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By *innie The Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Right, I've got to go have a serious conversation with my ex in around half an hour,oh joy

Two issues-1)He isn't the most reasonable of people and 2) I want to pan his head in!

What hints it tips do you good people have to keep things on an even keel?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Breathe just breathe,good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isnt putting people under the patteo the done thing in liverpool anymore?

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I have the same problem

I just breathe and smile

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Isnt putting people under the patteo the done thing in liverpool anymore? "

Ooooo, shots fired

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By *urning the kinkMan
over a year ago

bristol


"Right, I've got to go have a serious conversation with my ex in around half an hour,oh joy

Two issues-1)He isn't the most reasonable of people and 2) I want to pan his head in!

What hints it tips do you good people have to keep things on an even keel?

"

Be as nice as possible

Don't get angry

Play it cool

Think before you answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knowing staying calm makes them angry!!

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

He may be thinking the same thing though...

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Club hammers are presently selling at a reduced price in Screwfix at the moment.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick to the agenda. Keep it clean simple and don't get ruffled .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stick to the agenda. Keep it clean simple and don't get ruffled ."
sounds like a business planning session

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By *innie The Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Isnt putting people under the patteo the done thing in liverpool anymore? "

There's no more room lol

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

Pause

Think

Deep breath

And count to 3 before you answer....if it irritates you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isnt putting people under the patteo the done thing in liverpool anymore?

There's no more room lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drink tea.

Maybe take some cake or biscuits too.

Nobody gets angry with a brew in one hand and a slice of cake in the other.

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

bolton


"Right, I've got to go have a serious conversation with my ex in around half an hour,oh joy

Two issues-1)He isn't the most reasonable of people and 2) I want to pan his head in!

What hints it tips do you good people have to keep things on an even keel?

"

Fix your faults

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By *innie The Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Right, I've got to go have a serious conversation with my ex in around half an hour,oh joy

Two issues-1)He isn't the most reasonable of people and 2) I want to pan his head in!

What hints it tips do you good people have to keep things on an even keel?

Be as nice as possible

Don't get angry

Play it cool

Think before you answer

"

Yep, good sensible advice, thank you

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By *innie The Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"He may be thinking the same thing though... "

Possibly so...two sides to every story and all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have it in a public place where a scene is less likely to be caused?

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By *innie The Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Thanks all, it went surprisingly well. We both managed to have a civilised and productive conversation and iron some things out.

Result

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all, it went surprisingly well. We both managed to have a civilised and productive conversation and iron some things out.

Result "

good

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By *il FiskMan
over a year ago

sefton

Groovy, now. Wellies off and get a brew on!!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Know what you want to say, pause, breathe, think before answering and come back, don’t get lead off track of the purpose of the conversation, try to stay calm

If that doesn’t work, walk away and put it all in an email

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all, it went surprisingly well. We both managed to have a civilised and productive conversation and iron some things out.

Result "
you ironed him out i knew he was going under the pattio

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