FabSwingers.com forum: Feel the fear, and do it anyway.

By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Is this something you can do? Proceed with what you want or need despite your anxiety or self doubt?

I'm not brilliant at it, but I'm getting better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes, after throwing my guts up and having the shakes from hell.

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By *il FiskMan
over a year ago

sefton

It's never easy, sometimes you can, sometimes it gets the better of you!

I've found to follow my gut!!

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Sometimes, after throwing my guts up and having the shakes from hell.

Oh definitely. Ugh!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I can do. If absolutely necessary. But if there is an easier more wussy way of doing things, i’d try that first!

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I not full of confidence but just put my head down and get in with it even if I dont want too.

Realized you have to be mentally strong to get through certain aspects of life...again I'm not mentally strong but slowly finding ways to help me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes, after throwing my guts up and having the shakes from hell.

I still get this. 10 or more years after putting myself centre stage so to speak. It's scary af. But I want to be that person not the old mundane me I was taught to be.

Good for you and anyone else who rides those shakes and damn near throwing up in order to do things they want to do....

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By *as_no_ideaCouple
over a year ago

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Some days/times are better than others..

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

yes it can be done...not easily but the feeling after is amazing. even if it doesn't go to plan it's an achievement

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I find that the fear can recede. Do the thing, survive, do it again. Becomes less scary.

Sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find that the fear can recede. Do the thing, survive, do it again. Becomes less scary.

Sometimes. "

And sometimes it comes back to bite you only now you have routine and method and experience to do it anyway. A stiff drink doesn't hurt either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fear is not a word in my vocabulary.

I do not and never will know what that word means.

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Fear is not a word in my vocabulary.

I do not and never will know what that word means."

I envy you. Fear is something I'm constantly fighting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fear is not a word in my vocabulary.

I do not and never will know what that word means.

I envy you. Fear is something I'm constantly fighting. "

Don’t.

It’s a quote I first heard as a young man entering a sport dominated by big angry tough bastards.

I had the fear every time I stepped out but stepped out anyway.

The fear is one of the things I miss the most, that and the pain on Sundays.

Everyone gets the fear, it’s just now I’m scared of more mundane things like walking into a room of strangers from an Internet forum.

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