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"I don't watch porn." Well.. that's a great contribution to the discussion thanks Transgirl Noted. | |||
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"Because some of us like it." Ok. So I'm just being prudish then? Fun Police Ghengis? | |||
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"I don't watch porn. Well.. that's a great contribution to the discussion thanks Transgirl Noted." I'm a good girl I'll have you know | |||
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"Because some of us like it. Ok. So I'm just being prudish then? Fun Police Ghengis?" Not everyone likes the same things. Life would be boring if they did. It's okay to be squicked by it as long as you're not shaming people in the process which from what I see you're not. Just not understanding it which is fair. There's many things others are into that I can't wrap my head around but hey, as long as they're having safe, sane and legal fun they can knock themselves out. | |||
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"It’s just fantasy, something that’s considered taboo, some will like it, some won’t, it’s most probably been people’s fantasies for decades, it’s just a lot more accepted and easier to access now." it's the accepted part I'm struggling with. What if it gives people ideas. There is a big difference between me roleplaying daddy daughter with a younger woman (Though I'd prefer Teacher/legal student). Than some twisted fuck touching up their kids. | |||
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"It’s just fantasy, something that’s considered taboo, some will like it, some won’t, it’s most probably been people’s fantasies for decades, it’s just a lot more accepted and easier to access now. it's the accepted part I'm struggling with. What if it gives people ideas. There is a big difference between me roleplaying daddy daughter with a younger woman (Though I'd prefer Teacher/legal student). Than some twisted fuck touching up their kids." Exactly. Jo.Xx | |||
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"Because some of us like it. Ok. So I'm just being prudish then? Fun Police Ghengis? Not everyone likes the same things. Life would be boring if they did. It's okay to be squicked by it as long as you're not shaming people in the process which from what I see you're not. Just not understanding it which is fair. There's many things others are into that I can't wrap my head around but hey, as long as they're having safe, sane and legal fun they can knock themselves out." I dont care what two consenting adults get up to in private. Good for them I say. It's the porn sites where it concerns me.. lots of influential young adults using them. Lots of desperate people too. | |||
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"Because some of us like it. Ok. So I'm just being prudish then? Fun Police Ghengis? Not everyone likes the same things. Life would be boring if they did. It's okay to be squicked by it as long as you're not shaming people in the process which from what I see you're not. Just not understanding it which is fair. There's many things others are into that I can't wrap my head around but hey, as long as they're having safe, sane and legal fun they can knock themselves out. I dont care what two consenting adults get up to in private. Good for them I say. It's the porn sites where it concerns me.. lots of influential young adults using them. Lots of desperate people too." You could say that about all porn as it gives an unrealistic view of sex. | |||
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"Because some of us like it. Ok. So I'm just being prudish then? Fun Police Ghengis? Not everyone likes the same things. Life would be boring if they did. It's okay to be squicked by it as long as you're not shaming people in the process which from what I see you're not. Just not understanding it which is fair. There's many things others are into that I can't wrap my head around but hey, as long as they're having safe, sane and legal fun they can knock themselves out. I dont care what two consenting adults get up to in private. Good for them I say. It's the porn sites where it concerns me.. lots of influential young adults using them. Lots of desperate people too." I completely see your point of view, I guess what I’m trying to say is people are watching two consenting adults, if they go on to do something illegal can you blame porn? It’s like asking can you blame music for mass shootings, or video games for violent crimes? | |||
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"But that’s all porn is... role playing, if someone is role playing daddy daughter in real life... I find that more fucked up than someone watching it on a screen. " yes I get that. Though I'm not sure I get the second point. I wouldn't feel bad acting out a fantasy like that with someone i trusted.. in private.. because I'd know we aren't wrong uns. My concern is for the minority who could be swayed to act on impulses they shouldn't. | |||
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"Because some of us like it. Ok. So I'm just being prudish then? Fun Police Ghengis? Not everyone likes the same things. Life would be boring if they did. It's okay to be squicked by it as long as you're not shaming people in the process which from what I see you're not. Just not understanding it which is fair. There's many things others are into that I can't wrap my head around but hey, as long as they're having safe, sane and legal fun they can knock themselves out. I dont care what two consenting adults get up to in private. Good for them I say. It's the porn sites where it concerns me.. lots of influential young adults using them. Lots of desperate people too. I completely see your point of view, I guess what I’m trying to say is people are watching two consenting adults, if they go on to do something illegal can you blame porn? It’s like asking can you blame music for mass shootings, or video games for violent crimes? " Good point. I often argue fervently against gaming and film being the catalyst for violence. Hmmmmmmmmmmm... it's a tough one. | |||
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"For me it's what I was raised being taught. That any sexual contact between the same gene pool is wrong. Weather 18 year old neice and 48yr old uncle are consenting adults or not is not the issue, it's the fact they are related. Jo.Xx " I wasnt condoning consenting gene pool sharers. I was condoning two lovers.. roleplaying that scenario in private. Just questioning whether it should be freely available porn. Same as I question some of the Japanese sex dolls. Though there are fair points being made in defence. | |||
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"Because some of us like it. Ok. So I'm just being prudish then? Fun Police Ghengis? Not everyone likes the same things. Life would be boring if they did. It's okay to be squicked by it as long as you're not shaming people in the process which from what I see you're not. Just not understanding it which is fair. There's many things others are into that I can't wrap my head around but hey, as long as they're having safe, sane and legal fun they can knock themselves out. I dont care what two consenting adults get up to in private. Good for them I say. It's the porn sites where it concerns me.. lots of influential young adults using them. Lots of desperate people too. I completely see your point of view, I guess what I’m trying to say is people are watching two consenting adults, if they go on to do something illegal can you blame porn? It’s like asking can you blame music for mass shootings, or video games for violent crimes? Good point. I often argue fervently against gaming and film being the catalyst for violence. Hmmmmmmmmmmm... it's a tough one. " It is a tough one, but I think it all lies within the individual, if they have strong enough urges to do something, they’re going to do it, with or without any type of influence, I grew up shooting the shit out of people on GTA but never have I, or will I, own a gun lol | |||
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"Because some of us like it. Ok. So I'm just being prudish then? Fun Police Ghengis? Not everyone likes the same things. Life would be boring if they did. It's okay to be squicked by it as long as you're not shaming people in the process which from what I see you're not. Just not understanding it which is fair. There's many things others are into that I can't wrap my head around but hey, as long as they're having safe, sane and legal fun they can knock themselves out. I dont care what two consenting adults get up to in private. Good for them I say. It's the porn sites where it concerns me.. lots of influential young adults using them. Lots of desperate people too. I completely see your point of view, I guess what I’m trying to say is people are watching two consenting adults, if they go on to do something illegal can you blame porn? It’s like asking can you blame music for mass shootings, or video games for violent crimes? Good point. I often argue fervently against gaming and film being the catalyst for violence. Hmmmmmmmmmmm... it's a tough one. It is a tough one, but I think it all lies within the individual, if they have strong enough urges to do something, they’re going to do it, with or without any type of influence, I grew up shooting the shit out of people on GTA but never have I, or will I, own a gun lol " Yes.. I get that. | |||
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"Because some of us like it. Ok. So I'm just being prudish then? Fun Police Ghengis? Not everyone likes the same things. Life would be boring if they did. It's okay to be squicked by it as long as you're not shaming people in the process which from what I see you're not. Just not understanding it which is fair. There's many things others are into that I can't wrap my head around but hey, as long as they're having safe, sane and legal fun they can knock themselves out. I dont care what two consenting adults get up to in private. Good for them I say. It's the porn sites where it concerns me.. lots of influential young adults using them. Lots of desperate people too. I completely see your point of view, I guess what I’m trying to say is people are watching two consenting adults, if they go on to do something illegal can you blame porn? It’s like asking can you blame music for mass shootings, or video games for violent crimes? Good point. I often argue fervently against gaming and film being the catalyst for violence. Hmmmmmmmmmmm... it's a tough one. It is a tough one, but I think it all lies within the individual, if they have strong enough urges to do something, they’re going to do it, with or without any type of influence, I grew up shooting the shit out of people on GTA but never have I, or will I, own a gun lol " That's where I stand on it. If anything the more you restrict things seen as taboo the more perverted people become. I mean look at the Victorians! | |||
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"I don't watch porn." At all? Never? Not even for research? | |||
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"Well they have pretty much maxed out on the physical side that's allowable. So they have to go psychological.. dress up roles have been done to death, sonhas the teen and granny porn (opposite ends of age spectrum) so it has got progressively "naughtier" or "more forbidden" instead. There is also a trend for sleep sex, where one person pretends to be asleep (weird), and a trend for the girls to be absolutely teeny tiny.. as in about 4 foot 10 and 35kg in weight, again catering for a niche market." Yes, this is effectively r**e porn and the exceptionally small actors are childlike... it’s wrong on every level. | |||
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"Well they have pretty much maxed out on the physical side that's allowable. So they have to go psychological.. dress up roles have been done to death, sonhas the teen and granny porn (opposite ends of age spectrum) so it has got progressively "naughtier" or "more forbidden" instead. There is also a trend for sleep sex, where one person pretends to be asleep (weird), and a trend for the girls to be absolutely teeny tiny.. as in about 4 foot 10 and 35kg in weight, again catering for a niche market. Yes, this is effectively r**e porn and the exceptionally small actors are childlike... it’s wrong on every level. " I have seen clips where the girls are that small, can be lifted almost one handed and bent like pretzels... and with well endowed male stars it just looks fucking abnormal. As you said, the females look very childlike.. quite symbolic without actually being children. Not for me.. | |||
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