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Is Kissing Weird?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all

A bit of a random one but I’d like to know your thoughts on kissing whilst on a meet.

Is it weird to kiss whilst fucking someone you meet on fab as it’s quite sensual?

Do you prefer to just get straight to the kinky stuff?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ermmm kissing is kind of a must

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

No kissing, no meet, it really is that simple for us, but then we want more than just a fuck buddy.

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing, I feel there's not enough interest in it these days

Feel free to drop me a message if anyone fancies kissing fun only sometime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It'd be way weirder not to. I couldn't without the kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing, deep passionate kissing is an absolute must.

It really gets me turned on nicely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me kissing is a no no on a meet, if I kiss I will start to get the feeling lol so no kissing for me

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By *ll That Ass 67Woman
over a year ago

Kettering

Peck on the cheek or lips at a social meet but definitely yes , I love kissing, the more passionate the better ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t kiss anyone we meet only each other we see that as a more intimate thing. So we just stick to the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is foreplay

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By *un with carolineCouple
over a year ago

Dumfries

Love kissing during penetration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is everything, especially when you are meeting for the first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fucking without kissing... might Aswell be fucking a pocket pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weird question, OP.

If he's not a good kisser, there won't be any sex.

Simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a good kiss. You can tell so much from a kiss. For me kissing can be the best foreplay xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all

A bit of a random one but I’d like to know your thoughts on kissing whilst on a meet.

Is it weird to kiss whilst fucking someone you meet on fab as it’s quite sensual?

Do you prefer to just get straight to the kinky stuff? "
How is it weird kissing is sex? No kissing no sex for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing = No passion = No point

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Agree no kissing no point BUT found half our meets dont for whatever reason maybe they think we dont as some couples dont as its too intimate ,but even if they are not the best kisser its still makes me feel nicer than just getting down to it ,but would never force anyone ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh kissing is the spark that ignites passion . It's essential

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my goodness kissing is crucial. ..i love kissing.. I would happily kiss for hours...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the attraction you have for that person.

If you see that person as genitals that can do the job, I guess kissing will seem weird.

But if you are attracted to the person's face then kissing become sort of mandatory.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

As long as they keep their tongue to themself I'm ok with it

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

I only enjoy kissing before, after and the bit in the middle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she doesnt kiss i wouldnt even consider meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the attraction you have for that person.

If you see that person as genitals that can do the job, I guess kissing will seem weird.

But if you are attracted to the person's face then kissing become sort of mandatory. "
what if you fancy her arse is it mandatory to kiss that?

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Has to be done can't beat kissing its what drives the gears for what will be happening later on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the attraction you have for that person.

If you see that person as genitals that can do the job, I guess kissing will seem weird.

But if you are attracted to the person's face then kissing become sort of mandatory. what if you fancy her arse is it mandatory to kiss that? "

Obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a must for us...yes its sensual but why let a stranger kiss your most intimate parts and not on the mouth..

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By *aughtyNipplesWoman
over a year ago

newport, shrops

I'm a fan of the kissing

...I definitely need it as the attraction and connection is what turns me on, kissing plays a big part towards that.

I am though, surprised at the men's comments on here...almost all have said yes to needing kissing

...I really thought men would be more 'nah sod that, happy to just fuck' viewpoint

...talk about me making an assumption there!!!! Sorry guys!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Really gets me going. I'd struggle without.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need kissing and lots of it. If the kissing is crap it would never go further.

But then I only do intimate encounters. I generally only see people I know will become repeat meets, I need the passion and desire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a warm up, Let's be honest if the kissing is crap then for the sex isn't going to be much better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and to put things into perspective I drove a 5 hour round trip yesterday morning just for a kiss cuddle and coffee

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Kissing, deep passionate kissing is an absolute must.

It really gets me turned on nicely. "

this for me

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I agree with what a lot of others have said in here. If there is no kissing then it won't go any father than just coffee.I wouldn't meet someone if they said they don't kiss. Kissing is too important to me it's what shows if you have chemistry. If the kiss doesn't work then I won't want to have sex with that person.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Oh and to put things into perspective I drove a 5 hour round trip yesterday morning just for a kiss cuddle and coffee "

That's quite a journey but worth it I'd say for the good stuff

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

No kissing on a meet is not weird for us it essential. What we think is weird are those who say no kissing.

Each to their own we guess.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

We love kissing. I did get a bit weird once with one lady I see my hubby kiss while fucking (didn’t mind any other time) but I soon got over it as I love being kissed while being fucked, and what’s good for the goose etc!

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

If I am attracted to someone, we will kiss long before we get anywhere with a bed. If not, we will never get anywhere with a bed.

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By *ay4realstr8TV/TS
over a year ago

hoyland

I really don’t like kissing .... I see most of you do however so maybe I need to rethink that

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"Oh and to put things into perspective I drove a 5 hour round trip yesterday morning just for a kiss cuddle and coffee

That's quite a journey but worth it I'd say for the good stuff"

Good to hear. I was going to ask you today how it went after seeing you’d put yesterday you had a long drive for a coffee! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and to put things into perspective I drove a 5 hour round trip yesterday morning just for a kiss cuddle and coffee

That's quite a journey but worth it I'd say for the good stuff"

Well I had him in bed all weekend so I knew he was worth it. but I was feeling a bit sad and he said he wished he could give me a kiss and cuddle so I drove for my kiss and cuddle

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I really don’t like kissing .... I see most of you do however so maybe I need to rethink that "

don't like kissing g anyone or just meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love all the answers, often wonder peoples preferences

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

Kissing is nearly a kink for me. Absolutely essential.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing....Kelly

If they wont or cant kiss thats it kissing os a massive turn on for me and something im amazing at.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Oh and to put things into perspective I drove a 5 hour round trip yesterday morning just for a kiss cuddle and coffee

That's quite a journey but worth it I'd say for the good stuff

Well I had him in bed all weekend so I knew he was worth it. but I was feeling a bit sad and he said he wished he could give me a kiss and cuddle so I drove for my kiss and cuddle "

Like that... it's good to be impulsive and what's distance between friends. sounds like a lovely weekend too

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By *ay4realstr8TV/TS
over a year ago

hoyland


"I really don’t like kissing .... I see most of you do however so maybe I need to rethink that

don't like kissing g anyone or just meets? "

Meets but tbh in general it’s always just felt .. I dunno wired.. I can’t explain it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had one meet where he didn't kiss...never again!

It's all part of the build up for me. Gets the juices flowing

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I really don’t like kissing .... I see most of you do however so maybe I need to rethink that

don't like kissing g anyone or just meets?

Meets but tbh in general it’s always just felt .. I dunno wired.. I can’t explain it "
kissing can be pretty hot or a bit if a turn off. Maybe you just haven't met the one yet

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London


"Hi all

A bit of a random one but I’d like to know your thoughts on kissing whilst on a meet.

Is it weird to kiss whilst fucking someone you meet on fab as it’s quite sensual?

Do you prefer to just get straight to the kinky stuff? "

Good question this..

My view, especially for a meet or date, incredibly sensual; fundamental to awesome sex. Full package not received if no kissing so no problem either if a lady doesn't consent. I'll simply respect that boundary. Less likely to have sex though if no initial contact by kissing. I won't just kiss anybody either. On the flip side though, especially with a regular partner, quickies without kissing can be highly sexually charged moments.

xx

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By *ay4realstr8TV/TS
over a year ago

hoyland


"I really don’t like kissing .... I see most of you do however so maybe I need to rethink that

don't like kissing g anyone or just meets?

Meets but tbh in general it’s always just felt .. I dunno wired.. I can’t explain it kissing can be pretty hot or a bit if a turn off. Maybe you just haven't met the one yet"

I think it’s that awkwardness right before, like do I lean left or right do I slightly open mouth or keep shut, there’s just too much thinking and not enough just kissing I think in my mind anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all

A bit of a random one but I’d like to know your thoughts on kissing whilst on a meet.

Is it weird to kiss whilst fucking someone you meet on fab as it’s quite sensual?

Do you prefer to just get straight to the kinky stuff?

Good question this..

My view, especially for a meet or date, incredibly sensual; fundamental to awesome sex. Full package not received if no kissing so no problem either if a lady doesn't consent. I'll simply respect that boundary. Less likely to have sex though if no initial contact by kissing. I won't just kiss anybody either. On the flip side though, especially with a regular partner, quickies without kissing can be highly sexually charged moments.

xx"

Agreed with this fully and believe kissing is the essential final test that there is chemistry. Things might have been going awesome up to the kiss, but an awkward passionless kiss could bring a premature end to the night. Kisding is as much fun if not more fun than every single other part of a meet, imo

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I like to have a good kiss and a snog during a meet. ..it adds to the build up and sexual tension and also very erotic during fucking too

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I really don’t like kissing .... I see most of you do however so maybe I need to rethink that

don't like kissing g anyone or just meets?

Meets but tbh in general it’s always just felt .. I dunno wired.. I can’t explain it kissing can be pretty hot or a bit if a turn off. Maybe you just haven't met the one yet

I think it’s that awkwardness right before, like do I lean left or right do I slightly open mouth or keep shut, there’s just too much thinking and not enough just kissing I think in my mind anyway"

that's the thing don't over think take your time and just feel it..don't rush it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing no kinky stuff as you say

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By *ay4realstr8TV/TS
over a year ago

hoyland


"I really don’t like kissing .... I see most of you do however so maybe I need to rethink that

don't like kissing g anyone or just meets?

Meets but tbh in general it’s always just felt .. I dunno wired.. I can’t explain it kissing can be pretty hot or a bit if a turn off. Maybe you just haven't met the one yet

I think it’s that awkwardness right before, like do I lean left or right do I slightly open mouth or keep shut, there’s just too much thinking and not enough just kissing I think in my mind anyway

that's the thing don't over think take your time and just feel it..don't rush it x"

My next kiss I’ll be thinking of you now! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, kissing is quite essential during a meet. It feels weird without it.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I really don’t like kissing .... I see most of you do however so maybe I need to rethink that

don't like kissing g anyone or just meets?

Meets but tbh in general it’s always just felt .. I dunno wired.. I can’t explain it kissing can be pretty hot or a bit if a turn off. Maybe you just haven't met the one yet

I think it’s that awkwardness right before, like do I lean left or right do I slightly open mouth or keep shut, there’s just too much thinking and not enough just kissing I think in my mind anyway

that's the thing don't over think take your time and just feel it..don't rush it x

My next kiss I’ll be thinking of you now! Lol "

I'm happy to be inspiration but you just concentrate on that kiss

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By *ay4realstr8TV/TS
over a year ago

hoyland


"I really don’t like kissing .... I see most of you do however so maybe I need to rethink that

don't like kissing g anyone or just meets?

Meets but tbh in general it’s always just felt .. I dunno wired.. I can’t explain it kissing can be pretty hot or a bit if a turn off. Maybe you just haven't met the one yet

I think it’s that awkwardness right before, like do I lean left or right do I slightly open mouth or keep shut, there’s just too much thinking and not enough just kissing I think in my mind anyway

that's the thing don't over think take your time and just feel it..don't rush it x

My next kiss I’ll be thinking of you now! Lol

I'm happy to be inspiration but you just concentrate on that kiss "

I’ll try

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"fucking without kissing... might Aswell be fucking a pocket pussy "

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

Kissing is a must for me on a meet social or otherwise. Mr goes to the loo in the pub that's my cue to hopefully get a snog...sometimes he goes to "the loo" a lot if I wink at him as he knows I enjoyed so want more.

During fun it's a necessity..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing no meet it really is that simple for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is essential, the more passionate the better!

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

Kissing is the best

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Depends.

A good kiss, yes.

A face wash, biting, tongue down throat kiss, no.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We can't really imagine sex without kissing. It's a vital part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All for kissing without it its just not as much fun.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't kiss our meets although we completely respect people who do. It's not that we find it weird, we just don't want to.

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

Kissing tells me everything I need to know about the connection I have with a person it’s the sweetest or most passionate kisses that can take me to the best of places in my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loves a good sensual snog x

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley


"Hi all

A bit of a random one but I’d like to know your thoughts on kissing whilst on a meet.

Is it weird to kiss whilst fucking someone you meet on fab as it’s quite sensual?

Do you prefer to just get straight to the kinky stuff? "

I love kissing ! It’s a huge turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all starts with kissing. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must ! I wouldn’t meet someone that didn’t xxx

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Hi all

A bit of a random one but I’d like to know your thoughts on kissing whilst on a meet.

Is it weird to kiss whilst fucking someone you meet on fab as it’s quite sensual?

Do you prefer to just get straight to the kinky stuff? "

Is this a trick question? Everything starts and ends with a kiss. It's the chief primer, the act that oils the gears of lust and passion Sex without kissing is like a half cooked meal, a cake without the delicious covering, a G&T without the tonic. It's not the same without it! When done well it takes the experience to a whole other level!

Summer horn. Don't mind me

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

There has to be kissing, the passion and the energy just isn't the same without it... Gotta love someone that knows how to kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing makes it more passionate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both love kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing = no meet for me. I’ve only had one meet with one couple where there was no kissing as they only kissed each other. Made me completely feel used and like a spare part so I’ll never do it again. It’s an essential part of the build up to sex and yes it’s an intimate act but so is sex in general.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I love kissing when fucking. The first gentle and explorative kiss where you can feel your lust for the other mirrored in the way they kiss you. The teasing kiss as he first enters you and that soft gasp as the sensations build. The more lustful, frenzied kissing with the odd gentle lip bite as the tempo builds heightens my arousal and gets me wetter. Kissing is a major turn on for me and with a good kisser the sex can be explosive.

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

I find it odd that some people won't kiss. Smooshing your genitals together is fine, but your mouths touching is too intimate...? I don't get it. I respect that choice, it's just not for me. Kissing is an awesome part of sexy time, a total lack of it would be an immediate deal-breaker for me.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I love kissing when fucking. The first gentle and explorative kiss where you can feel your lust for the other mirrored in the way they kiss you. The teasing kiss as he first enters you and that soft gasp as the sensations build. The more lustful, frenzied kissing with the odd gentle lip bite as the tempo builds heightens my arousal and gets me wetter. Kissing is a major turn on for me and with a good kisser the sex can be explosive."

Summer horn here as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love kissing when fucking. The first gentle and explorative kiss where you can feel your lust for the other mirrored in the way they kiss you. The teasing kiss as he first enters you and that soft gasp as the sensations build. The more lustful, frenzied kissing with the odd gentle lip bite as the tempo builds heightens my arousal and gets me wetter. Kissing is a major turn on for me and with a good kisser the sex can be explosive."

I just jizzed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing for me is how it all starts.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Don't look at me, I don't write like that on threads like this

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I really wouldn’t want to meet anyone I didn’t want to kiss the face off, I love kissing so much it’s s must for me on a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think not kissing is much weirder...

Yet what others choose is their decision to make....

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Kissing is essential to me as wakes up all the senses. You can read so much about the mood and tempo from a kiss

I can’t imagine ever going on a meet and not kissing !

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I love kissing when fucking. The first gentle and explorative kiss where you can feel your lust for the other mirrored in the way they kiss you. The teasing kiss as he first enters you and that soft gasp as the sensations build. The more lustful, frenzied kissing with the odd gentle lip bite as the tempo builds heightens my arousal and gets me wetter. Kissing is a major turn on for me and with a good kisser the sex can be explosive."

This ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is an absolute must. Why would you not want a guy to kiss you but let him fuck you? Makes no sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all

A bit of a random one but I’d like to know your thoughts on kissing whilst on a meet.

Is it weird to kiss whilst fucking someone you meet on fab as it’s quite sensual? Yeah the kiss let's you know how its going to go!!! The kiss is the info for what lies ahead! Ha

Do you prefer to just get straight to the kinky stuff? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love kissing when fucking. The first gentle and explorative kiss where you can feel your lust for the other mirrored in the way they kiss you. The teasing kiss as he first enters you and that soft gasp as the sensations build. The more lustful, frenzied kissing with the odd gentle lip bite as the tempo builds heightens my arousal and gets me wetter. Kissing is a major turn on for me and with a good kisser the sex can be explosive.

This ^ "
definitely!!!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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Kissing is essential for me - from that first kiss that confirms your lust for each other, to the passion being unleashed when you move to more private surroundings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all

A bit of a random one but I’d like to know your thoughts on kissing whilst on a meet.

Is it weird to kiss whilst fucking someone you meet on fab as it’s quite sensual? Yeah the kiss let's you know how its going to go!!! The kiss is the info for what lies ahead! Ha

Do you prefer to just get straight to the kinky stuff? "
I prefer kissing then yeah definitely

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Absolutely adore kissing and can, and have, completely lost myself in just that act alone - from those first tentative brushes of the lips, to that tender probing of the tongue to full on mouths locked euphoric snogging where the world around you just blurs.

Kissing is what sets the tone and the mood for me, so one without kissing wouldn't be for me.

That said I totally respect the preferences of those that prefer not to kiss just as I would respect any other boundary people may have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really enjoy kissing, i do find it odd at first but can be so erotic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely adore kissing and can, and have, completely lost myself in just that act alone - from those first tentative brushes of the lips, to that tender probing of the tongue to full on mouths locked euphoric snogging where the world around you just blurs.

Kissing is what sets the tone and the mood for me, so one without kissing wouldn't be for me.

That said I totally respect the preferences of those that prefer not to kiss just as I would respect any other boundary people may have."

The intimacy, the build, the passion and desire that can come from it, the feeling like you're the only 2 people in the world at that moment and nobody else matters....

And that's why I struggle watching B kiss others or thinking about it. I attach that memory and feeling to it. Selfishly I want that feeling to be for me alone.

P

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Kissing is a major turn on for me and with a good kisser the sex can be explosive.

Summer horn here as well "

Ssssh, I'm hiding it so well unlike some.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I no longer kiss

Kissing I would reserve for a boyfriend

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Oh my I could totally do the kissing and nothing else. I love it sooo much.

Could never do the everything else without the kissing though

Lex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kissing = No passion = No point"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thought of no kissing completely turns me off. I’d rather be celibate.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.


"Oh and to put things into perspective I drove a 5 hour round trip yesterday morning just for a kiss cuddle and coffee "

Reminds me of a quote from Mary Shelley's Dracula. "I have travelled across aeons of time to be with you", as he bares his fangs.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

There has to be kissing

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

Kissing is a must for us, it’s all part of a slow and sensual build up . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must, its not gonna happen without it.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I love kissing, but know where the op is coming from .. I do ask, especially with kissing the guys wife

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Kissing is a major turn on for me and with a good kisser the sex can be explosive.

Summer horn here as well

Ssssh, I'm hiding it so well unlike some. "

I'm not sure either of you are

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Kissing is a must, stokes the fires for all other passion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing is a deal breaker for me

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

You can tell a lot from the kissing , might not go any further if it’s not the best .. Essential

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Even on dogging meets my wife would insist on kissing. If a guy didn’t want to kiss he went without anything at all.

Because lots of guys thought that the randomness and illicit nature of dogging was ok as they were married, there were always a few who just wanted to unload and go. They only got to do so with their own hand, as my wife wouldn’t do a thing with guys like that.

Made me smile really as I guess they thought they could use a woman for relief without any real meaning if they didn’t kiss!

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

It's the tongue thing that people try and do...

ewww it grosses me right out

...ewwww...ewwww... and more ewwww

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It's the tongue thing that people try and do...

ewww it grosses me right out

...ewwww...ewwww... and more ewwww"

Oh god there has to be tongue!

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

Surely I'd of thought that there has to be some form of kissing....would it not feel a little robotic, non involved and weird without??

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By *ucklingsCouple
over a year ago

Rugby

I love kissing!!!! A good long kiss and wandering hands

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall


"It's the tongue thing that people try and do...

ewww it grosses me right out

...ewwww...ewwww... and more ewwww

Oh god there has to be tongue! "

oh goodness ...no...no..no lol .. I like a good kiss but no.....just no lol

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian


"I love kissing!!!! A good long kiss and wandering hands "

Wandering hands ... oh yes yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be outta there if there isn't enough chemistry to kiss. Can you imagine how crap the sex would be if you don't even want to go near each other's mouths?

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

Can't beat a good snog and also it's important to kiss goodbye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing tells you a lot about someone in my opinion

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By *ames in LaoisMan
over a year ago

portloaise

I'd find it weird to have no kissing. Would make it seem very clinical and cold, when the build up and passion is what adds to the heat. Kissing is an essential part for me

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London


"Kissing is a must for me on a meet social or otherwise. Mr goes to the loo in the pub that's my cue to hopefully get a snog...sometimes he goes to "the loo" a lot if I wink at him as he knows I enjoyed so want more.

During fun it's a necessity.. "

Brilliant. I've recently picked up a few tips on how to approach couples in both social meets and vanilla environments and sure as hell can't wait to test them out. Made easier no doubt when the hubby goes to the bathroom of course. x

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London


"It's the tongue thing that people try and do...

ewww it grosses me right out

...ewwww...ewwww... and more ewwww

Oh god there has to be tongue! "

Personally, I'm not thrilled with tongues but will reciprocate gently to chill the kiss back to sensual level. I refuse outright too though to have my face sucked which bizarrely happens and which is an awful experience.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I wouldn't be having sex if there was no kissing, it's where it all starts for me!

I can understand couples prefer to keep it between themselves though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't be having sex if there was no kissing, it's where it all starts for me!

I can understand couples prefer to keep it between themselves though. "
Sharing is caring and a 3 way smooch is so sensual and erotic

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I wouldn't be having sex if there was no kissing, it's where it all starts for me!

I can understand couples prefer to keep it between themselves though. "

I truly can’t understand it.

Some say they like to keep kissing as something to be special for just each other. Yet they happily place their lips on the genitals of those they play with, and enjoy penetration and orgasm with other people! I’ve never understood the concept that you can do all this, but not kiss someone else on the lips.

And I don’t think I ever will.

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

Kissing is a must for me. No point otherwise. Brings passion. Theres only one woman who's kisses have blew my mind and I'll be meeting her for more very soon!!

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Kissing is a must for me. You can tell a lot about a person from theirs

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By *randonStarkMan
over a year ago

Surrey

It's a yes from me. Serves as a way to feel each other out before getting onto further foreplay, but also during sex it's good too. You can get a feel for things from kissing too. Wanting to take it off the table completely -I find that a bit odd, even if you've just met for first time, seeing as you'll probably be doing more intimate stuff (mouth to v, mouth to p etc etc) later on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing! If the kissing isnt good it can ruin a meet, its sensual and get my juices flowing.

Then kissing all over

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Kissing is foreplay.

Long passionate kisses or kisses on the back of my neck.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I always kiss, one of my favourite bits of a good meet.

I've been lucky to meet some amazing kissers

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

Kissing is a must as long as there’s an attraction . Very clinical without me thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tells you a lot about someone. So a useful tool. Oh the tool will tell you.

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley


"I love kissing!!!! A good long kiss and wandering hands "

Oh yes, exactly this xx

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Why would kissing be weird? Surely its one of the most sensual pleasurable things do do right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing.

All the good stuff starts with a good snog

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