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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we go in the chat rooms and no one talks to us, no one seems to want to meet anymore, we certainly cant get a meet to save our lives ffs. it's changed a lot since i (evo) joined the site in 06, why do we even bother anymore.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"we go in the chat rooms and no one talks to us, no one seems to want to meet anymore, we certainly cant get a meet to save our lives ffs. it's changed a lot since i (evo) joined the site in 06, why do we even bother anymore."
Hello, nice to meet you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hello. x

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

and hello from me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hello. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello. Welcome to the forum

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

It can be frustrating, but there are lots of nice people around, from what i have seen the chatrooms can be too quick, well for me anyway, and i dont play on cam so i stay here in the forums, much easier to interact xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we go in the chat rooms and no one talks to us, no one seems to want to meet anymore, we certainly cant get a meet to save our lives ffs. it's changed a lot since i (evo) joined the site in 06, why do we even bother anymore."

hi, how are you? fancy a fuck? can you meet in 5mins?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

compared to what it was years ago the sites really gone down hill, we aint had a meet since the middle of last year.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sorry ste we dont meet single men or fuk buddie couples, only couples and fems

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Don't go in those nasty chat rooms they are full of jissom monkeys and skunk pussies.

Stay here and play with us nice people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we go in the chat rooms and no one talks to us, no one seems to want to meet anymore, we certainly cant get a meet to save our lives ffs. it's changed a lot since i (evo) joined the site in 06, why do we even bother anymore."

The people in chat will more than likely click on your username to view your profile and the first thing they see is that first paragraph in capitals bemoaning how crap the site is.

You only get out what you put in - (that should be a swinging mantra lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's you and they way you come across and not everyone else?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"compared to what it was years ago the sites really gone down hill, we aint had a meet since the middle of last year."
We tend not to use the site solely for meets, we have a few contacts that arent even on FAB,and use other sites, make contacts at socials etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't go in those nasty chat rooms they are full of jissom monkeys and skunk pussies.

Stay here and play with us nice people."

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

I would take the RANT from the profile..

I never understood why people feel the need to rant on their profiles...

Just do what you said you will do and enjoy what else the site offers...

Take a break and come back smiling

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Hi

Is there a reason you don't meet fb couples? I have a couple profile on here too but we're more than fb and are both divorced so not playing away. OH knows I have single profile and it's now only used to chat to friends I have made.

Maybe put more positives rather than negatives on your profile? What you like rather than dislike.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to say, I'm with the others who have mentioned the rant on your profile. That and the warning are about twice the length of your actual profile.

Am I the only one who read the OP and though "I dunno, why did you"? Sorry but as Wishy said - you get out what you put in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

right, rant removed, lets see where it gets us, probable no where cos the rant was only on for about a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sorry ste we dont meet single men or fuk buddie couples, only couples and fems"

thats where your going wrong then!! meet singles guys an fb couples an you'll have no end of meets! just a thought . . . . .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

erm, thanks but no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

clubs might be a way to go when things dry up a bit maybe?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yes we have done clubs before, quite like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what's wrong with lube?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"clubs might be a way to go when things dry up a bit maybe?"
thats an unfortunate turn of phrase on a swingers site

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By *ellhatterMan
over a year ago

slough

hello lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"clubs might be a way to go when things dry up a bit maybe?thats an unfortunate turn of phrase on a swingers site "

oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes we have done clubs before, quite like them"

there ya go then theres ya answer hun

we rarely meet outside of clubs we use here to keep in contact with likeminded souls more than anything although the odd meet from here happens and maybe its more enjoyable as it just happens rather than us waiting on it if that makes sense

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Don't normally do the profile critique thing but I have just read yours and even with afore mentioned rant removed its still negative. Says nothing about what you like etc

It's a pic collectors dream!!

You assume that tattoos are a turn off, you obviously like them so celebrate them. All you mention s that you don't meet single guts of fb couples (although I never understand that)

Make your profile more informative and upbeat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 20/03/12 16:53:37]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditch the sidney uni thingy - it's almost as big as the profile body. Use the space to put more about you both in...

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would take the RANT from the profile..

I never understood why people feel the need to rant on their profiles...

Just do what you said you will do and enjoy what else the site offers...

Take a break and come back smiling

"

Ranting on a profile is much like Tescos having a big banner at the front of their stores reading, "Fuck off to Sainsbury's, we don't want you."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't go in those nasty chat rooms they are full of jissom monkeys and skunk pussies.

Stay here and play with us nice people."

Whilst we're still here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello x

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Am I the only one who read the OP and though "I dunno, why did you"?

"

No I immediately started singing

'I think Ill go and eat worms...'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat is too fast for me, been in a few times but can't follow whats going on, brain is too old and slow for that I think! But the forums are fun, and very friendly.

As for meets seems to me that depends on what you are looking for and geography, Rochdale is no where near Bristol so won't even bother to look at your profile... unless you make us laugh in here then we tend to take a peek, even if no where near or not our type.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"we go in the chat rooms and no one talks to us, no one seems to want to meet anymore, we certainly cant get a meet to save our lives ffs. it's changed a lot since i (evo) joined the site in 06, why do we even bother anymore."

there is more to the site than just the chat rooms.... for example.... there are lots of people who don't use them and use this..... but until 2 hrs ago you would not have been on any of their radars.....

the site is one big jigsaw... so for example...

1) you live in the middle of basically the social triangle in the north west.... why not go to them?

2) you live in the middle of the club scene in the north west.... why not go to them?

the site does give you the tools to make it work... it is sometimes taking advantage of those oppotunities to make your network bigger....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god, another moan moan moan post.

If you dont like it sod off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder how different this thread would have been if a single guy had made the original post?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how different this thread would have been if a single guy had made the original post?

"

Not much, some sympathy, some try harder, some sod off then. Pretty much the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god, another moan moan moan post.

If you dont like it sod off."

Sheesh... You really are bored...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we go in the chat rooms and no one talks to us, no one seems to want to meet anymore, we certainly cant get a meet to save our lives ffs. it's changed a lot since i (evo) joined the site in 06, why do we even bother anymore."

Lots still meet every week. You have narrow criteria so it reduces your chances you don't want to meet older than you. If younger than you dont want to meet older too ya fucked lol or your not by the looks of it.!

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