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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38

Do you have pearls of wisdom to pass on to those who need it?

Can you listen and take it if advice is given or do you go boldy go where fools fear to tread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer giving information and support if someone asks. Advice not so much. And dont like it from others too.

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38

my only advice is 'don't do as I do, do as I say'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the one most of my friends come to for advice. I'm a good listener and I'm quite fair and rational, I tell them what I think honestly rather than what they want to hear.

I'm really bad at asking for or accepting advice though, I tend to keep things to myself and over think them instead.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I like to think I'm fairly good at offering reasoned opinion and advice to others when it's asked for.

Not so good at listening to my own advice myself though

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Smile be happy.. being miserable doesn't make you live any longer it just feels like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my only advice is 'don't do as I do, do as I say' "

like your style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can take advice if I believe what I'm being told.

I also ask for and welcome it at times.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im like yodas grandad make no sence to nobody

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m a good listener. But i’m very feisty so i tend to give reactionary advice, rather than sensible advice.

I don’t take advice that well, i don’t like being told what to do and a lot of folk ram their advice down your throat and get shitty if you don’t take it, and i prefer to go for making my mistakes and learning from them.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I’m much better at giving advice than taking my own I think.. sometimes I need a good talking to!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, I would NEVER give advice and I'm totally lying with that statement

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You learn from experience not words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I could listen to my own advice sometimes lol

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Do you have pearls of wisdom to pass on to those who need it?

Can you listen and take it if advice is given or do you go boldy go where fools fear to tread?"

I'm not great at taking advice and tend to do my own thing regardless.

Old man.. Don't climb that tree son, the branches are brittle as it's diseased

Me as a 10 yo.. Yeah right, you're just old and grumpy because you can't climb trees

Crash, snap, crash, snap, tumble, phew this branch has held me... Snap arrrrrrrrgh total darkness,

Wake up in hospital with a pretty nurse leaning over me and her breasts touching me.

Mum.. You silly boy you'll kill yourself but I hope you learnt a lesson

10 yo me.. Those breasts mmmm, now where's a taller tree

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"my only advice is 'don't do as I do, do as I say'

like your style "

I have my moments

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Oh, I would NEVER give advice and I'm totally lying with that statement

P"

I don't think there is any one more qualified than Aunty P

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I am a very wisdomy person. I have a wealth of helpful advice and hints to get through this modern world we live in. Granted Auntie P is more experienced but I use lay mans or women’s terms

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I am a very wisdomy person. I have a wealth of helpful advice and hints to get through this modern world we live in. Granted Auntie P is more experienced but I use lay mans or women’s terms "

that's the great thing about being open, receptive to advice you can take it from anywhere it feels right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I can depending on how it is worded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh, I would NEVER give advice and I'm totally lying with that statement

P"

You give good advice.

I'm crap at advice. When my friends have issues I put a thread on here and Ask The Forum. Forumites give a wide range of opinions and I find that helps.

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Oh, I would NEVER give advice and I'm totally lying with that statement

P

You give good advice.

I'm crap at advice. When my friends have issues I put a thread on here and Ask The Forum. Forumites give a wide range of opinions and I find that helps."

You got to love the advice from our fellow forumites. At the very least they make me smile and that's always a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh, I would NEVER give advice and I'm totally lying with that statement

P

You give good advice.

I'm crap at advice. When my friends have issues I put a thread on here and Ask The Forum. Forumites give a wide range of opinions and I find that helps."

Bullshit! You give good advice, you just don't even realise you're doing it.

P

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Yes, I can depending on how it is worded. "
duly noted *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

No...

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm good at giving advice. Awful at taking it x

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By *hebritukCouple
over a year ago

London


"my only advice is 'don't do as I do, do as I say'

like your style

I have my moments "

Such diplomacy

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

At work, from friends and younger generation family they seek my support and advice and its got me the nickname Mama B. They know I’ll listen, won’t judge and will get brutal honesty if needed. I don’t fluffy up my words.

Personally I’m crap at taking advice, I will listen and take it all in, other times I will dismiss it. Ultimately though, I’m a stubborn, independent mare and will chew things over until I figure out the best course in my head and stick to it.

Is it always the right choice I make, Hell no that’s how you learn, but you can’t say going the other way would have been any different.

Deal with what life throws at you one day at a time and go from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At work, from friends and younger generation family they seek my support and advice and its got me the nickname Mama B. They know I’ll listen, won’t judge and will get brutal honesty if needed. I don’t fluffy up my words.

Personally I’m crap at taking advice, I will listen and take it all in, other times I will dismiss it. Ultimately though, I’m a stubborn, independent mare and will chew things over until I figure out the best course in my head and stick to it.

Is it always the right choice I make, Hell no that’s how you learn, but you can’t say going the other way would have been any different.

Deal with what life throws at you one day at a time and go from there.

"

Just keep swimming, just keep swimming...

P

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"At work, from friends and younger generation family they seek my support and advice and its got me the nickname Mama B. They know I’ll listen, won’t judge and will get brutal honesty if needed. I don’t fluffy up my words.

Personally I’m crap at taking advice, I will listen and take it all in, other times I will dismiss it. Ultimately though, I’m a stubborn, independent mare and will chew things over until I figure out the best course in my head and stick to it.

Is it always the right choice I make, Hell no that’s how you learn, but you can’t say going the other way would have been any different.

Deal with what life throws at you one day at a time and go from there.

"

I can see why they come to you. I've followed the one day at a time method at some difficult times in my life...sometimes it's all you can do and it works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do as I say Annabelle ??

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Sometimes, sometimes not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure about wisdom but I'm happy to chat about your issues if it helps you. No one ever offers me advice and I tend towards recklessness when it comes to matters of self..

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I'm not sure about wisdom but I'm happy to chat about your issues if it helps you. No one ever offers me advice and I tend towards recklessness when it comes to matters of self.."

I have in the past been known to be reckless on occasion...now I give myself a good talking to. I resist the urge to be as impulsive I could be.

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