FabSwingers.com forum: How would u tell a stranger

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If they stink like dead animals

I mean come on deodorant aint the hardest thing to get your hands on or a bath im in a library and the guy is stinking the building out no excuse for not being clean nowadays

He could gag a maggot from 100 meters

How would you tell em

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By *atisfying jackMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"If they stink like dead animals

I mean come on deodorant aint the hardest thing to get your hands on or a bath im in a library and the guy is stinking the building out no excuse for not being clean nowadays

He could gag a maggot from 100 meters

How would you tell em

I've had to do it, I quietly took them to one side and asked if they were ok, had any issues then said it was because they look run down and they're hygiene might of slipped. They were mortified but did shower and but deodorant

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

You....in a library....Come off it....your not that educated are you....or is it the free coffee morning....

.....don't say anything....nip to poundstretcher, or any other cheap shop, buy a can, and give it them as you leave....no awkward conversation needed!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to do it with an employee. Not a nice thing to have to do but I agree, No need for smelly people at all!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"You....in a library....Come off it....your not that educated are you....or is it the free coffee morning....

.....don't say anything....nip to poundstretcher, or any other cheap shop, buy a can, and give it them as you leave....no awkward conversation needed!!!

I'm with you... not a library in sight

If so then just walk past said guy with your nose held.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I wouldn't tell him...I wouldn't feel it's my place.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You....in a library....Come off it....your not that educated are you....or is it the free coffee morning....

.....don't say anything....nip to poundstretcher, or any other cheap shop, buy a can, and give it them as you leave....no awkward conversation needed!!!

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yep its true need to print some contracts off

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"You....in a library....Come off it....your not that educated are you....or is it the free coffee morning....

.....don't say anything....nip to poundstretcher, or any other cheap shop, buy a can, and give it them as you leave....no awkward conversation needed!!!

*You're

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I wouldn't tell him...I wouldn't feel it's my place. "

I agree I wouldn't say anything if it's a complete stranger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, also had to do this with an employee and considering we do a physical job, he should have been more aware of it... the company provide showers as many times a day as you need, so no excuses really.

I'm fairly comfortable with telling them they're a bit on the fragrant side.

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By *urning the kinkMan
over a year ago

bristol

What happend ?

Did you say anything

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

We’ve had to have words with lots of employees about their basic hygiene and ensuring uniforms are washed as well etc.

The mind boggles sometimes.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't tell a stranger. If it was a close friend or someone I had to work with often I'd ask them to meet me outside and get the pressure hose on them. I reckon that would get the message across.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not my place to say so I would keep my nose outta their business

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It's not my place to say so I would keep my nose outta their business

The problem is their business is impacting on your nose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not my place to say so I would keep my nose outta their business

The problem is their business is impacting on your nose.

Agreed, but still..... Not my place to say.

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

"You....in a library....Come off it....your not that educated are you....or is it the free coffee morning....

.....don't say anything....nip to poundstretcher, or any other cheap shop, buy a can, and give it them as you leave....no awkward conversation needed!!!

*You're

why is it so hot when I get pulled up on a faux pas bit of grammar....

haha

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It's not my place to say so I would keep my nose outta their business

The problem is their business is impacting on your nose.

Agreed, but still..... Not my place to say.

Oh no I wouldn't say either. I sat through a two hour meeting next to a guy who hadn't troubled a shower for some time. I think the smell of his hair was the worst. But I don't know his story and if there were problems I couldn't have helped him

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I held my breath just told staff as i left to give him a hose down in lemon pledge

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im amazed at the stated some folk will happily live in i mean its not like he was super old but old enough to know what imperial leather looks like

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"If they stink like dead animals

I mean come on deodorant aint the hardest thing to get your hands on or a bath im in a library and the guy is stinking the building out no excuse for not being clean nowadays

He could gag a maggot from 100 meters

How would you tell em

Didn’t you search the library shelves for a book on how to wash??

Not an easy subject to tackle especially with a stranger in a public place

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Spookily we were just in a shop in close proximity to a woman who absolutely reeked. How did she not know!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Spookily we were just in a shop in close proximity to a woman who absolutely reeked. How did she not know!? "
im going with they dont care

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By *arkndirtyMan
over a year ago

sale

I have managed lots of staff over the years and actually in many cases people were oblivious of their odour. Most people want to assimilate into their environments so a quiet word usually works.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Spookily we were just in a shop in close proximity to a woman who absolutely reeked. How did she not know!? im going with they dont care "

That could be true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Spookily we were just in a shop in close proximity to a woman who absolutely reeked. How did she not know!? im going with they dont care

That could be true. "
based on the smell on some of the houses i used to visit when i did doorstep sales

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I get really paranoid when I have to pop into the shop on the way home from the stables or fishing... I'm usually in boots and jodhs coming back from the stables, so at least folk know why I stink, but I just wear old jeans and sweaters fishing, and leave my gear and boots on the boat

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Spookily we were just in a shop in close proximity to a woman who absolutely reeked. How did she not know!? im going with they dont care

That could be true. based on the smell on some of the houses i used to visit when i did doorstep sales

Bleurgh. Cat pee must be the worst.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Spookily we were just in a shop in close proximity to a woman who absolutely reeked. How did she not know!? im going with they dont care

That could be true. based on the smell on some of the houses i used to visit when i did doorstep sales

Bleurgh. Cat pee must be the worst. "

It's a tie between that and dead vermin really...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oi stinky go have a bath son your putting me off my reading

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Spookily we were just in a shop in close proximity to a woman who absolutely reeked. How did she not know!? im going with they dont care

That could be true. based on the smell on some of the houses i used to visit when i did doorstep sales

Bleurgh. Cat pee must be the worst.

It's a tie between that and dead vermin really... "

Oh god I'd forgotten about dead vermin. There can be nothing quite like that

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Spookily we were just in a shop in close proximity to a woman who absolutely reeked. How did she not know!? im going with they dont care

That could be true. based on the smell on some of the houses i used to visit when i did doorstep sales

Bleurgh. Cat pee must be the worst.

It's a tie between that and dead vermin really...

Oh god I'd forgotten about dead vermin. There can be nothing quite like that "

Apologies for the recall!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Not everyone has a home or ready access to bathing facilities. If someone in public is using free to access public services, they may be more likely to have accommodation and/or finance issues.

It's not my role to police public washing

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Not everyone has a home or ready access to bathing facilities. If someone in public is using free to access public services, they may be more likely to have accommodation and/or finance issues.

It's not my role to police public washing "

That is a really good point

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not everyone has a home or ready access to bathing facilities. If someone in public is using free to access public services, they may be more likely to have accommodation and/or finance issues.

It's not my role to police public washing "
plenty rivers about and fabrees is only a quit

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By *EBCAMandKNICKERSMan
over a year ago

Bristol

. That cracked me right up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I carry a small bottle of fabreez for just those wiffy situations!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"I have managed lots of staff over the years and actually in many cases people were oblivious of their odour. Most people want to assimilate into their environments so a quiet word usually works. "

This ^

So many when I’ve had to approach them are mortified and unaware of their smell. You get used to / immune to smells around you. Some of the people I’ve managed turned out they had a medical problem which was the underlying cause.

Never be disrespectful, you don’t know people’s individual circumstances, there could be many reasons

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Not everyone has a home or ready access to bathing facilities. If someone in public is using free to access public services, they may be more likely to have accommodation and/or finance issues.

It's not my role to police public washing "

Or even if they did have a home, a choice between eating and a can of deodorant

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