FabSwingers.com forum: How to get noticed

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all,

Just looking for some advice. I’ve followed all the tips on how to make your profile etc.

When I send message people, and I don’t just message saying just ‘Hi’ or ‘Fancy a bang’.

However, most of the time, my messages are never read. Now I gather there are loads of guys on here, but if anyone has any tips for my profile. It would be appreciated.

I have photos, verified photo, etc.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

Hmmmm should I really answer this

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By *oy man 2Man
over a year ago

"Hmmmm should I really answer this

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go on then ans

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

It's ' dabble' not 'dapple'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's ' dabble' not 'dapple'"

I noticed that too. Apart from that it looks ok, but then I’m guessing I’m not target audience!

All I can say op is have patience. If people aren’t reading messages there’s not a lot you can do. You’ve got an issue if everyone is reading and deleting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try :-

Filling up your profile with some public pics ( preferably without a hard-on in the staring role).

Give a bit more insight into your own personality.

Write a little more about the kind of women you would like to meet.

If you find it difficult to set up coffee meets at first then try to get to some site socials and hopefully get verified as soon as possible.

Good luck.

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

"Hmmmm should I really answer this

play nice juciy.....

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

It takes time 3 weeks is nothing just keep a positive polite attitude and don't expect the earth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It takes time 3 weeks is nothing just keep a positive polite attitude and don't expect the earth. "

You're basically brand new OP. Just keep chatting in the forums, get to know people, visit some clubs or social events and you'll be meeting people in no time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest there's a degree of luck whether your message will get read.

If someone has 200+ unread messages it will likely get lost and never get read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear silhouettes make people more mysterious...

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

You say you are here again because unfortunately it's over

Makes it feel you think this place is second best

No woman wants to be second best do they

So look at it again

No public pics would get a delete from us straight off too.

Good luck

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By *carlettVanillaWoman
over a year ago

Gloucesterish

I would say more pics as feedback. Like what have written . Good luck! X

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Spice up your 'interests' maybe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have tits

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

"Have tits

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Thanks everyone x "

Would you seriously meet a 99 year old? Your profile seems rushed, attention to detail

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

Personally....I ALWAYS get noticed when I walk into the local pub with my pants on my head and a skirt on......don't know quite why yet.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people making contact need to make the subject and first 10-ish words of the message something witty, or at least reference something from their profile, and attach a picture or two. If you've hundreds of messages there's no point opening the 'hows u' or purely flattery type with no attachments, as it's already obvious there's nothing interesting in it. I wouldn't check the profile of those either so you just sell yourself short if you put effort into your profile then don't make the message even worth them opening. Not saying you're doing that but that'd be my main advice.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

There is no magic formula. Single guys outnumber every other account type on the site so you've got to stand out. Just be respectful in your message (so many are not), read the profile before you message (again, so many do not) and send a face, not dick pic (do I eve need to explain this?).

If the other party interested, they'll message back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to your nearest Turkish barber shop and use the promo code called 'Clem's claim'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No public pics is a straight no from us for starters, and there are way too many guys on here to choose from, we get good looking guys with 6 packs message us and the Mrs still isn't interested in replying most of the time as we're mostly in to couples and single females. Good luck though

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