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"I like to see what i’ll be getting, so erect cock pic or no meeting. " Same here. I don't understand where people get this "most women don't want to see them" idea. | |||
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"There are thousands of them Click on "new photos" and you're assailed by them Girls...do any of you like looking at them? On most profiles girls say "no" to getting them Lads...why have them so prominant? Like, loads have them as their profile pic I'm pretty relaxed and now and again happy to play with a willy, but jesus, I don't get the gratuitous nature of the pics in many profiles " I like your black and white sabre. | |||
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"I like to see what i’ll be getting, so erect cock pic or no meeting. Same here. I don't understand where people get this "most women don't want to see them" idea. " Ot's said on many women's profiles Interesting that you do like to see the goods first tho May have to rethink my no dick pic strategy! | |||
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"I don't mind dick pics IF I ask to see what they have to offer. However I take exception when they include one as part of their message without asking if I'd like to see their cock. 10 yrs of swinging with avg 5 dick pics per day, and dicks are not pretty." This captures what my original thought was..... | |||
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"I don't mind dick pics IF I ask to see what they have to offer. However I take exception when they include one as part of their message without asking if I'd like to see their cock. 10 yrs of swinging with avg 5 dick pics per day, and dicks are not pretty." Your pics...... | |||
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"I don't mind dick pics IF I ask to see what they have to offer. However I take exception when they include one as part of their message without asking if I'd like to see their cock. 10 yrs of swinging with avg 5 dick pics per day, and dicks are not pretty." I don’t need to see them either. I like a mental attraction more than anything so a cock pic can put me off someone. | |||
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"I don't mind dick pics IF I ask to see what they have to offer. However I take exception when they include one as part of their message without asking if I'd like to see their cock. 10 yrs of swinging with avg 5 dick pics per day, and dicks are not pretty. I don’t need to see them either. I like a mental attraction more than anything so a cock pic can put me off someone. " I'm not interested in these pictures whatsoever all it says to me is boring, no imagination, no thought just follow the crowd type guy. It's a delete from me. | |||
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"I like to see what i’ll be getting, so erect cock pic or no meeting. Same here. I don't understand where people get this "most women don't want to see them" idea. " I got the idea from fab | |||
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"Lol I genuinely don’t own one and I’m 8.5 inches with a good girth. Before all you gay and bi men say “oh year whatever show us then” I really don’t need to. Have fun showing your dick picks my insecure restricted speak coded friends and fellow fabbers " You are going to do so well on here | |||
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"Lol I genuinely don’t own one and I’m 8.5 inches with a good girth. Before all you gay and bi men say “oh year whatever show us then” I really don’t need to. Have fun showing your dick picks my insecure restricted speak coded friends and fellow fabbers " Finally a real man! Come and get me! Arrrrrhhhhh! | |||
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"Lol I genuinely don’t own one and I’m 8.5 inches with a good girth. Before all you gay and bi men say “oh year whatever show us then” I really don’t need to. Have fun showing your dick picks my insecure restricted speak coded friends and fellow fabbers I hope that was genuine and thank you if it was. You seem genuine also You are going to do so well on here" | |||
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"I don't mind dick pics IF I ask to see what they have to offer. However I take exception when they include one as part of their message without asking if I'd like to see their cock. 10 yrs of swinging with avg 5 dick pics per day, and dicks are not pretty. I don’t need to see them either. I like a mental attraction more than anything so a cock pic can put me off someone. I'm not interested in these pictures whatsoever all it says to me is boring, no imagination, no thought just follow the crowd type guy. It's a delete from me." Here here! If I ask fine but don’t assume - if you assume I DELETE! End of ... | |||
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"Lol I genuinely don’t own one and I’m 8.5 inches with a good girth. Before all you gay and bi men say “oh year whatever show us then” I really don’t need to. Have fun showing your dick picks my insecure restricted speak coded friends and fellow fabbers Lol than you buddy I hope I hope you your night is filled with fun and joy. Remember every penny doesn’t fit the slot! Finally a real man! Come and get me! Arrrrrhhhhh!" | |||
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"Do men need to see vagina pictures before they arrange a meet? If they don't see the picture - will they not meet her? I cannot stand cock pictures. I know what one looks like. I'm here to meet a person. Not a cock." Says the lady who is seeking WE lol | |||
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"Do men need to see vagina pictures before they arrange a meet? If they don't see the picture - will they not meet her? I cannot stand cock pictures. I know what one looks like. I'm here to meet a person. Not a cock." Brains and beauty whatever next. Do you find men want to talk to you before seeing your vag ha xx | |||
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"Do men need to see vagina pictures before they arrange a meet? If they don't see the picture - will they not meet her? I cannot stand cock pictures. I know what one looks like. I'm here to meet a person. Not a cock. Says the lady who is seeking WE lol" Doesn’t mean she needs to see pics. | |||
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"Do men need to see vagina pictures before they arrange a meet? If they don't see the picture - will they not meet her? I cannot stand cock pictures. I know what one looks like. I'm here to meet a person. Not a cock. Says the lady who is seeking WE lol" What's so funny about it? That's having a preference. But I don't need to see it. I expect a man with small cock will not message me. | |||
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"Depends very much on whether your cock is pretty.... " We all think our cock is the most beautiful in the world... but all the other guys are wrong! | |||
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"Do men need to see vagina pictures before they arrange a meet? If they don't see the picture - will they not meet her? I cannot stand cock pictures. I know what one looks like. I'm here to meet a person. Not a cock. Brains and beauty whatever next. Do you find men want to talk to you before seeing your vag ha xx" I don't know what women do you talk to or message. But I always meet up socially first. If I don't like him or fancy him, he will not see my vagina later. | |||
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"Do men need to see vagina pictures before they arrange a meet? If they don't see the picture - will they not meet her? I cannot stand cock pictures. I know what one looks like. I'm here to meet a person. Not a cock. Says the lady who is seeking WE lol What's so funny about it? That's having a preference. But I don't need to see it. I expect a man with small cock will not message me." You say you are here to meet a person and not a cock. If you were here to meet a person then take your pick! | |||
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"Do men need to see vagina pictures before they arrange a meet? If they don't see the picture - will they not meet her? I cannot stand cock pictures. I know what one looks like. I'm here to meet a person. Not a cock. Says the lady who is seeking WE lol What's so funny about it? That's having a preference. But I don't need to see it. I expect a man with small cock will not message me. You say you are here to meet a person and not a cock. If you were here to meet a person then take your pick! " Oh, but you won't because you want something else, right? | |||
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"Do men need to see vagina pictures before they arrange a meet? If they don't see the picture - will they not meet her? I cannot stand cock pictures. I know what one looks like. I'm here to meet a person. Not a cock. Says the lady who is seeking WE lol What's so funny about it? That's having a preference. But I don't need to see it. I expect a man with small cock will not message me. You say you are here to meet a person and not a cock. If you were here to meet a person then take your pick! " No, thanks. | |||
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"Do men need to see vagina pictures before they arrange a meet? If they don't see the picture - will they not meet her? I cannot stand cock pictures. I know what one looks like. I'm here to meet a person. Not a cock. Says the lady who is seeking WE lol What's so funny about it? That's having a preference. But I don't need to see it. I expect a man with small cock will not message me. You say you are here to meet a person and not a cock. If you were here to meet a person then take your pick! No, thanks." There ya go | |||
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"Why does nobody get offended by all the vag on display on this site? I don't get it? " Because women can do no wrong | |||
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"Why does nobody get offended by all the vag on display on this site? I don't get it? Because women can do no wrong" Because men are visual. They are the ones who look at porn etc more than women. Naked or gratuitous Pics do nothing for me. We are wired very differently. | |||
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"Why does nobody get offended by all the vag on display on this site? I don't get it? Because women can do no wrong Because men are visual. They are the ones who look at porn etc more than women. Naked or gratuitous Pics do nothing for me. We are wired very differently. " Ever so slightly sweeping generalisation..... | |||
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"Why does nobody get offended by all the vag on display on this site? I don't get it? Because women can do no wrong Because men are visual. They are the ones who look at porn etc more than women. Naked or gratuitous Pics do nothing for me. We are wired very differently. Ever so slightly sweeping generalisation..... " most men!! It’s why many on here want to Skype/video wank chat. On threads like that, mainly men respond. | |||
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"Very few men say no vag pics, many women say no cock pics. Go figure. " | |||
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"Why does nobody get offended by all the vag on display on this site? I don't get it? Because women can do no wrong Because men are visual. They are the ones who look at porn etc more than women. Naked or gratuitous Pics do nothing for me. We are wired very differently. Ever so slightly sweeping generalisation..... " Far more men than women look at porn, indicating men are more visual. There are exceptions, but it does indicate a trend. | |||
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"Why does nobody get offended by all the vag on display on this site? I don't get it? Because women can do no wrong Because men are visual. They are the ones who look at porn etc more than women. Naked or gratuitous Pics do nothing for me. We are wired very differently. Ever so slightly sweeping generalisation..... Far more men than women look at porn, indicating men are more visual. There are exceptions, but it does indicate a trend. " Exactly. My phone used to go mad on a Sunday with men wanting a pic they could wank off to or wanting help getting off. I just close my eyes and use my imagination. No need for visuals etc. | |||
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"Personally I don't really want to see close ups of either. Show me a whole person every time. " yes just let me see a woman. Like I would on the street. That is enough for me to know if I want to go further after chatting. Anymore pictures after that is just for wanking off on and if we are never going to meet, then I don't need it and I am very unlikely to ask for them. | |||
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"Missed the point buddy. A generalisation is a generalisation and that's all I called it. If we used them like that then minorities would be criminals etc, it's just a lazy mindset. I'm not a cock pic type of guy myself but if a guy wants to get his Wang out or a woman wants to show off her cum soaked pussy, then good luck to them it's their choice. One of the women up there whinging about cocks had pics in her public gallery of her barebacking one of these awful cocks... .....not alot changed here since I left.... " I think said person said she doesn’t appreciate being sent them in a message. I totally agree with her. As for her pic, it could be a partner of hers. Nothing wrong with that. Just some of us don’t like unsolicited pics being sent. | |||
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"Do men need to see vagina pictures before they arrange a meet? If they don't see the picture - will they not meet her? I cannot stand cock pictures. I know what one looks like. I'm here to meet a person. Not a cock." Good point Turns the question around And tbh, no, I prefer not seeing vagina pics. Keeps an element of mystery alive Look at Spiderwoman's pics...sensual and flirty...no close ups! | |||
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"Why does nobody get offended by all the vag on display on this site? I don't get it? " They do, but again that's mostly women. | |||
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"Posting this because I can’t be arse to see if I have a dick pic as my avatar " You do | |||
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" I'm here to meet a person. Not a cock." I want to see a cock pic because i’ve had the suprise of meeting men who initially wouldn’t send me a cock pic. Because they were gentleman. Because they were old fashioned blah blah blah. No. The reality was they were below average in the dick size department. And i’m not a size queen, i don’t need a man to be hung like a horse. But i also don’t like being mislead by men saying they are hung like a Richmond Thick sausage, when the reality is very, very different. It’s no different to men rocking up expecting me to be a size 10 when i’m clearly not. Or them telling me they are 6ft 8 when they are really 5ft 1. I am talking from experience. If you’ve not had that experience then i’m chuffed for you, i really am. And it’s a sex site. I’m bound to be interested in their equipment. I always go for winning personality as standard, but i like to see all the goods because when you get down to it, they’ll be fucking me with their cock, not their gentlemanly ways. I don’t care if that makes me sound like a prize cow. It’s how i do things. It works for me. And no, i don’t have a fanny the size of Middle Earth before the funny fuckers get started. | |||
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"Why does nobody get offended by all the vag on display on this site? I don't get it? They do, but again that's mostly women. " And nobody wants to see a half eaten kebab unless it's 1am after a Saturday night out | |||
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"There are thousands of them Click on "new photos" and you're assailed by them Girls...do any of you like looking at them? On most profiles girls say "no" to getting them Lads...why have them so prominant? Like, loads have them as their profile pic I'm pretty relaxed and now and again happy to play with a willy, but jesus, I don't get the gratuitous nature of the pics in many profiles " I have no idea why people want to just put lots of dick pics and nothing else. Are they implying they are not proud of the rest of their body or just a walking hard on? Lol Personally it's important for me to fall in lust with their cocks as well as thier personality. So i like seeing photos. But if they haven't got both, i don't reply. | |||
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"I don't mind dick pics IF I ask to see what they have to offer. However I take exception when they include one as part of their message without asking if I'd like to see their cock. 10 yrs of swinging with avg 5 dick pics per day, and dicks are not pretty." Very much this I like seeing them preferably with the body and face included,but it pisses me off when I get a message with a pic attached,you open it and there it is. No sod off get your dick out of my inbox | |||
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"Posting this because I can’t be arse to see if I have a dick pic as my avatar You do " Yeap!! Isn’t life amazing. | |||
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"Posting this because I can’t be arse to see if I have a dick pic as my avatar You do Yeap!! Isn’t life amazing. " Life is pretty damn sweet | |||
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" I'm here to meet a person. Not a cock. I want to see a cock pic because i’ve had the suprise of meeting men who initially wouldn’t send me a cock pic. Because they were gentleman. Because they were old fashioned blah blah blah. No. The reality was they were below average in the dick size department. And i’m not a size queen, i don’t need a man to be hung like a horse. But i also don’t like being mislead by men saying they are hung like a Richmond Thick sausage, when the reality is very, very different. It’s no different to men rocking up expecting me to be a size 10 when i’m clearly not. Or them telling me they are 6ft 8 when they are really 5ft 1. I am talking from experience. If you’ve not had that experience then i’m chuffed for you, i really am. And it’s a sex site. I’m bound to be interested in their equipment. I always go for winning personality as standard, but i like to see all the goods because when you get down to it, they’ll be fucking me with their cock, not their gentlemanly ways. I don’t care if that makes me sound like a prize cow. It’s how i do things. It works for me. And no, i don’t have a fanny the size of Middle Earth before the funny fuckers get started. " | |||
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"Soo I don't have a dick pic Are we concluding it's good to have one to call upon if required...perhaps in the "friends only" pics...?" IMO yes, other factor's are important to the right attraction | |||
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"I do like looking at willies yes. They are all rather fascinating in their own way. But, I don't need to see one to speak to you,and feel a bit sorry for the men who feel they have to send it in a first message to you to get your interest. I am nosy however and if we are going to meet I would like a look, I am that person that always skims the last chapter of a book first to find out what happens, Im not good with surprises. The male body is nice to look at, and a full on naked picture can excite. Less so the harsh close up, warts n all type pic, but they at least allow for close inspection *where's me specs. So in summary. Yes I like cock pics. And yes I also chose brains and personality over cocks. You are not just a cock (but lets have a look anyway) " That was meant to be a not a . | |||
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"I do like looking at willies yes. They are all rather fascinating in their own way. But, I don't need to see one to speak to you,and feel a bit sorry for the men who feel they have to send it in a first message to you to get your interest. I am nosy however and if we are going to meet I would like a look, I am that person that always skims the last chapter of a book first to find out what happens, Im not good with surprises. The male body is nice to look at, and a full on naked picture can excite. Less so the harsh close up, warts n all type pic, but they at least allow for close inspection *where's me specs. So in summary. Yes I like cock pics. And yes I also chose brains and personality over cocks. You are not just a cock (but lets have a look anyway) " Ok Like that So the perfect "excited" picture would look like...? (If i am going to do this want it to be the i can!) | |||
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"Soo I don't have a dick pic Are we concluding it's good to have one to call upon if required...perhaps in the "friends only" pics...?" Yes | |||
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"Soo I don't have a dick pic Are we concluding it's good to have one to call upon if required...perhaps in the "friends only" pics...?" It has to be your call its your profile, pictures say alot about a person and as they say pictures speak louder than words. Good luck | |||
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"Soo I don't have a dick pic Are we concluding it's good to have one to call upon if required...perhaps in the "friends only" pics...? It has to be your call its your profile, pictures say alot about a person and as they say pictures speak louder than words. Good luck " Of all the profiles your photos are amongst the best...will take inspiration from you! | |||
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"Soo I don't have a dick pic Are we concluding it's good to have one to call upon if required...perhaps in the "friends only" pics...? It has to be your call its your profile, pictures say alot about a person and as they say pictures speak louder than words. Good luck Of all the profiles your photos are amongst the best...will take inspiration from you!" Thanks very much OP that's nice of you to say. I hope they reflect the person I am. X | |||
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"The thing with Fab is, most honestly don't give any thought as to what their target audience wants to see. They then end up uploading totally inappropriate pics that have the reverse effect and instead of attracting the right people, they turn them off. Some occasionally ask for advice on the forums, but get so carried away by suddenly having people reply with advice tips, that they forget what they asked in the first place, think they're 'in there' and after a day or two, they're still no better off and back to complaining about everyone being timewasters. It's not just the content of the photos either, it's how they're lit and composed that makes a difference. Nobody has to have a perfect body to have good pics. You don't have to be size 8, you don't have to be gym fit, you don't have to be 21, you don't have to be DD, or hung, you don't have to be scar-free or stretch-mark free. None of us are professional models. But if you make an effort with your pics, people will take an interest. But the reason why a large percentage of guys post really really shite photos, is because they're having a sneaky wank, looking at their own dick and thinking how magnificent it looks, and assume everyone else will think so too, regardless of what profiles say about not wanting them. " I think many guys/ people are taking care crap selfies. My (friends only) cock shots are crap selfies, which is why I don’t have them as public. | |||
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"Need a cameraman Right Done a pic with my penis on display In 90mins it will go to friends only.. But for now, feedback accepted (On the pic...the cock i can't do anything about!!!)" Lavender, bees and a cock this is going to be good | |||
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"Personally a massive turn off for me, it's like opening a present b4 xmas haha x " I'd rather not be disappointed on Christmas day | |||
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"Need a cameraman Right Done a pic with my penis on display In 90mins it will go to friends only.. But for now, feedback accepted (On the pic...the cock i can't do anything about!!!)" | |||
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