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"My personal opinion is its not worth the risk, even if your very careful accidents happen and condoms can come off, split etc, if you catch something while pregnant its a qucik trip to the GU clinic, 2 weeks of anti biotics and your clear, for an unborn child the effects of its monther catching the likes of syphilis, gonorrhea could be quite litterly life changing Imagin how you would feel if your child was born blind and you had to live with the fact that that could have been quite easily avoided just by refraining from having sex with other for a few months As i said just not worth the risk " We choose to take risks even if they are small ones we wouldn't though for an unborn child. | |||
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"each to there own but i think pregnant women are very sexy" Definately. Siren was lovely when she was pregnant but she didn't want to play. Her call and I respected that. | |||
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"I love the idea of having some fun with a pregnant lady. Something very erotic about it. As far as risks are concerned, I would happily do anything requested by the couple to minimise any risks associated with pregnancy play. " Could you explain why you find it erotic? | |||
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"Some things are just plan wrong, and having sex with a pregnant woman (who isn't your partner) is one of them, just because the baby is hidden by skin etc, it's still there, no getting away from it. I view it as sexual abuse towards a child. Let mr ask, will you take the baby along to meets when it's newborn? only difference to now is that it would be hidden under clothes and blankets. " what tosh... thats like saying a father having sex with his wife is doing the same.. Its not sexual abuse.. maybe not your thing but really.... you are not suddenly different while pregnant..and baby is well protected.. A happy mum is a happy baby. That much has been proven. I dont expect everyone to like it but to suggest its abuse... I am amazed that someone can think that. cali | |||
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"Some things are just plan wrong, and having sex with a pregnant woman (who isn't your partner) is one of them, just because the baby is hidden by skin etc, it's still there, no getting away from it. I view it as sexual abuse towards a child. Let mr ask, will you take the baby along to meets when it's newborn? only difference to now is that it would be hidden under clothes and blankets. " It's quite a dangeous thing to start bandying around accusations of child abuse and shows a total ignorance of a mother-to-be and her ongoing sexual desires. Some men find their own pregnant wives/girlfriends totally unappealing sexually yet some would argue that that is wrong also, so where is the line drawn? | |||
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"it may well do but we have a disabled son an plays havoc with ur life and i am 56 now lol dont take the risk looking after a child with problems is a life long commitment" I'm not entirely sure what your point was here? That having sex whilst pregnant will result in a disabled baby? Can you quote your source? | |||
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"Some things are just plan wrong, and having sex with a pregnant woman (who isn't your partner) is one of them, just because the baby is hidden by skin etc, it's still there, no getting away from it. I view it as sexual abuse towards a child. Let mr ask, will you take the baby along to meets when it's newborn? only difference to now is that it would be hidden under clothes and blankets. what tosh... thats like saying a father having sex with his wife is doing the same.. Its not sexual abuse.. maybe not your thing but really.... you are not suddenly different while pregnant..and baby is well protected.. A happy mum is a happy baby. That much has been proven. I dont expect everyone to like it but to suggest its abuse... I am amazed that someone can think that. cali " i have to agree i dont see it as child abuse, i dont think theres anything wrong with having sex while pregnant as such, i personally just dont think its worth the risk of catching something and putting your childs health at risk As i stated above STIs to a unborn child can have devastating effect, one slipped condom and your child could be blind or deaf for life, of course nothing is 100% but its a possability that could happen and so me its simply not a risk i would take with my unborn childs life | |||
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"I mean.............its not even a discussion topic! I worry sometimes!" Heartily disagree. Course it's a topic for discussion, which has already proved the case considering there are different views on it! | |||
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"Some things are just plan wrong, and having sex with a pregnant woman (who isn't your partner) is one of them, just because the baby is hidden by skin etc, it's still there, no getting away from it. I view it as sexual abuse towards a child. Let mr ask, will you take the baby along to meets when it's newborn? only difference to now is that it would be hidden under clothes and blankets. what tosh... thats like saying a father having sex with his wife is doing the same.. Its not sexual abuse.. maybe not your thing but really.... you are not suddenly different while pregnant..and baby is well protected.. A happy mum is a happy baby. That much has been proven. I dont expect everyone to like it but to suggest its abuse... I am amazed that someone can think that. cali i have to agree i dont see it as child abuse, i dont think theres anything wrong with having sex while pregnant as such, i personally just dont think its worth the risk of catching something and putting your childs health at risk As i stated above STIs to a unborn child can have devastating effect, one slipped condom and your child could be blind or deaf for life, of course nothing is 100% but its a possability that could happen and so me its simply not a risk i would take with my unborn childs life" Its wrong! With your partner its fine with a third party its wrong as there is another to consider who has no voice in the matter. | |||
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"Yes I understand that it is possible for diseases to be spread via intercourse, but I'm not advocating that a pregnant women sleep with any old tramp off the street. Find and select your partners as you usually would using your prefered screening methods and play safe. " i actually found that statment shocking ANYONE can catch a STI, even the cleanest most respectable person can have an accident and pick something up and pass it on without even knowing they have it To suggest only 'any old tramp off the street' can give you something and by 'selecting' your partners makes you safe is bluntly quite nieve | |||
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"Some things are just plan wrong, and having sex with a pregnant woman (who isn't your partner) is one of them, just because the baby is hidden by skin etc, it's still there, no getting away from it. I view it as sexual abuse towards a child. Let mr ask, will you take the baby along to meets when it's newborn? only difference to now is that it would be hidden under clothes and blankets. what tosh... thats like saying a father having sex with his wife is doing the same.. Its not sexual abuse.. maybe not your thing but really.... you are not suddenly different while pregnant..and baby is well protected.. A happy mum is a happy baby. That much has been proven. I dont expect everyone to like it but to suggest its abuse... I am amazed that someone can think that. cali i have to agree i dont see it as child abuse, i dont think theres anything wrong with having sex while pregnant as such, i personally just dont think its worth the risk of catching something and putting your childs health at risk As i stated above STIs to a unborn child can have devastating effect, one slipped condom and your child could be blind or deaf for life, of course nothing is 100% but its a possability that could happen and so me its simply not a risk i would take with my unborn childs life Its wrong! With your partner its fine with a third party its wrong as there is another to consider who has no voice in the matter. " i agree its wrong to put the child at risk 100% but its not sexual abuse on the child is it? thats just going OTT | |||
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"Some things are just plan wrong, and having sex with a pregnant woman (who isn't your partner) is one of them, just because the baby is hidden by skin etc, it's still there, no getting away from it. I view it as sexual abuse towards a child. Let mr ask, will you take the baby along to meets when it's newborn? only difference to now is that it would be hidden under clothes and blankets. " Oh you're so funny!!! You did mean this as a joke, right? | |||
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"Some things are just plan wrong, and having sex with a pregnant woman (who isn't your partner) is one of them, just because the baby is hidden by skin etc, it's still there, no getting away from it. I view it as sexual abuse towards a child. Let mr ask, will you take the baby along to meets when it's newborn? only difference to now is that it would be hidden under clothes and blankets. Oh you're so funny!!! You did mean this as a joke, right? " | |||
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" Let mr ask, will you take the baby along to meets when it's newborn? only difference to now is that it would be hidden under clothes and blankets. " well actually its a sad fact that there are many people on here who see nothing wrong with swinging with their kids in bed I would just like to add im not one of them | |||
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" Let mr ask, will you take the baby along to meets when it's newborn? only difference to now is that it would be hidden under clothes and blankets. well actually its a sad fact that there are many people on here who see nothing wrong with swinging with their kids in bed I would just like to add im not one of them " Not a situation we would ever be in either. And we wouldn't go to a house with children in bed either. Some adult things should remain adult things. The thought of one of our kids seeing us swinging is horrifying. And hardly the easiest subject to explain away. | |||
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"Well we disagree on this subject. I think a the female form when with child is quite beautiful as its the start a renewal it has no place in a sexual pleasure dome as I really some may have ulterior motives." | |||
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"Some things are just plan wrong, and having sex with a pregnant woman (who isn't your partner) is one of them, just because the baby is hidden by skin etc, it's still there, no getting away from it. I view it as sexual abuse towards a child. Let mr ask, will you take the baby along to meets when it's newborn? only difference to now is that it would be hidden under clothes and blankets. " Jeez that's a bit harsh , but like us all you are perfectly entitled to your opinion - if the couple want to get their fun and all parties are happy we don't see a problem at all , infact the thought is highly erotic in our opinion - so any pregnant women wanna fulfil a fantasy for us ? | |||
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"Some things are just plan wrong, and having sex with a pregnant woman (who isn't your partner) is one of them, just because the baby is hidden by skin etc, it's still there, no getting away from it. I view it as sexual abuse towards a child. Let mr ask, will you take the baby along to meets when it's newborn? only difference to now is that it would be hidden under clothes and blankets. Jeez that's a bit harsh , but like us all you are perfectly entitled to your opinion - if the couple want to get their fun and all parties are happy we don't see a problem at all , infact the thought is highly erotic in our opinion - so any pregnant women wanna fulfil a fantasy for us ? " Just out of interest, would you have sex with the mother if the babay were lying in a basket in the corner of the room? l'm not having a dig l'm genuinely curious. | |||
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"No way ! That's just plain wrong - and if the woman was willing we would find the fact that she would want to do it in front of her baby sick and possibly depraved ! Hope that satisfies your curiosity ? " Yep it does, thanks for responding | |||
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" Let mr ask, will you take the baby along to meets when it's newborn? only difference to now is that it would be hidden under clothes and blankets. well actually its a sad fact that there are many people on here who see nothing wrong with swinging with their kids in bed I would just like to add im not one of them " Neither are we.. but we wouldn't judge others that don't have much option. | |||
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"Some things are just plan wrong, and having sex with a pregnant woman (who isn't your partner) is one of them, just because the baby is hidden by skin etc, it's still there, no getting away from it. I view it as sexual abuse towards a child. Let mr ask, will you take the baby along to meets when it's newborn? only difference to now is that it would be hidden under clothes and blankets. Jeez that's a bit harsh , but like us all you are perfectly entitled to your opinion - if the couple want to get their fun and all parties are happy we don't see a problem at all , infact the thought is highly erotic in our opinion - so any pregnant women wanna fulfil a fantasy for us ? Just out of interest, would you have sex with the mother if the babay were lying in a basket in the corner of the room? l'm not having a dig l'm genuinely curious. " How is that even the same? As said, we are neither condoning or promoting this, but your arguments are quite ridiculous. How can you compare an unborn foetus and a small child. As for the baby still being in the room "under clothes and blankets" I'm assuming you mean in mummy wummy's tummy.. that might have worked when I was taught about the 'birds and bees' but doesn't really cut it in an open adult forum.. | |||
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" Let mr ask, will you take the baby along to meets when it's newborn? only difference to now is that it would be hidden under clothes and blankets. well actually its a sad fact that there are many people on here who see nothing wrong with swinging with their kids in bed I would just like to add im not one of them Neither are we.. but we wouldn't judge others that don't have much option." ..... Much option? surely your children would be your first option wouldn't they? and as such you wouldn't opt to even accidently expose them to the world of swinging. | |||
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"Some things are just plan wrong, and having sex with a pregnant woman (who isn't your partner) is one of them, just because the baby is hidden by skin etc, it's still there, no getting away from it. I view it as sexual abuse towards a child. Let mr ask, will you take the baby along to meets when it's newborn? only difference to now is that it would be hidden under clothes and blankets. Jeez that's a bit harsh , but like us all you are perfectly entitled to your opinion - if the couple want to get their fun and all parties are happy we don't see a problem at all , infact the thought is highly erotic in our opinion - so any pregnant women wanna fulfil a fantasy for us ? Just out of interest, would you have sex with the mother if the babay were lying in a basket in the corner of the room? l'm not having a dig l'm genuinely curious. How is that even the same? As said, we are neither condoning or promoting this, but your arguments are quite ridiculous. How can you compare an unborn foetus and a small child. As for the baby still being in the room "under clothes and blankets" I'm assuming you mean in mummy wummy's tummy.. that might have worked when I was taught about the 'birds and bees' but doesn't really cut it in an open adult forum.. " The foetus does tend to be found inside it's mother, yes, it's perfectly natural from my understanding of the circle of life. And once the foetus is born it's classified as a baby. A pretty big comparison from where l'm sitting. | |||
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"Its not something I would be looking for and being a big guy i would feel i would have to be extra careful. " No more so than the care you would take normally, given that the average depth of a woman's vagina is 5-6". The baby is protected by a mucus plug that you would find very difficult to break through, if you got past her cervix at all that is. | |||
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"Its not something I would be looking for and being a big guy i would feel i would have to be extra careful. No more so than the care you would take normally, given that the average depth of a woman's vagina is 5-6". The baby is protected by a mucus plug that you would find very difficult to break through, if you got past her cervix at all that is." Got past the cervix?!! | |||
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"Its not something I would be looking for and being a big guy i would feel i would have to be extra careful. No more so than the care you would take normally, given that the average depth of a woman's vagina is 5-6". The baby is protected by a mucus plug that you would find very difficult to break through, if you got past her cervix at all that is. Got past the cervix?!! " Well, you know how some of these w/e chaps like to think they've got a jack hammer in their trousers than can get through anything. | |||
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"When we were very young and new in the swinging scene we were regular playmates and great friends with a couple and our play did continue for a little while while I was pregnant and continued after baby was born - no we didnt play with the baby in the room, one of the 4sum was supervising and other 3 played. Would I do it now - probably not as our situation has changed greatly but it was certainly not abuse or wrong - it was right for us and our friends at the time. prepares for the hate mail!! " None from here. I don't think anyone has the right to judge as no one knows your circumstances... | |||
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"We would not play while pregnant, and whilst we agree that people chose their own risks we would not play with a pregnant woman. Our personal view is that pregnancy is a time to share with the father of your child, not others." | |||
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"When we were very young and new in the swinging scene we were regular playmates and great friends with a couple and our play did continue for a little while while I was pregnant and continued after baby was born - no we didnt play with the baby in the room, one of the 4sum was supervising and other 3 played. Would I do it now - probably not as our situation has changed greatly but it was certainly not abuse or wrong - it was right for us and our friends at the time. prepares for the hate mail!! None from here. I don't think anyone has the right to judge as no one knows your circumstances..." Thank you hun xx | |||
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"We would not play while pregnant, and whilst we agree that people chose their own risks we would not play with a pregnant woman. Our personal view is that pregnancy is a time to share with the father of your child, not others. " | |||
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