well do you"

I'm not popular anywhere.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I neither know nor care - here, as in real life, I float about doing my own thing, and don't need the validation of others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know, no one has said I hate you so that’s a bonus x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha no - I'm the one they skip over or send private messages to rather than flirt wildly with in public."

You and me both....popular? I highly doubt it!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Honestly, no idea. There are definitely some people I feel more affinity with than others, but that's not popularity, that's being like minded. I'm not one for arguments so I guess I avoid interacting with people who have vastly opposing opinions to mine.

Mrs TMN x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I was once a couple of years ago cos I came second in the sexiest men’s arse category in the forum. If you want to know private parts came first.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I’m the newbie in the forum now after being so long away. So the answer would be no. Not convinced it’s the term popular though more of a well known

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I’m definitely it popular, who am I anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I’m definitely it popular, who am I anyway "

Not... not it

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By *ilveryFoxMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

I’m not even popular in my own living room and I live on my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope ... never been popular in my life

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Well do you"

Of course I am.

Why wouldn't i be popular, I'm an absolute fucking delight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only just returned to the forums. To be totally honest, I've noticed that they've flagged a little In my absence.

So, thankfully I'm back. Now adopt the brace position and prepare to be wowed by my thread killing, numbskull blandness that will see any potential meets scramble for their block button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was once a couple of years ago cos I came second in the sexiest men’s arse category in the forum. If you want to know private parts came first. "

I remember that. I came 3rd

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Yes, I'd probably say out of everyone on the forums, I'm definitely the most popular. It's probably because I know all the best words and I have such a big brain.

Yours sincerely

Donald J Trump

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I was once a couple of years ago cos I came second in the sexiest men’s arse category in the forum. If you want to know private parts came first. "

I came third in a Stingly Byron lookalike competition.

A women from Belgium won.

That was the high point of my time on Fab.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Nope, not at all"

Your name says otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far from it, my comments are more often than not overlooked

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

No. But i don’t think i could deal with being popular. I’d have to be mostly cheerful, upbeat and ......sociable.

That’s just not me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Btw you lot cannot have my penis

Just to make sure those hordes of ladies finally understand "
exactly

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Had to chortle reading this thread. So many b/s remarks from people who in reality are desperate to be noticed and do all they can to try and gain a little li_elight but above they play the meek and mild what not me nooooooooo.

On the bright side the bullshit makes me smile and I am sure some attention for those who crave it.

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