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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Having finally redone mine, and considering how much harder it was than anticipated, got me thinking.

Are you happy with your profile write up? Do you find it properly conveys who you are and what you're looking for? Do you find it's an enjoyable read or a bit of a chore? Did you endlessly slave away at it through countless rewrites or just belted it out spontaneously? Would you change anything, and if so, what? Share your thoughts

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I'm happy with my profile text.

I find that the trick is to update and refresh it from time to time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having finally redone mine, and considering how much harder it was than anticipated, got me thinking.

Are you happy with your profile write up? Do you find it properly conveys who you are and what you're looking for? Do you find it's an enjoyable read or a bit of a chore? Did you endlessly slave away at it through countless rewrites or just belted it out spontaneously? Would you change anything, and if so, what? Share your thoughts "

Never thought of copying the link for the stories, great idea I've written a few and wondered how to make note of them.

I change mine everynow and than. Never know if it too long or too demanding lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'm happy with mine honest upfront and states what I'm looking for

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm endlessly editing mine. Never happy.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I do wish I could skip all the "don't" in mine, but, well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve just had fun with mine.

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Having finally redone mine, and considering how much harder it was than anticipated, got me thinking.

Are you happy with your profile write up? Do you find it properly conveys who you are and what you're looking for? Do you find it's an enjoyable read or a bit of a chore? Did you endlessly slave away at it through countless rewrites or just belted it out spontaneously? Would you change anything, and if so, what? Share your thoughts

Never thought of copying the link for the stories, great idea I've written a few and wondered how to make note of them.

I change mine everynow and than. Never know if it too long or too demanding lol"

A fellow writer eh?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I like to think mine sums up who I am and what I’m looking for. Unfortunately those that message me, very rarely read it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having finally redone mine, and considering how much harder it was than anticipated, got me thinking.

Are you happy with your profile write up? Do you find it properly conveys who you are and what you're looking for? Do you find it's an enjoyable read or a bit of a chore? Did you endlessly slave away at it through countless rewrites or just belted it out spontaneously? Would you change anything, and if so, what? Share your thoughts

Never thought of copying the link for the stories, great idea I've written a few and wondered how to make note of them.

I change mine everynow and than. Never know if it too long or too demanding lol"

I stole that idea too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I am.. but I'm a fiddler and never keeps the same for too long.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I hate the second half of it and might as well delete as doesn’t get read anyway

The rest, I struggled to write that as I’m not one for writing about myself

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Having finally redone mine, and considering how much harder it was than anticipated, got me thinking.

Are you happy with your profile write up? Do you find it properly conveys who you are and what you're looking for? Do you find it's an enjoyable read or a bit of a chore? Did you endlessly slave away at it through countless rewrites or just belted it out spontaneously? Would you change anything, and if so, what? Share your thoughts

Never thought of copying the link for the stories, great idea I've written a few and wondered how to make note of them.

I change mine everynow and than. Never know if it too long or too demanding lol

I stole that idea too. "

They say imitation is the sincerest form of flattery

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Mine works for me and does the job.

It's pretty direct and straight to the point, just like me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Sometimes I am.. but I'm a fiddler and never keeps the same for too long. "

I'm a fiddler too ooh err

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't really matter what's there, it's hardly ever read.

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Doesn't really matter what's there, it's hardly ever read. "

I'm going to read it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate the second half of it and might as well delete as doesn’t get read anyway

The rest, I struggled to write that as I’m not one for writing about myself"

2nd half is a bit confusing

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Doesn't really matter what's there, it's hardly ever read. "

God so much this.

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

I'm happy with mine. It is what it is, a description of me.

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By *rAngleseyMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

I write stuff & then delete it.. I`m forever trying to improve it.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I think ours is overdue a bit of cutting! Hard to get the balance right.

Mrs TMN x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think ours is overdue a bit of cutting! Hard to get the balance right.

Mrs TMN x "

Yeah. I struggle with the mix of "this is why I'm interesting" and "oh for the love of God..."

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"I'm endlessly editing mine. Never happy. "

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I'm happy. It's never perfect and always needs the occasional redux to keep it fresh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm content with mine

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I hate the second half of it and might as well delete as doesn’t get read anyway

The rest, I struggled to write that as I’m not one for writing about myself

2nd half is a bit confusing "

I’m assuming that’s because I say “I choose” ?

The can’ts / don’ts.... personal circumstances don’t allow these to be different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't really matter what's there, it's hardly ever read.

God so much this. "

Blue suits you!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"I think ours is overdue a bit of cutting! Hard to get the balance right.

Mrs TMN x

Yeah. I struggle with the mix of "this is why I'm interesting" and "oh for the love of God..." "

Yep. Giving enough info to give folk an idea of what you're about but not droning on!

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

Kept mine really simple. It's still not read or ignored.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Struggled with mine but I tend to overthink things

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London


"Having finally redone mine, and considering how much harder it was than anticipated, got me thinking.

Are you happy with your profile write up? Do you find it properly conveys who you are and what you're looking for? Do you find it's an enjoyable read or a bit of a chore? Did you endlessly slave away at it through countless rewrites or just belted it out spontaneously? Would you change anything, and if so, what? Share your thoughts "

Yeah. Update mine frequently. It reminds me of Trigger's broom.

https://youtu.be/56yN2zHtofM

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Struggled with mine but I tend to overthink things "

I think it's well written

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think ours is overdue a bit of cutting! Hard to get the balance right.

Mrs TMN x

Yeah. I struggle with the mix of "this is why I'm interesting" and "oh for the love of God..."

Yep. Giving enough info to give folk an idea of what you're about but not droning on! "

And please I don't want a three page fantasy about how you're going to use me or ten pictures of your penis, etc ffs talk to me I'm a person.

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I'm very satisfied woth mine now. Describes me to a tee and perfectly encapsulates my personality

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I think it's long overdue an overhaul, I've had the same text minus a few minor adjustments for well over a year now. I'm not sure it's quite an accurate representation of myself nor what I'm looking for but I can't quite take it seriously enough to write something decent.

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By *ilks xXxWoman
over a year ago

East Mids


"I'm endlessly editing mine. Never happy. "

Me too .... never happy with it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'm very satisfied woth mine now. Describes me to a tee and perfectly encapsulates my personality "

Just needs a red pen.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Oh and it took less than five minutes to write. It shows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I’d really like to change it back to some sort of nonsensical gibberish or ever changing song lyrics.

Thing is though, since it’s been more to the point we don’t tend to get so many messages from the unsuitables and we’ve actually made some great connections with our target audience.

Plus Lacey says I can’t

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I think it's long overdue an overhaul, I've had the same text minus a few minor adjustments for well over a year now. I'm not sure it's quite an accurate representation of myself nor what I'm looking for but I can't quite take it seriously enough to write something decent."

Perhaps you need a ghost writer

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

mine is short and sweet..like me. could probably do with a tweak now.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Im pleased with mine and have changed it as what I want has changed... I think its clear and to the point and you get an idea of me... Although nobody truly gets to know that unless they take the time to find out.

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

I don't like mine very much, it doesn't say much about what I'm like, and the vibe is a bit negative. I wrote it when I had PMT and it shows

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Mine's a bit staccato in places and I need to change that but can't be arsed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure if ours is putting people off (or maybe it's the photos) lol!!

I think I've got everything down on there that i should but if anyone thinks it needs some tweeks please lmk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for now my profile is sufficient enough.

If I wanted to attract more or wider range of people I would probably change it slightly to reflect what I'm looking for.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nope. I'm contemplating removing the parts about what I'm not looking for and just concentrating on what I am.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm happy with mine. I sometimes get the urge to use bullet points with all my 'don'ts' but have so far managed to resist!! Don't want to come across as a moany Minnie

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I don't like mine very much, it doesn't say much about what I'm like, and the vibe is a bit negative. I wrote it when I had PMT and it shows "

Time for a clean slate?

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I’m happy with mine, it reflects me and those who take their time to read it seem to get a good grasp of me. I change thing now and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might change my tag line to "Caution, hot, handle with care"

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I’m happy with mine, it reflects me and those who take their time to read it seem to get a good grasp of me. I change thing now and again"

Well written

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I might change my tag line to "Caution, hot, handle with care" "

Warning! Contains nuts!

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

I was but now I'm having doubts... Any pointers are welcome.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I think it's long overdue an overhaul, I've had the same text minus a few minor adjustments for well over a year now. I'm not sure it's quite an accurate representation of myself nor what I'm looking for but I can't quite take it seriously enough to write something decent.

Perhaps you need a ghost writer "

You're saying it's not good enough atm? Yeah, maybe I'll find one then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes mine is exact right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's long overdue an overhaul, I've had the same text minus a few minor adjustments for well over a year now. I'm not sure it's quite an accurate representation of myself nor what I'm looking for but I can't quite take it seriously enough to write something decent.

Perhaps you need a ghost writer

You're saying it's not good enough atm? Yeah, maybe I'll find one then. "

I'll write yours

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Yes, but guys don't read it

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

No I am not happy with it! Have I tried the nice version of the one I wanted? Yes I have, did the nice version invite the people I wanted? No it didn't because it never got read, does the harsher version get read, maybe the first few lines actually do! As my messages have certainly been cut down, just a shame I can't show the true nice me

And the Bitch is the first impression I give out now

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here


"I’m happy with mine, it reflects me and those who take their time to read it seem to get a good grasp of me. I change thing now and again

Well written "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I might change my tag line to "Caution, hot, handle with care"

Warning! Contains nuts!"

That too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is what it is. Few read it anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Mine says all it needs to.

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

I wrote it, and leave it to gather cobwebs....

It's for others to decide if they are happy enough eith it, should they ever read it

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I believe it says who I am. Does it need a change of wording once again very possibly.

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London


"Yes, but guys don't read it"

Just a polite mesaage to say I've read it and is far from inspiring. I really do wish you well but I'm sure whoever writes you must not far off be a zombie (no pun intended). xx

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’m happy with mine - deters the riff raff, attracts those I want it to

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"No I am not happy with it! Have I tried the nice version of the one I wanted? Yes I have, did the nice version invite the people I wanted? No it didn't because it never got read, does the harsher version get read, maybe the first few lines actually do! As my messages have certainly been cut down, just a shame I can't show the true nice me

And the Bitch is the first impression I give out now "

Sorry to hear. I suppose the crap one puts up with can makes us a bit jaded

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I cut mine right down and made it more direct in an attempt to cut down the number of messages I get. It hasn't worked

I also removed any interests to avoid the never-ending stream of wannabe "doms" - that hasn't worked either

I don't think it says much about me, more what i'm looking for, so might be time for an update.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know mine is ranty but it's just how this place has made me feel so that's why I wrote it. I've been on here over 5 yrs and changed it many times. In my experience though, I could write anything bullshit, nice, sarcastic, witty, whatever, it makes no difference to the amount of dicks that land in my box daily. Most people don't read, some do, but really it's a pointless exercise and not a barrel of laughs justifying my preferences all the time.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Mine's barely changed in the almost 3 years I've owned it apart from the odd tweak - it's served its purpose and me well so don't see the need to change it

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Some interesting responses so far. Given the content of some, do you feel having a well written profile is more of a pointless exercise from a lady's perspective?

In my opinion it isn't and I enjoy reading a good profile.

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By *ornographic ArtsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Always fiddling with it trying to get a balance between fun and informational. Never happy with it. It's a lot of effort for something that barely gets read too.

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe


"Some interesting responses so far. Given the content of some, do you feel having a well written profile is more of a pointless exercise from a lady's perspective?

In my opinion it isn't and I enjoy reading a good profile."

I read every word of any profile I view, so as far as I'm concerned it's not a pointless exercise.

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By *hezGeekCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We’re pretty happy with ours, as we feel it gives enough of a glimpse into who we are without being waffly, demanding or pretentious... doesn’t stop us rewriting bits every few weeks though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. I'm contemplating removing the parts about what I'm not looking for and just concentrating on what I am."

Good choice. You'll get the crap anyway.. no matter how it's written.

If you keep it positive. Itll attract the nicer sorts as well.

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

Close

I'm contemplating getting someone else to wrote mine

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By *0something1965Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"Sometimes I am.. but I'm a fiddler and never keeps the same for too long.

I'm a fiddler too ooh err"

I remember you! Hows the glitter!?

My profile is pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely

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By *0something1965Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"Absolutely "

Arrrgb ! Dont rub it in (thats my job )

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ecstatic.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Some interesting responses so far. Given the content of some, do you feel having a well written profile is more of a pointless exercise from a lady's perspective?

In my opinion it isn't and I enjoy reading a good profile."

I understand why some profiles are very defensive. I personally prefer, and am more likely to respond to ,a positively written profile.

It works well for me.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Some interesting responses so far. Given the content of some, do you feel having a well written profile is more of a pointless exercise from a lady's perspective?

In my opinion it isn't and I enjoy reading a good profile."

Actually I think it's just as important from a lady's perspective as it is from a man's - not only because I am more drawn to a profile that interests and intrigues me but because I sometimes think some of the more ranty "do this, don't do that" ladies profiles can actually have the opposite effect to what they are trying to achieve.

I understand why they get like that but the type of guy that is likely to send poorly written or explicitly rude messages is also the type of guy unlikely to either read or take notice of a profile text asking them not to do things - so the guys they tend to deflect and deter by writing ranty profiles are often going to be the ones they are trying to attract in the first place and so the vicious circle continues.

So yes a well written positive profile is just as important, if not more important, for a lady as it is for a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've updated mine, removed a few things. listed my stories from this profile and previous profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like mine. It's accurate and I think sums me up quite well

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Pretty much but I'm on trying to get my did wet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having finally redone mine, and considering how much harder it was than anticipated, got me thinking.

Are you happy with your profile write up? Do you find it properly conveys who you are and what you're looking for? Do you find it's an enjoyable read or a bit of a chore? Did you endlessly slave away at it through countless rewrites or just belted it out spontaneously? Would you change anything, and if so, what? Share your thoughts "

Yes I'm happy with mine, even though I know it's rarely read, it is a mini-book I guess, so I don't blame people for not reading it Lol !!! Must of it was written spontaneously but I update it very regularly

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Mine describes ms perfectly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy with my text but I did nick your idea to pop a link on there since reading yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You tell me what you think and then I'll answer.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

Mines on about the 6th rewrite.

I've left it alone for a couple of years now.

If people read it goody gumdrops. If they don't, meh.

I doubt I'll change the text again, although I do add pics now and again and change the existing ones around a bit.

It's a single blokes profile, women don't view it, blokes who want suck my cock don't read it.

What's the point?

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Mines on about the 6th rewrite.

I've left it alone for a couple of years now.

If people read it goody gumdrops. If they don't, meh.

I doubt I'll change the text again, although I do add pics now and again and change the existing ones around a bit.

It's a single blokes profile, women don't view it, blokes who want suck my cock don't read it.

What's the point?

"

How do you know women don't view it? 90-95% of them stealth view anyway.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I’m happy with mine. I only check it from time to time and tweak occasionally I think it’s ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, but guys don't read it"
niether do girls sue barker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And feed back from mine is greatly received

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Some interesting responses so far. Given the content of some, do you feel having a well written profile is more of a pointless exercise from a lady's perspective?

In my opinion it isn't and I enjoy reading a good profile."

It's so hard to know and it's so easy to fall into the mindset of "oh ffs..." given the amount of times I'm left thinking it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do men actually read them in general or just look at the pictures?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do men actually read them in general or just look at the pictures? "
nope i never used to read them until i was outside the meet location for seduction tips and insights

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Do men actually read them in general or just look at the pictures? "

I usually read the profile. Rude not to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah mine says everything I want it to say

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Happy with it but I don't think many read it.

Have that many messages and winks from couples...

Maybe it needs changing...

Jo x

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I am as it happens, it took me 2 years to fill it in so i have no plans for any changes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines probably needs a rewrite, but just haven't got round to doing it yet.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Do men actually read them in general or just look at the pictures?

I usually read the profile. Rude not to "

Yeah, but as you're at pains to point out, you're different

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By *affire_and_SteelCouple
over a year ago

North by North West

Got ours pretty much spot on after a couple of tweaks.

If only people actually read it eh ?

S&S

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Who is?

Surely that’s the point, I change mine as often as I can to reflect my life as it develops

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By *2and3quartersWoman
over a year ago

Bumbletown

Mine is still a work in progress but it'll do for now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the problem. You can spend soo much time writing a profile that best describes you and what your about nobody actually reads it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am always editing ours little bits but can’t figure out how to be succinct ( as a matter of personality!) -mrs

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By *0something1965Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"That's the problem. You can spend soo much time writing a profile that best describes you and what your about nobody actually reads it"

I think its harder for guys to match what the ladies are looking for or to just stand out that they need to be very appealing with their profiles. Ladies just have to say "come get me" and the average fab bloke will be all over it like a rash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am happy with it, for now

It does the job of where I am at sexually and with Fab at this minute

It is deliberately light and non-sexual

If and when I feel like putting myself back out there, I will have a re-jig

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I'm happy with mine, i tried to keep it light and it seems to have worked

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"That's the problem. You can spend soo much time writing a profile that best describes you and what your about nobody actually reads it

I think its harder for guys to match what the ladies are looking for or to just stand out that they need to be very appealing with their profiles. Ladies just have to say "come get me" and the average fab bloke will be all over it like a rash"

But it's just as hard for women to attract the discerning folk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do men actually read them in general or just look at the pictures? "

Oh they read them. I get so many messages pointing out that they aren't what I'm looking for but asking me to consider them anyway. So yeah. They read them.

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Do men actually read them in general or just look at the pictures?

Oh they read them. I get so many messages pointing out that they aren't what I'm looking for but asking me to consider them anyway. So yeah. They read them. "

That must grind your gears

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Do men actually read them in general or just look at the pictures?

Oh they read them. I get so many messages pointing out that they aren't what I'm looking for but asking me to consider them anyway. So yeah. They read them.

That must grind your gears "

It can be a time saver.

"I know I'm not what you're looking for but..." read no further, do not pass go, do not collect £200/$200, welcome to my block list.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

If your not happy with your profile, change it.

Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many on here are fixated with text and pictures on profile and don't get involved with any kind of conversation when they can get to know more about the real person.

The term 'sell yourself', it's a shop window has been used in the past but not all of us aspire to be shopkeepers or have marketing credentials.

My profile is to the point and says let's find out a bit about each other and see if it can lead to a real meet and the added bonus of some adult fun. Thats how I read mine.

I wont say I am completely happy with my profile.

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We are happy with ours we think it's an accurate description of what we are about and to the point.

k

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"That's the problem. You can spend soo much time writing a profile that best describes you and what your about nobody actually reads it"

As a single guy I don't experience the frustrations of women or couples re useless messages from ppl who clearly haven't read all or even part of the text. That being said, surely it's always better to put effort into making your profile appealing and descriptive? Many won't read nor care for the text but some will. Odds are the ones who care and do would likely be more the type of people you're looking for?

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

I'm happy ish with mine.....

Never fully happy like, there's always things I tweak here and there every now and again when I think it needs a refresh/rewrite?!

....plus I have been told on more than one occasion that my text reads well....which obviously means it's half decent I suppose?!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"That's the problem. You can spend soo much time writing a profile that best describes you and what your about nobody actually reads it

As a single guy I don't experience the frustrations of women or couples re useless messages from ppl who clearly haven't read all or even part of the text. That being said, surely it's always better to put effort into making your profile appealing and descriptive? Many won't read nor care for the text but some will. Odds are the ones who care and do would likely be more the type of people you're looking for? "

I agree. It's about appealing to those you're looking for, and it's worth the effort.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Happy with mine .. even though get little interest shown.. but I think even if I put my life story it wouldn’t bring more interest, so why bother !!

Still happy though.. happy days

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Too many on here are fixated with text and pictures on profile and don't get involved with any kind of conversation when they can get to know more about the real person.

The term 'sell yourself', it's a shop window has been used in the past but not all of us aspire to be shopkeepers or have marketing credentials.

My profile is to the point and says let's find out a bit about each other and see if it can lead to a real meet and the added bonus of some adult fun. Thats how I read mine.

I wont say I am completely happy with my profile. "

And if that approach works for you, that is all that matters

The sell yourself thing is normally aimed at those who find their profile text/pics isn't working for them.

As for not getting involved in conversation - if you were presented with two profiles, one of which was one line long, had a single unimaginative pic and very little detail and one which was carefully considered and thought out, told you a little about the user and what they are looking for, along with several well taken pics - had nothing else to go on and could only converse with one of them - which would you choose? I know which I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It reflects that i dont wanna be approached as my penis isnt for sale or rent

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think whether we like it or not, we're all marketing ourselves here. And while someone may be the meet of my life with a crap profile... Realistically they're not going to be able to prove it, because I won't engage. Many people won't. Them's the breaks.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

trouble most likely, or creating it :)


"Having finally redone mine, and considering how much harder it was than anticipated, got me thinking.

Are you happy with your profile write up? Do you find it properly conveys who you are and what you're looking for? Do you find it's an enjoyable read or a bit of a chore? Did you endlessly slave away at it through countless rewrites or just belted it out spontaneously? Would you change anything, and if so, what? Share your thoughts "

No..Mine needs a revamp but not sure what I want it to say as yet

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Mine needs redoing massively.

My good friend is gonna help me

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Mine needs redoing massively.

My good friend is gonna help me "

So much easier to have P.A's do things for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found that it doesn't matter what the blurb may say. I have tired all sorts, well thought out, serious, descriptive, and had no vast improvement either way.

If they don't fancy you they won't message, simple. I try to focus on pictures now.

So as for the blurb, I went for something random, funny and different, like me

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"Mine needs redoing massively.

My good friend is gonna help me

So much easier to have P.A's do things for us "

Ha!! We do have the same one!!!

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Mine needs redoing massively.

My good friend is gonna help me

So much easier to have P.A's do things for us

Ha!! We do have the same one!!! "

Nah, I prefer to do everything myself. Perhaps I should look into that though

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Happy with mine, but apparently nobody reads it. I still get dozens of meet requests daily and up to 200 a day if I upload a new photo. Before anyone mentions mail filters, I do normally use them, but they're currently off because I'm hosting a nationwide event in 2 weeks and attending another one a week later.

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Happy with mine, but apparently nobody reads it. I still get dozens of meet requests daily and up to 200 a day if I upload a new photo. Before anyone mentions mail filters, I do normally use them, but they're currently off because I'm hosting a nationwide event in 2 weeks and attending another one a week later."

That's 200 a day more than I normally get I hope the ireland bound social goes well!

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By *aughtyGentleman43Man
over a year ago

copthorne

I'm pretty happy with mine ... It reflects me and what I'm looking for

Question is, how many ladies actually read profiles or are decisions made on looks of their profile picture?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'm pretty happy with mine ... It reflects me and what I'm looking for

Question is, how many ladies actually read profiles or are decisions made on looks of their profile picture?"

I read profiles unless the message or profile picture are horrifying.

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I'm pretty happy with mine ... It reflects me and what I'm looking for

Question is, how many ladies actually read profiles or are decisions made on looks of their profile picture?"

I think both are equally important. A combination of good pics and text will always bring some attention your way

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I'm pretty happy with mine ... It reflects me and what I'm looking for

Question is, how many ladies actually read profiles or are decisions made on looks of their profile picture?"

I always look at a profile before opening the whole message, however if the first visible line is the usual crudeness I don’t bother

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

Mine is just my ramblings that I attempt to pass off as a profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard to write an actual serious one explaining who you are and what you are looking for. Im in limbo land currently so just write whatever pops in my head at the moment, and it is currently crap

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"It's hard to write an actual serious one explaining who you are and what you are looking for. Im in limbo land currently so just write whatever pops in my head at the moment, and it is currently crap "

Isn't it just?! I can't do it and I don't know quite what I want so... crap. Witty crap obviously but still crap nevertheless.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Mines to the point

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"It's hard to write an actual serious one explaining who you are and what you are looking for. Im in limbo land currently so just write whatever pops in my head at the moment, and it is currently crap "

I found it funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit meh.

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Mines to the point "

Impossible to get any clearer than that. I bet you still get messages asking anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one reads it anyway, so what's the point?

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"No one reads it anyway, so what's the point? "

I just did and I liked it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one reads it anyway, so what's the point?

I just did and I liked it "

Haha well done in being the first we've known

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"No one reads it anyway, so what's the point?

I just did and I liked it

Haha well done in being the first we've known "

May it be the first of many

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I'm happy with my current text. I do refresh it from time to time (I've been a member here for 8 years now), but I do find most people don't read it anyway

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By *exual-healingWoman
over a year ago

Lowestoft

Most only read as far as pictures anyway

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Yes we are happy with it although always happy to accept the odd bit of constructive criticism. We do change it and update it every now and then.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Ruing the decision to adapt my don’t, can’t and chooses section spent the morning saying no thanks !

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Yes we are happy with it although always happy to accept the odd bit of constructive criticism. We do change it and update it every now and then."

I think you have a good balance between appealing pictures and informative text that describes you as a couple and what you're looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy with my singles, not changed it or needed to in an age.

I don't think this one is that accurate if I'm honest as we've only managed to host 1 party in almost a year due to work.

I'm not looking to meet alone as things stand at the moment (doesn't mean I won't in the future tho)

Our intentions were there when writing but the reality of work/life balance is much different!

P

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Yep, I wrote mine as I opened my profile, haven't edited it since, I get the odd message from folks saying they enjoyed the read . I think its a good reflection of me

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By *aughtyGentleman43Man
over a year ago

copthorne


"I'm pretty happy with mine ... It reflects me and what I'm looking for

Question is, how many ladies actually read profiles or are decisions made on looks of their profile picture?

I always look at a profile before opening the whole message, however if the first visible line is the usual crudeness I don’t bother "

I'm always polite or mention something within their profile I found interesting

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By *aughtyGentleman43Man
over a year ago

copthorne


"I'm pretty happy with mine ... It reflects me and what I'm looking for

Question is, how many ladies actually read profiles or are decisions made on looks of their profile picture?

I think both are equally important. A combination of good pics and text will always bring some attention your way "

Cool, thanks for the little bit advice mate

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By *aughtyGentleman43Man
over a year ago

copthorne


"I'm pretty happy with mine ... It reflects me and what I'm looking for

Question is, how many ladies actually read profiles or are decisions made on looks of their profile picture?

I read profiles unless the message or profile picture are horrifying. "

Ha ha .... That's fair enough

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Don't think many read it tbf, feedback welcome. Unfortunately had to block single men as too many can't read with hard on lol,can't even read we're a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm pretty happy with mine ... It reflects me and what I'm looking for

Question is, how many ladies actually read profiles or are decisions made on looks of their profile picture?"

Combo of both. If the pics are awful I won't bother reading the text.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love reading profiles! Like LOVE it.. does this make me dull? Mr writes ours, id rather read everyone's than write mine.

I like profiles and backgrounds of pictures ! Tells you a lot about a person x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Na mine's shite, I'll make it worth reading one day...

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I love reading profiles! Like LOVE it.. does this make me dull? Mr writes ours, id rather read everyone's than write mine.

I like profiles and backgrounds of pictures ! Tells you a lot about a person x"

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I'm pretty happy with mine ... It reflects me and what I'm looking for

Question is, how many ladies actually read profiles or are decisions made on looks of their profile picture?

I always look at a profile before opening the whole message, however if the first visible line is the usual crudeness I don’t bother

I'm always polite or mention something within their profile I found interesting "

I know you are and you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm pretty happy with mine ... It reflects me and what I'm looking for

Question is, how many ladies actually read profiles or are decisions made on looks of their profile picture?

I always look at a profile before opening the whole message, however if the first visible line is the usual crudeness I don’t bother

I'm always polite or mention something within their profile I found interesting

"

Profiles, Messages even winks I read all but it very quickly becomes clear that our profile hasn't been read

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By *llure sensuelleWoman
over a year ago

right here

Love mine - all two words!

Helps spot the copy and paste brigade x

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By *xLedZepxx2Man
over a year ago

Didcot

Pretty happy with mine now, I think it lets people know where I stand.

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Love mine - all two words!

Helps spot the copy and paste brigade x"

Very concise

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm under siege and the fuckers aren't reading it

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"I'm under siege and the fuckers aren't reading it "

Lucky you!

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I get told, a lot, that mine is demanding and too long. I have tried to shorten it but when I have took bits out I get messages that tell me I should include what I took out on my profile. Hope I'm making sense x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I get told, a lot, that mine is demanding and too long. I have tried to shorten it but when I have took bits out I get messages that tell me I should include what I took out on my profile. Hope I'm making sense x "

You can't win. Suit yourself.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"I get told, a lot, that mine is demanding and too long. I have tried to shorten it but when I have took bits out I get messages that tell me I should include what I took out on my profile. Hope I'm making sense x "

You cant please everybody

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I'm under siege and the fuckers aren't reading it "

They don’t read just see the pic and click good luck dealing with it

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