FabSwingers.com forum: Rejection...

By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Do you think you handle it well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep ...

There are so many people on the planet, not everyone is going to like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no its anoying when you dont get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better than most,always best to be dignified,even in disappointment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah even without a reply!

dont understand people who take it so personally, its not even face to face, how bad can it be!

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Yep ...

There are so many people on the planet, not everyone is going to like me"
who could resist that smiley face

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

It's their loss is how I see it, mwah, xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep ...

There are so many people on the planet, not everyone is going to like mewho could resist that smiley face

No one can resist that ... its the face underneath thats the problem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's their loss is how I see it, mwah, xxxxxx

u pretty special then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I handle it really well

I just hope no one ever has to dig my patio up

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

We all get rejected/have been rejected in life for various things, maybe a job application or for other various things. I dont get rejected on here really as i dont send out first messages but if i did i wouldnt expect everyone i messaged to jump at the chance to jump into bed with me. The word rejection has such a negative feel about it, maybe if people just thought that they where not for someone else than concentrate on the big rejection then it wouldnt seem so bad to them

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By *ellhatterMan
over a year ago

slough

yes, it's life so move on; the sane folk do just that; the not-so-sane refuse to do so lol. and that can be scary .

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

On here do you mean ? I dont approach therefore have never been rejected. I think guys resort to a type of name calling when rejected.. Its a shame .

Rejection in life ..well i guess I live with that daily. Accepting..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone says no then no amount of chest beating on my part is going to make them say yes so I just wish them well and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's their loss is how I see it, mwah, xxxxxx

u pretty special then?

She looks pretty special to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's their loss is how I see it, mwah, xxxxxx

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"If someone says no then no amount of chest beating on my part is going to make them say yes so I just wish them well and move on."
wearing a loin cloth today wishy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's their loss is how I see it, mwah, xxxxxx

u pretty special then?

She looks pretty special to me.

why their loss if they dont want to meet its a fukin stupid sayin?

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

i certainly dont exspect to be everyones cup of tea .funny enough not everyones looking for a short arsed ,sized14 freaky hair coloured women lol !!! i have my likes and preferences and respect others have theirs too . so live and let live attitude ,wish them well and i go on with the search . xx

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Yep I don't take it personal, ...

they don't know what they're missing out on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A polite rejection isn't going to be as harsh as an insulting/abusive rejection.

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"A polite rejection isn't going to be as harsh as an insulting/abusive rejection.

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Ahhh i agree but even when people are polite others take the hump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rejection is just a way of making you try harder as you never made a impresion on that person so make sure the next gets better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think i take rejection well, i have my preferences and always stick to them, so why would i not expect the same of others.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

" Do you think you handle it well?"

Yes would say that we do.

Way we see it is, we both have preferences and aren't attracted to everyone. So why is it going to be different for others.

Would much rather someone say no thanks, than to just go through the motions.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I handle it well.

But it would be better if those fucking bastards would get their heads out of their arses and explain in a little more detail why I was rejected. Pompous shite hawks the lot of them, FUCK EM!

Ahem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it doesn't bother me. It did, in the beginning (that was a few years ago now!!), but I don't take it personally any more. The best piece of advice I got was "Take your ego out of the equation".

As a heavy-set 'cuddly' Bi guy with an average cock and a face like a smacked arse its either learn to take the knocks or grab your toys and go home!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here yes, outside of swinging, not so!

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By *uteguy06Man
over a year ago

Swindon

I take it pretty well I have had to, as I have only been rejected on here so far really!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

prefer rejection to lukewarm reception any day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Do you think you handle it well?"

Not sure will tell you when it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe I handle it well, as I usually live by the rule of nothing ventured nothing gained.

I can say I have had a go at it and failed, rather than to ponder what if's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I handle it well.

But it would be better if those fucking bastards would get their heads out of their arses and explain in a little more detail why I was rejected. Pompous shite hawks the lot of them, FUCK EM!

Ahem.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

I've been rejected that many times i have to handle it well. Getting good with my left hand too these days.

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon

" Do you think you handle it well?

Not sure will tell you when it happens.

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Archangel..not a guy overburdened by modesty..but love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In some cases breathe a sigh of relieve and say nothing.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

I handle rejection very well

now where did I put that voodoo doll and pins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone says no then no amount of chest beating on my part is going to make them say yes so I just wish them well and move on."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I handle rejection very well

now where did I put that voodoo doll and pins

Dev has one of those - occasionally I'll feel the stab of a pin. On really bad days, I know she's tied it on a piece of string and using it to play with the cat...

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I handle rejection very well

now where did I put that voodoo doll and pins

oOOO, that tickles, now do my ballsacs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Do you think you handle it well?

Not sure will tell you when it happens.

Archangel..not a guy overburdened by modesty..but love it!"

I was just thinking the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Do you think you handle it well?"

well I haven't thrown myself under a bus yet so yeah I think I handle it well.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

No I handle it really badly... I get all indifferent and move on just to spite them... and then to top it all off and really stick the boot in, I forget about it and shag someone else.

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

not really, i get all defensive and introverted.

had it all the time as a kid, cuz i was never that attractive (nothing changes i suppose) but you know yourself, as youngsters everything is all about having someone that 'looks' perfect, rather than just being really nice, so us ordinary guys and gas miss out on a lot.

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