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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Other people’s jizz, shitty arse hairs and lady vag gloop bubbling away like some disgusting sex soup in the swinging club hot tubs ..

What else makes you think twice about swinging?

It’s just for fun ladies and gents...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Some of the photo's or messages I receive,puts you right off.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

The act of sex no longer special.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Some of the photo's or messages I receive,puts you right off."

Quite.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Some of the photo's or messages I receive,puts you right off."

But that’s not just reserved for here, dating sites do that too

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Some of the photo's or messages I receive,puts you right off.

But that’s not just reserved for here, dating sites do that too "

The smell and feel of someone can make or break the experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Other people’s jizz, shitty arse hairs and lady vag gloop bubbling away like some disgusting sex soup in the swinging club hot tubs ..

What else makes you think twice about swinging?

It’s just for fun ladies and gents... "

Ugh the above would yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single men that follow you around the club trying to wear you down after you've said no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont share well never have i tried before it was a disaster

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Attitudes put me off.

The single guy who tells me he would never dream of suggesting swinging to a partner of his as if it's something not quite nice just after he's asked to meet attitude.

The you must be doing this because your husband can't satisfy you attitude.

The you can't really love each other attitude.

I could go on but I'm boring myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of the photo's or messages I receive,puts you right off."

I already apoligised for those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single men that follow you around the club trying to wear you down after you've said no."

Weird fuckers them knocking one out at the side of your head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cleanliness and the thought of getting down and dirty in a room full of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How some people look down on single guys on here.Self importance and obnoxious arrogance because they have or own a pussy.Ive never come across a place with so many egotistical people than the swinging scene.Women and couples are top of the tree and the men are the scum on the floor bellow them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lady vag gloop bubbling away like some disgusting sex soup in the swinging club hot tubs"

Dr...Dr Seuss?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How some people look down on single guys on here.Self importance and obnoxious arrogance because they have or own a pussy.Ive never come across a place with so many egotistical people than the swinging scene.Women and couples are top of the tree and the men are the scum on the floor bellow them.

"

Please don't tar us all with the same brush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single men that follow you around the club trying to wear you down after you've said no.

Weird fuckers them knocking one out at the side of your head "

I don't think I have had that happen, but I have had blokes try and force their cock in my mouth without so much as a "Hello" beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single men that follow you around the club trying to wear you down after you've said no.

Weird fuckers them knocking one out at the side of your head

I don't think I have had that happen, but I have had blokes try and force their cock in my mouth without so much as a "Hello" beforehand "

There like pigeons around someone eating a fish butty no respect for personal space

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How some people look down on single guys on here.Self importance and obnoxious arrogance because they have or own a pussy.Ive never come across a place with so many egotistical people than the swinging scene.Women and couples are top of the tree and the men are the scum on the floor bellow them.

Please don't tar us all with the same brush "

I'm not as there are some lovely people on here and that makes it worth while staying.There the ones that show how bad the arrogant deluded are.Im not saying all are the same as that's not the case but it's common knowledge that the ego boost some get from the attention in the swinging world as turned a lot of couples and women into obnoxious arrogant idiots.Maybe it's because they don't get the same attention in real life they they get in the swinging world so getting seedy chat up lines and desperate begs as either fed there ego or tainted there view of all men but either way there's no need for the amount of the self importance arrogance that goes on in the swinging scene.I think a lot of people have forgot it should be about fun smiles and even making friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There like pigeons around someone eating a fish butty no respect for personal space"

For me that's a very funny and accurate description

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There like pigeons around someone eating a fish butty no respect for personal space

For me that's a very funny and accurate description "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something else that puts me off are the individuals who think just because I'm on a "sex site" that I have no choice in the matter. If I'm lucky enough for them to contact me, sex is a done deal, that I'll drive all the way over to their empty house just for their pleasure and all this from an initial email that says "Hi x".

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

The expectation for you to be a dirty bitch 24/7, 365 days a year.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"Other people’s jizz, shitty arse hairs and lady vag gloop bubbling away like some disgusting sex soup in the swinging club hot tubs ..

What else makes you think twice about swinging?

It’s just for fun ladies and gents... "
exactly this and also men not washing Thier after BB some puntas asshole and expect you to suck on it

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"Other people’s jizz, shitty arse hairs and lady vag gloop bubbling away like some disgusting sex soup in the swinging club hot tubs ..

What else makes you think twice about swinging?

It’s just for fun ladies and gents... exactly this and also men not washing Thier after BB some puntas asshole and expect you to suck on it "
cocks *

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By *ust TL nowMan
over a year ago

Durham

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By *ust TL nowMan
over a year ago

Durham

People thinking you'll fuck anyone and anything !!

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Sti & Std's. Although we play safe nothing is 100% safe. It's always in the back if our minds.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Some of the photo's or messages I receive,puts you right off.

I already apoligised for those. "

Not forgiven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of the photo's or messages I receive,puts you right off.

Quite. "

I agree on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The expectation for you to be a dirty bitch 24/7, 365 days a year."

This

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Nothing yet

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

the arrogance and ignorance of "some people", take that as you will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it's a little bit hypocritical as I recently moved from single profile to couples but the mass amount of single guys. I couldn't believe some of the messages we got within a small space of time. The thirst is real

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Some of the photo's or messages I receive,puts you right off.

But that’s not just reserved for here, dating sites do that too "

This is true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not know. Because women do not want to meet me.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Nothing has put me off so far.

But I've had a few "WTF I am doing here?" moments

Usually involves people with entitlement issues

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"How some people look down on single guys on here.Self importance and obnoxious arrogance because they have or own a pussy.Ive never come across a place with so many egotistical people than the swinging scene.Women and couples are top of the tree and the men are the scum on the floor bellow them.

"

Sometimes you get a right craving for scum though

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Something else that puts me off are the individuals who think just because I'm on a "sex site" that I have no choice in the matter. If I'm lucky enough for them to contact me, sex is a done deal, that I'll drive all the way over to their empty house just for their pleasure and all this from an initial email that says "Hi x". "

I have friends who are sex workers. You should see the outrage when some realise that sex workers don't have to sleep with everyone who offers them money either.

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