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"Have you met your father?"

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Really it was an interrobang, not just a question mark when I said it to one of the teens.

What age were you when you realised that your parents had lives before you and lives of their own?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

about 17

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"about 17"

What did you discover?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, OP, don't quite understand your question!

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I didn't discover the playful, flirty side of my mother until she was 50 and I was 24.

We'd got her a flight on Concorde as a birthday present and she staggered off the flight arm in arm with the man in the seat next to hers.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"To be honest, OP, don't quite understand your question! "

Do you know your parents? For a lot of our formative years we think they are just there to service our selfish needs. One day you realise they have lives of their own. When was that for you?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"about 17

What did you discover?

"

that my dad was a funny and sociable man rather than the slightly stern figure I always found him to be.

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

Lloyd George knew mine..

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"about 17

What did you discover?

that my dad was a funny and sociable man rather than the slightly stern figure I always found him to be."

They behave differently with others (as we do, I suppose).

Mine is the life and soul of every party but a grumpy git at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest, OP, don't quite understand your question!

Do you know your parents? For a lot of our formative years we think they are just there to service our selfish needs. One day you realise they have lives of their own. When was that for you?

"

Okay, somewhat understand now.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Lloyd George knew mine.. "

When did you find out?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

17 that my dad was a randy bugger and more gets revealed over time

18th birthday, my mum and her mate flirting embarrassing and a bit more with the waiter all night.

That night I ended up the parent and tucking her in bed with a bucket, numerous times as she thought it funny to keep rolling out the other side.

We laugh about it now

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Really it was an interrobang, not just a question mark when I said it to one of the teens.

What age were you when you realised that your parents had lives before you and lives of their own?

"

The chances of fab knowing what an interrobang is never mind actually managing to reproduce one is unlikely. I will confess it is a while since I actually used one - but I can see why you wanted too.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"17 that my dad was a randy bugger and more gets revealed over time

18th birthday, my mum and her mate flirting embarrassing and a bit more with the waiter all night.

That night I ended up the parent and tucking her in bed with a bucket, numerous times as she thought it funny to keep rolling out the other side.

We laugh about it now "

Ah! You had the grown up moment.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Really it was an interrobang, not just a question mark when I said it to one of the teens.

What age were you when you realised that your parents had lives before you and lives of their own?

The chances of fab knowing what an interrobang is never mind actually managing to reproduce one is unlikely. I will confess it is a while since I actually used one - but I can see why you wanted too. "

It might not be possible to reproduce the symbol but I just use ?! and sometimes !?, depending on emphasis.

I'll assume you haven't 'met' your parents yet.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"17 that my dad was a randy bugger and more gets revealed over time

18th birthday, my mum and her mate flirting embarrassing and a bit more with the waiter all night.

That night I ended up the parent and tucking her in bed with a bucket, numerous times as she thought it funny to keep rolling out the other side.

We laugh about it now

Ah! You had the grown up moment."

Literally role reversal on my 18th

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Sort of but not posting the tale in here it would rather flatten the mood. (Safe to say I miss them both) !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure I ever did meet mine.

My boys have probably started to realise I'm not just a mum . They know I have a social life and like to dance the night away on the rare occasions I go out with my friends.

My eldest knows I was seeing someone and even gave sound relationship advice when I was dumped!

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham


"Lloyd George knew mine..

When did you find out?

"

Father told me... As did other fathers who knew Lloyd George

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I'm not sure I ever did meet mine.

My boys have probably started to realise I'm not just a mum . They know I have a social life and like to dance the night away on the rare occasions I go out with my friends.

My eldest knows I was seeing someone and even gave sound relationship advice when I was dumped!"

I do wonder whether young people now know more about their parents, particularly those that claim they are friends/best friends.

It's sweet that your eldest felt they needed to provide comfort and advice.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

I'm not sure I (LB) ever met my dad as I was only six when he died but I definitely met the woman who gave birth to me when someone else's wife arrived at our door and proceeded to have a catfight in the hall.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

My mum and dad botched served in WW2 so I ‘knew’ them well through their stories.

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By *eeman1000Man
over a year ago

durham


"Really it was an interrobang, not just a question mark when I said it to one of the teens.

What age were you when you realised that your parents had lives before you and lives of their own?

The chances of fab knowing what an interrobang is never mind actually managing to reproduce one is unlikely. I will confess it is a while since I actually used one - but I can see why you wanted too. "

I knew and I'm not the smartest!!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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When I was around 13/14? We went to a wedding and my mum was wearing a probably too low cut dress and dancing and flirting with men as I sat at the small people's table. It suddenly struck me that my mum wasn't just mum but someone who had danced with many people before.

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