FabSwingers.com forum: Most effort you've put into a meet?

By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I know I won't win this one, lol. Just curious I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wasn't effort just logistics...

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

I turned up it must have been enough

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Wiped around the old beef curtains with a baby wipe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travelled to London by train wearing only a coat and a pair of boots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cooked steak once and post chips.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wiped around the old beef curtains with a baby wipe! "

PMSL.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wiped around the old beef curtains with a baby wipe! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cooked steak once and post chips.

Posh* which turns out is more difficult to type than one would imagine....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've decided I cba with the meets where they have very specific instructions on what you have to wear and look like.

I am in awe of the TVs who take hours and hours to do make up. That's some commitment.

But equally I'm shocked just how many people feel the need to emphasise that they "smell nice".

My regular fb often cycles over to meet me... Good job I like him sweaty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wiped around the old beef curtains with a baby wipe! "

Oh god, I can’t stop laughing, I must do that

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I've decided I cba with the meets where they have very specific instructions on what you have to wear and look like.

I am in awe of the TVs who take hours and hours to do make up. That's some commitment.

But equally I'm shocked just how many people feel the need to emphasise that they "smell nice".

My regular fb often cycles over to meet me... Good job I like him sweaty! "

Ooh yes. They know what soap is.

You get a gold star and a sticker in the reward chart?

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Distance really. I've travelled quite a bit to meet folk in the past. Aside from that I make the same effort with appearance, lingerie, etc., for any meet, doesn't matter if it's the 1st time or the 101st time we've met. When I was laid up with an injury last year I couldn't go to get waxed... I was like a llama

Boo said he didn't care about my wooly bits... But I did!!

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By *irlintheRedRed dressWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow

Travelled 6 hours to an event in the hope of playing with someone. No it wasnt worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A shed-load of kit, a 3hr drive and a full day's walk.... uphill.

Does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm glad I'm not the only who wipes the old beef curtains before a meet

Most effort was probably; a whole new outfit, having to rearrange all family commitments and then driving for 2 hours when I'd never driven further than 10 miles from my village before

Good job it was worth it

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I show up. That takes an enormous amount of effort on my part as i’m an unsociable cow and don’t like being social. The things i have to do to get a bit of cock eh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flew from Ireland to London to meet a couple long weekend was a great meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Distance really. I've travelled quite a bit to meet folk in the past. Aside from that I make the same effort with appearance, lingerie, etc., for any meet, doesn't matter if it's the 1st time or the 101st time we've met. When I was laid up with an injury last year I couldn't go tget waxed... I was like a llama

Boo said he didn't care about my wooly bits... But I did!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually buy something especially for it be it a dress to tear off her or things to try using on her as well as travelling 70 miles most times plus i often fuck during work hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I plucked my ear hair once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have travelled 100 s of miles payed hotels and had dinner partys taken them over seas holidays . lol

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I dont treat anyone any different to if I was meeting someone from real life. I look the same, wear the same, smell the same. I dont do "fab meets" play partners or any of those other phrases we use for this place. If I'd not meet you in real life then I'll not be meeting you at all. I'm looking for something with a little longevity......

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I plucked my ear hair once."

What about ya nostrils though?

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

I bought a wedding dress complete with veil, garter and a bouquet.

He didn't buy me a ring

But the wedding night was fun

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Wiped around the old beef curtains with a baby wipe!

Oh god, I can’t stop laughing, I must do that

I like to make sure I put in maximum effort! Just make sure you get the sensitive ones, the normal ones can sting! Nobody wants a stinging vag when you want abit of the old rumpy pumpy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone who let me down, I don't usually do second chances, but I am so glad I did. I got to meet one of the most amazing people I've met on here.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I've decided I cba with the meets where they have very specific instructions on what you have to wear and look like.

I am in awe of the TVs who take hours and hours to do make up. That's some commitment.

But equally I'm shocked just how many people feel the need to emphasise that they "smell nice".

My regular fb often cycles over to meet me... Good job I like him sweaty! "

I often meet someone directly after his weekend football match, if it's run late he doesn't always get a chance to shower. I keep my fingers crossed it's run late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always dress in nice underwear, and a dress that’s easy to come off. I regularly travel to a meet and stay overnight x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

The effort comes beforehand, the logistics of when where, but most importantly building the connection so when you do meet, you both just know it’s so right.... everything else like clothes, etc is superficial and irrelevant

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I once spent a small fortune on my train ticket and a plush hotel suite for a long term meet. He cancelled citing childcare which was fair enough but the pictures on the profile of the lady he managed to hook up with instead proved otherwise. I can laugh about my stupidity now.

Since then my effort level has been standard. I no longer go out so far out of my way for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I plucked my ear hair once.

What about ya nostrils though?

I took a pair of scissors to the nasal hair too

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I way overthink outfit and makeup. That's really it tbh.

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By *omeotherknobheadMan
over a year ago

morecambe

probably a train from Yorkshire where i lived at the time down to Gloucester which also meant a hotel for the night. well worth the effort though

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We've taken home made cakes to meets before now.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I rearranged a quite important meeting and still got to stay in the wankfest of a hotel for no real reason. He rearranged flying to Hong Kong to spend time with me. They didn't take *that* much effort but it's the best I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travelled hundreds of miles down to Cornwall. It was for a long weekend though..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I straightened my hair

Usually I just wash and dry it then make it look presentable.

Even though my hair looked different in the morning, the meet was worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always put a lot of effort in and its relative really.

I used to have a partner I would travel to that was a 6/7 hour round trip but we would spend a full weekend together.

A previous Fwb I would take gin, platters or posh picnics from my local deli. dress for him. I took a week off work and booked for us to go away together. Yet he still ditched me for someone he had never met

And lastly I drove on a 4.5 hour round trip to meet for a coffee with the guy I've just started seeing. Was worth it

I've learnt the hard way now to only put in effort where I know it will be returned

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I do an awful lot of driving!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do an awful lot of driving! "

Pretty much this, I also ironed a shirt once. (I don't iron for me very often)

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I’ve traveled a bit

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"I've decided I cba with the meets where they have very specific instructions on what you have to wear and look like"

Yes! I'll wear something decent and make sure my makeup and hair looks good. I'm not your dolly to dress up...

Mrs TMN x

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I do try to tame the hair and look presentable as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said whether it's the 1st meet or 10th I still put the same effort in. This is into my appearance and to be there on time, I'm often late. Even when I think I haven't put much effort in, I have.

I will probably feel like I have to put more effort into my next meet, it's not a 1st meet (I've lost count already.) But this is down to how I am feeling, not because I feel I have to for him. I like putting effort in knowing it will be appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The effort comes beforehand, the logistics of when where, but most importantly building the connection so when you do meet, you both just know it’s so right.... everything else like clothes, etc is superficial and irrelevant "

This with bells on

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