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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do most of you here meet at clubs or do you meet privately after getting to know someone through this site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private meets tried a club it didnt take as i was assaulted by a rogue flying penis to the noggin beware the dangers folks its real

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Private meets tried a club it didnt take as i was assaulted by a rogue flying penis to the noggin beware the dangers folks its real "

Damn man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private,as I'm not into the club scene

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Private is more intimate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had one, it would be private...

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Private

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always club. I've met a few times at home and it just feels really awkward to me. I feel much safer at a club.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We meet privately as we don't go to clubs.

Mr2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly private meets but have met up in a club before .

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Do most of you here meet at clubs or do you meet privately after getting to know someone through this site? "

Both! I love the liberating experience of a club visit but also the intimacy of 1:2:1 meets

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Neither. Social first somewhere in public.

I've no interest in meeting someone in a club. Yep I'd go to a club with someone if I could find him first.

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By *iguyandbbwCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

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By *exi_LexiTV/TS
over a year ago

caerphilly

Club to be sociable and get to know people and maybe a little teaser but home mainly to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private....

It's so much better one to one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Private meets tried a club it didnt take as i was assaulted by a rogue flying penis to the noggin beware the dangers folks its real "

Yep

I still prefer Club meets and club play first though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet privately as easier to get on with peeps. Been to clubs just not met up with anyone there.

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By *iguyandbbwCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Socials at our local club, its a good way to interact and meet people and just see how things work out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to a club chat for a bit social then meet at home or their house

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Here was me thinking that most of you met at clubs.

What am I doing wrong, huh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private meets if any young lady is willing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are boring unless ur getting some sex

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Clubs are boring unless ur getting some sex"

Maybe for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So on the occasions I go to clubs I go to social not to play. So I prefer regular private meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private, we don’t do clubs x

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I've done both and while each is enjoyable in its own right, they have a vastly different feel altogether.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was always private meets, not confident for clubs and hear too many horror stories to even consider one these days.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"was always private meets, not confident for clubs and hear too many horror stories to even consider one these days."

Horror stories?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"was always private meets, not confident for clubs and hear too many horror stories to even consider one these days.

Horror stories? "

guys being too pushy mainly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private meets only.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

As we prefer group sex we go to the club...much easier

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Private for me......I'm rather shy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, depends on what we feel like and how much time we have really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private. Although I have been to a few clubs. But that was socially

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private meets are our preference, generally far better fun, more intense, intimate and non distracting, clubs seem to have a fair share of socialites, voyeurs, fantasists and non mutual players

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private for me. Like to give all my attention to one as i like to have theirs

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Do most of you here meet at clubs or do you meet privately after getting to know someone through this site? "

I didn't think forumites actually met at all?! This is big news!

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Private only

Clubs do not appeal to me at all

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love clubs.

But depends on who when where etc..

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"Here was me thinking that most of you met at clubs.

What am I doing wrong, huh "

You posted this at the wrong time. Those that prefer clubs are all out in clubs right now and not on Fab.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Private for me.

I've yet to find any club where existing members don't have a clique or more, which tend to block out Single Males from even basic conversations!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

private...room...in a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definately private,don't fancy the club thing for various reasons,not least the fact that most clubs charge solo men a fortune to get in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As we live in different countries arranging private meets for when we are together is hard, so we meet in clubs,make friends and sometimes that becomes a private meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had the balls to try a club, they scare the jizz out of me.....

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Private.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Both but I prefer home comforts, so mostly do home meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Private wins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do like to have club meets but much prefer a more personal encounter with a nice guy .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs but regular FBs at home n hotels

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done both but usually privately first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only private so far. I like the intimacy. But never say never to clubs ...

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Have done and had a great time both ways - but on balance prefer the privacy and intimacy of a hotel room where you can relax and have fun in comfort and your own time

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Private meets through Fab, have been far more reliable for me, than the club scene. Visiting a club as a single male can be a confidence-shattering ordeal, and pot luck with regards to who is in at the time

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Both. But go in private rooms in clubs anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private preferably, but would go to a club with someone if she wanted to go as a couple

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Clubs definitely, there's always a good variety of people so you're not just limited to one person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private meets or house parties, but ivd not been invited to the latter.

Won't set foot in a club if pricing isn't equal.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Private meets or house parties, but ivd not been invited to the latter.

Won't set foot in a club if pricing isn't equal."

If the prices were equal they would be full of men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id much prefer private 1 on 1 as im not good with busy crowds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Private meets or house parties, but ivd not been invited to the latter.

Won't set foot in a club if pricing isn't equal."

I dislike that single men pay more than anyone else at events, usually even more than a couple which is actually 2 people(one of which is even a man).

I've met private and even though the pricing isn't fair, I'd still like to try a club once just to know what it's like.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I'm not keen on clubs as I don't like to play with or around people that have been drinking - the last couple of times i've visited clubs there have been people that were steaming d*unk. It's a shame because a club visit brings out my exhibitionist and voyeuristic sides.

I do love the intimacy of private meets though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private. Clubs wouldn’t be for me. Never been to one and can’t see me ever going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Private meets or house parties, but ivd not been invited to the latter.

Won't set foot in a club if pricing isn't equal.

If the prices were equal they would be full of men. "

Not getting into it on this thread, but not necessarily.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Private meets or house parties, but ivd not been invited to the latter.

Won't set foot in a club if pricing isn't equal.

If the prices were equal they would be full of men.

Not getting into it on this thread, but not necessarily. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Private meets or house parties, but ivd not been invited to the latter.

Won't set foot in a club if pricing isn't equal.

I dislike that single men pay more than anyone else at events, usually even more than a couple which is actually 2 people(one of which is even a man).

I've met private and even though the pricing isn't fair, I'd still like to try a club once just to know what it's like."

shop about.. some treat men a little fairer than others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either suits me.

I love arranging going to an event and seeing the guest list.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Both

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Both.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both for us x

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Private. Clubs don't appeal to me in any way.

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By *reamytitwankCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We like both. Perfect scenario is get to know people at a club then invite them to ours for a meet. That way you know you get on etc...

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We find clubs easier to meet other couples ,we can see them both and have a drink and chat to see how we get on .

Private meets of we use our single profiles.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private meets. Never been to a club.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Private, but not visited a club for comparison purposes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Private meets or house parties, but ivd not been invited to the latter.

Won't set foot in a club if pricing isn't equal.

If the prices were equal they would be full of men.

Not getting into it on this thread, but not necessarily. "

It would be full of men and many that don’t understand club etiquette. I’ve seen it at a few places that are cheap to go to for all and I would never return.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Done clubs ...but find entertaining at home ...hot tub etc is how we roll...why rush an evening of fun.....

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Clubs every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs first, then private if I've previously played and feel safe.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Clubs first, but it can depend on who I'm meeting and how well I know them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

private. Unless a club owner could provide empirical evidence that every single surface is disinfected from every scrap of spunk, jizz, juice and bodily fluids, I'd avoid it like the plague. Literally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Private meets or house parties, but ivd not been invited to the latter.

Won't set foot in a club if pricing isn't equal.

If the prices were equal they would be full of men.

Not getting into it on this thread, but not necessarily.

It would be full of men and many that don’t understand club etiquette. I’ve seen it at a few places that are cheap to go to for all and I would never return. "

Again, not necessarily, but not going into detail on this thread.

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

Both

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Do most of you here meet at clubs or do you meet privately after getting to know someone through this site? "
I only meet in clubs.. have done so for years and years.... i feel safer and plus my kids are at home. Havent met at home in over 12 years

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

Prefer clubs initially.great place for a first meet, plenty of others around to chat to if no show or not hit it off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Private meets or house parties, but ivd not been invited to the latter.

Won't set foot in a club if pricing isn't equal.

If the prices were equal they would be full of men.

Not getting into it on this thread, but not necessarily.

It would be full of men and many that don’t understand club etiquette. I’ve seen it at a few places that are cheap to go to for all and I would never return.

Again, not necessarily, but not going into detail on this thread. "

That’s fine. It happens in normal clubs, to try to get more women in. I go places that have ladies night and free drinks for women. It’s been happening for a long time in the nightclub business.

I don’t go to swinging clubs where there are many single guys. Usually couples and single women only as I only go with a partner. The one where there are single guys, they only let 4 in max. If it was the same price, it would be like fab and overrun with horny guys and no women. I certainly wouldn’t go. Just like swinging sites, I prefer the ones that charge a membership or fee to join.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

clubs for me, little free time & I like to make the most of it. the option of meeting outside (& I have done with a few) once ive met someone is always there.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

It's clubs for us, we like the atmosphere and music. We'll spend 6 hours in a club, but certainly aren't having sex for 6 hours. We'll have a drink and bust some moves on the dance floor that vanilla clubs wouldn't allow

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Both have their own merit; 1:2:1 obviously creates a very intimate scenario of enjoying each other’s company in private setting. Clubs are like sweet shops! A bit pick and mix every time is different but exciting !

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I prefer to meet privately

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"private. Unless a club owner could provide empirical evidence that every single surface is disinfected from every scrap of spunk, jizz, juice and bodily fluids, I'd avoid it like the plague. Literally."

The hygiene thought is what puts me off too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer private meets. Clubs have never appealed to me but everyone to there own.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Mainly private meets because we find clubs to be full of cliques

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Clubs don't appeal to me, but getting a private meet isn't easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it easier in clubs. That said I have met people privately. I do find the sifting and messaging time consuming though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"private. Unless a club owner could provide empirical evidence that every single surface is disinfected from every scrap of spunk, jizz, juice and bodily fluids, I'd avoid it like the plague. Literally.

The hygiene thought is what puts me off too. "

I’ve never felt it was a problem. Maybe I went to a smaller club where the hygiene was pretty good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Neither. Social first somewhere in public.

I've no interest in meeting someone in a club. Yep I'd go to a club with someone if I could find him first. "

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"private. Unless a club owner could provide empirical evidence that every single surface is disinfected from every scrap of spunk, jizz, juice and bodily fluids, I'd avoid it like the plague. Literally."

Same. I'd like to go into one with one of those CSI ultra violet light thingies though, see if the place looks like a Jackson Pollock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"private. Unless a club owner could provide empirical evidence that every single surface is disinfected from every scrap of spunk, jizz, juice and bodily fluids, I'd avoid it like the plague. Literally."

. Are you me in disguise?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried the local working mens club but i got funny looks. So now i disappoint in private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

omg... i so am....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can you imagine the amount of jizz, cum, piss and...dare I say it... shit that gets sprayed around..?

Tons of fun while it's happening, but when it happens at my house, I'm busy next day with a bottle of bleach and a pair of marigolds.... (form a queue, ladies...)

I very much doubt the clubs are as diligent..

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

Private meet for us. Can take a little time but always had fun meets with lovely people

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By *inks_apeyCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

My preference is clubs/socials firstly to meet new people then to play if it all works out. Have do home meets but I find them more awkward kinks xx

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

Private meet for us. Can take a little time but always had fun meets with lovely people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer private meets, with a social somewhere neutral first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started with private meets. Then I discovered the club world. It suits me and my lifestyle much better and I prefer it so now I only meet and play at clubs.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Both, but mainly clubs as we’ve kinda given up on meeting people from Fab! But we do still have private meets with regular friends

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Mixture of both ...

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Neither. Parties, meet people in person, meet again if we like each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer private socials first but I have been to a club recently and really enjoyed it, unfortunately there wasnt many hot men there.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Private meets mainly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done both but atm prefer to meet at a club...Chams is soo friendly if we end up playing its a bonus but not essential..having said that feeling like we need some loving...

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By *inkflower_redthornCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We like to meet socially in a club and play privertly at home or there house xx

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