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"Everything is tears of joy funny. Lol is a wry smirk. Basically, emoji like a toddler emotes. " Thankyou for your advice,thumbs up! | |||
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"I dont speak emoji sorry ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Your life is one big emoji isn't it ![]() | |||
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"So whenever on the rare occasion I match with anyone on Tinder (I know right ![]() ![]() ![]() Maybe you're just not a good picker, some aren't ![]() | |||
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"Everything is tears of joy funny. Lol is a wry smirk. Basically, emoji like a toddler emotes. Thankyou for your advice,thumbs up!" ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I saw the thread title and then looked at the OPs name....my face automatically looked like ![]() ![]() ![]() What ya saying cheeky?! No seriously I need love in my life,I mean for God sake if I can't even get a good match on Tinder there's no hope for me ![]() | |||
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"So whenever on the rare occasion I match with anyone on Tinder (I know right ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I chatted to someone I thought was hot the other day,however it was like pulling teeth his two word replies were killing my soul. | |||
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"I dont speak emoji sorry ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() only 2 this one ![]() ![]() | |||
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"So whenever on the rare occasion I match with anyone on Tinder (I know right ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Well those attractive men need to choose me for what reason I haven't a clue. The one's that want to date me are the ones I'm not lusting over,life is so unfair. | |||
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"Haha it’s sad when the overall package don’t match personality or intelligence... shit that has happened to me a lot. I rarely last long on dating sites so keep it a couple of weeks chat, get bored or annoyed then delete. " Yep I'm hearing you I want to feel that fire in my belly again,preferably before I'm dead. | |||
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"Tinder is the weirdest thing ever. I had a dabble on it, swipe right...oh match. .oh nothing. ![]() Exactly getting matches mean nothing.... | |||
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"Tinder is the weirdest thing ever. I had a dabble on it, swipe right...oh match. .oh nothing. ![]() It's annoying. I always said I wasn't going to go there,but you know one has to try doesn't one. It's rare someone has a write up anyway,so they're probably cheating. | |||
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"So whenever on the rare occasion I match with anyone on Tinder (I know right ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() yes but you have to be more flexible no two people exactly fit each others wants exactly, meeting someone is always a compromise and flexibility is important, personality, looks, interests are important but you can't judge any of that without meeting ![]() | |||
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"Tinder is the weirdest thing ever. I had a dabble on it, swipe right...oh match. .oh nothing. ![]() One guy went to my school, I swiped for a giggle next thing o know he is inviting himself over for a shag- mate I want dinner not a finger blast on my sofa. | |||
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"So whenever on the rare occasion I match with anyone on Tinder (I know right ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() True. Don’t always get why people put their best foot forward. It’s about knowing and accepting the worst really. This whole concept of pretending one thing then starting a relationship and wanting to change everything is moronic. It’s what you can and can’t live with and people need to be honest about it. | |||
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"So whenever on the rare occasion I match with anyone on Tinder (I know right ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() exactly and without the give and take at the beginning nothing develops ![]() | |||
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"So whenever on the rare occasion I match with anyone on Tinder (I know right ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Bloody hell you sound like my sister,like I say to her I'm trying to be more flexible but I want to feel that initial nervousness because I fancy the arse of them. If I don't feel that from the first moment I see them I switch off. | |||
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"I saw the thread title and then looked at the OPs name....my face automatically looked like ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You’re preaching to the choir, sista ![]() | |||
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"So whenever on the rare occasion I match with anyone on Tinder (I know right ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() exactly and that's maybe your downfall ![]() | |||
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"I’ve been on and off Tinder for three years - not a single shag so I’m in no position to give advice. POF - a different matter. " I don't want a shag on Tinder I want my heart filling with love. On Pof I just get the same guy's that have been messaging me for year's,"I told you year's ago f#ck off please". | |||
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"So whenever on the rare occasion I match with anyone on Tinder (I know right ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Here lies the problem. Can the body be hot if the brain isn’t? | |||
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"I gave up online dating. I now trawl the local High Street holding a placard that says “Honk if you’re single”. ![]() and how's that working? | |||
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"Tinder is the weirdest thing ever. I had a dabble on it, swipe right...oh match. .oh nothing. ![]() Exactly at least wait until after you've had pudding for that kinda thing,some men just have no finesse do they. | |||
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"I gave up online dating. I now trawl the local High Street holding a placard that says “Honk if you’re single”. ![]() I’m not married. Yet. ![]() | |||
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"I gave up online dating. I now trawl the local High Street holding a placard that says “Honk if you’re single”. ![]() ![]() awwww ![]() | |||
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"So whenever on the rare occasion I match with anyone on Tinder (I know right ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I know I know,are you my sis in disguise?! | |||
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"I’ve been on and off Tinder for three years - not a single shag so I’m in no position to give advice. POF - a different matter. I don't want a shag on Tinder I want my heart filling with love. On Pof I just get the same guy's that have been messaging me for year's,"I told you year's ago f#ck off please"." Have you tried Bumble? Had more success there in terms of meets... but I am still single ![]() | |||
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"So whenever on the rare occasion I match with anyone on Tinder (I know right ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() well I do need help ![]() | |||
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"I gave up online dating. I now trawl the local High Street holding a placard that says “Honk if you’re single”. ![]() Sorry but this has made me giggle! ![]() | |||
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"I gave up online dating. I now trawl the local High Street holding a placard that says “Honk if you’re single”. ![]() That is my next step! Times are desperate,it's not like I even want to live with someone or meet their Great Aunty Daphine I just want a bit of affection and flirt. | |||
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"I gave up online dating. I now trawl the local High Street holding a placard that says “Honk if you’re single”. ![]() well let the guards down.......... What's the worst that can happen ![]() | |||
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"Is Tinder the alternative universe to Fab were men ignore messages sent by women? ![]() ![]() ![]() In my experience of using Tinder women rarely messaged first. Literally once in 50 matches. I actually got fed up with what felt like old fashioned so called chivalry. | |||
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"I’ve been on and off Tinder for three years - not a single shag so I’m in no position to give advice. POF - a different matter. I don't want a shag on Tinder I want my heart filling with love. On Pof I just get the same guy's that have been messaging me for year's,"I told you year's ago f#ck off please". Have you tried Bumble? Had more success there in terms of meets... but I am still single ![]() Yep ![]() | |||
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"I’ve been on and off Tinder for three years - not a single shag so I’m in no position to give advice. POF - a different matter. I don't want a shag on Tinder I want my heart filling with love. On Pof I just get the same guy's that have been messaging me for year's,"I told you year's ago f#ck off please". Have you tried Bumble? Had more success there in terms of meets... but I am still single ![]() ![]() Just give it a whirl and fingers crossed... | |||
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"I saw the thread title and then looked at the OPs name....my face automatically looked like ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() There’s a lot of playing ‘hot or not’ on Tinder etc which for people actually looking to meet (for whatever motivation) is a pain. | |||
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"I gave up online dating. I now trawl the local High Street holding a placard that says “Honk if you’re single”. ![]() ![]() When it goes tits up which they always do in the end...heartache,bitterness,stalking of their Facebook,wondering if they're going to ring,jealousy,hatred etc ![]() | |||
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"I saw the thread title and then looked at the OPs name....my face automatically looked like ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() What's the point of that?! | |||
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"I’ve been on and off Tinder for three years - not a single shag so I’m in no position to give advice. POF - a different matter. I don't want a shag on Tinder I want my heart filling with love. On Pof I just get the same guy's that have been messaging me for year's,"I told you year's ago f#ck off please". Have you tried Bumble? Had more success there in terms of meets... but I am still single ![]() ![]() Thanks chuck | |||
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"Never been on (Tinder) any good?" Read the above! To be fair it is a mixed bag. As a guy I don’t get ignored as much on Tinder, I can actually get meets on Tinder, I actually had sex via Tinder. However, in my case the sex was mono and vanilla (lovely but I was looking for more/ different) | |||
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"I gave up online dating. I now trawl the local High Street holding a placard that says “Honk if you’re single”. ![]() ![]() ![]() omg your sister is frustrated with you I bet ![]() | |||
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"I gave up online dating. I now trawl the local High Street holding a placard that says “Honk if you’re single”. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yep ![]() | |||
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"Ignite, you're an attractive woman and selective as well, so I don't imagine you swiping right very often. Perhaps they're tongue tied by your awesomeness? ![]() I was just being silly with the emoji thing,but yes I think you're right with the awesomeness thing ![]() ![]() | |||
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"On Tinder as we speak, 5 matches resulting in roughly 0.2 conversations ![]() You're doing better than me then. | |||
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"Ignite, you're an attractive woman and selective as well, so I don't imagine you swiping right very often. Perhaps they're tongue tied by your awesomeness? ![]() ![]() ![]() stop presuppositions ![]() | |||
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"Ignite, you're an attractive woman and selective as well, so I don't imagine you swiping right very often. Perhaps they're tongue tied by your awesomeness? ![]() ![]() ![]() Yes. A surprisingly high number of users there have no text whatsoever. Swiping on looks alone is very superfluous and defeats the intent of it being a "dating" app. Fab, at least is genuine in its intentions. No pretence. | |||
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"Ignite, you're an attractive woman and selective as well, so I don't imagine you swiping right very often. Perhaps they're tongue tied by your awesomeness? ![]() ![]() ![]() lol how is their no pretence, sorry no difference here to there, nothing is ever what it seems ![]() | |||
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"Ignite, you're an attractive woman and selective as well, so I don't imagine you swiping right very often. Perhaps they're tongue tied by your awesomeness? ![]() ![]() ![]() It's not looking good then is it. | |||
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"Ignite, you're an attractive woman and selective as well, so I don't imagine you swiping right very often. Perhaps they're tongue tied by your awesomeness? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I would think if they were serious about dating they would at least write a few word's wouldn't they,wouldn't that make sense? | |||
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"Ignite, you're an attractive woman and selective as well, so I don't imagine you swiping right very often. Perhaps they're tongue tied by your awesomeness? ![]() ![]() ![]() Keep a positive outlook regardless. Sometimes the best things come along unexpectedly ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Ignite, you're an attractive woman and selective as well, so I don't imagine you swiping right very often. Perhaps they're tongue tied by your awesomeness? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I write many words but do they mean anything until you look in the eyes of the person saying them, I'm not an analyst I'm a doist you need to get out there accept that it may not go right because if you're inflexible it probably won't, the key to any relationship is flexibility and the reason for that is..... Two people involved ![]() | |||
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"Ignite, you're an attractive woman and selective as well, so I don't imagine you swiping right very often. Perhaps they're tongue tied by your awesomeness? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() There isn't going to be any flexibility at all if I haven't a clue why he's there or if he's just too plain lazy or daft to write anything. First impressions count. | |||
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"Ignite, you're an attractive woman and selective as well, so I don't imagine you swiping right very often. Perhaps they're tongue tied by your awesomeness? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Hey ask your sister what my reply to this is ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I’ve been on and off Tinder for three years - not a single shag so I’m in no position to give advice. POF - a different matter. I don't want a shag on Tinder I want my heart filling with love. On Pof I just get the same guy's that have been messaging me for year's,"I told you year's ago f#ck off please". Have you tried Bumble? Had more success there in terms of meets... but I am still single ![]() Tried Bumble and found it very similar to Tinder. I guess if in a big city then it’s different, out in the sticks though- not so good. Perhaps people my age shouldn’t be dating? Need to buy some beige slacks, some old cardigans and get an allotment. Any old birds fancy joining me - knitters to the top of the list! | |||
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"I’ve been on and off Tinder for three years - not a single shag so I’m in no position to give advice. POF - a different matter. I don't want a shag on Tinder I want my heart filling with love. On Pof I just get the same guy's that have been messaging me for year's,"I told you year's ago f#ck off please". Have you tried Bumble? Had more success there in terms of meets... but I am still single ![]() From what I hear allotments are full of intrigue! | |||
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"So whenever on the rare occasion I match with anyone on Tinder (I know right ![]() ![]() ![]() I can't believe you struggle at all on there ..Maybe you should try another one that sounds like Rumble and begins with B. Don't want to say it unless I get a ban .. Lol ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"So whenever on the rare occasion I match with anyone on Tinder (I know right ![]() ![]() ![]() I think alot of guys on tinder swipe on your face, say yes, them perhaps realise where you're located and then don't message. I've matched with guys hundreds of miles away so it's not worth pursuing and it's a waste of time to start the chat. If they don't want to chat, it's their loss. | |||
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"Is there anyone you can just fall in love with at work. Dating seems such a faff ![]() If you find him will you smell and feel and rub yourself (like a cat) all over a him? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Is there anyone you can just fall in love with at work. Dating seems such a faff ![]() ![]() ![]() Absolutely yes. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Is there anyone you can just fall in love with at work. Dating seems such a faff ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Lucky bastard ![]() ![]() | |||
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" I chatted to someone I thought was hot the other day,however it was like pulling teeth his two word replies were killing my soul." Haha ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"And hardly any people know how to communicate or start a conversation if you go out to a pub anymore...the art of seduction is lost." This ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Is there anyone you can just fall in love with at work. Dating seems such a faff ![]() No,it is a faff I just want to skip that bit and go into a relaxed relationship of sorts. | |||
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"So whenever on the rare occasion I match with anyone on Tinder (I know right ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Do you mean Bumble yes I am although I haven't checked it out for a while. It's funny you always find the same people locally doing the rounds on all the different sites. | |||
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"Is there anyone you can just fall in love with at work. Dating seems such a faff ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Autumn that's rude! Just shake hands like everyone else. | |||
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"So whenever on the rare occasion I match with anyone on Tinder (I know right ![]() ![]() ![]() Yeah that's the thing I haven't bothered swiping right for someone 30,40 miles away as realistically getting together is slim. | |||
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"Is there anyone you can just fall in love with at work. Dating seems such a faff ![]() If only life was that simple ![]() | |||
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"Your lack of emoji-ing is very you, it feels weird when I see you use them. Like hearing a grandparent describe their eyebrows as fleek or discuss Love Island level of weird. Sometimes the conversations are dire because there is nothing there - it saves you finding out that later. Maybe you'll fare better on a different app which encourages conversation? " I've tried the others Meli Tinder was a last resort,I'm destined to travel this lonely world alone ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Your lack of emoji-ing is very you, it feels weird when I see you use them. Like hearing a grandparent describe their eyebrows as fleek or discuss Love Island level of weird. Sometimes the conversations are dire because there is nothing there - it saves you finding out that later. Maybe you'll fare better on a different app which encourages conversation? " Which one? Don't they all use the same model? Elite singles was different but that was like filling in a detailed resume for a job interview! ![]() | |||
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"Your lack of emoji-ing is very you, it feels weird when I see you use them. Like hearing a grandparent describe their eyebrows as fleek or discuss Love Island level of weird. Sometimes the conversations are dire because there is nothing there - it saves you finding out that later. Maybe you'll fare better on a different app which encourages conversation? I've tried the others Meli Tinder was a last resort,I'm destined to travel this lonely world alone ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Become a lesbian, you'll be fine. If there's one thing women can do it's talk. ![]() | |||
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"Is there anyone you can just fall in love with at work. Dating seems such a faff ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Your lack of emoji-ing is very you, it feels weird when I see you use them. Like hearing a grandparent describe their eyebrows as fleek or discuss Love Island level of weird. Sometimes the conversations are dire because there is nothing there - it saves you finding out that later. Maybe you'll fare better on a different app which encourages conversation? I've tried the others Meli Tinder was a last resort,I'm destined to travel this lonely world alone ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() And have cats ![]() | |||
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"So whenever on the rare occasion I match with anyone on Tinder (I know right ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yep .. That's the one ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"All I can think off would be to join a club of some sort so at least there is a commen interest to talk about. But the chance of there being single, sexy, looking for love people are about as slim as everywhere else I guess. ![]() At least here the common interest is something fun ![]() | |||
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"Your lack of emoji-ing is very you, it feels weird when I see you use them. Like hearing a grandparent describe their eyebrows as fleek or discuss Love Island level of weird. Sometimes the conversations are dire because there is nothing there - it saves you finding out that later. Maybe you'll fare better on a different app which encourages conversation? I've tried the others Meli Tinder was a last resort,I'm destined to travel this lonely world alone ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I can't I like silence at time's as well,I don't like someone wittering away ten to the dozen all the time it makes me even more quiet than I am. | |||
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"I did try that site once upon a time. But I found the same as you most of the time. The other problem was whatever happened to just having a bloody normal conversation without the ref to sex all the time. So most conversations didnt last past 3 messages. So I just deleted it." sex is part of every successful relationship, I agree no need to discuss it until you're about to do it but unfortunately some have it on the brain men mostly but a lot of women too ![]() | |||
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"I did try that site once upon a time. But I found the same as you most of the time. The other problem was whatever happened to just having a bloody normal conversation without the ref to sex all the time. So most conversations didnt last past 3 messages. So I just deleted it.sex is part of every successful relationship, I agree no need to discuss it until you're about to do it but unfortunately some have it on the brain men mostly but a lot of women too ![]() But whatever happened to "hello my name is". No one appears to be interested in the person, getting to know someone etc. Seriously I just turn off and cant be bothered with it. Sex is very important absolutely within a relationship. | |||
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"I did try that site once upon a time. But I found the same as you most of the time. The other problem was whatever happened to just having a bloody normal conversation without the ref to sex all the time. So most conversations didnt last past 3 messages. So I just deleted it.sex is part of every successful relationship, I agree no need to discuss it until you're about to do it but unfortunately some have it on the brain men mostly but a lot of women too ![]() I start messages with the inclusion of my name, the trouble with some people here especially women is they are either too popular so receive so many messages they can't keep up even with people they actually like chatting to and maybe only answer one in ten messages sent or they have become complacent as a result of the guys who lead everything with sex and dick pics ![]() | |||
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"I did try that site once upon a time. But I found the same as you most of the time. The other problem was whatever happened to just having a bloody normal conversation without the ref to sex all the time. So most conversations didnt last past 3 messages. So I just deleted it." I don't blame you it's tedious isn't it. | |||
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"I did try that site once upon a time. But I found the same as you most of the time. The other problem was whatever happened to just having a bloody normal conversation without the ref to sex all the time. So most conversations didnt last past 3 messages. So I just deleted it. I don't blame you it's tedious isn't it." Yep it is. | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() I kayak if that helps ![]() | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() What like go outside do I buggery,the world is full of lunatics out there of course I don't,silly question. | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() Is that something you do alone in the middle of a lake by any chance? | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() mines a 2 person kayak ![]() | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() but lake or sea yes, life jacket curvaceous wet suit oars and wet bag ![]() | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() ![]() Ooh look at you you sociable person ![]() | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I am extremely sociable ![]() | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() why wanna come it would make for an interesting social ![]() | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() Lol made me giggle but hope you're joking! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() ![]() Have you ever wee'd inside a wet suit? | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() ![]() lol don't tell anyone ![]() | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() ![]() Does that mean you can't go out without someone else? | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Sure if you get on my nerves I can turf you overboard. | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() ![]() lol hey you know exactly what it means | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() lol hey it's my kayak ![]() | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() ![]() Unfortunately yes as I have a child I need to keep alive til adulthood,although to be fair I could do online shopping. Now there's a thought... | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Survival of the fittest,you can swim yeah?! | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() lol you'll be in the front ![]() | |||
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"I’ve probably suggested this to you before but... Get yourself along to any of your local rugby union clubs on a match day Saturday afternoon and you’ll meet lots of suitable gentlemen who’ll be more than happy to woo you. No emojis are needed in this suggestion." I don't think anyone plays rugby around here,but I shall seriously take that suggestion on board. Like seriously (sounds hot!) I've just matched with a short arse on Tinder,he's not the tall protective type I had in mind... | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() So,I can still feed you to the fish from the front. | |||
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"I’ve probably suggested this to you before but... Get yourself along to any of your local rugby union clubs on a match day Saturday afternoon and you’ll meet lots of suitable gentlemen who’ll be more than happy to woo you. No emojis are needed in this suggestion. I don't think anyone plays rugby around here,but I shall seriously take that suggestion on board. Like seriously (sounds hot!) I've just matched with a short arse on Tinder,he's not the tall protective type I had in mind..." If you just type rugby club into google maps or similar I’d wager you’ll find atleast one within 5 miles of your location. | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() ![]() Huh? Can you paddle a 2 person kayak with just 1 person? | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() ![]() of course ![]() | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() ![]() Just passed my parenting test as got two to 18!!! Woooooohoooooooooo .... | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() ![]() you can even paddle it with two people in it but only one paddling lol ![]() | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Cool always wondered though way too much hard work ![]() | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() hey you can meander in a kayak too ya know ![]() | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() it's weight and tide that make it hard work, kayaks have weight limits ya know lol ![]() | |||
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"I’ve probably suggested this to you before but... Get yourself along to any of your local rugby union clubs on a match day Saturday afternoon and you’ll meet lots of suitable gentlemen who’ll be more than happy to woo you. No emojis are needed in this suggestion. I don't think anyone plays rugby around here,but I shall seriously take that suggestion on board. Like seriously (sounds hot!) I've just matched with a short arse on Tinder,he's not the tall protective type I had in mind... If you just type rugby club into google maps or similar I’d wager you’ll find atleast one within 5 miles of your location. " There is but I may be a little old for them ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I’ve probably suggested this to you before but... Get yourself along to any of your local rugby union clubs on a match day Saturday afternoon and you’ll meet lots of suitable gentlemen who’ll be more than happy to woo you. No emojis are needed in this suggestion. I don't think anyone plays rugby around here,but I shall seriously take that suggestion on board. Like seriously (sounds hot!) I've just matched with a short arse on Tinder,he's not the tall protective type I had in mind... If you just type rugby club into google maps or similar I’d wager you’ll find atleast one within 5 miles of your location. There is but I may be a little old for them ![]() ![]() you'd look good in the scrum ![]() | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() ![]() I have another 6 months to go before I pass mine,then I shall gently open my doors and wait for a gush of wind to send her on her travels. Ok I may let her finish school first. | |||
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"So whenever on the rare occasion I match with anyone on Tinder (I know right ![]() ![]() ![]() If I was on tinder I sure hope I would be a match for you. I would definitely reply ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() ![]() You are aware they consistently find there way home... Even moving doesn't stop that ![]() | |||
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"I’ve probably suggested this to you before but... Get yourself along to any of your local rugby union clubs on a match day Saturday afternoon and you’ll meet lots of suitable gentlemen who’ll be more than happy to woo you. No emojis are needed in this suggestion. I don't think anyone plays rugby around here,but I shall seriously take that suggestion on board. Like seriously (sounds hot!) I've just matched with a short arse on Tinder,he's not the tall protective type I had in mind... If you just type rugby club into google maps or similar I’d wager you’ll find atleast one within 5 miles of your location. There is but I may be a little old for them ![]() ![]() Every club has a generation to suit your needs, there will be a group of 40-50 year olds that have packed up playing in the last few years and now just support and socialise. Quite a few of these will be single as their relationships have broken down due to them putting the sport first all their lives but essentially they are perfect partner material now that they have grown up. It’s the perfect hunting ground for a beautiful assertive lady like yourself and having read your man shopping list regularly on various similar threads I think these type of men would be perfect. | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Not where I go ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() white water oh my you devil ![]() | |||
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"Cool always wondered though way too much hard work hey you can meander in a kayak too ya know Not where I go " white water oh my you devil Nope sea kayaking there's always a tide and wind and it's always always exceedingly hard work!! No meandering about on lakes and non tidal rivers ![]() you can still meander in calm seas we do get them ![]() | |||
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"I’ve probably suggested this to you before but... Get yourself along to any of your local rugby union clubs on a match day Saturday afternoon and you’ll meet lots of suitable gentlemen who’ll be more than happy to woo you. No emojis are needed in this suggestion. I don't think anyone plays rugby around here,but I shall seriously take that suggestion on board. Like seriously (sounds hot!) I've just matched with a short arse on Tinder,he's not the tall protective type I had in mind... If you just type rugby club into google maps or similar I’d wager you’ll find atleast one within 5 miles of your location. There is but I may be a little old for them ![]() ![]() You're selling it to me Sam,wonder if it has a Facebook page so I don't have to actually go to a rugby game,it is nearly winter afterall. I don't do cold sidelines if I can help it. Some big brute to scoop me up would be rather nice. | |||
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"I’ve probably suggested this to you before but... Get yourself along to any of your local rugby union clubs on a match day Saturday afternoon and you’ll meet lots of suitable gentlemen who’ll be more than happy to woo you. No emojis are needed in this suggestion. I don't think anyone plays rugby around here,but I shall seriously take that suggestion on board. Like seriously (sounds hot!) I've just matched with a short arse on Tinder,he's not the tall protective type I had in mind... If you just type rugby club into google maps or similar I’d wager you’ll find atleast one within 5 miles of your location. There is but I may be a little old for them ![]() ![]() cauliflower ears, muddy clothes and boots and always with mates ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Does noone get out there and actually meet people anymore? People with actual interests by doing stuff? Asking for a friend ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I'm fine for her to visit,but as that gust of wind removes her from my responsibility I'll be grabbing her house key on the way out ![]() | |||
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"I’ve probably suggested this to you before but... Get yourself along to any of your local rugby union clubs on a match day Saturday afternoon and you’ll meet lots of suitable gentlemen who’ll be more than happy to woo you. No emojis are needed in this suggestion. I don't think anyone plays rugby around here,but I shall seriously take that suggestion on board. Like seriously (sounds hot!) I've just matched with a short arse on Tinder,he's not the tall protective type I had in mind... If you just type rugby club into google maps or similar I’d wager you’ll find atleast one within 5 miles of your location. There is but I may be a little old for them ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Well I do love myself a bi mmf every now and then. | |||
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"I’ve probably suggested this to you before but... Get yourself along to any of your local rugby union clubs on a match day Saturday afternoon and you’ll meet lots of suitable gentlemen who’ll be more than happy to woo you. No emojis are needed in this suggestion. I don't think anyone plays rugby around here,but I shall seriously take that suggestion on board. Like seriously (sounds hot!) I've just matched with a short arse on Tinder,he's not the tall protective type I had in mind... If you just type rugby club into google maps or similar I’d wager you’ll find atleast one within 5 miles of your location. There is but I may be a little old for them ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Have you tried other dating sites | |||
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"I’ve probably suggested this to you before but... Get yourself along to any of your local rugby union clubs on a match day Saturday afternoon and you’ll meet lots of suitable gentlemen who’ll be more than happy to woo you. No emojis are needed in this suggestion. I don't think anyone plays rugby around here,but I shall seriously take that suggestion on board. Like seriously (sounds hot!) I've just matched with a short arse on Tinder,he's not the tall protective type I had in mind... If you just type rugby club into google maps or similar I’d wager you’ll find atleast one within 5 miles of your location. There is but I may be a little old for them ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I have indeed,I expect great results from my half arsed attempt at finding someone. I suppose it's a bit like some men on here they put very little effort into thing's and still expect a shag,it's the same with me and dating. | |||
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"I’ve probably suggested this to you before but... Get yourself along to any of your local rugby union clubs on a match day Saturday afternoon and you’ll meet lots of suitable gentlemen who’ll be more than happy to woo you. No emojis are needed in this suggestion. I don't think anyone plays rugby around here,but I shall seriously take that suggestion on board. Like seriously (sounds hot!) I've just matched with a short arse on Tinder,he's not the tall protective type I had in mind... If you just type rugby club into google maps or similar I’d wager you’ll find atleast one within 5 miles of your location. There is but I may be a little old for them ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I’ve probably suggested this to you before but... Get yourself along to any of your local rugby union clubs on a match day Saturday afternoon and you’ll meet lots of suitable gentlemen who’ll be more than happy to woo you. No emojis are needed in this suggestion. I don't think anyone plays rugby around here,but I shall seriously take that suggestion on board. Like seriously (sounds hot!) I've just matched with a short arse on Tinder,he's not the tall protective type I had in mind... If you just type rugby club into google maps or similar I’d wager you’ll find atleast one within 5 miles of your location. There is but I may be a little old for them ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() OkCupid seems to have more people who are open about poly and kink in a dating context. | |||
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"I’ve probably suggested this to you before but... Get yourself along to any of your local rugby union clubs on a match day Saturday afternoon and you’ll meet lots of suitable gentlemen who’ll be more than happy to woo you. No emojis are needed in this suggestion. I don't think anyone plays rugby around here,but I shall seriously take that suggestion on board. Like seriously (sounds hot!) I've just matched with a short arse on Tinder,he's not the tall protective type I had in mind... If you just type rugby club into google maps or similar I’d wager you’ll find atleast one within 5 miles of your location. There is but I may be a little old for them ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Deleted that ages ago no-one local was on it ![]() | |||
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"Wait so what you're saying is that on Tinder women might actually send the 1st message. why has no-one told me this before? " I sent a first message about a week ago to a guy. It's still sat there unopened ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I’ve probably suggested this to you before but... Get yourself along to any of your local rugby union clubs on a match day Saturday afternoon and you’ll meet lots of suitable gentlemen who’ll be more than happy to woo you. No emojis are needed in this suggestion. I don't think anyone plays rugby around here,but I shall seriously take that suggestion on board. Like seriously (sounds hot!) I've just matched with a short arse on Tinder,he's not the tall protective type I had in mind... If you just type rugby club into google maps or similar I’d wager you’ll find atleast one within 5 miles of your location. There is but I may be a little old for them ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() lol really ![]() | |||
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"So whenever on the rare occasion I match with anyone on Tinder (I know right ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Two words.. you should chat yo the ladies on there, two words would be chatty, one word is the norm.. or txt spk ![]() | |||
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"I’ve probably suggested this to you before but... Get yourself along to any of your local rugby union clubs on a match day Saturday afternoon and you’ll meet lots of suitable gentlemen who’ll be more than happy to woo you. No emojis are needed in this suggestion. I don't think anyone plays rugby around here,but I shall seriously take that suggestion on board. Like seriously (sounds hot!) I've just matched with a short arse on Tinder,he's not the tall protective type I had in mind... If you just type rugby club into google maps or similar I’d wager you’ll find atleast one within 5 miles of your location. There is but I may be a little old for them ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ahhh but a woman can put very little in and get a date that's the difference ![]() | |||
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"So whenever on the rare occasion I match with anyone on Tinder (I know right ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Txt spk is the modern day curse. Terrible! ![]() | |||
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